Sun's out, buns out!Ever been to a nude beach? If you have, congrats on being brave, letting it all hang out, and (hopefully) having a good time. If you've never been to one, what are you waiting for? Whether from lack of opportunity or fear holding you back, here are 20 nude beaches you should consider stripping down for.Balmins Beach, Sitges, SpainBalmins Beach in Sitges, Spain is about 27 miles south of Barcelona, and although there are several gay beaches in the area, the Balmins one is the only nudist one located outside of the main hub of town. It's secluded and takes a bit of work to get to, but it'll be totally worth it once you're there.Brighton Naturist Beach, England, UKOkay. so the Brighton beach actually comes with a couple of little warnings, the first of which is the weather. England isn't exactly known for being the warmest, but it's worth a visit to this (or any beach) when you catch a nice day. The second warning here is all of the stones on the beach, so just make sure to bring comfortable footing. It's also a bit of a journey to get to, but if the sun is shining, get out those buns and enjoy!Gunnison Beach, Sandy Hook, New JerseyIts only about 50 miles from Manhattan, so hop in the car, grab one of the ferry rides and get ready to banish those tan lines!Little Beach, Maui, HawaiiTheres nothing like a beautiful Hawaii beach. The relaxing island vibe, the delicious local fare and this little gem of clothing-optional paradise!Pines Beach, Fire Island, New YorkOf course the infamous Fire Island would have to grace the list. Pecs and abs for days and dont forget to check out Cherry Grove!Neve Midbar, North Dead Sea, IsraelAlong the northern end of the Dead Sea youll find Neve Midbar, a small, private resort that has a section of the shoreline reserved for nudist beachgoers. This is among the only places in the Middle East where any kind of nudity is lawful and gives you the only opportunity to (legally) float naked in the super-buoyant lake. North Bondi Beach, Sydney AustraliaIf youre looking for the gayer (and naked-er) section of this popular beach, head north. You wont be disappointed!Cap d'Agde Beach, FranceThe Cap dAgde Naturist Village is the worlds largest clothing-optional beach resort with as many as 40,000 guests on any given day during peak season. Here, visitors are free to be nude whenever they please at restaurants, post offices, banks, or, of course, along the beach, where nudity is obligatory even for those not staying at the resort.Blacks Beach, San Diego, CaliforniaNear La Jollas Torrey Pines, if youre in the San Diego area you wont want to miss one of the most famous gay nude beaches in the world. Let the sun shine where the sun dont shine!Red Beach, Crete, GreeceThis nice little secluded shore on the south side of Crete is one of the best places for nude sunbathing in Greece. The ocher-colored sand and cliffs inspired the name, and the beach can be reached after a 20-minute hike from Matala, or from a boat ride from the village waterfront.Haulover Beach, Miami, FloridaSurprisingly, Haulover is one of only a handful of nude beaches in the Sunshine State. But with South Beach not far away and the lovely humidity, its not to be missed!Hanlans Point, Toronto, CanadaOh, Canada, indeed! Beautiful views, beautiful beach and, oh so beautiful people. Free healthcare, maple syrup and Hanlans Point? Count us in!Buhne 16, Sylt, GermanyThe average water temperature for this North Sea island beach is 17 degrees Celcius (or just above 60 Fahrenheit.) The cold temperature might make you squeeze your butt cheeks before you take the plunge, but itll be worth it. Although all of the beaches on Sylt are technically clothing optional, Buhne 16 was the first and still foremost location.Baker Beach, San Francisco, CaliforniaIt should come as no surprise that California appears a few times on this list. The beach is very family friendly, but the further north you go, the more (naked) eye candy youll find.Hippie Hollow, Austin, TexasParties, rock climbing, lake-side nude sunbathing everything you need to have a rip-roarin gay ol time out in the sun.Wreck Beach, Vancouver, CanadaUnlike many of the beaches on this list, the gay (and naked) section is on the south end. So pack up some extra sunscreen for those extra sensitive parts and check it out!Lady Jane Beach, Sydney, AustraliaClose to Sydney and North Bondi Beach (another nude beach from this list), Lady Jane Beach is popular with the gays and the nudists. There may be more tourists trying to take a peek at your goods, but if youve got it, flaunt it!Sandy Bay, Cape Town, South AfricaWhile this wont have a party vibe like some of the other beaches on this list, Sandy Bay offers a chill, remote atmosphere, perfect for relaxing and enjoying a day in the sun in your birthday suit.Praia do Abric, Rio de Janeiro, BrazilIts far enough away from tourists to keep it from being crazy busy, but this officially nude beach wont disappoint. Sun-kissed Brazilian bodies and beautiful views are just a few of the perks!Orient Bay, Saint Martin, CaribbeanThe Club Orient Beach Resort offers clothing-optional accommodations and beach property perfect for those looking to shed their swimsuits and hit the beach au naturale.

Trevor Chandler, a longtime LGBTQ+ rights activist and a new public school teacher, is facing off against at least seven other candidates in his race for supervisor in San Francisco this November, a not-unheard-of number in the politically engaged Democratic stronghold.District 9 on the east side of the city extends from the iconic Mission District in the north steps away from the gay beach at Dolores Park, and Mission Dolores, where Jimmy Stewart searched in vain for the illusive Carlotta Valdez in Alfred Hitchcocks Vertigo to Bernal Heights and the Portola District in the south. The food along Valencia and Mission Streets is some of the very best Latin American cuisine found anywhere in the country.Chandler won his very first election in April when he landed a seat on the San Francisco Democratic County Central Committee, the kind of name thats proved a perfect cudgel for conservatives and Fox News anchors to describe the unapologetically progressive city as a failed communist state.The 37-year-old spent six years advocating for marriage equality and anti-discrimination measures for the Human Rights Campaign, and last year taught 3rd graders at a District 9 elementary school. Your LGBTQ+ guide to Election 2024 Stay ahead of the 2024 Election with our newsletter that covers candidates, issues, and perspectives that matter. Subscribe to our Newsletter today I found the candidate working in his home office two blocks from Calle 24 and Mission, the heart of the citys Latino community.Its a beautiful neighborhood, Chandler told me. I love living here.LGBTQ Nation: Lets say someone is pitching your run for San Francisco supervisor as a Netflix series. Whats the log line?Trevor Chandler: Im an outsider who knows how the inside works. I joke that I want to be the most boring supervisor District 9 has ever had, because folks just want to get the job done, especially on safety. So what Im offering is competence and experience without being a part of the machine.San Francisco politics is famously, maybe even notoriously, rancorous. Its a small town with a lot of outsized voices and personalities who all care about the Worlds Most Beautiful City. Over the last few years with the pandemic and the fentanyl disaster and a widening wealth gap and a housing affordability crisis, a lot of fingers have been pointed looking for blame, maybe for partisan advantage. Is San Francisco really in a doom loop, and how would you describe the state of the city right now in the summer of 2024? I always say, San Francisco is not broken. City Hall is broken. Thats the difference of what we see on Fox News versus what were living here. Because, especially in District 9 but all across the city, people say, Trevor, we are fighting to bring back San Francisco. We believe in the city. We love the city. Were not abandoning it, but it feels like City Hall is fighting us right back.So when we have small businesses that are paying rent on an empty storefront for a year while they navigate a broken permitting process, or we have folks that want to get their loved ones into recovery, or want to get into recovery with themselves, but theyre turned away at the door, thats when I want to be the boring, competent candidate.Theres this kind of conventional wisdom that because of all the problems were facing, San Francisco voters are becoming more moderate. I reject that. Were just as progressive, were just as compassionate. San Franciscans are willing to spend whatever it takes to fix the very real problems we have, but what theyre fed up with is spending billions of dollars, seeing it go down a drain, and not seeing any results for it. We have real problems, absolutely, but we are not the hellscape that Fox News tries to make us out to be.Youre running to help govern a traditionally Latino and immigrant district where gentrification is a big concern. As an educated, cisgender gay white man, youre like a poster child for that problem. How are you combating the stereotype?Thats the reason Im the candidate thats knocked on the most doors. Im the only candidate in the race right now that is endorsed by both Latino organizations and Asian organizations. We have an incredibly vibrant Latino community here that is part of the soul of the city, but what a lot of folks forget about District 9 is we also have an incredibly vibrant and robust Asian community. About 24% of the voters in District 9 are Hispanic, and about 24% are Asian. So Im very sensitive to gentrification. Thats why Im the pro-housing candidate. So much of the exodus weve been seeing in District 9 of the folks who are born and raised here is because no one can afford to live here anymore, because we havent built the affordable housing necessary. Im putting forth pro-housing solutions that will make sure that folks who are born and raised here can live here.So Im very aware of how Im walking into these spaces, and Im very aware of the fact that Im not going into this with the lived experience of every community that Im seeking to represent. But I am going into it with an incredible amount of self-awareness and saying Im not pretending to have all the answers, but what I want to do is bring the answers that Im hearing from the community to City Hall. Im not looking to replace anyones voice. Im looking to amplify them. There have been lots of famous movers and shakers in San Francisco forgive the earthquake allusion from Emperor Norton to Harvey Milk and Nancy Pelosi and the late great drag queen Heklina. Who do you draw inspiration from? I draw inspiration from Jos Saria.Harvey rightfully gets a lot of flowers because of the space that he takes up in our echelon, not just here in San Francisco, but nationally, but Jos Saria was actually the first LGBT person to publicly run for office in San Francisco. He was a Latino drag queen who started the Imperial Court system, which spread across the country. He was way ahead of his time. Drag queens have always been on the front lines of our rights, and Jos was no different.Who are you supporting in the San Francisco mayors race, and why? Im staying out of it. Going back decades, the District 9 supervisor has always had a very adversarial relationship with the mayor, whoever that is, and I think thats resulted in less resources coming to the district. And so I made a decision that I want to be on the best terms possible with whoever is elected mayor I told that to all of them so Im gonna stay out of it.District 8 in San Francisco covers the Castro neighborhood, and its traditionally been the gay seat on the board of supervisors. Harvey Milk represented District 8 before his assassination, and now out Supervisor Raphael Mandelman represents it. Does San Francisco need another gay supervisor, and have you gotten Mandelmans endorsement?Yes, Ive gotten both Rafis endorsement and Ive got State Senator Scott Weiners endorsement, who represented the Castro before him. Were at a point and its only in San Francisco do we ask the question do we need another LGBT representative? I think its great we hold ourselves to a higher standard as we should, right? And I think its great that were asking the question. Do we need another gay supervisor? I think that San Francisco voters are much more sophisticated than that, just saying, Oh, were not just going to vote for the gay guy, or we want another gay person. Theyre more focused on the person thats going to bring the change that we need to get results at City Hall. Thats my impression. Theyre fed up with the status quo and theyre asking, Are you going to be a part of that? Are you going to change it?Theres another candidate running for national office whos had experience as a schoolteacher. What do you think your time in that vocation would bring to your work in your district and at City Hall?I taught third grade for the past school year, and I had an incredible group of kids. I had kids from all backgrounds, and it was tough. Teachers have a tough job, and I already believed this, but I believe it even more now, that teachers should be paid as much as cops, if not more. Our school district has been horribly mismanaged by the school board, which is why I supported a recall of all the members, and Im supporting a reform slate of school board candidates who are just going to focus on competency, getting the books in order and making sure we have a school system thats world-class. On a scale of one to ten, how excited are you for a Harris-Walz administration?Oh, Im so excited. An 11. I cannot wait. I dont have a personal relationship with Vice President Harris, but I have so many friends who do. I am just over the moon how everything has worked out. And we have so much San Francisco talent that could be put on the national stage because of a Harris presidency. Im very, very excited to see what that looks like.One of your endorsements comes from the advocacy group Grow SF, whose most vocal supporter is a tech entrepreneur named Garry Tan, the well-known CEO of incubator Y Combinator. For San Francisco, Tan could be described as on the right, calling himself a moderate Democrat and advocating for more police, more development, and the recall of the entire San Francisco School Board. He also lives in an area, Noe Valley, thats been transformed over the last 20 years from a largely working-class neighborhood to one of the most expensive in the city. Youve called yourself both a commonsense Democrat and a progressive. Can you have it both ways? Yes, and this is the nature of some of the silliness of San Francisco politics that Sen. Wiener talks about a lot. You know, he gets a lot of crap in Sacramento because hes known as the most progressive member up there. Hes known as a fire-breathing progressive in Sacramento among all his Democratic colleagues. And he brings San Francisco newspapers to Sacramento that call him a moderate. And hes like, look at this. You all think Im crazy, but in San Francisco, they call me a moderate.We have a lot of different shades of blue, and I dont look at it as having it both ways. I am progressive. Ive been on the cutting edge of some of the most impactful progressive legislation across this country, and Ive also been on the cutting edge of defeating conservative Republicans across this country as a part of my work. And so if anyone wants to put their progressive resume against mine on the field and not behind a keyboard Im happy to have that conversation.In other boom times in San Francisco like the Gold Rush and the Gilded Age major contributions by the wealthy to civic life were a given. Why arent todays tech billionaires throwing money at San Franciscos problems and underfunded arts institutions and social ills like the well-heeled of the past? Im not super plugged into the uber-wealthy, so I dont have a specific insight into their thinking. But I see things like the Benioffs, who are creating the Childrens Hospital and promoting campaigns for affordable housing. People are willing to spend the money to fix the problems, but if we dont have a competent City Hall that can execute on it, then were just flushing money down the toilet. And there again, were compassionate people that are willing to spend whats necessary to get the job done, but theres just a complete lack of faith about where any of the money were spending is going.The Supreme Court ruled recently to give local jurisdictions more authority to clear unhoused people from streets and parks. You were just attacked in late July on a street in your district by a man who screamed anti-LGBTQ+ slurs at you and may have been mentally ill fortunately, you werent physically hurt. How are the two issues related?Theyre very related. I supported overturning the injunction that prevented us from moving the encampments of folks who refuse shelter and services. I think thats incredibly important. I dont support just shuffling people around and pushing people out and being cruel and inhumane. What weve had issues with in San Francisco is weve been leading with compassion and getting refused, and then theres no recourse for us to do anything. And thats where the frustration was, where we say, Hey, heres shelter. Here are services and a path to self-sufficiency, and then we would be refused. Were still offering shelter, were still offering services, and if someone refuses that, then theres escalating levels of enforcement available. Both Supervisor Mandelman and I support updating our conservatorship laws to make sure that those who have lost the ability to care for themselves can be taken care of and put on a path of self-sufficiency, not locked away like the old times.But bringing in storm troopers or allowing anarchy in the streets is a false dichotomy that San Franciscans reject.How much more do we know about your attacker a month later? There was a preliminary hearing, and so I gave my testimony. I did not ask for this, but the DAs office, upon seeing all the evidence, asked for a hate crimes distinction as well as a felony, but the judge in this case, for whatever reason, removed both the hate crimes and downgraded it to a misdemeanor.I dont know much more about him. I saw him in court. He is still being held in jail until another court appearance because hes been seen as a safety risk. Clearly, theres an acknowledgment by the court that this person has a certain level of danger to the public that hes being held, given his mental state.How do you view the anti-LGBTQ+ language in his verbal attack? Do you think it was personal, or a symptom of something more complicated or debilitating and in that case, is it more or less worrying? Its worrying in either way, honestly. I am a public person who in all of my campaigning is very openly, proudly gay and married. My husband and I have walked by this person multiple times. So it is very feasible that this person knew that I was gay. One way or another, its unacceptable.Whats the single most important thing the world should do to address the climate crisis?Safe, clean, reliable public transportation.Would you support mandatory national service for young people in the military, or some other form of public service of their choosing?I like Pete Buttigiegs idea about having a much broader and emboldened sort of AmeriCorps program or something like that would give kids or students a guarantee of two years of experience out of college, no matter what their economic conditions were. Something involving the military is always a little iffy for me, but a national service option that provides debt relief and lived experience I think would be beneficial.Youve been in long term recovery, by your description. What changed your life? I wish I could say there was some nice, glowing end-of-the-tunnel moment, but for me, and for so many folks that are in recovery, its hitting rock bottom that changes our life. I destroyed a lot of my relationships. I destroyed a lot of my health. I had isolated from a lot of people around me. I just boiled in my own resentments and it just made me very toxic, internally. And that was what eventually made me realize that I had to turn my life around, because I was on my path to an early grave. If the drinking didnt kill me, then just this poisoning of my soul with resentments would have killed me even faster. That was when I went to my first AA meeting.It was the most stereotypical, depressing AA meeting you could have possibly imagined. It was in the basement of this house that was leaky. My first meeting had like five other guys there. I think two of them were drunk. One of them was crying, and I was just like, Oh my God, what is this? This is everything Ive seen in the movies thats about how horrible AA is. But thankfully, there was someone there who was leading the meeting, and when he found out it was my very first meeting ever, he was just horrified. Hes like, No, theres so many better meetings than this. Do not let this influence whether you come back.How long have you been in the program?On November 8, itll be nine years.You got married last year. What can you share about your husband, and who proposed to whom?Yes, this is my second marriage. I joke that I fought so hard for marriage equality I wanted to enjoy it multiple times. Adrian, my husband, is just the light of my life. He works in tech. We balance each other perfectly. Even though Im in politics, people assume Im an extrovert. Im more of an ambivert, more of an introverted extrovert, whereas hes just a full-out extrovert, and he gets me. He knows exactly what I need at any given point in time, whether its to talk or be left alone, as introverts need. And he proposed to me.Ive got some rapid-fire San Francisco questions for you.Alright! Favorite San Francisco movie?Can I change it to TV show? All the Murder She Wrote episodes in San Francisco, because Murder She Wrote is basically on 12 hours a day in our household and she went to San Francisco often, so theres a ton of San Francisco storylines, and murders.Favorite view?From the top of Mission Dolores.Favorite song?I mean, Tony Bennett is always like the go-to, but The Trolley Song, I kind of adopt that for San Francisco.Favorite beach?Baker Beach.Favorite park?Mission Dolores.Favorite bar?Well, I dont drink, but as far as bars go, Id say El Rio. They have really good daytime parties there.Favorite restaurant?Taqueria El Buen Sabor on Valencia. My favorite burritos.Favorite time of year?Fall, its the perfect weather.And a gimme: favorite neighborhood?The Mission.What are you most looking forward to if youre elected supervisor from San Franciscos District 9?Constituent services. Thats my bread and butter. I love helping people with their problems. That was my first job as an intern for an elected official in New Hampshire during college, who was legendary for his constituent services. Theres a lot of policy that Im excited to implement, but Ive seen firsthand just how impactful constituent services can be.

Last month Chappell Roan dared to set a boundary. At least that was the feeling of much of the fandom when she posted about her need for fans to pull back on the harassment and crazy type of behavior she had begun experiencing. I dont care that abuse and harassment, stalking, whatever is a normal thing to do to people who are famous or a little famous, whatever, she said in a TikTok video. I dont care that its normal. I dont care that this crazy type of behavior comes along with the job, or the career field Ive chosen, that does not make it OK. That doesnt make it normal. That doesnt mean I want it. That doesnt mean that I like it.While many fans understood and even applauded the singers demand for privacy, many more felt offended proving the singers point. But it wasn't just the stans who heard the message, there were plenty of celebs who could relate to what the Midwest Princess was saying. See on InstagramToday Roans Rolling Stone cover story dropped, and she revealed that her DMs were flooded with supportive comments.Charli XCX was one of the first to do so, even during her big Brat summer. Billie Eilish has been keeping tabs on Roan and says Good Luck, Babe!; is her favorite song of the year (even if Roan forgets to text her back). After that, the messages kept coming. Hayley Williams, who Roan said is is the strongest bitch ever, reached out with an offer to chat any time the singer needed that support.Lady Gaga passed on her phone number with the offer to talk.Lorde reached out with practical advice about traveling more incognito in airports. She also has since hung out with boygenius members Lucy Dacus, Julien Baker, and Phoebe Bridgers the latter of whom reportedly agreed that the fandom has become increasingly abusive and violent. She attended a dinner hosted by Muna, and Miley Cyrus (of course) invited the singer to a party. Even Kay Perry reached out and helpfully suggested that Roan avoid reading the comments. It's perhaps Sabrina Carpenter, who has also absolutely blown up over the summer who can most relate to Roans meteoric rise, and the impacts of sudden fame. Roan revealed that the Espresso singer had also contacted her with the desire to sympathize. Were both going through something so fucking hard she just feels like everything is flying, and shes just barely hanging on, Roan shared. Roan explained why she decided to open up about all the people who have reached out, and it's not to brag about her contacts list (though it is impressive). Im not trying to name-drop, she said. Im trying to tell you there are girls who are good people, who are helping other girls out. Im name-dropping them because people just need to know that people are good people.The reality is that while fame comes with incredible power and pleasure, there is a cost to it, particularly if it seemingly comes overnight. It's beautiful to know that Roan is not alone and gratifying to hear her feelings have been validated by the people who best know how she feels. We stan. Read Roans full interview on Rolling Stone now.

Algerian boxer Imane Khelif opened up about the hate shes received from the far-right during their transvestigations of her, focusing particularly on Elon Musks role in the hate mobs.You hate me, but you dont even know me, she said while tearing up during an interview with the French TV channel CLIQUE. I dont even know why you led this attack. You have been cruel to me, cruel to my family, to my mother. At that time, my mother was going to the hospital every day. Related Imane Khelif files legal complaint over online harassers calling her a man JK Rowling, Donald Trump, and Elon Musk accused her of secretly being a man. Now shes fighting back in court. So, I dont understand the behavior of people today. God is my guide. I am a practicing Muslim woman. I am a Muslim Arabic woman. And I got through this moment. I hope I will be even stronger in the future and come back even more motivated. Stay connected to your community Connect with the issues and events that impact your community at home and beyond by subscribing to our newsletter. Subscribe to our Newsletter today "You hate me but you don't even know me"Imane Khelif reacts to the cyberbullying campaign spread by @elonmusk. #elonmusk #olympicgames #imanekhelif pic.twitter.com/Ad5Yc3fZYG CLIQUE (@cliquetv) September 8, 2024Khelif has been the victim of intense hate mobs directed at her solely on the basis of transphobia and racism. It started when she defeated her opponent, Italian boxer Angela Carini, in the first round of boxing at the Olympics. Carini dropped out after being punched in the face and anti-trans bigots began to accuse Khelif of being either a trans woman or a cis man, using an accusation made by an ally of Vladimir Putin on Telegram earlier this year.Algeria does not allow individuals to transition, and Khelifs entire family has said that she was assigned female at birth. The International Olympics Committee has also confirmed her as cisgender.Things only began to escalate when reference was made to when the Russia-based International Boxing Association disqualified Khelif after she defeated a Russian boxer, claiming she did not pass unspecified gender testing. However, the International Boxing Association has given no proof of the testing and has been banned from recognition by the International Olympic Committee due to instances of corruption and scandal.Members of the online mob that attacked Khelif include author JK Rowling, fifth-place college swimmer Riley Gaines, and billionaire Elon Musk. Khelif describes how Musk was one of the first to jump on the bandwagon attacking her by sharing posts on X from Riley Gaines claiming that she is a man.She filed a complaint in France for cyberbullying that names Rowling and Musk, among many others.Khelif won the gold medal in her division of boxing for Algeria.

The sixth season of The Boulet Brothers Dragula is headed our way, and it looks like the spookiest and kookiest one yet!The Shudder original is heading into the new season with two Emmy nominations in hand. They've also got some fan favorites on their cast list, including an epic crossover from a RuPaul's Drag Race Down Under star.Yuri Guaii who now just goes by Yuri will make the jump from DRDU into the Dragula universe. Were stoked to see the difference in her looks and presentation with an international representation of a horror queen. See on InstagramLongtime watchers of the show will also recognize Majesty, who competed as James Majesty on the second season of Dragula, where she placed as a runner-up to Biqtch Puddin alongside Victoria Elizabeth Black and knew how to bring the DRAMA. See on InstagramHosts, head judges, and series directors Dracmorda and Swanthula Boulet also return. They famously do their own makeup for the show, a talent that has garnered them their first Emmy nomination for Outstanding Makeup for a Variety, Nonfiction or Reality Program.As to what to expect of the upcoming season, Dracmorda told Entertainment Weekly, "This cast is incredible, and we cant wait for the world to get to know them and watch their stories unfold. They are a lot less safe and less worried about the fans potential reactions to them than casts in recent seasons have been, so there is a definite return to drama this season, and it will keep you on the edge of your seat.See on InstagramSwanthula echoed the statement, saying, Everything is bigger, better, and more developed this year from the challenges and themes to the locations and looks, but you see it especially in the exterminations. Every single episode pushes the envelope on terror and shows the cast facing their worst fears, and its very compelling. This absolutely is our best season yet."Considering the fact each season before this has elevated from its predecessor, we cant wait to see what were in for on this round.

After coming out as trans back in 2021, RuPaul's Drag Race star Laganja Estranja just went under the knife for gender-affirming surgery and is sharing the results with her fans.Today, the season six queen showed off the results of her surgeries on X by posting photos of her new backside. "My gender affirming surgeries went so so well! I am very sore and a bit bruised but I'm already up and walking on my own. Here's a sneak peak at the new body. It's giving Marie Antoinette," she wrote, along with two cake emojis. Yes, let them eat cake!One of the photos is a close-up of that cake, and the second is a full body shot where you can see doctors working on her and pulling up what looks like post-surgery compression garments. Because of the nudity the photos got a "Content warning: Adult Content" warning on X.Supporters took to the comments to offer support, including fellow Drag Race alum Yuhua Hamasaki who commented, "Speedy recovery, baby! Xo."In a TikTok video posted the day before her surgery, Estranja shared the braided hairstyle she got in preparation for her surgeries, and in the comments, she told fans that she was going under the knife for "360 lipo, fat transfer, breast augmentation."@theonlylaganjaestranjaOnly one day left until I get my first gender affirming surgeries!! #BraidedBackShe also responded to a comment after she had undergone the surgery, writing, "It went great."Estranja came out as trans in June 2021, revealing that drag had allowed her to express her femininity in the past, but during quarantine, she realized that it wasn't just a performance for her when she was forced to let her hair grow out because she couldn't get an appointment. "There are so many other women around me who've inspired me to come forward today, and it's because of their fight and their struggle that I'm able to really do this and say that I'm nervous, but I'm not scared," Estranja told Entertainment Weekly. "I'm not going to live my life in fear anymore."We're so glad Esranja was able to get the surgeries she needed!

Major Republicans yesterday suddenly and in unison let loose their moral outrage on a fake story: Haitian immigrants in Springfield, Ohio, were stealing their neighbors pets and eating them. Local authorities have already said that there arent even any reports of this happening, but that didnt stop Republicans from breathlessly spreading the racist and xenophobic rumor.No less than the GOPs vice presidential candidate, Sen. J.D. Vance (R-OH), wrote about it on social media as if it were already a proven fact that this is what Haitians do, rather than an absurd lie: Months ago, I raised the issue of Haitian illegal immigrants draining social services and generally causing chaos all over Springfield, Ohio. Reports now show that people have had their pets abducted and eaten by people who shouldnt be in this country. Where is our border czar? Related Donald Trumps lesbian niece blasts media for dishonestly hiding his dementia The difference, of course, is that Biden is aging while Donald isdementing. Months ago, I raised the issue of Haitian illegal immigrants draining social services and generally causing chaos all over Springfield, Ohio.Reports now show that people have had their pets abducted and eaten by people who shouldn't be in this country. Where is our border czar? pic.twitter.com/rf0EDIeI5i JD Vance (@JDVance) September 9, 2024 Dive deeper every day Join our newsletter for thought-provoking commentary that goes beyond the surface of LGBTQ+ issues Subscribe to our Newsletter today He was far from the first to jump on the Black immigrants are killing your beloved pets bandwagon. Rep. Marjorie Taylor Greene (R-GA) brought it up in a House hearing. Sen. Ted Cruz (R-TX) shared a meme of kittens begging people to vote for Donald Trump so that they dont get eaten. The Trump-Vance campaign sent out an email blast yesterday saying that its all coming to your city if Kamala Harris is elected and promising that Trump would start the largest mass deportation operation in U.S. history.Underlining the racist nature of the lie, one AI-generated animation being shared on rightwing social media shows Trump holding cats while running from a group of Black men. Save Private Feline 2024 pic.twitter.com/dGOsNrjqaG X Citizen Journal (@xcitizenjournal) September 9, 2024The lie here is patently absurd and completely unfounded, but its also the only thing that the GOP has at the moment, less than two months away from an election where they planned to talk about how President Joe Biden is old but cant anymore. Their actual policy proposals embodied in Project 2025 are so unpopular that its considered a PR disaster for voters to find out what they are.Two other absurd lies from the past few months stand out in the same way. One is Trumps insistence despite his campaign acknowledging that its a lie! that schools are performing gender-affirming surgery on students without their parents knowledge. Instead of just saying that he opposes schools using students pronouns and first names without seeking parental permission which is an actual policy debate occurring in school districts and state legislatures across the country the Trump-Vance campaign apparently decided that the reality of their position in this policy debate isnt enough to win an election, so they had to make up an even bigger problem to oppose.Also consider Trumps and other Republicans repeated claim that Democrats support abortions even after a baby is born, which doesnt make sense since abortion is, by definition, the termination of a pregnancy, and once a baby is born, there is no more pregnancy. So what Trump is talking about is infanticide and theres no proof that this is happening anywhere. His hope is that undecided and marginal voters who famously dont pay much attention to politics will be swayed to vote for Trump. Just like with the schools are operating on students lie, the liberals are murdering already-born babies lie shows the weakness of the Republican position on a policy matter. They apparently dont believe that their desire to restrict all abortions, as outlined in Project 2025, is popular enough of a policy goal to run on, so instead they just made up something that isnt happening to campaign against instead. In the same vein, Republicans dont appear to believe that Americans are xenophobic enough to elect Trump this November to stop legal immigration, so they invented a threat to house cats out of whole cloth. Could this work as a strategy? Just making up comically preposterous problems and blaming them on ones opponent? Its hard to tell. Many voters will hear some of these lies without hearing the news stories debunking them. People who dont follow current events that closely might not have the context necessary to immediately recognize the idea that public schools that often cant even pay for classroom supplies are secretly performing surgery on students. But it does reek of desperation. Towards the end of last week, after Trumps bizarre and incoherent response to a question about childcare costs, more people were noticing his declining mental state. The Monday immediately after, we are hearing about immigrants eating cats. Its probably not a coincidence.

The struggle is REAL and sometimes it HURTS!Listen, TOP ONLY folks out there. You dont know whats like, and you're also sort of annoying. Sorry not sorry. You just dont know about the work that goes into making you happy, nor the struggles that come from bottoming.If youre either unaware of reasons being a bottom is tougher than being a top or looking for a place that understands you, here are 25 reasons bottoms have it a little more difficult than tops.1. Anal FissuresOh, the joys of being a bottom. Bottoming, (especially when the top is rough) puts you at a higher risk for anal fissures, which hurt like hell. Need some help on how to get rid of them? Look no further. 2. You always have to stay fitOkay, so, yes, gay men in general like their fitness, but bottoms are expected to, well... have a great bottom. They're expected to be physically fit, flexible, and strong, so there's always an internal desire to look as good as possible. 3. There's often much more pressureLike staying fit, bottoms have a lot of other pressures, too. If we're being real, even though it shouldn't be like this, bottoms are expected to be "feminine," which means they're also usually expected to do the "women" things like cooking and cleaning. Not okay, but it's a fight that exists nonetheless.4. People don't think you can be versVersatile gay men really do live the best of both worlds. However, if people associate you as more of a bottom, they'll have a harder time thinking you can hold it down when it comes to your turn to be on top. 5. People assume you're easyYes, there are a lot of bottoms who enjoy sex. The double-standard here is the same as with heterosexual relationships, in that the top is not given a second thought for how many holes he puts it in. We'll talk more about slut-shaming later, but just because a man enjoys being on the bottom doesn't mean he wants to sleep with every man he encounters, okay?6. Studies show that %.01 of gay men are topsOkay, this is a blatant lie, but doesnt it seem like that? Bottoms are a dime a dozen. Theyre everywhere. And every time you meet a cute guy and think hes a top, of course, he too, is a bottom. You cant win. Demand is high. Supply is scarce.7. Those tops that never finishSex is great. Sex is amazing. Prostate stimulation is a generous gift that the gay gods have graciously bestowed to us. However, getting pounded for two hours is absolutely exhausting. Theres something called diminishing marginal returns. The amount of pleasure you get from sex after an extended period goes down. It also can start to hurt.8. Not knowing when you can eatThings I never do: go on a date to a Thai or Indian restaurant. Theres nothing worse than feeling bloated and gassy after a meal and having to reject the hot guy who wants to bone you.9. The physical exertionThat shit is hard. Its a glute, hamstring, quadriceps, and ab workout. Even an arm and shoulder workout if you're propping yourself up. It takes a lot of effort to move your entire bottom section in a quick and rhythmic motion.10. Higher risk of HIVBottoming puts you at a higher risk of acquiring HIV than tops. Luckily, theres PrEP. A great piece in The Advocate illustrates how PrEP is empowering bottoms.11. The pain when hes too well-endowedWell-endowed usually is a good thing, but there is very much a thing as too well-endowed. (At least for some men, I know plenty of size queens who claim the bigger the better.) When he cant fit because hes too well endowed and no lube or foreplay seems to help it sucks. It really sucks not being able to have and/or enjoy sex because he has an elephant trunk hanging between his legs.12. CleanlinessCleanliness is not something that tops need to worry about. They can stick that package of theirs into any mailbox, without worrying that they, themselves, might be dirty. Bottoms, on the other hand, have to worry about cleanliness, which definitely takes you out of the moment. We also have to prepare and clean extensively. (Tops dont have to douche their peehole)13. Greedy tops dont care if you orgasmJust because Im bottoming doesnt mean I dont want to ejaculate, and just became you came quickly doesnt mean sex is over. You should always offer to help the bottom finish. Hes got needs too. Hes more than a hole.14. The tops who refuse to have sex with a condomThere are a number of tops out there who only have sex raw. Im not here to judge them. You do your thing, and thank you for being upfront about it. However, its annoying when you want to sleep with someone, you pick them up at a bar, you bring them back home, only to learn he refuses to have sex with a condom on. Its an annoying deal-breaker.15. The lack of foreplayI get it. Youre horny. Youre excited. Youre hard. You want to get things going. We do too, dont get us wrong. But we do require a little bit of foreplay before you start shoving that meatstick inside of us.16. The powerdrillerPower drilling definitely has a time and a place. Most bottoms I know love being power drilled. But not ONLY power drilled. You need to switch it up. Change the pace. Change positions.17. After taking forever to loosen up, he orgasms in 60 secondsNot shaming or in any way judging guys who struggle with premature ejaculation, but sometimes, truthfully, it can be a letdown. So if you do happen to ejaculate quickly, what I recommend is playing with the bottom. Stimulate him with making out and heavy petting, and go again once your refractory period is up. This time youll be able to last longer. Why not cum twice in a session?18. It seems like tops only know of doggy styleDoggy feels divine. It pushes on your prostate in a very heavenly manner, and allows the top to get really deep in there. But sometimes, Im convinced that there are tops out there who literally only know that one position. Switch. It. Up.19. Bottoms are slut shamed more oftenRegarding their sexual conduct, feminine bottoms are often held to the same double standard that straight women are. Bottoms get shamed for being slutty or having a loose butthole (FYI, thats not how anatomy works). Masculine tops, on the other hand, are treated like straight men, and because of this, arent shamed the same way for casually sleeping around with many guys.20. The popper judgersPoppers are indeed drugs, and taking poppers arent as healthy as not taking poppers. But dont judge. I know its not necessarily the most flattering to be plowing a guy from behind, while hes vigorously inhaling, making that snorting sound, but if you want to be in there, you need to live by his rules. For some guys, it simply hurts too much to have anal sex without poppers.21. The assumption that you must be submissiveYou can be an aggressive bottom who runs the whole damn show. Thats what power bottoms are. Just because you like to be penetrated, doesnt mean that you like to be submissive. They are two distinct entities.22. Needing to poop RIGHT after you cleanYou douched yourself up or did whatever your cleaning routine is, only to have to poop an hour later. Possibly, the most frustrating thing in the world.23. Stigma and expectationsThere are a lot of stereotypes and expectations about what it means to be a bottom. This can make it harder to find your sexual identity and make it feel like you can only fit into certain molds to be a good bottom.24. Worrying about your dietIts bad enough that you dont know when a good time to eat is, not to mention always making sure youre clean, but theres also the constant worrying about what youre consuming at any given time. Certain foods make skipping meals easier because theyre satisfying, and others make the cleanliness factor less of a hassle. Tops have the luxury of reaching for the extra free bed at meals; bottoms maybe not so much.25. Pleasing without being pleasedThe culmination of everything. Youre expected to do all of the work from cleaning to oral to choosing the positions. He rarely cares if you finish or not, and he shows little care for your overall needs. Bottoms are constantly expected to do all the pleasing because theyre a dime a dozen, but they dont always get the same kind of respect or attention in return.

Bring on the Disney-inspired hunks!Alfredo Roagui makes no secret of the fact that his art is heavily inspired by Disney animation. But what makes it unique is the equal influence of queer culture on his creations. After a serious relationship ended because the two men lived countries apart, Roagui turned to art to mend his broken heart. "I thought to myself, 'I'm going to draw the perfect guy.' That's when I began using the concept of the Pin-up to create my own ideal characters," Roagul tell PRIDE.The digital artist says he believes that people don't just put their heart into their work, but our "guts and stomach" too, and because he is part of the LGBTQ+ community and loves Disney movies, it was a natural progression to incorporate the two. "My art reflects my personal tastes and has evolved over time, just as my characters have grown with me," he explains. "There are always touches of Disney, references to The Little Mermaid my favorite movie or elements of fantasy in most of my illustrations."When Roagui first started drawing his sexy Disney-inspired men like Daddy Triton and a sexy male version of Maleficent he would depict them on their own, but over time, he began drawing them in pairs and eventually as a family. This is likely inspired by the fact that the hunky artist eventually found his prince charming, and he is now married and has a three-year-old son. Roagui credits his work with growing up "during a magical time when The Little Mermaid was first released in theaters,"and Disney classics like Aladdin, Hercules, and Mulan were "full of hot guys.""Combine that with all the hot cartoon heroes of the '80s, like Lion-O and He-Man, and you can see where my style originates from," he quips.Keep scrolling to see Roagui's artwork and head to his website to buy a calendar full of his sexy gay Disney characters!See on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on Instagram

Young people are listening. Ive heard many people underplay the dangers of anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric, citing that its just politics or these candidates are just trying to fire up the base. They say that the Supreme Court will never overturn Obergefell vs. Hodges (the landmark Supreme Court cases which solidified marriage equality in all 50 states), even when Justices make veiled threats to do so.These folks are missing the bigger point, and a point that isnt talked about enough. This year, nearly 1 in 3 LGBTQ young people said their mental health was poor most of the time or always due to anti-LGBTQ policies and legislation. That means even if anti-LGBTQ+ laws dont get passed, just having negative debates in the public sphere is harmful to their well-being. Words have power.Anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric and legislative action have a profound impact on the mental health of LGBTQ+ young people. Nearly 2 in 3 LGBTQ young people said that hearing about potential state or local laws banning people from discussing LGBTQ people at school made their mental health a lot worse. When 41% of LGBTQ+ youth have seriously considered attempting suicide in the past year and young people who are transgender, nonbinary, and/or people of color reported higher rates than their peers, people with a public platform have a responsibility. This is an uphill battle, but The Trevor Projects team advocates to protect LGBTQ+ young people every day. In the meantime, what can we do as allies to support LGBTQ+ young people during election season?The best way to support these youth is to ensure that these politicians dont get into positions of authority. In 2023 alone, arecord-breaking 600+ anti-LGBTQ+ bills were introduced, and 82 of those passed into law.With the election coming up, its more important than ever to elect candidates who wont play politics with young lives. Do your research about the people on your ballots. When anti-LGBTQ+ candidates are defeated in elections, it shows young people that they have allies who will advocate for them let them know they matter with your vote and your voice.If you cant vote or if youre a young person who wants to advocate for yourself, theres still a lot you can do. Talk to your parents. Call your aunt. Call your neighbor. Tell them that when anti-LGBTQ+ politicians get into power, they make life harder for you and the people you love.Making young people feel safe during an election in which they have been targeted by candidates also means ensuring they feel loved no matter the outcome. When there are negative comments about the LGBTQ+ community, its important to remind young people in your life that they deserve to be loved for who they are. Continue to affirm them and let them know these harmful words arent true and arent how you feel.People often feel pressure to have a perfect affirming conversation. But it can be as simple as letting them know you are a safe person who sees them and holds space for them. As always, let them know that resources like the Trevor Project exist to support all LGBTQ+ young people day and night, not just for when theyre in crisis, but to talk through all sorts of things, even the impact of political discourse during the election season.Its also important to educate yourself about LGBTQ+ issues. Start by reading our Trevor Project guides to familiarize yourself with how to approach LGBTQ+ mental health or sexual orientation; knowing how to have affirming conversations can help combat a political climate that can be dangerous for LGBTQ+ young people. Remember that affirmation from people closest to them is extremely impactful: The Trevor Projects research has shown that even one accepting adult can decrease an LGBTQ+ young persons risk of suicide by up to 40%.Elections have consequences, and when anti-LGBTQ+ politicians get into power, they debate or pass laws that tell our kids that their existence isnt valid. Young LGBTQ+ people just want to be known and loved, and growing up is hard enough. As we vote, we have the power to show that harmful words have consequences. In the meantime, we need to do everything we can to support the mental health of LGBTQ+ young people through affirmation, resources, and advocacy.Ryan Bernsten is the Senior Managing Editor at The Trevor Project, the worlds leading suicide prevention and mental health organization for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer & questioning (LGBTQ+) young people. If you or someone you know is feeling hopeless or suicidal, our trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 at 1-866-488-7386 via chat www.TheTrevorProject.org/Get-Help, or by texting START to 678-678.The post How to Support LGBTQ+ Young People Ahead of the 2024 Election appeared first on The Trevor Project.

A visibly frustrated Anderson Cooper cut off a GOP former congressman repeatedly during a CNN segment about Donald Trumps baseless claim that 20% of mail-in ballots in Pennsylvania were fraudulent.Here we go again! Where is the U.S. Attorney General and FBI to INVESTIGATE? Where is the Pennsylvania Republican Party? Trump wrote on Truth Social, his social media platform. We Will WIN Pennsylvania by a lot, unless the Dems are allowed to CHEAT. Related Anderson Cooper stunned by Trump trial questions: I didnt think Id ever say this sentence Stormy Daniels faced cross examination yesterday in Trumps hush money case. Things got vulgar from there. There is nothing to back this claim, and multiple courts reviewed the 2020 election and found no evidence of widespread fraud. Insights for the LGBTQ+ community Subscribe to our briefing for insights into how politics impacts the LGBTQ+ community and more. Subscribe to our Newsletter today The out CNN host had former Reps. Scott Taylor (R-VA) and Adam Kinzinger (R-VA) on his show to discuss Trumps claim. Cooper asked Taylor if his statement is acceptable.There are a lot of folks out there, literally millions of Americans who had a big problem with 2020- Taylor started before Cooper cut him off.I know, but just factually, they dont have any evidence, Cooper said. Like, courts looked at it. I know a lot of people Because its promoted on a lot of networks and a lot of radio networks. But just saying, A lot of people feel this, doesnt make it true. I think you know its not true, I assume, but theres no evidence.Taylor then said there were tons of irregularities in the 2020 election, adding, There are people who have problems with it.What are the tons of irregularities? Cooper asked, cutting Taylor off again. Taylor brought up COVID-era laws and claims that ballot drop boxes were unsecure.Theres tons of things out there that changed in 2020 that are still there now, he said, adding, There are folks in my family who had issues with the way 2020 was handled.Cooper cut him off again when he brought up Zuckerbucks the $350 million that Meta CEO Mark Zuckerbergs non-profit, theCenter for Tech and Civic Life(CTCL), gave to 2,500 election departments across 47 states to help adminster the 2020 elections. There are people who think the Earth is flat, Cooper said. Theres people around the dinner table who think the Earth is flat. It doesnt make it real.Congressman Kinzinger, Cooper said, just moving on from Taylor. Is this normal?Its disgusting and, man, Scott, I love you, but come on dude, Kinzinger said. Our words have an impact on this country.

Could they be any cuter together?!The Venice Film Festival may have been last week, but we are still OBSESSED with actresses Tilda Swinton and Julianne Moore, who looked like they had hearts in their eyes for each other as they strutted down the red carpet.The two actresses were there to premiere out gay director Pedro Almodvars new film, The Room Next Door, which got a 17-minute standing ovation and took home the coveted Golden Lion award. In the film, Swinton and Moore play women who rekindle their friendship after one of them is diagnosed with terminal cancer and reveals her plan to die with dignity and wants her friend to be with her when she takes the euthanasia pill.Despite the heavy subject matter, Swinton could not have been cuter and gayer on the red carpet. Look, the two women might not actually have the hots for each other, but their lingering looks and kisses could have fooled us! The photos that came out of the festival show Moore looking at Swinton like she hung the moon, and when they held hands and stared into each others eyes, our imaginations started running wild. The two women might not actually be dating, but there is so much heat between them that in our head cannon, they ran off together after the festival. We all deserve someone who looks at us the way that Moore and Swinton look at each other!

Get ready to say hello uglies to an (almost) entirely new cast of monsters, because the season 666 cast of The Boulet Brothers Dragula is here. Yep, that's right it's time for another round of drag, filth, horror, and glamor as The Boulets put another group of dazzling and terrifying drag artists through the most challenging, creative, and brutal drag competition there is. According to The Boulets, this season is their most ambitious and terrifying yet. They promise that every episode is taking the cast to the next level with spine-chilling, extreme physical feats that will force them to face their fears. Everything is bigger, better, and more developed this year from the challenges and themes to the locations and looks, but you see it especially in the exterminations. Every single episode pushes the envelope on terror and shows the cast facing their worst fears, and its very compelling. This absolutely is our best season yet, says Swanthula Boulet, who alongside Dracmorda will once again play dual roles as hosts and directors. But most importantly Dracmorda shares, that the artists this season are leaving it all on the stage. This cast is incredible, and we cant wait for the world to get to know them and watch their stories unfold. They are a lot less safe and less worried about the fans potential reactions to them than casts in recent seasons have been, so there is a definite return to drama this season, and it will keep you on the edge of your seat, she shares. While many of the artists will be new to audiences, there are a two who may seem especially familiar. James Majesty who brought her talent and her sass to season two is making her return, so you know those confessionals are about to pop off. Also, making a return to our screens is Yuri (formally Yuri Guaii) who previously starred on season two of Drag Race Down Under where she stole fans hearts, but honestly was a little too outside the box for that series. No doubt she is going to shine in this darker, edgier competition. This time around the cast is competing for a $100,000 grand prize, a headlining spot on a world tour, and the coveted Dragula crown. To earn it they will have to turn out the stunning looks and special effects makeup inspired by themes like horror, sci-fi, the supernatural, and fantasy weve come to expect. And judging their efforts is a truly all-star panel of guests. As PRIDE previously reported horror icons like Jennifer Tilly (Bride of Chucky), Mike Flanagan (House of Usher), Jamie Clayton (Hellraiser, Don Mancini (creator of Chucky), David Dastmalchian (Late Night with the Devil), Justin Simien (director of Haunted Mansion), Amelia Cooper (write of M3gan), Joe Bob Briggs & Darcy (Hosts Last Drive-In with Joe Bob Briggs), Tananarive Due (author of Horror Historian), Darren Stein (director of Jawbreaker), Mathieu Cote (creator of Dead By Daylight), and Tatiana Maslany (Orphan Black) will all be joining the Boulets behind the judges table this year, when the show returns next month. Speaking of the premiere, season 6 kicks off with a supersized, hour-and-a-half-long season six premiere episode on Tuesday, October 1 on Shudder and AMC+. But enough of that, lets meet these monsters! AUNTIE HEROINEInstagram: @auntieheroineAge: 32Hometown: Rockford, IllinoisPronouns: out of drag; they them in drag; she theyAURORORA GOZMICInstagram: @auroragozmicAge: 30Hometown: Chicago, IllinoisPronouns: Pronouns: out of drag; they them in drag; she herASIA CONSENTInstagram: @asiaconsentAge: 28Hometown: Portland, OregonPronouns: she theyDESIREE DIKInstagram: @desireedik69Age: 31Hometown: Washington, D.C.Pronouns: out of drag; he him in drag; she theyGREY MATTERAge: 32Hometown: Houston, TexasPronouns: out of drag; he him in drag; themJAHARIAInstagram: @itsjahariaAge: 28Hometown: Kansas City, MissouriPronouns: out of drag he him in drag she herJAMES MAJESTYInstagram: @jamesmajestyAge: 30Hometown: Portland, OregonPronouns: UnlistedPIInstagram: @notpiAge: 30Hometown: Philadelphia, PAPronouns: AnySCYLLAInstagram: @scyllakoneAge: 25Hometown: Chicago, IllinoisPronouns: out of drag he she they in drag; he she theySEVERITY STONEInstagram: @severity_stoneAge: 36Hometown: Boston, MassachusettsPronouns: he they in drag; she herYURIInstagram: @yuriguaiiAge: 28Hometown: Auckland, New ZealandPronouns: UnlistedVIVVI THE FORCEInstagram: @vivvitheforceAge: 35Hometown: San Diego, CaliforniaPronouns: out of drag; he/ they/she in drag; she they

Voter identification laws in specific states could make it much more difficult for transgender Americans to vote in the upcoming presidential election, a new report from the Williams Institute states. Voter ID laws can create a unique barrier to voting for a substantial number of transgender people, which is particularly impactful in elections decided by a small number of votes, said Jody L. Herman, the reports co-author and a senior public policy scholar at the Williams Institute. Related Trans people are more likely to vote than cis people despite barriers to voting Despite facing barriers to voting, trans people show up. Upwards of 210,000 transgender adults who are eligible to vote could face significant barriers due to a lack of proper identification, comprising nearly a fourth of the total trans population who are eligible to vote. The need for proper ID becomes an issue for trans people in states with strict voter ID laws. Stay connected to your community Connect with the issues and events that impact your community at home and beyond by subscribing to our newsletter. Subscribe to our Newsletter today Such laws require voters to provide their ID in person before being allowed to vote, creating a huge barrier for trans people if their IDs gender marker doesnt match their presentation. While some states provide provisional ballots for voters with ID issues, states with the strictest voter ID laws could disenfranchise 91,300 trans people by preventing them voting this year.These concerns are especially exacerbated for trans people of color, low income trans people, and disabled trans folks who face institutional barriers or discriminatory laws making it difficult or impossible to update their IDs.Thirty-six states have requirements for voters to show ID at the polls. Nine states Arkansas, Georgia, Indiana, Kansas, Mississippi, North Carolina, Ohio, Tennessee, and Wisconsin require voters to present their ID in order to vote. Adults who dont have ID but are otherwise deemed acceptable have to use a provisional ballot, ballots used whenever questions exist about a voters eligibility. Some may have to submit a photo ID for their ballot to count. Additionally, 27 states have new restrictions for voting not seen in prior elections, leaving some voters unclear about the exact voting ID requirements where they live.Over 170,000 trans adults live in states with the strictest laws, making up nearly a fifth of trans adults who can vote in this election. Over 270,000 lack identity documents that match their gender identity, and many live in states that have restricted their ability to change them.Wisconsin, North Carolina, and Georgia are potential swing states that could determine the elections outcome, and they each have restrictive voter ID laws. Their laws impact over 135,000 trans voters. These worries about trans peoples eligibility to vote are shared among trans residents in these states, including worries about whether transphobic poll workers will turn them away. While many trans people are still able to vote regardless, theres nevertheless a growing worry about something going wrong when they try to cast their vote.All of this is in spite of the fact that trans people are, on average, more likely to vote than cisgender people. According to a survey from Advocates for Trans Equality, 82% of voting-age trans people were eligible to vote, compared to 73% of the general American population. Additionally, 75% of voting-age respondents voted in the 2020 presidential election, whereas only 67% of the general population did.The Williams Institute report draws from data from the National Conference of State Legislatures information on voter ID laws, and includes state population estimates from the 2022 American Community Survey. Additionally, it includes data from the 2022 U.S. Transgender Survey (USTS), conducted by the National Center for Transgender Equality, on the total number of trans people. The institute drew from this data to calculate the number of trans people eligible to vote in a given state. The institute also drew from voting procedures in different states to determine how people can vote in these states.

Age ain't nothin' but a number!Whats age but a number? These 28 queer couples have demonstrated that love doesnt have a limit, and some varying life experiences may even lead to stronger bonds. We love these couples who are cuter than ever and who, in many cases, have been happily married for years. Please note in a few cases we did our best to estimate current ages based on info available so we may be a year off on occasion, but like we said, age is nothin but a number. Cheers to these cute couples!RuPaul Charles (62) and Georges LeBar (50)Mother Ru herself married Australian hunk Georges LeBar in 2017, and although the couple doesnt spend too much time in the limelight, were still obsessed with them.George Takei (86) and Brad Altman (69)Star Trek legend George Takei has been with his husband since the 1980s, when the two met at an LGBTQ+ club called the LA Fronrrunners. The two were also among the first gay couples to get married, having tied the knot in 2008.Jill Bennett (48) and Lauren Neal (34)See on InstagramActress/musician Lauren Neal (Words With Girls) has been with her wife, actress/producer Jill Bennett (Dante's Cove) for over a decade now, and the two are still some serious couple goals. Martina Navratilova (67) and Julia Lemigova (51)Former Miss Universe Contestant and 1991's Miss USSR Julia Lemigova married her wife, superstar tennis player Martina Navratilova married in 2014 after dating longterm beforehand.Tuc Watkins (54) and Andrew Rannells (42)These two fell in love when they were cast as a pair in The Boys in the Band on Broadway in 2019, and have been in love ever since.Greg Berlanti (50) and Robbie Rogers (35)When a TV producer and a soccer player get together, theres sure to be sparks, and thats exactly what happened when Greg Berlanti and Robbie Rogers came together.Nico Santos (44) and Zeke Smith (34)Nico Santos, of Superstore fame, and Zeke Smith from Survivor recently got engaged, and we couldnt be happier for the two.Tom Daley (25) and Dustin Lance Black (45)These married superstars are super cute at any age. They've welcomed their first baby and would love to have "a dozen" more, Dustin says.Ellen DeGeneres (61) and Portia de Rossi (46)Ellen and Portias eleven-year anniversary is coming up, and we wish this gorge duo many more!Chely Wright (48) and Lauren Blitzer (38)Chely, a famous country singer with a complicated and inspiring coming out history, and LGBT rights activist Lauren are only cuter together when their adorable twins are around too!Stephen Fry (61) and Elliott Spencer (32)Both Stephen and Elliott have addressed their age difference head-on in the face of public opinion, and they seem to only be closer than ever. Matt Bomer (41) and Simon Halls (55)This wildly handsome actor and his husband have been married since 2011 and have three kids in their beautiful family.Tom Ford (57) and Richard Buckley (71)It was love at first sight, and Tom stayed by Richard's side all the way until his death in 2021.Elton John (72) and David Furnish (56)After nine years in a civil partnership, Elton and David got married in 2015 and now have two kids together!Michael Kors (59) and Lance LePere (47)Lance started as an intern for fashion designer Michael Kors and later became his husband in 2011 after 21 years of dating.Lance Bass (40) and Michael Turchin (32)This couple has been officially ~N*SYNC~ since 2011! Jesse Tyler Ferguson (43) and Justin Mikita (33)Weve been able to count on these two to take adorable red carpet husband pictures since 2013.Nate Berkus (47) and Jeremiah Brent (34)These two interior designers have been married since 2014, and we imagine they have a home as beautiful as their love. Tig Notaro (48) and Stephanie Allynne (32)Tig and Stephanies love story is gorgeously chronicled in Tigs self-titled documentary, and (spoilers) theyve been married since 2015.Jenny Shimizu (52) and Michelle Harper (41)Brand consultant Michelle Harper has been, as her Instagram describes, Jenny Shimizus #WifeForLife since 2014. Jenny, a model and actress, once made headlines as Angelina Jolies ex, but these two seem to be the happiest of couples now.Robin Roberts (58) and Amber Laign (44)Good Morning America Robin host and her massage therapist wife Amber had been dating for 8 years before Robin came out publicly in 2013. Theyre still going strong!Sarah Paulson (44) and Holland Taylor (76)These two have been together publicly since 2015 and cant stop gushing about each other on Twitter. Were not complaining, and you should absolutely follow them. Joe Zee (50) and Rob Younkers (40)Joe has said that since his first date with Rob he knew they were going to get married. After meeting in 2011, things are still going great for the Yahoo! Style editor-in-chief and fashion designer!Stephen Sondheim (89) and Jeff Romley (39)Another til death do us part, Jeff was the Broadway legend's only husband until he died in 2022.Rachel Maddow (46) and Susan Mikula (61)This MSNBC host and her photographer partner have been together since 1999.Audrey Smaltz (82) and Gail Marquis (64)This model and former Olympic basketball player have such an amazing love story its even been featured in the New York Times. Its a must-read, and you might even fall in love with them too.Lee Daniels (59) and Jahil Fisher (37)Oscar-nominated filmmaker Lee Daniels and his stylist BF Jahil once wrote an article for Out Magazines website about how hard they fell for each other, and the two are still proving their cuteness on Instagram on the reg. Brad Goreski (41) and Gary Janetti (53)The stylist and Fashion Police host shared photos on Instagram from his December 2017 wedding to TV producer Gary Janetti.Brett Labelle (51) and Chris Stanley (24)See on InstagramSurvivor competitor Brett Labelle and TikTok star Chris Stanley occasionally turn heads when they are out in public together because they have multiple decades between them, but theyve never been happier even if Labelle has been mistaken for Stanleys dad before!Niecy Nash (54) and Jessica Betts (42)The 12-year age gap between Niece Nash and wife Jessica Betts doesnt bother the couple. The two got married in 2020 and then made history by becoming the first same-sex couple to grace the cover of Essence magazine.

We all have our reasons for hitting the saunas, and were not here to judge. Whether its pre- or post-workout, sometimes it feels good to just have a relaxing sweat session.That is, of course, until theres that one guy who does something that makes the whole experience uncomfortable. Here are 30 awkward things guys do in saunas. 1. Doing SquatsThere you are relaxing in 125 degrees of pure blistering bliss, when a gym rat swings the door open, finds a space and starts doing squats.2. Adjusting their junkEveryones sticky, uncomfortable and sitting two feet away from you. If youre feeling unbearably restricted, you should rearrange the boys, but you dont need spectators.3. Talking at allSilence is golden. So please STFU.4. FlirtingAs if talking isnt bad enough, they want to try to make a pass while theyre at it?5. Listening to music without headphonesRihanna and Drakes Work slays, but if I want to listen to it, Ill put on my headphones, which is what you should do too.6. Singing out loudWhat part of silence is golden do you not get?7. PlankingGreat, your abs are on point, and your feet are basically in my lap. Plus, I can almost see in your back door.8. Dancing or moving around at allSeriously, just sit still. Were not interested in seeing your dance moves until were at the club, and even then the sauna isnt the place to practice them, honey.9. StrippingBy the time you enter the sauna, you will already be in your towel. Stepping in and stripping down is uncomfortable for everyone even if youre really hot.10. Applying oilsLubing up your aching muscles affects more than just the wooden benches. And if youre a real looker, there could be a lot more wood in the sauna after you oil up.11. Making eye contactDont look at me! Look at your feet or the inside of your eyelids.12. Clipping their toenailsSeriously?13. Picking at navel lintLike clipping your toenails, the sauna isnt the place to clean out your belly button. Save that for the showers.14. Sitting too closeSaunas are notoriously cramped, but do we really have to touch? There should be a gap between your thigh and mine.15. ManspreadingYes, the warm air makes all sorts of things loosen up, but youre taking up too much room. Tough. Buck up and tuck your family jewels.16. Flexing their musclesTheres not even a mirror in here. WTF are you doing?17. Talking on the phoneExcuse me can you call your Grindr buddies back later?18. Sharing personal storiesJust like talking, or flirting, or singing, or any other kind of vocal interaction, dont start sharing personal stories if you cant take the hint. Unless someone else is engaging in the conversation with you, just sit still and relax.19. Drying their stinky clothesWhatever stankiness was going on in your clothes is now wafting into the shared sauna air. Thanks for that.20. Lying down nakedAre you trying to expose your ass to the heat or to every Tom, Dick and Harry?21. Scratching anythingHave an itch on your chest? Thats cool scratch away. But, your itchy taint needs to be addressed in private. Now, put your legs down.22. Spitting on the rocksWe're literally breathing in the steam from your spit.23. Examining body partsCongratulations! There's a mole on your coin purse. You should examine it at home.24. Bending overAre you trying to touch your toes or do you want me to look at your puckered starfish? Anyways, just stop.25. Shaking sweat offI have enough of my own sweat, I dont need more from you.26. Moaning like a whaleWhat is that sound and why is it coming out of your mouth?27. Breathing heavilyIf youre that winded, maybe you should take a break from the heat wave? Just a thought.28. Launching snot rocketsGross. Go away.29. FartingIt already smells in here. Did you really have to add the fumes from your lunch into the mix?30. Rocking a bonerIf we get up at the same time, that thing will poke my eye out.

You're not alone.AJ Gibson is a popular LGBTQ+ TV personality who's gone viral for his hot takes and hilarious banter on many entertainment shows like Access Hollywood, The Wendy Williams Show, and more.The star is also an established author who's been very open about his struggles with mental health and depression. With today being World Suicide Prevention Day, Gibson is advocating for everyone to check in on one another."Men tend to not talk about [mental health] and we make up four out of every five suicide attempts in the United States. The number within the LGBTQ+ community is even higher than that, which is why I'm so excited to be partnering with Movember," Gibson tells PRIDE. See on Instagram Gibson is the personification of the phrase "it gets better," as he's now living his best gay life by working in multiple successful avenues with his adorable husband by his side. His current lifestyle is a reality he didn't think was possible as a child."What I've heard from others is that my story has inspired them [and] that it has saved lives. That's just incredible to me. I had to tiptoe around my sexuality in the beginning of my career. I definitely don't do that anymore and I'm very proud of that. It's inspiring."Today, there's more resources than ever to help navigate mental health. Movember is the leading global charity that's changing the face of mens health to help people overcoming their daily struggles."Suicide in the United States is the leading cause of death amongst men 15 to 44. I'm 44. I'm just making it out of that range barely. There were so many times where my story could have been different. No life should be lost because somebody feels alone. On this day and on every day, I think it's just important to connect with people and have conversations."Help is available. Go to Movember.com to sign up and receive support or get involved. To see the full interview with AJ Gibson, check out the video at the top of the page.

These himbos had us falling in love!The dawn of the era of the himbo is here. Per the Urban Dictionary, a himbo is a dumb or naive man, who, despite looking like an asshole Chad, is actually sweet, respectful, and kind. Typically large, beefy, and relatively handsome, but friendly. Gentle giants, if you will.The himbo archetype has been present for many years in both movies and TV shows. Though it has certainly become even more popular in recent years, there are various examples of characters who have been considered himbos over the course of history. As noted in the aforementioned definition, some people might perceive himbos as just being good-looking men who are dumb. However, theres actually much more to this archetype, as these characters are generally lovable, sweet, and charming.As such, its time to look back at some of the best himbos in TV and film and celebrate them in their full glory!Scroll through to see pictures of 20 memorable (and sexy!) himbos from movies and TV shows.Ken (Barbie)Ken (Barbie)Ken (Barbie)Aaron (Bros)Aaron (Bros)Aaron (Bros)Lance Arroyo (The Other Two)Lance Arroyo (The Other Two)Lance Arroyo (The Other Two)Steve Harrington(Stranger Things)Steve Harrington(Stranger Things)Steve Harrington(Stranger Things)Tormund Giantsbane (Game of Thrones)Tormund Giantsbane (Game of Thrones)Tormund Giantsbane (Game of Thrones)Michael Kelso (That '70s Show)Michael Kelso (That '70s Show)Michael Kelso (That '70s Show)AquamanAquamanAquamanJason Stackhouse (True Blood)Jason Stackhouse (True Blood)Jason Stackhouse (True Blood)Josh Chan (Crazy Ex-Girlfriend)Josh Chan (Crazy Ex-Girlfriend)Paul (BEEF)Paul (BEEF)Matthias (Shadow and Bone)Matthias (Shadow and Bone)Matthias (Shadow and Bone)Adam (Girls)Adam (Girls)Adam (Girls)Dillon (The White Lotus season 1)Dillon (The White Lotus season 1)Dillon (The White Lotus season 1)Duke Cody (Glass Onion: A Knives Out Mystery)Duke Cody (Glass Onion: A Knives Out Mystery)Duke Cody (Glass Onion: A Knives Out Mystery)George (George of the Jungle)George (George of the Jungle)George (George of the Jungle)Ivn Carvalho (lite)Ivn Carvalho (lite)Ivn Carvalho (lite)Jack (The White Lotus season 2)Jack (The White Lotus season 2)Jack (The White Lotus season 2)Jason Mendoza (The Good Place)Jason Mendoza (The Good Place)Jason Mendoza (The Good Place)Joey (Friends)Joey (Friends)Joey (Friends)Johnny Storm (2005s Fantastic Four)Johnny Storm (2005s Fantastic Four)Johnny Storm (2005s Fantastic Four)Kevin Beckman (2016s Ghostbusters)Kevin Beckman (2016s Ghostbusters)Kevin Beckman (2016s Ghostbusters)Kronk (The Emperor's New Groove)Kronk (The Emperor's New Groove)Kronk (The Emperor's New Groove)Nate Archibald (Gossip Girl)Nate Archibald (Gossip Girl)Nate Archibald (Gossip Girl)Noah (Fire Island)Noah (Fire Island)Noah (Fire Island)Troy Barnes (Community)Troy Barnes (Community)Troy Barnes (Community)Reggie Mantel (Riverdale)Reggie Mantel (Riverdale)Reggie Mantel (Riverdale)Luther (Umbrella Academy)Luther (Umbrella Academy)Luther (Umbrella Academy)Warren (Yellowjackets)Warren (Yellowjackets)Warren (Yellowjackets)Ted (Schitt's Creek)Ted (Schitt's Creek)Ted (Schitt's Creek)Jamie Tartt (Ted Lasso)Jamie Tartt (Ted Lasso)Jamie Tartt (Ted Lasso)

Sex Is Never Better than When It's On the Big Screen! We love a sapphic sex scene! And while they are far rarer than we would prefer when comes along that showcases the beauty and passion of queer love, we cant help but celebrate (and hit rewind a few times!). From as far back as the mid-80s to 2017, weve carefully curated some of the most erotic, sensual, authentic love scenes between women that have ever graced the big screen. So lets relive these steamy moments together.30. The Carmilla Movie (2017)This Sapphic vampire horror comedy from Canada phew that's a mouthful features one of the longest and steamiest scenes on our list. Where to watch: Prime Video & Tubi29. Disobedience (2017)Set in London's Orthodox Jewish community, Ronit (Rachel Weisz) returns home to sit shiva following the death of her father. When she returns she also reconnects with her former lover Esti (Rachel McAdams) and sparks (and spit) fly again. Where to watch: Max28. Below Her Mouth (2016)Arguably one the most erotic lesbian films ever made Below Her Mouth follows the love affair between Jasmin and Dallas. When the two first meet Jasmin is engaged but the chemistry between them makes it impossible for her to get Dallas out of her head. You can guess what happens next a lot. Not that were complaining! 27. The Handmaiden (2016)Park Chan-wook adapted this story from lesbian novelist Narah Waters Fingersmith. He moves the action from Victorian London to Korea, during the era of Japanese occupation, however, all of the other elements of the story remain intact including the twisting plot, dual perspectives, and of course the lesbian love scenes. Youll never forget the first time you hear those bells ringing! Where to watch: Prime Video26. Loving Annabelle (2006)Annabelle, the titular Buddhist badass, charms straightlaced Simone in all sorts of ways, including a public serenade session during a school dance. And we all know that no matter how unconventional the relationship may be, once someone gets up and sings you a song at the school dance, theres a pretty good chance sex will soon be involved. Where to watch: Prime Video & Netflix25. Itty Bitty Titty Committee (2007)If you havent heard of this movie, youve definitely at some point stopped to study the title on a few must-see queer films lists. And in that case, youve probably turned on the movie. And if that wasnt enough to convince you, theres a super hot/super loud hotel sex scene that definitely earns it a spot here.24. I Cant Think Straight (2007)I Cant Think Straight certainly isnt about to win any awards for subtly in a title, but it does win the award for most upbeat sex scene montage! This film is adorable, if not exactly a masterpiece, with a bubbly ending that will leave you smiling unless you hate happiness. Where to watch: Tubi23. Drive-Away Dolls (2024)Drive-Away Dolls suprised and delighted us with its super sexy and hilarious approach to Sapphic sexuality. Yes, lesbians GET IT ON. We are horny AF and this felt like proper representation at last. Especially when it came (pun intended) to the friends turned lovers moments between its leads. Things got steamy, literally. Where to watch: Prime Video22. Black Swan (2010)Did this sex scene between Mila Kunis and Natalie Portman happen in the film's actual reality? No. Did it happen onscreen? It definitely did. Celebrate. Where to watch: Max21. Concussion (2013)Concussion teaches us that sometimes getting hit in the head with a baseball can really open you up to an entirely new lifestyle. Specifically for somewhat average lesbian housewife Abby, this involves becoming a sex worker whose unexpected but familiar client brings out some of the films sexiest moments.Where to watch: Roku & Vudu20. Lost and Delirious (2001)Lost and Delirioustells the tragic tale of two girls in boarding school whose affair goes terribly wrong, but it's also a cult classic that features many sexy scenes between leads Piper Perabo and JessicaPar. If only things had gone well for these two.19. Mulholland Drive (2001)Naomi Watts and Laura Elena Harring pause for a love affair amidst attempting to unravel a Lynchian mystery. Its quite the lengthy detour, but we're here for every moment of this sexy, slightly funny scene. Where to watch: iTunes18. Girltrash: All Night Long (2014)Girltrash: All Night Long is a musical that basically leads up to a much-anticipated sex scene, so when it happens it's pretty awesome and adorable. Even moreso because it's between characters played by Gabrielle Christian and Mandy Musgrave, who you definitely remember as the iconic couple 'Spashley' on South of Nowhere. Where to watch: Tubi17. Duck Butter (2018)Lesbian bed death be damned! This film sees two women engaging in a passionate 24 hours together, where they swear to have sex once every hour. Of course, not everything goes to plan but that one scene, you know the one, is one of the steamiest put to film. Where to watch: Netflix16. Room In Rome (2010)Room in Rome definitely wins the most accurate title award, because it is literally an entire film about two women who have an affair in a hotel room in Rome. And thats basically it. That's the movie. Where to watch: AMC+15. My Animal (2023)Amanda Stenberg is and will forever be our crush so when we found out she was staring a lesbian werewolf film with Bobbi Salvr Menuez we were instantly seated. And this dreamy, erotic, and bittersweet film did not let us down. Plus, we'll never see eggs the same way again. Where to watch: On Demand14. Heavenly Creatures (1994)Kate Winslet and Melanie Lynskey made their film debuts inHeavenly Creatures, playingtwo young girls who get into some gruesome business. Eventually, the girls consumate their relationship in a scene that involves just as much "Fourth World" weirdness as it does sex.13. Benedetta (2021)Blasphemy has never better hotter and thats saying something than in Benedetta. Two lesbian nuns find passion in a 17th century convent in this steamy and controversial film from Paul Verhoeven. Where to watch: Hulu12. Henry & June (1990)InHenry and June, Anais Nin (Maria de Medeiros) has affairs with both Henry Miller and his wife June (Uma Thurman), but the sex scene between the women in this historical first-ever NC-17 movie is truly breathtaking.11. Anatomy of a Love Seen (2014)This film is about two actresses who were once dating but have since broken up who must reunite to re-shoot a sex scene. Oh, the drama. Oh, the sex scenes.Where to watch: Hoopla & Tubi10. Kill For Me (2013)TV stars Katie Cassidy (Arrow) and Tracy Spiridakos (Revolution) made one damn cute couple for a few minutes in the midst of a dastardly plan to get back at those who wronged them. These scene came out of nearly nowhere, but immediately went down in history as one of our all-time-favorites.Where to watch: Prime Video9. High Art (1998)Written and directed by Lisa Cholodenko and starring Radha Mitchell and Ally Sheedy, High Art features a palpable depiction of a womans first time with an experienced lesbian. It's both erotic and emotional.8. The Hunger (1983)Catherine Deneuve as a vampire seducing a willing young scientist (Susan Sarandon), complete with gauzy lighting and billowing curtains. It's a total classic.Where to watch: Prime Video7. The Incredibly True Adventure of Two Girls in Love (1995)The Incredibly True Adventure of Two Girls in Love is a beautiful, touching, funny coming-of-age story with a heartfelt and honest 'first time' scene. It also gets bonus points for starring the ever-watchable Nicole Ari Parker and Laurel Holloman, who of course you may know now as Tina on The L Word. Where to watch: Netflix6. Bound (1996)Bound is a lesbian love story starring Jennifer Tilly and Gina Gershon wrapped in a mob/heist/revenge film and featuring a really hot sex scene. Do you need to know more? Probably not, but you definitely do need to see more. Where to watch: Paramount+5. Kiss Me (2011)Its Swedish! Everyones attractive! Its about a girl falling in love with her future stepsister! Unfortunately, said girl is presently engaged to her male business partner, and therein lies the conflict. The girls first bond while on a trip together, and soon a sexy swimming session hook up becomes very long, very intimate, and very realistic. Where to watch: Tubi4. Blue is the Warmest Color (2013)Yes, there was a lot of unfortunate gossip around how the actual, intensely graphic scene was made, but lets put that aside for the sake of cinema and just applaud La Seydoux and Adele Exarchopoulos for their hard work and dedication. Hats off to you and this endless scene, ladies. Where to watch: AMC+3. Desert Hearts (1985)It was iconic in 1985, and it's pretty much just as iconic today. This sexy, sensual scene between Vivian (Helen Shaver) and Cay (Patricia Charbonneau) is close to the our top prize, and Desert Hearts as a whole, will always remain a queer cinema fave in our hearts. Where to watch: Max2. Love Lies Bleeding (2024)Kristen Stewart and Katy O'Brian star as troubled and passionate lovers in this steamy, subversive crime drama set in the world of professional weight-lifting and gun-running. The chemistry between the leads is scorching and the sex has a kinky realism that blows us away. Where to watch: Max1. Carol (2015) Based on Patricia Highsmith's benchmark novel The Price of Salt, Todd Haynes' exquisite film adaptation made us wait a long time before Carol (Cate Blanchett) and Therese (Rooney Mara) consummated their love in that roadside motel in Waterloo, but when they finally let go, so did we in a way. And it was good! Carol marks the closest a lesbian-themed film has ever come to landing Oscars, and it will forever hold a place in our hearts. For us, there was no doubt that Carol's long-time-coming love scene had to be our #1. Where to watch: NetflixRELATED | All 50 Sex Scenes on 'Orange Is the New Black' Ranked!

At last! After weeks of speculation, and a bizarre AI debacle, Taylor Swift has officially endorsed a candidate for president, Kamala Harris. Like many of us tonight the singer watched Kamala Harris present a salient and hopeful case for the future of the United States while Donald Trump devolved into his standard screed about a failed America, and occasionally eating pets. It was a weird night. That seems to have finally tipped the scales and Swift released a statement on Instagram. Below is the statement in full (don't miss the signature): "Like many of you, I watched the debate tonight. If you havent already, now is a great time to do your research on the issues at hand and the stances these candidates take on the topics that matter to you the most. As a voter, I make sure to watch and read everything I can about their proposed policies and plans for this country.Recently I was made aware that AI of me falsely endorsing Donald Trumps presidential run was posted to his site. It really conjured up my fears around AI, and the dangers of spreading misinformation. It brought me to the conclusion that I need to be very transparent about my actual plans for this election as a voter. The simplest way to combat misinformation is with the truth.I will be casting my vote for Kamala Harris and Tim Walz in the 2024 Presidential Election. Im voting for @kamalaharris because she fights for the rights and causes I believe need a warrior to champion them. I think she is a steady-handed, gifted leader and I believe we can accomplish so much more in this country if we are led by calm and not chaos. I was so heartened and impressed by her selection of running mate @timwalz, who has been standing up for LGBTQ+ rights, IVF, and a womans right to her own body for decades.Ive done my research, and Ive made my choice. Your research is all yours to do, and the choice is yours to make. I also want to say, especially to first time voters: Remember that in order to vote, you have to be registered! I also find its much easier to vote early. Ill link where to register and find early voting dates and info in my story.With love and hope,Taylor SwiftChildless Cat Lady"See on InstagramCome on Swifties, let's ride!

Former prosecutor Kamala Harris repeatedly got under the skin of convicted felon Donald Trump in their first and possibly only presidential debate, goading him into several unhinged rants about his rally crowd sizes and love of dictators. The debate moderators fact-checked Trumps racist lies about immigrants eating house pets and West Virginians executing newborn children while Harris used non-verbal facial reactions to alternately laugh at Trump and shake her head in concerned disagreement with his many false claims.The only mention of LGBTQ+ issues occurred when Trump deployed a racist and transphobic attack line, accusing Harris of supporting transgenderoperations onillegal aliensthat are in prison a crude restatement of her 2019 ACLU questionnaire answer that all federal prisoners, including trans immigrants detained by border agents, deserve medically necessary care. Related Donald Trump is getting so desperate his campaign is spreading racist lies about cats Yesterday it was schools operating on students, today its Haitian immigrants eating cats. They just cant win with the truth. While the debate co-moderators frequently gave Trump the last word speaking nearly 42 minutes compared to Harris 37 she still managed to present herself as a calm, poised contrast to his constant negativity and lies. Here are three times she especially rattled him. Your LGBTQ+ guide to Election 2024 Stay ahead of the 2024 Election with our newsletter that covers candidates, issues, and perspectives that matter. Subscribe to our Newsletter today Early into the debate, Harris tied Trump to Project 2025 View this post on Instagram A post shared by Queerty (@queerty) At the start of the debate, Harris walked directly up to Trumps lectern and shook hands with him, something that didnt occur during his first debate with President Joe Biden. Then, during the debates first segment on the economy, Harris told viewers that they would hear the same old, tired playbook, a bunch of lies, grievances and name-calling from Trump, adding, What youre going to hear tonight is a detailed and dangerous plan called Project 2025 that the former president intends on implementing if he were elected again. Project 2025 is a Christian Nationalist plan to dismantle the federal government, install Trump loyalists, and repeal civil rights under a second Trump presidency. Trump replied, I have nothing to do with Project 2025. I havent read it. I dont want to read it. Purposely, Im not going to read it. He then called the Heritage Foundation a group of people who got together and came up with some ideas some good, some bad.In reality, at least 140 of the authors behind Project 2025 are former Trump aides and advisors, Trumps Agenda 47 shares many of the projects policy aims, and his running mate Sen. J.D. Vance (R-OH) has repeatedly praised the projects founder, Heritage Foundation President Kevin Roberts, even writing the foreword to Roberts upcoming book which champions several of the projects aims.Harris repeatedly baited Trump into self-damaging rants View this post on Instagram A post shared by Queerty (@queerty) When asked how she would differ from President Biden on immigration, Harris went on a tangent and said, Im going to invite you to attend one of Donald Trumps rallies because its a really interesting thing to watch. You will see, during the course of his rallies, he talks about fictional characters like [murderous cannibal] Hannibal Lecter. He will talk about [how] windmills cause cancer. And what you will also notice is that people start leaving his rallies early out of exhaustion and boredom. And I will tell you, the one thing you will not hear him talk about is you. You will not hear him talk about your needs, your dreams and your desires.While Trump could have hammered Harris on immigration, a topic considered one of her biggest political weaknesses, he took her bait, saying, Let me respond as to the rallies. She said people start leaving. People dont go to her rallies. Theres no reason to go. And the people that do go, shes busing them in and paying them to be there We have the biggest rallies, the most incredible rallies in the history of politics. He then said his rally attendees want to take their country back because millions and millions of immigrants have illegally entered the country under Biden. He added, In Springfield[, Ohio], theyre eating the dogs. The people that came in, theyre eating the cats. Theyre eating theyre eating the pets of the people that live there. And this is whats happening in our country, and its a shame.His bizarre claim repeated a right-wing conspiracy theory that Haitian immigrants in Springfield have been eating pets.The untrue and racist statement originated from a local resident who claimed at an August city commission meeting that Haitian immigrants were slaughtering ducks at local parks for food, a Facebook post baselessly claiming that Haitian immigrants killed a local cat, and a news report about a woman (of unknown nationality) being arrested for killing and eating a cat.Debate co-moderator David Muir fact-checked Trump during the debate, saying, ABC News did reach out to the city manager [in Springfield]. He told us there had been no credible reports of specific claims of pets being harmed, injured or abused by individuals within the immigrant community. Trump responded, Well, Ive seen people on television. The people on television say my dog was taken and used for food so maybe he said that, and maybe thats a good thing to say for a city manager. People on television say their dog was eaten by the people who went there. Muir replied, Im not taking this from television.Soon after, Harris baited Trump again by noting that his former chief of staff, former defense secretary, and former national security advisor have all said he is dangerous and unfit for the presidency. In response, Trump said, I fired most of those people, not so graciously. They did bad things or a bad job. I fired them a tacit admission that he hired ineffective and untrustworthy high-level advisors. Later on, when asked about Trumps repeated and ongoing denials that he lost the 2020 presidential election, Harris said, Donald Trump was fired by 81 million people, adding, Clearly, he is having a very difficult time processing that. "Donald Trump was fired by 81 million people" Kamala Harris (watch Trump this one stung him) pic.twitter.com/ct2haparKk Aaron Rupar (@atrupar) September 11, 2024She then accused Trump of trying to upend the will of the voters in a free and fair election with his repeated claims of fraud as well as his incitement of the January 6, 2021 Capitol riots, something she called the worst attack on our democracy since the Civil War. Trump claimed that, on that day, he merely showed up to make a speech organized by others and added that he told his supporters to peacefully and patriotically protest the elections certification at the Capitol building. Debate co-moderator David Muir noted that Trump watched the riots from the Oval Office television and didnt issue a video message telling rioters to stop until it had already gone on for two hours. Trump didnt deny either fact. Harris continued, I have traveled the world as vice president of the United States, and world leaders are laughing at Donald Trump. I have talked with military leaders, some of whom worked with you, and they say youre a disgrace. She reminded him that he repeatedly lost court cases about the election because You did, in fact, lose that election.It leads one to believe that perhaps we do not have, in the candidate to my right, the temperament or the ability to not be confused about fact, she said. Thats deeply troubling, and the American people deserve better.Trump then said Hungarian Prime Minister Viktor Orbn wants him back as president to help end global conflicts. Trump has repeatedly praised Orbn in the past, and Orbn has made demonizing LGBTQ+ people a prominent part of his anti-democratic campaign. Trump then claimed that he could quickly end the current conflicts between Isreal-Palestine and Russia-Ukraine before even becoming president. Walz on MSNBC: "He was asked for one world leader who is with him, and it was Orban. My God." pic.twitter.com/e1CI1JrzLw Aaron Rupar (@atrupar) September 11, 2024Harris then said of Trump, It is well known that he admires dictators wants to be a dictator on day one. It is well known that he said of Putin that he can do whatever the hell he wants in going to Ukraine. It is well known he exchanged love letters with Kim Jong Un, and it is absolutely well known that these dictators and autocrats are rooting for you to be president again because theyre so clear that they can manipulate you with flattery and favors. And that is why so many military leaders who you have worked with have told me you are a disgrace.She later said, that, if it were up to Trump, Russian President Vladimir Putin would be sitting in Ukraines capital, Kyiv with his eyes on the rest of Europe, starting with Poland, adding, What you think is a friendship with [Putin, he] is known to be a dictator who would eat you for lunch. Her line effectively deflated Trumps self-promotion as a strongman who prides himself on meeting with authoritarian world leaders who have long been isolated and uninvited by past presidents from both parties. Harris delivers knockout response on Trump abortion bans View this post on Instagram A post shared by Queerty (@queerty)Within the first half of the debate, debate co-moderator Linsey Davis asked Trump why women should trust his repeatedly changing position on abortion, noting that he has proudly announced himself as the most pro-life president in American history and bragged about ending Roe v Wade while also saying hes both for and against Floridas ban on abortions beyond six weeks of pregnancy (a time before which many women even realize that theyre pregnant). In response, Trump claimed that theprevious governor of West Virginia, Democratic Gov. Earl Ray Tomblin, expressed support for executing newborns. Debate co-moderator Linsey Davis fact-checked Trumps claim, noting, There is no state in this country where it is legal to kill a baby after its born.Trump then gave tremendous credit to the Supreme Courts great courage in overturning Roe and allowing individual states to vote on the issue saying, its what everyone wanted. Voters in seven states including conservative ones like Kentucky, Montana and Ohio have chosen to protect abortion access since Roe fell; the issue will be on 10 state ballots this November. Trump later claimed it doesnt matter whether he would sign a national abortion ban as president. Comparatively, Harris spoke passionately about how Trumps overturning of Roe v. Wade has endangered innocent pregnant women who are unable to receive lifesaving care under Trump-era abortion bans. Lets understand how we got here, Harris said. Donald Trump hand-selected three members of the United States Supreme Court with the intention that they would undo the protections of Roe v Wade, and they did exactly as he intended. And now in over 20 states, there are Trump abortion bans, which make it criminal for a doctor or nurse to provide health care. In one state, it provides prison for life. Trump abortion bans make no exception, even for rape and incest, which understand what that means: A survivor of a crime of violation to their body does not have the right to make a decision about what happens to their body that is immoral, and one does not have to abandon their faith or deeply held beliefs to agree the government and Donald Trump certainly should not be telling a woman what to do with her body.I have talked with women around our country. You want to talk about This is what people wanted? Pregnant women who want to carry a pregnancy to term, suffering from a miscarriage, being denied care in an emergency room because the health care providers are afraid they might go to jail, and shes bleeding out in a car in the parking lot. She didnt want that. Her husband didnt want that, Harris said. A 12- or 13-year-old survivor of incest being forced to carry a pregnancy to term. They dont want that. Understand, in his Project 2025, there would be a national abortion monitor that would be monitoring your pregnancies, your miscarriages. She then pledged to sign legislation to reinstate abortion protections under Roe v. Wade, saying, I think the American people believe that certain freedoms, in particular, the freedom to make decisions about ones own body, should not be made by the government.Trump later said she would never be able to get enough votes in a closely divided Congress to do such a thing. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Queerty (@queerty)

Massively popular singer Taylor Swift has endorsed Vice President Kamala Harris for president in the 2024 election, citing her running mates support of the LGBTQ+ community. Swift endorsed Harris to her over 283 million Instagram followers mere minutes after Harris successful debate against former President Donald Trump. Harris running mate, Minnesota Gov. Tim Walz, thanked Swift for the endorsement after lesbian MSNBC anchorwoman Rachel Maddow read it aloud to him after the debate. Swifts endorsement could help Harris win in an election that will likely come down to a handful of voters in several swing states. Related Five things meltdown over Taylor Swift tell us about MAGA & the 2024 election season The self-defeating attacks on the popular singer expose all the flaws of the MAGA universe. Like many of you, I watched the debate tonight, Swift wrote in her endorsement. I will be casting my vote for Kamala Harris and Tim Walz in the 2024 Presidential Election. because she fights for the rights and causes I believe need a warrior to champion them. Your LGBTQ+ guide to Election 2024 Stay ahead of the 2024 Election with our newsletter that covers candidates, issues, and perspectives that matter. Subscribe to our Newsletter today I think she is a steady-handed, gifted leader and I believe we can accomplish so much more in this country if we are led by calm and not chaos, Swift continued. I was so heartened and impressed by her selection of running mate @timwalz, who has been standing up for LGBTQ+ rights, IVF, and a womans right to her own body for decades.Swift added that she was recently made aware that Trump posted fake images of her endorsing him, generated by artificial intelligence, that really conjured up my fears around AI, and the dangers of spreading misinformation.It brought me to the conclusion that I need to be very transparent about my actual plans for this election as a voter, she added. The simplest way to combat misinformation is with the truth.She ended her endorsement by telling her followers to research the candidates and make their own choice. She also reminded them to register to vote and posted informational links about registering and early voting, something she called much easier than voting in person on Election Day. She ended her endorsement by writing, With love and hope, Taylor Swift, Childless Cat Lady. The post included an image of Swift holding a cat.The line referred to vice presidential nominee Sen. J.D. Vances (R-OH) claim that Democrats are led by a bunch of childless cat ladies who are miserable at their own lives and the choices they made and so they want to make the rest of the country miserable too. His comment has been repeatedly criticized for needlessly mocking childless individuals who are devoted to the countrys betterment. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Taylor Swift (@taylorswift)Maddow read the endorsement to Walz last night. Walz said he was incredibly grateful to Taylor Swift, adding, I say that also as a fellow cat owner.[Her endorsement] was eloquent and it was clear, and thats the kind of courage we need in America to stand up, he continued, noting that he has seen similar courage from Republicans who have publicly opposed Trump as well as women who have done the same after nearly dying from when doctors refuse to give them life-saving abortions in fear of being prosecuted under state abortion bans that have flourished since the majority-Republican Supreme Court ended the federal right to an abortion.Walz then encouraged Swifties, the name for Swifts fanbase, to go to the Harris-Walz campaign website to help volunteer and organize for their presidential campaign. Tim Walz on Taylor Swift endorsement: I'm grateful to Taylor Swift and I say that as a cat owner. That was eloquent and clear and thats the type of courage we need in America pic.twitter.com/l2h5UKqYGN Acyn (@Acyn) September 11, 2024While its unclear whether Swifts endorsement will help tip the election in Harris favor, it certainly couldnt hurt.Swifts post was liked by over 6,113,932 people as of early Wednesday morning. The Instagram group Swifties for Kamala, which has nearly 53,000 followers, also posted a statement in support of it. We never doubted that Taylor would endorse at the right time because we know that her values align with Harris and our community, the group said in a Tuesday night post following Swifts endorsement.Our coalition has amassed more than 3,500 active volunteers, gained over 280,000 social media followers, raised over $150,0900 for the Harris campaign, and has mobilized over 90,000 people to take action to check their voter registration, the group added. We have also been able to donate over $13,000 to voter registration efforts.Were confident Taylors words will have a positive impact and encourage more people to join us in our mission to elect Vice President Harris, the group wrote. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Swifties for Kamala (@swifties4kamala)TheNew York Timeshas previously speculated that fundraising appeals from Swift could bring in millions of dollars for Harris. Swifts endorsement could also persuade her countless young fans to vote, and young voters are much more likely to vote Democratic.This all has led some Republicans tobeg Swift not to get involved in the 2024 election. One commentator Fox Newss Jesse Watters evendeclaredher a Pentagon psyop. A psyop refers to military actions used to control peoples beliefs and perceptions and is often a feature of right-wing conspiracy theories.Trump has previously said Swift should support him after all he has done for her. Trump hasprivately complained that he should have been TIME magazines Person of the Year in 2023 instead of Swift.During Pride Month 2023, Swift told concertgoers in Chicago, Right now and in recent years, there have been so many harmful pieces of legislation that have put people in the LGBTQ and queer community at risk. Its painful for everyone. Every ally, every loved one, every person in these communities.

Delaware state Sen. Sarah McBride (D) won the primary for Delawares at-large seat in the U.S. House of Representatives; the win all but ensures her election to Congress and will make her the first out trans member of Congress.Delawares NPR affiliate, Delaware Public Radio, reported that it was a landslide election, with McBride winning nearly 80% of the vote. Related Gay candidate Trevor Chandler was attacked while knocking on doors, but thats not stopping him The competence and experience candidate talked to LGBTQ Nation about his pro-housing stance, the attack, and his favorite parts of San Francisco. In November 2020,McBride made historyas the countrys first out transgender state senator when she won a decisive victory over Republican Steve Washington in the race to represent Delawares 1st Senate District. Never Miss a Beat Subscribe to our newsletter to stay ahead of the latest LGBTQ+ political news and insights. Subscribe to our Newsletter today On Tuesday, McBride won the primary against businessmen Earl Cooper and Elias Weir, neither of whom reported any campaign fundraising. Cooper, a political newcomer, faced Weir, who had finished last in a 2016 congressional primary, earning less than 1% of the vote.In contrast, McBride raised nearly $3 million in contributions from across the country. She gained national attention in 2016 when she became the first openly transgender person to speak at a major party convention during the Democratic National Convention.After her win, McBride told the Associated Press, My heart is filled with hope and gratitude, Im grateful, Im hopeful and Im motivated.She also noted that the results showed the goodness of Delawareans who judge a candidate based on ability, not identity.McBride told supporters on election night, Our rights and our freedoms, our dignity and our democracy are on the line in this election, but so, too, is the promise of tomorrow because we arent just here because of whats at risk. We are also here because of what is possible. Yall, hope and joy are making a comeback in America. Alongside the immense amount of gratitude I feel tonight, I also feel the deep responsibility that comes with being your nominee for this seat. While tonight we celebrate our victory in the primary, we all know that our work is far from over, and we know what is at stake in this election, she said.Delaware voted for Biden with 59% of the vote in 2020, giving Trump only 40% of the vote. The current occupant of this congressional seat, Rep. Lisa Blunt Rochester (D-DE), won her last four elections with at least 55% of the vote. McBride has embraced her role as one of the highest-ranking trans elected officials in the country and talked to LGBTQ Nation last year about the importance of diversity in the electoral system. I truly believe that our best days are ahead of us as a country, particularly if we accept and embrace the strengths of this nation, which includes our diversity, she said. You dont have to be LGBTQ to know what it feels like to be unseen and unheard. That is a commonality among so many people across our country. And that, for me, is at the heart of why I run and why I ran for office: to help our state of neighbors more fully live up to our values, and to broaden every circle of opportunity for everyone of every background.McBride is endorsed by the LGBTQ Victory fund, which said in a press release, Sarah is going to do amazing work in the U.S. House. Shes spent her career prioritizing trans voices, ensuring that our lives are valued and prioritized. And now, shell be taking the fight to the U.S. Congress, where transphobes will be forced to justify their terrible policies to her face. Shes going to hold them accountable, and we couldnt be more excited for her.

Donald Trumps debate performance was erratic, with the former president citing numerous bizarre conspiracy theories and making false statements, including that Haitian immigrants are stealing and eating peoples house cats in Ohio, that Democrats want to execute babies after theyre born, and that Democrats are letting 21 million migrants enter the country each month and trying to get them to vote.Hes really doubling down on the crazy uncle vibe this evening, out Transportation Secretary Pete Buttigieg posted to his personal Threads account during the debate yesterday. Related Donald Trump is getting so desperate his campaign is spreading racist lies about cats Yesterday it was schools operating on students, today its Haitian immigrants eating cats. They just cant win with the truth. Post by @pete.buttigieg View on Threads Your LGBTQ+ guide to Election 2024 Stay ahead of the 2024 Election with our newsletter that covers candidates, issues, and perspectives that matter. Subscribe to our Newsletter today One of the most-discussed moments of the debate on social media was when Vice President Kamala Harris goaded Trump into talking about the Haitians are eating cats rumor, which local authorities have said is baseless.Harris discussed Trumps rallies and pointed out several bizarre things he has been saying at them recently. Then she took a swipe at something that Trump is very proud of: his crowd size. You will also notice [at Trumps rallies] is that people start leaving his rallies early out of exhaustion and boredom, she said. And I will tell you, the one thing you will not hear him talk about is you. You will not hear him talk about your needs. In response to a question about immigration, Trump said that he would first need to respond about the rallies.She said, People start leaving, people dont go to her rallies, Trump claimed defensively before he brought up World War III. Then he started talking about the cats in his rambling answer.In Springfield [Ohio], theyre eating the dogs! Trump bellowed as Harris laughed at him. The people that came in, theyre eating the cats, theyre eating- theyre eating the pets of the people that live there. He then brought up the rallies again and said that people go because they like what I say.Harris responded by bringing up how many Republican leaders have endorsed her: If you want the inside track on who the former president is, if he didnt make it clear already, just ask people who have worked with him.Omg Trump takes the bait and starts rambling about crowd sizes and repeats baseless claims about immigrants eating pets and gets fact checked Kamala Harris immediately capitalizes on it pic.twitter.com/naaXf1GFiq Acyn (@Acyn) September 11, 2024

Chappell Roan is on the cover of the October issue of Rolling Stone, and in the accompanying profile, the out pop phenomenon opened up about her feelings about U.S. politics and the presidential election, while also further clarifying why she declined an invitation to perform at the White House for Pride this summer.Roan first mentioned the Biden administrations invitation in June during her performance at the Governors Ball festival in New York City. As a response to the White House, who asked me to perform for Pride, we want liberty, justice, and freedom for all, Roan told the crowd during her June 9 set. When you do that, thats when Ill come. Related Out pop singer Chappell Roan criticizes Joe Biden for not supporting liberty, justice & freedom Her comments drew backlash from liberals and support from her fans. The Good Luck, Babe! singers representative later confirmed to Variety that the White House had reached out to Roan via her management. Stay connected to your community Connect with the issues and events that impact your community at home and beyond by subscribing to our newsletter. Subscribe to our Newsletter today Roan told Rolling Stone that she had initially considered accepting the invitation and using the appearance as an opportunity to protest the U.S. governments support for Israels war in Gaza. I had picked out some poems from Palestinian women, she told the magazine. I was trying to do it as tastefully as I could because all I wanted to do was yell. I had to find something thats tasteful and to the point and meaningful, and not make it about me and how I feel.However, the singer said that her publicist convinced her it wasnt a good idea, telling her, You f**k with the president and the government, your security is not the same, and neither is your familys.Roan, of course, has made headlines for her fierce protection of her own and her familys privacy in the wake of her meteoric rise to fame.The Pink Pony Club singer added that she was baffled that some fans misinterpreted her comments as indicating support for Donald Trump and Republicans, according to Rolling Stone. It is not so black and white that you hate one and you like the other, Roan said. No matter how you say it, people are still going to be pissed for f**king some reason.Im not going to go to the White House because I am not going to be a monkey for Pride, she added. And thank God I didnt go because they just made a huge statement about trans kids a couple weeks ago.Roan was likely referring to comments made by Biden administration spokespersons to The New York Times and Fox News in June, stating that the administration opposes gender-affirming surgeries for minors, which are exceptionally rare. In July, a White House spokesperson clarified the administrations position in a statement to The 19th. These are deeply personal decisions and we believe these surgeries should be limited to adults, the spokesperson said. We continue to support gender-affirming care for minors, which represents a continuum of care, and respect the role of parents, families, and doctors in these decisions.In the same statement, the White House spokesperson reiterated the administrations opposition to Republican-backed laws banning gender-affirming care for young people, quoting a statement President Joe Biden made in June 2023. As President Biden has repeatedly said, Its wrong that extreme officials are pushing hateful bills targeting transgender children, terrifying families, and criminalizing doctors. These are our kids. These are our neighbors. Its cruel and its callous.According to Rolling Stone, Roan expressed pessimism about U.S. politics in the magazines interview with her prior to Bidens July 21 announcement that he would be dropping out of the presidential race. Im pretty F**k the government, and f**k everything thats going on right now, she said. I dont have a side because I hate both sides, and Im so embarrassed about everything going on right now. But in a follow-up interview after Vice President Kamala Harris secured the Democratic nomination, Roan sounded a more hopeful note. Right now, its more important than ever to use your vote, and I will do whatever it takes to protect peoples civil rights, especially the LGBTQ+ community, she said. My ethics and values will always align with that, and that hasnt changed with a different nominee. I feel lucky to be alive during an incredibly historical time period when a woman of color is a presidential nominee.

Blessings to whoever creating this man and delivered him to usIf you haven't heard of Miguel ngel Silvestre, you're missing out on one of Spain's hottest actors. Also, go watch Sense8 immediately. You're welcome. Silvestre initially rose to prominence with his performance as El Duque in Sin tetas no hay paraso. Since then, he's appeared in series such as Velvet, Narcos, 30 Coins , and Sky Rojo.His performance as Paco in the supernatural Spanish TV series 30 Coins has garnered him more attention recently, especially because the show sees the actor bearing it all and leaving nothing to our imagination. While you can check out some NSFW photos from one episode here and stream the show on HBO Max, scroll below for some of the best thirst pics Silvestre has shared on his Instagram. (@) See on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on InstagramSee on Instagram

While Donald Trump was getting fact-checked and mocked online for claiming that Haitian immigrants in Ohio are stealing their neighbors house pets and eating them, he did manage to get support from one person on the internet: Rep. Lauren Boebert (R-CO).THEYRE EATING THE DOGS, CATS, AND PETS! the anti-LGBTQ+ politician wrote on X, sharing a video of Trumps claim. Related Lauren Boebert accuses Joe Biden of being a pedophile Conspiracy theory or joking around? Either way, shes one of the first elected officials to accuse President Joe Biden of pedophilia. THEY'RE EATING THE DOGS, CATS, AND PETS! https://t.co/hjJqJxy2b2 pic.twitter.com/V9Hwaj8ZAZ Rep. Lauren Boebert (@RepBoebert) September 11, 2024 Your LGBTQ+ guide to Election 2024 Stay ahead of the 2024 Election with our newsletter that covers candidates, issues, and perspectives that matter. Subscribe to our Newsletter today Local authorities have already said that there are no reported incidents of this happening. The rumor appears to have started with an unconfirmed post on Facebook and spread throughout the rightwing social media universe as a way to attack Black immigrants and to support Trumps anti-immigration policies.This is far from the first time that Boebert has bought into bizarre conspiracy theories. She expressed support for QAnon, the conspiracy theory that says that there is a secret international cabal of pedophilic Satanists led by Hillary Clinton and Tom Hanks that tortures children in order to steal their adrenochrome. She claimed in the past that Spongebob Squarepants is gay. She even said that there are schools in her state that have installed litter boxes for furries to use instead of toilets.On X, Boebert was mocked for believing in the absurd claim about cats in Springfield, Ohio. He's melting down and then getting fact checked on it. Keep it going! A To The Z (@A_tothe_Z_Amber) September 11, 2024 You are a fuckin moron John (@FightFair) September 11, 2024Probably not the thing you want to highlight Cheesy Gordita Brett (@CreampieOrDie) September 11, 2024 That's a fake story, he looks like an old fool. Davy Jones Appraiser, #NAFO (@He17340570Kevin) September 11, 2024Grandpa Needs his Medication!!! THERE EATING THE DOGS Smh He's Completely outta his mind JAS (@JasADRxquisites) September 11, 2024 that's a big effing lie! zeebo13 (@KimKe14333055) September 11, 2024Oh wow. This isnt satire. living life as a host body (@angryamaggdyla) September 11, 2024 I loved this part Trumpy immediately fact checked. Jase1138 (@jase68352320) September 11, 2024You couldnt be more dumb Sports and Politics (@LeftSideStrong5) September 11, 2024Too funny, this lie has been debunked pic.twitter.com/OUk5x9fsfu SteppieLaroo (@StaceyW46993427) September 11, 2024

By: Gabriella Potter (they/them), Crisis Services Digital SupervisorIn my work as a Crisis Services Digital Supervisor at The Trevor Project, I hear from young bi people everyday about the challenges and fears they face because of the stigma around bisexuality. Thats why we created, How To Support Bisexual Youth: Ways to Care for Young People Who Are Attracted to More Than One Gender. We know how important it is to provide resources for those who want to support the bi young people in their lives, as well as affirm and uplift bisexuality as a valid identity for bi young people themselves.Bi Awareness Week is a celebration of what it means to experience attraction to people of more than one gender. It is also a reminder to us all about the amazing diversity of language that bi people use to describe their sexualities. In a world that often invalidates, erases, and harms people for multi-gender attraction, Bi Awareness Week highlights the need for resources that will help educate the larger population about what advocating for a safer, more inclusive world for bi people means.As someone who identifies as bi and queer, I know that the bi community is incredibly vast. In fact, bisexual young people comprise 75% of those who identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual in the CDCs 2019 YRBSS study. Despite the numbers, we still see a distinct erasure of bisexuality. With this erasure being so prevalent, identifying as bisexual can be an act of reclamation and power.Bi Awareness Week aligns with Celebrate Bisexuality Day, also known as Bi Visibility Day. Visibility is a complex topic for many; often those who are most visible in our world are subjected to higher rates of harm and have less access to safety, which is absolutely unacceptable. Visibility can also mean that young people get to see their identities reflected back to them. Being able to see bi people living their lives, finding joy, and making the world a more diverse and beautiful place can be so powerful for young people to see. It is empowering to see successful pathways and possibilities for ourselves, which can show young people that they are capable of accomplishing anything.The Trevor Project also wants to contribute to increased visibility of the bi community, and celebrate the identities and experiences of our staff members who are attracted to people of more than one gender. Looking for more ways to support LGBTQ+ young people? Read and share:The Trevor Projects How to Support Bisexual Youth: Ways to Care for Young People Who Are Attracted to More Than One GenderThe Trevor Projects Guide to Being an Ally to Transgender and Nonbinary YouthThe Trevor Projects Coming Out: A Handbook for LGBTQ+ Young PeopleThe post Commemorating Bi Awareness Week appeared first on The Trevor Project.

The following is an excerpt from Arielle Egozis memoir, Being Bad. The book uses frameworks cultivated from years of writing, speaking, and educating onsex, relationships, and identity through a queer and decolonizing lens. Egozi offers questions, practices, and tools to help readers dream far beyond what family, society, or capitalist culture expects.Its about being bad in a world that keeps trying to force you to be good. Being Bad, published by Chronicle Prism, is out on September 17. Ten years ago I tried coming out to my mom at a sushi restaurant. She immediately started crying. Why would you choose this? Her tears fell into her soy sauce cup as she pleaded with me, You like men. Stay with men. Dont make your life so hard. When I told my dad a few weeks later, he didnt even blink. He just looked at me and said, Youre not a lesbian. I believed him. Related My first date with a girl went surprisingly well You know, it surprised me that you told me you were nervous. For years, I continued dating men with brown skin and big muscles, like I thought I was supposed to. I was living in New York with Hector when I flew to LA to record pilot episodes of a podcast that never aired. As I sat across from my subject of the morning, her hair spilling out of the topknot on her head, she stopped speaking and smirked at me. Here, she said. Let me fix this. Her fingernails were short and her fingers long and slender. They moved quickly. Must be all that drumming, I thought. She took the mic I had rigged and moved it, changing all the settings Id so carefully prepared. I blushed. Yeah, I guess youre the musician, huh? I told her, my eyes cast down at my hands. She just smiled at me and kept talking, answering my questions. I felt exposed, like I was the one being interviewed. Never Miss a Beat Subscribe to our newsletter to stay ahead of the latest LGBTQ+ political news and insights. Subscribe to our Newsletter today After it was over and I was wrapping up my equipment, she asked, Whats your deal in New York?I didnt want to talk about New York. My boyfriend was in New York. I didnt want her to know I had a boyfriend. I didnt want her to think I only liked boys. I answered honestly. I hated how it felt. I walked out of her apartment and took a last look at the bed. I wondered what happened there.The next morning, I woke up in a tepee. It was raining outside and the wet had seeped in. I heard a bird chirping, and wondered where the bird was keeping dry, until I remembered the tepee was the room Id rented, a canvas tent plopped on some guys West Hollywood backyard, Los Angeles traffic blaring in the background. The chirp wasnt a bird, it was someones alarm. I FaceTimed Hector from bed, and the entire call was a fight, just like every call recently. Hector and I were fraying. It had been a whole year of conversations between us. A whole year of no sex, no intimacy, no common ground to connect over. I asked him to go to therapy, but he didnt want to.I needed more from him, he felt hurt by me, I was a burden, and he was the problem. I hung up. I thought about the drummer in her yellow apartment, all brown fingers and strands of bleached curls. I missed the calm I felt with her.I took a cab to Venice to get some air, and found myself walking into that celebrity-dusted place where they have affir-mations on the menu instead of food. I ordered some mushroom-enhanced purple latte that cost ten dollars and drank it as I walked, palm trees dotting the sidewalks like stiletto heels stepping on sky. I didnt know what it was about the aesthetic playground of Hollywood, or the splash of relief being away from my relationships merry-go-round of fighting, but I realized I needed something to change. Immediately. I saw a salon with a sign in the front: First Haircut Free. I walked in and told them I wanted bangs. As I sat in the chair, the stylist running her hands through my hair, I thought about the first time I kissed a girl. She was tall with brown slender fingers, like the drummer. Her eyes looked like almonds, if they could grow in the Amazon, where she was from. I fell in love with her, but I thought those were just the kinds of things that happen when you live somewhere else, somewhere far away. Itd been five years since that brief romance while living in Rio, and here I was, still not wanting anyone to know I had a boyfriend. I realized in that moment that what I felt was not a phase. On the red-eye back to New York I couldnt sleep.I climbed the five flights of steps to our Park Slope apartment and waited for Hector to wake up. His eyes were still groggy when I said it. Im queer. He looked back at me, blinking. I dont know what it means yet. I dont need to do anything about it right now, but I just needed to say it.Tears came out as I spoke, but ones that made sense. I felt like I made sense now. He looked at me confused, then laughed uncomfortably. Three days after I came home, with my new bangs and the word queer still unsure and shivering on my tongue, Hector finally went to therapy. When he came back from his session in the late afternoon, the March sun setting over the East River, we had the last big Conversation. He cited my new queer bangs as an argument point. I cited his refusal to read any of the feminist texts Id sent him over three years. He didnt want kids. I thought I might. Even so, the care we had for each other was clear. So was our future.We broke up.On that work trip to LA, I realized my dad had been right all those years ago: I wasnt a lesbian I was bisexual.

Last night, Vice President Kamala Harris wiped the floor with Donald Trump at their first presidential debate together. While Harris laid out her policy positions and criticized Trump for his incompetence and nearly cartoon levels of villainy, the MAGA leader shouted out baseless and genuinely bizarre claims about immigrants getting transgender surgery and eating cats and refused to admit he lost the last election. The debate between Joe Biden and Trump was an unmitigated disaster for both parties, but time around, Harris managed to not only make cogent arguments but also bait Trump into yelling about nonsense. Plus, her facial expressions alone, as she watched Trump say unhinged things and lie at every turn, were glorious to watch. Harris was on point through the whole debate and when she said, and thisformer president, that pregnant pause said it all. We all know what kind of words she wanted to use to refer to Trump. Trump is, predictably, now claiming the debate was rigged. No, honey, you just finally had to debate someone on top of their game. While Trumps wild claims are ridiculous, at least theyre not as boring as his allegation that he won the last election, and they provided us with a bevy of hilarious memes! From people on X saying perhaps men are too emotional to be President to congresswoman Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez posting that Trump sounds like a guy yelling at random people on 34th Street with a karaoke speaker to people joking about Trumps line that he has concepts of a plan, the memes still have us cackling the next day.Keep scrolling to see memes about the presidential debate that are so funny you may start to feel patriotic! (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@)

In an effort to increase protection for trans people, a Pakistani business has launched a ride-share service that will be available only to women and trans people. Called SheDrives, the service was launched last weekend and seeks to protect trans people from discrimination and harassment, says Ammaz Farooqi, the companys chief executive. Related He tried to open Pakistans first gay nightclub. He got sent to a mental hospital. His proposal for a gay club caused a media uproar. Now his friends say they havent heard from him. It currently operates only in the second-largest city of Lahore, but Farooqi said that expansion is possible. Global perspectives delivered right to your inbox Our newsletter bridges borders to bring you LGBTQ+ news from around the world. Subscribe to our Newsletter today Pakistan is a conservative and predominantly Muslim, transgender individuals face high levels of discrimination and even violence such as sexual abuse, assault, and murder. It is common for trans Pakistanis not to enroll in regular schools in an attempt to escape discrimination.Gay sex is illegal in Pakistan and punishable by up to two years in prison, though it rarely is. Queerness is looked down upon, which makes being openly trans or gay difficult. It is estimated that Lahore is home to around 30,000 transgender people, with organizations advocating for their welfare estimating the transgender population across Pakistan to be about 500,000 out of the countrys population of 240 million.Farooqi himself is not transgender, but he sees his business as a way to help two marginalized communities: women and trans people. Ive taken a small step, and we may expand this service to other cities, he said.He also said that a unique aspect of this app and ride service is that both drivers and passengers will be women and transgender individuals.The vehicles will feature pink logos, making them easily recognizable to women and trans people. Pakistan recently made the news for anti-LGBTQ+ discrimination when a Pakistani man was forcibly put in a mental hospital for trying to open the countrys first gay club. Last year in May, Pakistans Federal Shariat Court (FSC) struck down several provisions of the historic Transgender Persons (Protection of Rights) Act after declaring the statuteto be un-Islamic. In their ruling, the FSCsaid that a person cannot change gender based on innermost feeling or self-perceived identity and must adhere to their sex assigned at birth.

Transgender illegal aliens? What?!The problems facing the LGBTQ+ community sadly werent mentioned during last nights presidential debate, but Donald Trump did make some WILD claims about transgender immigrants that are so ridiculous the entire internet is roasting him for it.Trump floundered during Tuesdays night debate on NBC News, where he was forced to go toe to toe against Vice President Kamala Harris, and while she stayed on message, Trump refused to answer questions and instead put a bizarre new spin on conservative rhetoric about immigrants and the trans community.Republicans have spent decades villainizing immigrants despite the fact that the U.S. is a country made up of immigrants but Trump took things to a whole new conspiratorial level when he claimed that Harris wants to do transgender operations on illegal aliens that are in prison.Combining the Republican scare tactics of immigrants being criminals and the government forcing gender-affirming surgery on people is a whole new level of weird we didnt think possible. But every time Harris baited Trump, instead of remaining calm and presenting his policy positions, the MAGA leader started shouting out these dangerous allegations about trans people and immigrants. The best part of the entire night was watching Harris facial expressions as Trump yelled out these baseless claims like an old man shouting at clouds. And the internet is not letting him live it down! The jokes about ALF, E.T., xenomorphs, and Roger the alien from Family Guy all dressing in drag as illegal transgender aliens are hysterical. The memes are memeing, and we cant stop laughing.Keep scrolling for the funniest reactions to Trumps bonkers claims about transgender aliens! (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@)

20 reasons 'straight' men hook up with guysIt's likely in this day and age that we've all hooked up with at least one "straight" man. Weve all had at least one sexual experience where weve hooked up with a self-identified straight man. They all have their reasons, from being closeted to curious to unknowingly bisexual, and we've covered 20 of the most common reasons "straight" men hook up with other guys below! 1. They're in the closetSo lets start with the most likely and obvious explanation that I was touching on in the introduction. These men are actually closeted gay or bisexual, but are too afraid of queer labels, and arent ready to admit to themselves or others that they actually arent straight.2. Because it's funI mean, gay men are all over this secret. We know that having sex with other men is incredible. Outside of it feeling good, or reaffirming any masculinity, or being dared, or anything else, the truth is, its just fun to have sex with other men. Straight men simply have the desire to see what all the fuss is about every once in a while and not all of them stay straight once theyve had a taste. 3. If it's oral, it doesn't countNot every sexual encounter needs to end in penetration, believe it or not. Sometimes, straight men mask the hook up and dismiss it as such if theres only oral contact and especially if they, themselves, just sit back and enjoy. Semanticcome into play here, and the mentality is similar to that of butt sex not counting for straight couples.4. Under the influenceSometimes sobriety is also a factor in reasons why straight men hook up with gay men. We all know what its like to have one too many drinks and wake up with someone we wouldnt have otherwise engaged with. 5. It reaffirms their straightnessIn Jane Wards Not Gay: Sex Between Straight, White Men, she explores an irony deeply-rooted in same-sex sexual encounters among straight men. She claims that a straight man having sex with other men "reaffirms their straightness" by showing that theyre comfortable with their straight sexuality, enough so to sleep with other men.6. It's not considered gay unless you bottom In some Latin American cultures, you're not considered gay if youre the dom/top/receive oral (activo). Youre only gay if youre a more feminized man who bottoms or gives blowjobs (passivo). 7. Drag queen sexI know of a few fishy queens(someone who can pass as female when in drag) who sleep with straight guys, like all the damn time. Its pretty ridiculous. Now, these queens identity as gay men (not trans women), but because they look feminine (and gorgeous) in drag, many straight men sleep with them. 8. They cant differentiate between emotional and physical intimacyMany straight men are desperate for deep, emotional connections with other men. Theyve been socialized to believe that they dont need meaningful male connections, or that if they do desire deep connections with other men theyre gay or feminine. So when they have a deep, emotional connection with another man, they can get confused by it, thinking that they, themselves, must be gay. This can lead to sex between two friends, but the truth of the matter is, theyre not physically attracted to each other; theyre just confused by their emotional intimacy with another man but because we live in a society where emotional intimacy between two straight men is so rare. Because of this, their relationship evolves into sex, when it really shouldnt have. They actually are straight and platonic friends.9. HazingWhile theres been a crackdown on hazing in many colleges, fraternities always figure out ways to get around it. Hazing is one of the most homoerotic and bizarre rituals done by straight men. Pledges, chug this bottle of Tabasco. Oh, and also suck these guys d*cks.10. CuriosityCuriosity not only kills the cat, its what gets self-identified straight men to sleep with other men. Simply put, they want to know what all the fuss is about, even though theyre not physically or emotionally attracted to other men. Theyre also comfortable enough in their straightness to know that if they explore sexually with another man once, and realize theyre not super into it, theyre not gay or bi.11. Situational circumstancesIn places where women are scarce, there are many straight men who sleep with other men. This includes all mens boarding schools, the military, and of course, prison. (Although in prison, it can often benon-consensual and an act of violence, power, and dominance.)12. Its like a fetishHaving a same-sex sexual encounter is considered taboo, gross, or deviant by so many people in the world. Because of this, having same-sex relationships can almost seem like a fetish to straight men who like doing deviant things sexually in bed. Its an extreme fetish, no doubt, by the psychological reasons for straight men sleeping with another man could be viewed as similar to the fetish of tying someone up and peeing on them. Both are viewed by the straight guy as deviant by heteronormative society.13. They're physically attracted to men, but not emotionallyMany men are physically attracted to men, but not emotionally attracted. While this could be due to internalized homophobia/biphobia (meaning that they actually are both physically and emotionally attracted to other men, they just cant admit it to themselves) this is isnt always the case. We know that physical and emotional attraction, while related, are actually two distinct entities. Even though these men are bisexual, because of their physical attraction to other men, they still view themselves as straight because theyre not emotionally attracted to other men or looking to date another guy.14. It reaffirms their masculinityAgain, in Jane Wards book, she shows that in grinning and taking it you (as a straight man) are reaffirming your manhood and masculinity. Youre proving you can overcome the physical pain of anal penetration and the grossness of orally servicing another man.15. OpportunityThis is a fact of life: It is very easy to have a casual, no strings attached, same-sex hookup. Hookup apps make it ridiculously simple, but if you, as a straight man, have too much guilt going online, you can always go the sauna at any YMCA or go to a gay bathhouse. If you are a straight man who wants to ejaculate ASAP, its easier to find a man (than a woman) who will service you right away.16. It feels goodHaving sex with a man feels damn good. We know what were doing. Were active bottoms, and since we have a penis, we know our way around one. We know what feels good and how to orally service another guy like a pornstar.17. It reaffirms your power and whitenessSo this is for white men who engage in sex with other white men. In Jane WardsNot Gay: Sex Between Straight, White Men, she discusses how masculinity and whiteness are intertwined, and then leveraged to authenticate mens' straightness by having sex with other men.18. Sexual fluiditySexuality is fluid for so many men. For some in particular, its always in flux. Its always evolving and growing as you mature. Because of this, there may be men at some points in their lives who are more sexually attracted to other men, but at other times not so much. However, they still identify themselves as straight.19. They go gay for payTimes are tough, and we all, regardless of sexuality, need to pay rent and eat. These G4P boys know this, and dont mind having some same-sex encounters as long as they get some dough for it.20. They like attentionGay men are flatterers. We whisper sweet nothings. We say how attractive you are, and we say it to all men, regardless of sexual orientation. Some straight men love the compliments, love the attention, and love the feeling of being wanted to badly, that they hook up with other guys even though theyre not necessarily attracted emotionally or physically to other men.

The night before his debate with Vice President Kamala Harris, Donald Trump joined a nationwide prayer call sponsored by a Washington-based Christian group in support of the former president.As in his sputtering debate performance, on the call, Trump blamed Americas woes on a flood of millions and millions of illegal aliens entering the country. Related Court sides with Catholic school that fired a guidance counselor because shes married to a woman The decision expands a rule allowing religious institutions to fire employees for their personal beliefs. For the Christians praying for Trump, he said an effort by Harris to naturalize these criminals, mental patients, and rapists his words would come at Christians expense. Your LGBTQ+ guide to Election 2024 Stay ahead of the 2024 Election with our newsletter that covers candidates, issues, and perspectives that matter. Subscribe to our Newsletter today Every day, she is flooding our country with millions and millions of illegal aliens. She wants to make them citizens, she wants to have them vote, Trump said. Which will destroy the voting powers of Christian conservatives forever.And once that starts happening, and once you get those numbers involved, you lose everything, he said. During his prayer call, Trump promised to create a task force to fight anti-Christian bias. pic.twitter.com/imEgzzbyxc PatriotTakes (@patriottakes) September 10, 2024Trumps false claims about immigrants from stealing Christian votes and Black jobs to eating Ohio pets support his showy promises of mass deportation.But Trump also doubled down on a more insidious past promise to provide legal cover for Christians to discriminate, a pledge he avoided repeating in public on the debate stage Tuesday night.When I win, I will stop the weaponization of our government against Christians, will defend religious liberty at the highest level, and Ill create a task force of anti-Christian bias, Trump shared on the prayer call. We will fight it like nobody has ever fought it before. Ill protect Christians in our schools, our government, public square, and well bring our country back together as one nation under God. We will make America great again.Its all very simple, Trump added, but not so simple. Defending religious liberty is another way of saying imposing religious exemptions, an effort Trump started in his first administration and is now vowing to expand with the support of a hard-right Supreme Court and the Christian nationalist blueprint Project 2025 commissioned by the Heritage Foundation.From small businesses to religious schools, individuals and organizations would be told theyre free to discriminate against anyone, including LGBTQ+ people, if they claim such discrimination is part of their religious beliefs.Trumps promise on the prayer call promoted what hes called a war on Christians. As soon as I get back in the Oval Office, Ill also immediately end the war on Christians. I dont know if you feel it. You have a war. Theres a war, Trump said at an Iowa rally in December.Under crooked Joe Biden, Christians and Americans of faith are being persecuted and government has been weaponized against religion like never before. And also presidents like never before, he added. I always say Al Capone was treated better than I was treated.

Angela White is giving her fans what they want.The star is undoubtedly one of the most famous adult entertainers in the world and she's certainly worked for it. White is celebrating 20 years in the industry this year, but she's still reinventing herself.Earlier this year at the GayVN Awards, the model revealed what she hopes to film next and it hits close to home. White identifies as a bisexual woman, so filming a bi scene only seems like the natural next step."I want to do a bi scene! I want to share a d*** with a hot guy, so I'm actually on the lookout for somebody who wants to share a d*** with me," White tells PRIDE. See on Instagram Although White has established herself as one of the top performers in the world and she's still passionate about her craft to this day. She's also immensely grateful to all of her supporters."It has been incredible meeting all of my fans. They have been so sweet. [I'm still] loving sex, obviously! Truly, I think it's also being authentic, really doing what you're passionate about, and connecting with your on-screen partner."Any aspiring content creator definitely could learn a thing or two from White. Thankfully, she had no problem sharing her top tips with anyone hoping to make a mark in adult filmography."Definitely do what you love. Stick to your boundaries. Know what your boundaries are. Don't be afraid to say no. Enthusiastic consent is sexy."To see the full interview with Angela White, check out the video at the top of the page.

Now that were finally giving people the space they need to be open about their gender identities and sexual preferences, were learning theres a lot more to it than we may have initially thought.Theres a lot of confusion and misinformation being spread about various identities, and sometimes its hard to get into the nitty-gritty of whats true, whats not, and how to be respectful of everybody along the way.Among the terms gaining traction over the last decade or so is agender, which people often confuse for either nonbinary or asexual, which are not all mutually exclusive.Keep reading for some information on what agender is, what its not, how it relates to similar terms and how you can support the agender community.What is agender?Being agender is defined as of, relating to, or being a person who has an internal sense of being neither male nor female nor some combination of male and female or of, relating to, or being a person whose gender identity is genderless or neutral.Some people who identify as agender say they have a lack of gender or refer to themselves as gender-neutral, and it falls under the umbrella terms regarding nonbinary and transgender individuals. How is agender any different from nonbinary?There are a lot of similarities between being agender and being nonbinary, and agender is an umbrella term as it is. Part of the confusion stems from both gender identities rejecting the idea of the binary spectrum that says people have to be either male or female in their gender.However, people who are nonbinary usually view themselves on a wider spectrum of gender and reject societal norms more than anything. Agender people, on the other hand, are more apt to remove themselves completely from the gender spectrum or the gender binary. Is agender the same as transgender?The same as how transgender and nonbinary can wrongfully be confused, agender and transgender are not mutually exclusive. Transgender individuals do not align with the sex assigned to them at birth, and often undergo rigorous hormone therapy and painful surgical processes known as gender reassignment surgery to bring their body and their identity into alignment.As agender people do not feel aligned with any gender, it is unlikely, though not impossible, that they will go to such lengths. However, agender still falls under the umbrella term for transgender, though the label is yours to choose.Are agender and neutrois the same thing?The use of agender is often coupled with the term neutrois, which is when a person sees themselves as neither man nor woman and has no gender to express. Though similar in definition, they are not quite the same thing. Those who identify as agender do not identify with any gender, whereas those who define as neutral feel their gender is neutral.Another viewpoint centers around sex and gender and includes gender dysphoria, which is feeling discomfort or distress when your gender doesnt align with your sex at birth. People who are agender or neutrois can experience gender dysphoria, but the lack of gender agender individuals experience may give them less anxiety. Im still a little confused how is this different than gender nonconforming, gendervoid, or genderqueer?There are a lot of identities and terms to keep up with, and its totally understandable if you have a hard time keeping everything straight (no pun intended). Heres a brief overview of other terms agender gets confused with, and what makes them a little different:Gender nonconforming: Gender nonconforming individuals reject societal expectations from gender. However, although most people who identify as agender fall under the nonconforming category, those who identify as nonconforming are not necessarily agender.Gendervoid: In terms of gendervoid, both are similar in that they are characterized by a lack of gender. However, those who identify as gendervoid describe a void that exists where their gender identity would otherwise be. Some argue that these terms are interchangeable, but it comes down to personal preference.Genderqueer: As with gender nonconformity, genderqueer includes all gender identities that differ from the gender binary. As with gendervoid, the use of the term genderqueer interchangeably with agender is totally up to you.How does asexuality fit into this?People often confuse agender and asexual, and while its understandable, it isnt accurate.This isnt as much about the debate of sex versus gender as it is about sexual attraction as a whole. People who are agender can still find sexual attraction in other people, whereas asexual people do not. Agender people can experience any type of sexual attraction toward anybody of any gender identity or expression.Additionally, asexuality doesnt have anything to do with gender identity, although individuals who identify as asexual might not identify as cisgender as frequently. They are, of course, free to identify with any gender they choose. People who are agender can also be asexual and vice versa; they just are not automatically mutually exclusive.Where did the "agender" term originate?Prior to the agender definition, a 1997 paper in the International Journal of Transgenderism stated that any individual of any genetic sex may also regard him-herself as [] an ungendered person, who does not or will not identify with any conventional gender, and formally introduced the idea of genderless people.However, the term agender didnt start gaining traction until it was mentioned in a list of valid nonbinary identities in the 2013 book Sexuality and Gender for Mental Health Professionals: A Practical Guide.In 2014, Salem X also known as Ska or their Tumblr username transrants created the flag that includes a mix of black, grey, white, and green colors. The black represents the absence of gender, the grey represents partial gender, and the green represents a gender that isnt relatable to male or female. That same year, it also became one of the 56 genders made available on Facebook, and was added to the dictionary the following year. How can I support my agender friends, or where can I learn more for myself?Regarding supporting your friends and loved ones, whether you identify as agender or not, always be careful with pronouns. If youre unsure, just ask, but be mindful about your approach so as not to offend.Also, simply holding space can sometimes do more than youll ever know.If you want to learn more for yourself or your friends and loved ones, here are a couple of great sources:Neutrois is a great go-to for anyone who thinks they may be neutrois, agender, or anything in between.The Trevor Project has is a great guide to exploring all types of identities and expressions. Genderqueer.me provides an exhaustive list of resources on gender and identity.PFLAG also has lists of books, articles, and other resources for valuable insight.

Grab your harness, henny!Pangina Heals is considered drag royalty as the host of Drag Race Thailand and the robbed queen from the first season of RuPaul's Drag Race: UK vs. the World.Not only is she slaying the drag world, but this queen is also a successful entrepreneur as she owns three popular clubs in her home country of Thailand."I just opened my third nightclub in Thailand! The first is a drag club called House of Heals, where there's a lot of drag performers. The second one is a bear bar called Beef. I've always wanted to create a safe space for different people. It's a community," Heals tells PRIDE. See on Instagram For anyone looking for a steamier option, Heals just opened a spicier new club called Rush that'll have you quite literally feeling the rush. "The third place is called Rush and it's just open after hours. It's very kinky and we really embrace the BDM culture and the darkroom culture."Inquiring minds may wonder if they could run into Heals at her kinky new club, but she says that she prefers to keep her sexy shenanigans in her bedroom."I'm surprisingly really vanilla. Just for me to find someone to make out with, girl, it's like winning the lottery. I seem like a wild, crazy person, but no." See on Instagram Outside of her successful businesses, drag fans around the world are patiently waiting for the third season of Drag Race Thailand, which is slated to come out in the next few months."Drag Race Thailand season three is coming this year. It's been five years! We were the first franchise out of the original franchise. I had a lot of pent up energy and passion to bring my fashion and all this craziness back for the viewers."Since so many years have passed since the second season of the fan-favorite show, Heals says the new episodes will be worth the wait."I hope you're ready! I can't say that much, but it's going to be exciting. I think what I'm serving for this season will be not only elevated, but what people have been waiting for." Fans can keep up with Pangina Heals by following her on Instagram here. To see the full interview, check out the video at the top of the page.

We all know that the first presidential debate between Vice President Kamala Harris and was going to be a dozy, but we had no clue just how off the rails the MAGA leader would go.While Harris kept her cool in the face of Trump claiming ridiculous things like her running mate Tim Walz supports "abortion in the ninth month," Trump's performance was a mess. He's gone from claiming immigrants are taking "Black jobs" in his debate with President Joe Biden to now saying that immigrants are eating your pets and getting gender-affirming surgery while in prison."In Springfield, they're eating the dogs. The people that came in, they're eating the cats, they're eating, they're eating the pets of the people that live there," Trump said during last night's debate on ABC News.Using vile and dehumanizing language when talking about immigrants is nothing new for Trump, but this particular accusation about Haitian migrants abducting pets and eating them is one that originally came from neo-Nazis and far-right activists before Trumps running mate JD Vance started repeating it, NPR reports. Yup, in 2024, a presidential candidate repeated a debunked myth from NEO NAZIS during a live televised debate. What a time to be alive.The best part of the entire night was watching Harris' facial expressions as Trump yelled out these baseless claims about migrants like an old man shouting at clouds, and Trump being live fact-checked by ABC News anchor David Muir, who informed Trump that they "checked with the city manager" of Springfield, Ohio and there haven't been any reports of immigrants eating pets. That shouldn't be something you have to fact-check for a former president, but here we are.Harris' look of confusion and dismay when Trump was repeating this harmful Republican talking point about migrants was hilarious, but it's the memes people posted to X that have had us cackling all day. From people making hilarious Simpsons jokes to someone posting that "Call Kamala a Springfield resident bc she ate," to Bravo host Andy Cohen writing, "Is this old man talking about people eating cats? What is happening?"Keep scrolling to see the most hysterical reactions to Trump's wild and disgusting comments about immigrants! (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@)

A former assistant principal in Denver, Colorado named Corey McNellis has had his lawsuit reinstated against the Douglas County School District for firing him in 2020. The district terminated him after he used his Christian beliefs to attack a play about gay hate crime victim Matthew Shepard. An appeals court reinstated his lawsuit against the school.We are not persuaded Mr. McNellis has alleged any facts that, if true, would constitute direct evidence of discrimination, wrote the unanimous panel of three judges on the 10th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals. But we conclude Mr. McNellis has alleged facts that, from circumstantial evidence, give rise to a reasonable inference of discrimination based on his religion. Related School official denounced Matthew Shepard play for making Christians look bad. Now hes suing. Assistant principal Corey McNellis was worried about how the Christian religion comes across in the play about Matthew Shepards death. The courts decision means that the merits of his lawsuit will be determined in a court battle with the school. The decision, however, does not decide the outcome of the lawsuit, only that it will continue in lower court proceedings. Stay connected to your community Connect with the issues and events that impact your community at home and beyond by subscribing to our newsletter. Subscribe to our Newsletter today The play, The Laramie Project, seeks to accurately depict the reactions of the Wyoming town to the murder of gay college student Matthew Shepard in 1998. McNellis had issues with the portrayal of Christian leaders in the play, as they shared unsavory opinions. He offered to provide a Christian perspective to the play.He said in an email reply to the plays announcement, As a Christian I would love to collaborate with your project. Please let me know if the love that Jesus can provide will help your play, adding, I understand people support this. Forgive me for having a different viewpoint and the audacity to publicly share it.McNellis has been described as part of a good ole boys club at the school.His lawsuit against the school was announced in 2022, however it was quickly dismissed by U.S. District Judge Raymond Moore. McNellis sought to appeal this decision, which led to the appeals court reversing the dismissal of one of his claims. McNellis had initially argued that he was retaliated against on the basis of free speech and discriminated against by other provisions forbidden by Title VII and the Colorado Anti-Discrimination Act (CADA). The panel of judges dismissed the retaliation claims, but suggested that it was plausible he was discriminated against for his beliefs, and so the case merits further examination.The panel consists of Circuit Judges Robert Bacharach, an appointee of former President Barack Obama; Veronica Rossman, an appointee of President Joe Biden; and Harris Hartz, who was appointed by former President George W. Bush.McNellis is the sole plaintiff, and the Douglas County School District is the sole defendant.

Who knew the Doctor was an ally?You may love David Tennant for his iconic roles on Doctor Who and Good Omens, but hes long been our fave because of his unwavering LGBTQ+ allyship.The 53-year-old actor has been raising money for LGBTQ+ charities, standing up for the queer community, wearing Pride pins, and speaking out against bigotry for years, but his convictions seemed to get even stronger after one of his five kids came out as nonbinary last year.Related: 8 things we are DYING to see in the final season of 'Good Omens'Now, not only is he wearing Pride-themed clothing, but hes speaking truth to power by standing up against anti-LGBTQ+ politicians even in the face of criticism from the British Prime Minister Rishi Sunak after telling politician Kemi Badenochwho plans to make biological sex a protected characteristicto shut up.Many stars play lip service to being pro-LGBTQ+, but few will take the time to speak out at every turn and even risk their careers to be a proud ally the way Tennant has done and continues to!Kept J.K. Rowling off of Doctor Who (@) Fans have taken to social media to remember that in 2008, long before people J.K. Rowling made her transphobic views public, Tennant nixed a plan to have the Harry Potter author on an episode of Doctor Who. Showrunner and head writer Russell T Davies wanted to feature Rowling in a Christmas special where her imagination would come to life, forcing the Doctor to battle through a snow-covered world of wizards and witches, The Pink News reports.Apparently, Tennant didnt want Rowling to appear on the show because he thought it sounded like a spoof. Tennant couldnt have known that years later, Rowling would start spouting heinously anti-trans rhetoric, but the fact that he kept her off of one of the best sci-fi shows of all time is worthy of praise!Told an anti-trans politician to "shut up" (@) During his speech while being recognized as a celebrity ally at the British LGBTQ Awards, Tennant passionately spoke out against anti-LGBTQ+ British equalities minister Kemi Badenoch, saying that everyone has the right to be who they want to be before telling the politician to shut up, reports Deadline.Until we wake up and Kemi Badenoch doesnt exist anymore I dont wish ill of her, I just wish her to shut up whilst we do live in this world, I am honored to receive this [award], he said.Not only is he a great ally, but hes living out our cathartic dreams of telling anti-LGBTQ+ politicians to stuff it!Wore a nonbinary pin and nail polish to Mean Girls Musical opening (@) After telling hateful anti-LGBTQ+ politician Kemi Badenoch to shut up during an award acceptance speech, she hit back on social media posting that she will not be silenced by men who prioritise applause from Stonewall over the safety of women and girls.But not one to be silenced by bigots, the next day, Tennant attended the opening of the Mean Girls Musical with his family while wearing a nonbinary pin and hot pink nail polish.He's the best dad ever! (@) This year, during Pride Month, Tennant was spotted holding a Pride flag while wearing a shirt that says, You will have to go through me in trans-Pride colors. This is just further proof that Tennant is not only an amazing ally for the LGBTQ+ community but a terrific ally for his nonbinary kid. He told anti-trans bigots to "fk off"@mandlebougiethe 'woah!' and 'brilliant' at me naming myself alonzo and having his career as a special interest #davidtennant #proudnerdEarlier this year, while at Proud Nerds: Angels, Demons and Doctors convention in Germany, a fan asked Tennant about his relationship to gender expression, and the conversation that followed proved that he has a true understanding of the problems facing the trans community. Plus he told anti-trans bigots to Fk off, which is a sentiment we can all get behind!Now, there is a similar weaponization of these topics being taken by mostly the right wing, or certain sections of society, trying to create friction and conflict and division where it neednt be, Tennant said. Its just about people being themselves. You dont need to be bothered about it. Fk off and let people be.Wearing a "leave trans kids alone" T-shirt at a press event (@) While at an official press event promoting his role in the second season of Good Omens, Tennant wore a rainbow Pride pin and a T-shirt that said, Leave trans kids alone, you absolute freaks so that every photo taken of him that day featured the pin and shirt.Spoke passionately about Pride Month (@) Last June, while on former politician Ed Milibands Reasons to be Cheerful podcast, Tennant talked about being cheerful that its Pride Month, saying that the fact that Pride Month is existing and flourishing and is something thats happening at a time when the world seems to be getting in some corners worryingly intolerant and weirdly backward. We couldnt have said it better ourselves!Raised money for an LGBTQ+ youth charity (@) In 2023, on Transgender Day of Remembrance, Tennant appeared on The One Show sporting a trans-colored Tardis pin. The pin's sales were earmarked for the LGBTQ+ youth charity AKT, and after Tennant was seen wearing the pin, sales increased, reportedly raising over $22,000 for the charitable organization.

The slags are back and ready to destroy the competition!The iconic series Slag Wars returns this month, and with it comes not only brings a legacy of provocative, sultry, queer television history but a whole new crew of slags to fall in love with, or at least lust.This season sees Rebecca More returning as host alongside adult star Matthew Camp and drag royalty Fantasia Royale Gaga. Together they will welcome adult performers, exotic dancers, and burlesque stars of all sexualities and genders into the Slag House, where they will compete in a series of erotic and kinky challenges to earn points in their quest to be crowned the Next Destroyer and dubbed an international queer sex symbol.Beyond the joy, entertainment, and celebration of queer sexuality, this season will also serve as a remembrance of the legacy of Sophie Anderson, who along with More, famously made up the sexy duo known as The Cock Destroyers.Anderson tragically passed away last December, but her memory lives on through the love of her fans, her contributions to adult content, and the first season of Slag Wars, which put smiles on our faces even through the pandemic. In the trailer for the season, More addressed this loss, saying. This ones for you, babe, adding, lets destroy them.Slag Wars season two premieres September 17 on OUTtv. In the meantime, lets meet the slags!Sabrina JadeSabrina is full-time slag with a resume as long as her legs! Shes toured the world stripping, doing kink work, and embodying her fans naughtiest fantasies. Using wit, athleticism, and whimsy, Sabrinas become one of Brightons most iconic slags! Location: Brighton, UKCareer Highlights: -Won Stripper of the Year in the 2022 Sexual Freedom Awards -Was flown to Spain to compete in an international sex wrestling tournament -Her 60 year old Caribbean mum has come to support her at the strip clubs around the UK and NorwaySlag facts: -Went to Catholic school -Had her first orgasm at 19 when a stripper friend got her a vibrator -Carries a first class masters degree in biochemistry (brainy slag!) Favorite Cock Destroyer meme: Rebecca with the feather duster! Thats dirty Oscar (Hotboiyo)Oscar (Hotboiyo) is fiery hot model, spicy creator, and nightlife performer. Approaching all of his work through the lens of queer art and activism, hes become one of the most popular after transmasc creatives today! Location: London, UK Career highlights: -Walking in Milan Fashion Week -Was featured on a billboard in Piccadilly Circus -Slag Wars (obviously!!) Slag Facts: -Got naked in their first ever live performance -Loves to dance -Was featured in a Tove Lo video Favorite Cock Destroyer meme: Sunday, a day of restbut not for me!Mama MambaMamba is an old-fashioned freak with a heart of gold. Working as a model, burlesque artist, and sideshow performer. Shes known for her high octane stunts and jaw-dropping goth looks. Location: Birmingham + London, UK Career Highlights: -Winning the first ever church of Yshee lip sync competition-Dancing for Sophie Ellis Bextor-Being a music video hoe for Tove Lo Slag Facts: -Still still have a baby tooth -Her ass is 64-She cant ride a bike (but she can ride other stuff just fine). Favorite Cock Destroyer meme: Fuck its a SundayJV MarxJV Marx is an adult performer and artist whos become a major figure in the gooning community.. Hes embraced the silly and absurd to create something truly special for his fans; satirical, filthy, and kinky porn!Location: Los Angeles, California Career Highlights: -Appeared in the music video for "Treat Me (Like a Toilet)" by artist Mel 4 Ever on Pornhub (Directed by Mikey Harmon) -Drank a bunch of boobiy milk in the film Maman with Four Chambers -Published "Notes on Gooning" in Sensitive Content MagSlag Facts: -Is obsessed with the AntsCanada youtube channel-Is a shakespearean actor and theater artist who teaches senior citizens-Troye Sivan bought him a veggie burger kinda by accident but Troye is rich so he said it wasn't a big deal. Favorite Cock Destroyer meme: Driving for Dick or Sunday, a day of rest Freyja PhoriaFreyja Phoria is an out of this world fetish artist, cam performer, and self-proclaimed alien bimbo! Their distinctive body mods and interdimensional fashion has earned Freyja a huge following of fans and submissives alike. Freyja also brings their visions to life as a fetwear designer and visual artist. Location: East LondonCareer Highlights: -Creating their own intergalactic fetishwear brands -Camming in mansions around Europe and getting tipped just for being weird and unhinged -Force feeding a paypig 50 notes as a dominatrixSlag Facts: -Their dream is to be a singer in a post punk industrial band-Has a piss kink-Is a lizard mom Favorite Cock Destroyer meme: Rebecca and Sophie in the haunted house!Damien LenoreDamien is refined, glamorous, and seductive, earning him the title of The Siren Slag. As a neo-burlesque performer, hes stunned audiences around the world with his elevated choreography and smoking hot body!Location: Miami, FloridaCareer Highlights: -Headlined Frankfurt and Cologne burlesque festivals in 2023-Performed one of his signature acts at Teaserfest in New Orleans in 2024-Worked it at the opening of The Wild in LA (where a famous drag queens caught his undies) 3 Slag Facts: -Damien is an avid visual artist who paints and draws. -He makes many of his own costumes.-Is opening about being in recovery and living as a sober slag! Favorite Cock Destroyer Meme: The demonic possession meme!Cocoa KinkCocoa Kink is a burlesque artist, model, and high-end slag with a heavenly face and a body for sin. Known for her poise, pristine fashion, and old school beauty - shes done everything from working the pole to working the runway! Location: London, England Career highlights: -Performed for Charlie xcx -Modeled in Ann summers campaigns and was featured on their lingerie packaging-Co-produced her own slutty burlesque show at their first strip club Slag facts: -Identifies as a crazy cat lady. Wants at least 10 kitties in a big house!-Was booked to do a live solo masturbation show at an art exhibition and inadvertently discovered her kink for being watched by strangers-Has le petite mort tattooed under her butt which is the French word for orgasmFavorite Cock Destroyer meme: FUCK, ITS A SUNDAYBraxton CruzBraxton Cruz is one of the hottest gay porn newcomers. After leaving his corporate 9-5 to live the slag life full-time, this tenacious hunk has already worked with some of the biggest studios in the world (and hes just getting started!).Location: Australia/United StatesCareer Highlights: -Ditching his boring career in finance -Traveling the world producing hot adult content -Being able to participate in Slag Wars! Slag Facts: -Growing up, his babysitter's all starred on Australian teen soap operas.-Is known for being a prankster-Has premonitions that come true Favorite Cock Destroyer meme: Going on a cock trail!

Conservative commentator and former Fox News anchor Megyn Kelly yelled, Eff you, Taylor Swift and accused the pop star of wanting to sterilize children and chop off their body parts after Swift endorsed Vice President Kamala Harris for president. On The Megyn Kelly Show, the titular host noted that Swifts Instagram endorsement said, I think [Harris] is a steady-handed, gifted leader and I believe we can accomplish so much more in this country if we are led by calm and not chaos. I was so heartened and impressed by her selection of running mate [Minnesota Gov. Tim Walz], who has been standing up for LGBTQ+ rights, IVF, and a womans right to her own body for decades. Related Trans activists outraged over major study questioning the benefits of gender-affirming care The Cass Review flies in the face of most American medical guidance, and activists are terrified of the repercussions. Oh my God, Kelly said on her broadcast before repeating right-wing lies about Walz. So this woman is fine with his plan to take custody of the children from parents who dont want them to chop off their body parts and put them in Minnesota courts custody so the body parts can be chopped off and they can be sterilized outside the custody of their parents. Thats what led Taylor Swift to endorse him. LGBTQ+ news you can rely on Keep track of the ongoing battle against bias and for equality with our newsletter. Subscribe to our Newsletter today Kellys lie, which has been previously repeated by former President Donald Trump and his supporters, distorts Walzs record on transgender kids and gender-affirming care. Right-wingers have dishonestly claimed that Walz signed legislation allowing minors to receive gender-affirming surgeries and that this legislation allows courts to take trans kids from their unsupportive parents (or, as Trump put it, kidnap kids to change their gender.)Walz never signed any such legislation, authorities in his state arent authorized to take custody of trans kids, and gender-affirming surgeries are almost never performed on minors. In reality, Walz issued a trans refuge state executive orderand signed H.F. 146 in 2023. Both helped establish Minnesota as a safe state for gender-affirming care and protected families and care providers from out-of-state prosecutions against gender-affirming care. Neither the order nor the law allow judicial and state officials to take trans children out of the homes of non-supportive families. Im allowed to criticize Taylor Swift, Kelly continued, and I dont give a s**t who gets upset. This is disgusting. She wants to vote Harris-Walz, she can do it all she wants. But to say the reason shes doing it is because of Tim Walzs stance on LGBTQ eff you, Taylor Swift and eff, all of the people who want to see these children have body parts chopped off and watch them sterilized under the age of consent, and then well ride off to their multi gazillion dollar mansions, never to think of them again.While Kelly immediately assumed that Swift supports Walzs policies on trans children, Walzs LGBTQ+ record includes his longtime support for LGBTQ+ anti-bullying efforts in schools, same-sex marriage, and his opposition to anti-LGBTQ+ book bans, conversion therapy and other discriminatory government policies. The truth about gender-affirming care for childrenRight-wing concern trolling about gender-affirming care always focuses on shocking and disgust-inducing claims of mutilating children and not the actual details of such medically sanctioned care. All major medical associations consider gender-affirming care for youth to be safe, essential, and effective. Such care isnt immediately prescribed to all children; rather, medical practitioners typically will treat children for gender dysphoria if they find a young persons declaration of trans identity has been insistent, persistent, and consistent. That is, a truly trans child must repeatedly and continuously assert their trans identity over many years, not just a brief period.Even then, practitioners will encourage young children to explore their gender through self-presentation and, if the child wishes, social transitioning (using personal pronouns, names, and clothing and hairstyles matching their gender identity). If their trans identity persists, older children can elect to take puberty blockers to stave off the physical changes of adolescent maturation. These medications have been used safely and reversibly on children for decades to delay early puberty and treat rare cancers and other conditions.Gender-affirming surgeries are almost never conducted on trans minors and certainly not without parental consent. Surgeons reserve such procedures on adults (including cisgender adults who wish to augment their bodies). Trans people who receive these surgeries regret them less often than people who get tattoos or have children.

For 13 years, queer artists from across New York City and the country have gathered at Bushwig to celebrate joy in art, drag, and gender expression. Bushwig is a two-day festival at Knockdown Center in Maspeth, Queens which features lineups from incredibly talented performers ranging just beginning their drag journey, or famous icons from shows like RuPauls Drag Race or The Boulet Brothers' Dragula. This year's event featured performances by icons such as Kennedy Davenport, Dawn, Amanda Tori Meating, Luxx Noir London, Megami, the musician Peaches, among many other incredibly talented artists. For me, Bushwig always feels more like a family reunion than a drag festival. Its the time of year when everyone gets dolled up and celebrates what makes NYC drag so special. Friends from across the city you hardly get to see throughout the year that all gather in one place to kiki. This is my third year photographing Bushwig and each year I come back electrified and inspired to create art whether Im in a wig, or behind a lens.

Ive been using Grindr since the ancient times of the first iPhone.Sometimes, I set the notifications to on and turn up the sound on my phone so I can act surprised every time the chime goes off. Other times, I delete my profile and remove the app, promising to never return, lest I be forever bound by its suffocating grips.My back and forth, like many others, has taught me a lot about myself, gay men, and queer culture as a whole. Here are 25 life lessons Ive gained from my time on the grind.1. There will always be more menSexy men are a dime a dozen. Men with big Ds and bubbly butts are a dime a dozen. Dont get hung up on one hot guys rejection of you. 2. But dont use that as a reason to break up with someone specialQuality men are hard to come by. So while there will always be more boys out there, dont give up on one just to explore your options with others. Quality over quantity, boys.3. Your nudes get circulatedWhat, you think when you send pics of yourself the person on the end doesn't share them with their friends? They're probably in a public space when you send it in the first place, what did you expect? 4. Your pictures get stolenOkay, yes, sorry to be a Debbie downer off the bat, but the more you know, the better. Sometimes, people will not only share your pics, but they'll actually steal them for themselves and make an account moonlighting as you. Stay on your guard!5. Everyone is there for the same thingIt doesn't matter if they say they're "not looking," they are. And "looking" means sex, just in case that wasn't clear. And everybody on Grindr is looking for sex. Everybody. 6. Gay men are still surprisingly racist/sizeist/femmephobic (and all around terrible)I feel like we should know better by now, yet so many of us do not. I feel like I live in my own "woke" bubble. (I know how elitist and terrible that sounds, but you know what I mean.) There are real gay Trump supporters out there. There are real gay racists out there.7. It's okay if you don't fit into your type's typeIt can hurt if you send a lot of messages to guys youre into and have no response. Everyone has a type, and even if it seems like no one who is your type likes you back, dont get discouraged because... 8. Something about you is someone else's fantasyOne way or the other, something about you is exactly what someone else is looking for. So, if no one in your type is hitting you back, maybe broaden your horizons and respond to the men who reach out to you first.9. You can always find someone with a similar kink to youThink our vibe is too out there? Dont worry, you can definitely find someone who's on your kink level. There is not one, not two, but hundreds (if not thousands) of men in your area with the same "taboo" fetish as you. Youre not alone in your kinks.10. Grindr isnt a substitute for being picked up (or picking up a guy) IRLGrindr is fun (Duh! Why else would we do it?), but its not the same as picking up a guy in real life, or cruising at the sauna. Id argue it's an "add-on," not a replacement.11. Sex can be pretty confusingHere me out. Sometimes you dont like someone, you just like the sex. Or you accidentally sleep with a your best gay friend while drunk, and now youre like, "WTF do I do!?" Deep breaths. At the end of the day, its just sex. Dont overthink it.12. Practice makes perfectIm a lot better at sex than I was when I was 21. Not because Im in better shape or because my stamina is any better, but because practice makes perfect. The more men youre intimate with, the better at sex you become. Thats why I love sleeping with "manwhores."13. Vocal sex is always betterHes not a mindreader. Tell him what you want. Be loud. Moan. Make sounds. Silent sex is awkward as all hell.14. Some men love to shame othersIt literally doesn't even matter about what. There are men out there who will find something to shame you for.Sleep with too many people? Slut.Sleep with too few people? Prude.Sleep with just the right amount of people? Boring.You cant win. These insecure men will always find some reason to shame you. Ignore them.15. No one looks *exactly* like their picturesThis is true for any one, in any life, in any case. We see what we see through the lens of a camera, whether through video or photo. Sometimes what you see in person is better, sometimes not. Either way, always expect there to be something at least a little different about the in-person features versus the preconceived notions.16. Open relationships/polyamory/non-monogamy can be liberatingYou know if its not for you. But if youve been struggling with monogamy, it might be worth it to attempt an ethical, nonmonogamous relationship. It can feel liberating, to say the least. The most rewarding relationships Ive ever been in have been nonmonogamous. While it may sound paradoxical, I actually feel closer with my partner when were in a nonmonogamous relationship.17. There are incredible liars out thereThere are some guys out there who can be really, really, good liars. So good, in fact, they dont even realize when theyre doing it. Avoid them at all costs!18. Theres a right way and a wrong way to reject someoneIf Grindr has taught me anything, its this: theres a clear right way to reject someone, and a wrong way to reject someone. A polite "not interested" goes much further than shaming the man. 19. Some men will try to put you into a boxBear? Jock? Daddy? Top? Bottom? Vers? Some gay men love to put other gay men in boxes. If you feel like the box fits you, embrace it. If not, just ignore them. You gotta do you.20. Shit happens...deal with itI mean, it does. Take it in stride. 21. Sex is not a good emotional regulation strategyMany gay men (myself very much included) use sex as an emotional regulation strategy. This mean if were feeling a certain waydepressed, angry, stressed, etc.use sex to stop feeling that way. Id be cautious if this is something you find yourself doing often.22. There are gays everywhereIt doesnt matter which town Im in, there will literally always be gays on Grindr. Sure, in some smaller towns there are a lot less, and there are lot more discreet gays, but it does not matter where you are in the worldthere are gay men.23. Sex is pretty freakin awesomeI feel like I wrote all of these negative things about gay men and sex with men. I just want to take a step back and remind you (and apparently myself) that having sex with other men is freakin awesome!24. Some of my best friendships have started from the appWhile few and far between, I have met some people on the app who have gone on to become some of my best friends. It can happen. Be open to the possibilities, and let whatever happens happen.25. Being queer is a blessingHowever it happened, Im not complaining. We are so lucky to be queer.

As even Donald Trumps most ardent supporters are admitting Tuesday nights debate performance was a trainwreck for the former president see Megan Kelley telling Taylor Swift eff you in frustration over the pop stars well-timed endorsement and salt rub his truly fringe fans are making a case that supernatural intervention caused Trumps failure.Lance Wallnau, a Christian nationalist MAGA pastor with a history of outlandish claims including one about the healing effects of anointed cake for those rejecting their homosexuality said a figurative kill box orchestrated by the debate co-moderators caused woes for the twice-impeached felon last night. Related MAGA pastors say demonic Kamala Harris will pick perverse Pete Buttigieg as VP Its all part of a demonic plot to fog Christians brains into accepting diversity. Wallnau is calling it witchcraft. Dive deeper every day Join our newsletter for thought-provoking commentary that goes beyond the surface of LGBTQ+ issues Subscribe to our Newsletter today When I say witchcraft I am talking about what happened tonight, Wallnau posted to X not long after what will likely be Trumps final debate meltdown.Wallnau witnessed occult-empowered deception, manipulation and domination, he testified. Thats what ABC pulled off as moderators, and Kamalas script handlers set up the kill box.In this analogy, One-sided questions and fact-checking sealed the box. Witchcraft.Its not over yet, Wallnau prophesied, but something supernatural needs to disrupt this counterfeit momentum because the same public that voted in [Democratic former President Barack] Obama is voting again and her deception is advancing. When I say witchcraft I am talking about what happened tonight. Occult empowered deception, manipulation and domination. Thats what ABC pulled off as moderators, and Kamalas script handlers set up the kill box. One sided questions and fact checking sealed the box. Witchcraft. https://t.co/LMgz1Udkc8 Lance Wallnau (@lancewallnau) September 11, 2024Chanting Beettlejuice Beetlejuice was not among his suggestions.In fact, Wallnau had no suggestions for stopping Trumps late-stage decay, other than a hoped-for deus ex machina to bring new life to his tragic story.Its not unlike the former presidents lack of solutions for the disaster that he describes as America. Were going to hell, the twice-impeached felon likes to say.Speak for yourself, Mr. President.Last month, Wallnau predicted that Harris, whom he called demonic, would choose Transportation Secretary Pete Buttigieg as her running mate in order to stoke national divisions over racism and perversion.He said that God personally told him Harris is a 2.0 version of Democratic nominee Hillary Clinton, except with an augmented heat-seeking missile capacity to stir up strife and civil war.Harris casts herself as a woman against a male majority, he said, and as a Black minority against a white majority.In a speech to Christian fundamentalists, Wallnau said God is helping get rid of the gays from a formerly righteous nation.We need to be praying for the unfinished work of the United States because Americas gotten off track, he said. Its promoting lesbian transgender ideology globally. Its putting the LGBTQ flag, even the BLM [Black Lives Matter] flag, up with our national flag. And God is taking that down. Wallnaus claims over anointed cake involved a group of hookers who used to hang out at a bar whose owner was gay and very adamantly anti-Christian.The sex workers baked a cake and prayed over it, Wallnau said, making it an anointed cake. When the bar owner ate the cake, the power of God hit him and he was baptized and delivered.The gay spirit inhabiting the bar owners body, Wallnau rejoiced, had left him.

For 13 years, queer artists from across New York City and the country have gathered at Bushwig to celebrate joy in art, drag, and gender expression. Bushwig is a two-day festival at Knockdown Center in Maspeth, Queens which features lineups from incredibly talented performers ranging just beginning their drag journey, or famous icons from shows like RuPauls Drag Race or The Boulet Brothers' Dragula. This year's event featured performances by icons such as Kennedy Davenport, Dawn, Amanda Tori Meating, Luxx Noir London, Megami, the musician Peaches, among many other incredibly talented artists. For me, Bushwig always feels more like a family reunion than a drag festival. Its the time of year when everyone gets dolled up and celebrates what makes NYC drag so special. Friends from across the city you hardly get to see throughout the year that all gather in one place to kiki. This is my third year photographing Bushwig and each year I come back electrified and inspired to create art whether Im in a wig, or behind a lens. Arranged for Pride.com by Nikki AyeNico Fernandez-Kiray is a photographer based in New York City who works frequently in queer nightlife and cultural events. Like and follow them on Instagram at @koo.rah. Voices is dedicated to featuring a wide range of inspiring personal stories and impactful opinions from the LGBTQ+ and Allied community. Visit pride.com/submit to learn more about submission guidelines. We welcome your thoughts and feedback on any of our stories. Email us at voices@equalpride.com. Views expressed in Voices stories are those of the guest writers, columnists and editors, and do not directly represent the views of PRIDE.com or our parent company, equalpride.

He loves me, he loves me not, he...loves me?Sometimes, its impossible to figure out how to tell if a guy likes you. Everyone knows the story: Youve been on a date or two and those damn butterflies be beating apart your stomach. You think he likes you, maybe, but what if he doesnt? What if hes just being nice? Leading you on? Telling you what you want to here?Before you lose your mind, take a breath. Were here to help. Here are 20 signs hes actually into you, and not just stringing you along.Sign #1: He straight up tells youIt can be a bit of a shock, and it can also seem too good to be true sometimes, but there is the occasional man who will actually just be upfront and tell you when he's into you. A crazy concept, I know, but it can (and does) actually happen.Sign #2: He doesn't play any gamesNobody likes to be toyed around with, and nobody likes the games. If he's not playing any games with you and it totally seems genuine, he may actually be into you.Sign #3: He texts you without needing a prompt.This is a big one. If youre always the one starting a conversation, its hard to tell if youre ever really on his mind. But if he texts you first, it means hes initiating the communication. A good sign!Sign #4: He uses emojis in his messages.This may seem silly, but in this day and age, emojis are part of our digital vocabulary. Some guys just arent emoji users, so youll have to get to know his style a bit, but if youre always throwing a wink, a heart, or a kissy-face his way with not even a smiley in returnit could mean hes just not that into you.Sign #5: He calls, instead of texts.A phone call? Whats that? Yes, we can actually talk on our smartphones. And if a guy foregoes the text and goes right for the phone call, that definitely means hes down to get to know you more.Sign #6: He makes the plans for the next date.If youre not into someone, you either tell them, or ghost them, hoping theyll forget about you. But if a guy is eager to spend time with you, hell make sure you have plans to hang out. If hes the one setting up the next date, you can bet hes into you.Sign #7: He asks questions.When youre just being polite, you usually let the other person talk, adding in a few uh-huhs and yeahs to show them youre (sort of) paying attention. But if your date is engaged in the conversation, asking questions and wanting to know more about you, its a good sign!Sign #8: He invites you to his place.If hes just being polite, and doesnt see things going further, hes definitely not going to let you know where he lives! If you get the invite, its a thumbs up for sure.Sign #9: He invites you to stay the night.This is part two of the previous sign. So, youve made it to his place. Good sign. You watch a movie, or have dinnermaybe a little more! Then, instead of calling you an Uber, he asks you to stay the night! Yeah, hes into you.Sign #10: He talks to you during the day.If youre only getting Hey, you up? messages at 3 a.m., he might have only one thing on his mind. But, if he sends you a message during the day, saying hi, asking how your day is, telling you a funny story, all signs point to something more than a booty call!Sign #11: He introduces you to his friends.Bringing someone youre dating to meet your friends is no small gesture. If he was just being polite, theres no way hed open up to you like that!Sign #12: Your dates are more than just dinner and a movie.Dinner and a movie dates are so junior high. Sitting through a movie doesnt give you the chance to talk and get to know someone. So if its always a night at the movies, you may be getting the cold shoulder.Sign #13: He reveals something embarrassing.Maybe its a childhood story. Or a nervous tic. Whatever it may be, letting your guard down and revealing something embarrassing is not something youd do for just anyone. If hes opening up, hes probably into you!Sign #14: Hes honest about wanting to see other people or not.Some may call it having the conversation. If hes willing to talk about the status of your relationship, that usually means he sees it continuing in some form. Maybe hes into you, but prefers open relationships. Maybe hes into you and doesnt want to see other people. Either way, if hes sharing his feelings, it means youre important to him.Sign #15: He buys you something.Now, this doesnt mean hes showering you with expensive gifts (necessarily), or that the only way people can show affection is through material things. But, if he buys you flowers, or a ticket to a show, or picks up the tab at dinner, it means he doesnt mind spending some of his money (as well as his time) on you.Sign #16: He invites you on a trip.Ding ding ding! No sane person would invite someone they werent into on a trip. It means youre together for long periods of time, sharing hotels, car rides, and adventures. If a trip is in your future, you can bet he really really likes you!Sign #17: He tells his family about youThis doesnt mean you have to meet his family, but if he tells a sibling or a cousin or a parent or anybody else who shares any type of blood relation to him about you, he may actually be into you. Bonus sign, if he does want you to meet the fam, hes for realsie serious.Sign #18: He posts about you on social mediaHe doesnt necessarily need to tell the world he belongs to you. But if youve taken a picture or two together that you see pop up on his feed, maybe accompanied with a cute caption, he might be subtly letting everyone know whos really got his interest.Sign #19: He's curious if you're talking to anybody elseHey, hes told you about whether or not he wants to see other people. Before he initiates that conversation, he may also just be curious about your dating life as a whole. Maybe its him thats questioning your interest instead of vice versa?Sign #20: He cooks for youHoney, if he pulls out the pots and pans and whips something up for a meal together, hes a keeper. It doesnt have to be a gourmet meal, but any time or effort spent in the kitchen making sure youre fed is a sure sign hes actually interested.

A 25-year-old Black transgender woman known as Redd was shot to death by an unknown male assailant in Chicago, Illinois around 1:30 a.m. on Sunday. Her family is now calling for her murder to be investigated as a hate crime, and shes believed to be the 26th known trans or nonbinary person murdered this year, Advocate reported.Her murderer walked past Redd and her group of friends who met on a street in the citys west side on Sundays early hours, according to Redds friend, Michelle Lee. The man reportedly talked to a nearby group of women and returned half an hour later when he opened gunfire on Redd and her friends. Related Will Ferrells road trip with his trans friend will make you cry in Will & Harper The new documentary about a writers transition and her friendship with comedian Will Ferrell is moving and timely. As the group fled, Redd was shot multiple times in her back and legs and died on the sidewalk. The gunfire also hit a 34-year-old individual in the chest, and they were taken to the hospital with critical injuries. Redds friends rall eportedly began crying when they found her body. Stay connected to your community Connect with the issues and events that impact your community at home and beyond by subscribing to our newsletter. Subscribe to our Newsletter today She wanted to be loved and respected, her friend Trevon Pope said. Thats how she was. Thats one thing she didnt play about. She loved and respected people.Redds family is now demanding that her murder be investigated as a hate crime.I do feel like it was a hate crime, her cousin Mariyah Phillips told the Chicago Sun-Times. I want to start [bringing] awareness [that] people are really attacking that community. I want people to know that they are being attacked.Hate crimes against gender identity have increased in recent years, according to the U.S. Department of Justice (DOJ). While the DOJ recorded two gender identity-related hate crimes in 2020 and zero in 2021, that number rose to 9 in 2022 a 350% increase from 2020. The number of gender identity-related hate crimes may actually be higher as not all violence against trans and nonbinary individuals gets reported to police. Furthermore, police, the media and victims families sometimes misgender victims, essentially erasing their trans and nonbinary identities in the process.According to the 2017-2022 Transgender Homicide Tracker, 73% of all confirmed homicides against Black trans women involved a gun.

Taylor Swift's political silence is under increased scrutiny after she was spotted hanging out with Brittany Mahomes at the U.S. Open.Despite denouncing Donald Trump ahead of the 2020 election, Swift has declined to openly endorse a candidate in the current election cycle, nor has she commented on American politics in any way in recent months. Considering how much star power and influence she has (Vote.org recorded over 35,000 new voter registrations after she linked the site last year), this in and of itself has been disappointing to fans.But there are additional factors compounding the frustration. For one, Trump used AI images to insinuate that Swift had endorsed his candidacy, while drawing attention to a "Swifties for Trump" movement. Despite being notoriously litigious, Swift and her camp said nothing. There's also the fact that she released a documentary in 2020 that emphasized her desire to speak out about politics and social injustices."To celebrate but not advocate felt wrong for me. Using my voice to try to advocate was the only choice to make," she said at the time. "Because Ive talked about equality and sung about it in songs like Welcome to New York, but we are at a point where human rights are being violated."And still, nothing.The latest bout of frustration with Swift's seemingly dogged refusal to comment on everything currently at stake in the U.S. comes after she was photographed cozied up to Mahomes, with whom she has become friendly ever since dating Travis Kelce. Mahomes apparently liked (and then unliked) an Instagram post from Trump recently, which is possibly what prompted him to publicly thank her for "strongly defending" him. (@) People wondered what Swift would do in the wake of Mahomes seemingly being outed as a Trump supporter, and were disappointed albeit not always surprised to find that the answer appears to still be absolutely nothing. (@) The frustration has been palpable, with numerous opinion pieces joining the chorus of complaints across social media. And while many of Swift's critics are, in fact, her fans, others have doubled down on defending her. One wrote that "Brittany Mahomes' political views have nothing to do with Taylor Swift," while others insisted "it is possible to be friends with people who don't share your political views." But things in Swift's circle don't function the same way they do for the average person. Being friends with the "Look What You Made Me Do" singer has demonstrably increased Mahomes' platform her Instagram follower count went up by over 25% the first month after they were seen together. And that's just looking at numbers; there's ultimately no way to know how much Swift's friendship has helped Mahomes increase her own reach. (@) Some fans have also simply lamented that Swift is held to a different standard than other celebrities which may be true, but in this case, she laid the groundwork for that herself with Miss Americana and her public declaration that "I need to be on the right side of history" when it comes to speaking out.So with that in mind, it's really no wonder that people are irritated with Swift's baffling decision to keep her mouth shut. If actions speak louder than words, her actions, along with her silence, sure are doing a lot to tear down the image she presented of herself in a pre-Travis, pre-Matty Healy era. (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@) (@)

Three transgender women are suing Aetna, alleging that the health insurance company has for years unlawfully denied their claims for facial feminization surgery.According to a press release from Advocates for Trans Equality (A4TE), the organization (formerly Transgender Legal Defense and Education Fund) filed a federal class action civil rights lawsuit along with Wardenski P.C. and Cohen Milstein Sellers & Toll PLLC on behalf of Binah Gordon, Kay Mayers, and a third anonymous plaintiff identified as S.N., as well as all similarly situated individuals. Related Aetna agrees to provide equal fertility coverage for LGBTQ+ people in landmark settlement Until now, LGBTQ+ people faced a queer tax that heterosexual couples experiencing infertility did not. The lawsuit alleges that Aetna has denied the three women health insurance coverage for medically necessary gender-affirming facial reconstruction surgeries and proceduresunder Aetnas categorical coverage exclusion on such treatment in violation of Section 1557 of the Affordable Care Act, which prohibits discrimination on the basis of sex in federally funded health programs and activities. Stay connected to your community Connect with the issues and events that impact your community at home and beyond by subscribing to our newsletter. Subscribe to our Newsletter today As them notes, Aetnas policy on coverage for gender-affirming surgeries can be found on its website. Its Clinical Policy Bulletin on Gender Affirming Surgery lists 10 Facial Gender Affirming Procedures as not medically necessary and cosmetic.For Plaintiffs and others like them, [gender-affirming facial reconstruction surgery] is an essential component of their gender transition and medical treatments for gender dysphoria, the suit argues. Plaintiffs medical providers recommended GAFR to treat their gender dysphoria and related distressand, as a result, to improve their overall life-functioning and well-being.The suit argues that because Aetna generally makes an individualized medical necessity determination for coverage decisions regarding similar procedures for cisgender patients, the companys categorical denial of coverage for the same procedures as part of gender transition and treatment of gender dysphoria is discriminatory.By design, it treats transgender plan holders differentlyand worsethan their cisgender counterparts, according to the lawsuit. According to A4TEs press release, Gordon and S.N. were both forced to pay for their treatment out of pocket, with Gordon paying approximately $35,000 and S.N. paying nearly $50,000. Mayers, meanwhile, has been unable to afford facial surgery and continues to experience gender dysphoria and fear for her safety.With my job, I am on the road every week, spending a lot of time in places that are not as safe for trans people as the community where I am blessed to work, Gordon said in a statement. For years, I struggled with fear and anxiety around the danger my facial features put me in while traveling and finding lodging, and even leaving my home, which made me less effective at work and impacted my weekends and all my relationships.My doctors knew I was desperate to improve my quality of life, she continued. When I was finally able to get the gender-affirming surgeries that I needed, it was like my life finally began. When I looked in the mirror, I used to see an obstacle, a laughingstock, a target, or a victim. Today in the mirror I see a capable, socially and spiritually connected, empowered and confident professional, partner, sister, and aunt. Gabriel Arkles, co-interim legal director at A4TE, disputed Aetnas position that facial feminization surgeries are cosmetic.For transgender women, gender-affirming facial surgeries are not about vanity or appearance, Arkles said. They are about providing lifesaving medical care that enables them to live full authentic lives and reduce distress caused by gender dysphoria.Aetnas refusal to cover such surgeries, Arkles added, forces many trans women to continue to suffer, and a minority to assume the major financial burden of paying out-of-pocket. Joseph Wardenski, Principal of Wardenski P.C., noted that thousands of transgender women have been denied coverage for facial surgeries by Aetna. The company has ignored the medical consensus and wrongly treated this critical health care as cosmetic, Wardenski said. Aetnas refusal to recognize the medical necessity of this critical health care is causing unnecessary harm to many transgender women on Aetna health plans.Tuesdays press release noted that in 2021, A4TE then known as Transgender Legal Defense and Education Fund brought a similar lawsuit against Aetna on behalf of four transgender women who were denied coverage for medically necessary breast augmentation surgeries. The company settled and updated its policies to cover such procedures for trans women.This past May, Aetna settled another 2021 lawsuit brought by a same-sex couple who were denied coverage for intrauterine insemination (IUI), which at the time Aetna only covered for heterosexual couples. Under the terms of the settlement, the company agreed to modify its clinical policy to ensure eligible plan members will have equal access to fertility treatment regardless of sexual orientation.