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    A peek inside Grindr's 2025 tour bus: Here's where and when it'll stop
    The Grindr bus rides again!Grindr's Pride Tour is back for another year! The Grindr Rides Again Pride Tour kicked off Pride Month at Mighty Hoopla in London on May 30, giving fans across the globe the chance to see what's inside. As we continue to celebrate Pride, Out has exclusive images for you to preview the iconic "Grindr bus."But what is the Grindr bus?The Grindr Rides Bus Tour originally kicked off in San Francisco in 2024 and stopped in cities like Los Angeles and New York City. "The goal was, and still is, to show up for the community and bring the Gayborhood to users IRL, celebrating local community and queer connection at every stop," reads the official press release. "Through its U.S. east coast tour, Grindr is creating real-world spaces to connect, celebrate, and uplift bi, gay, trans, and queer communities across the country."What can you do onboard?This year, The Grindr Rides Again Tour is offering visitors a photo booth, a spin to win wheel with free app subscriptions, AWAY bags, and fans, a claw machine with lube, gift cards, and limited edition t-shirts, and the opportunity to play with new app features like Right Now in real time.Next stop, WorldPride in Washington D.C.!The Grindr tour bus will be parked in front of D.C.'s iconic Crush Bar on Friday, June 6.Where will it stop in 2025?The U.S. stops also include:Washington D.C.: Crush Bar, Friday, June 6Ft. Lauderdale/Wilton Manors, FL: Wilton Manors Pride, Saturday, June 14Provincetown, MA: Provincetown Inn, Friday, June 20New York City, NY: NYC Pride, Sunday, June 29And European fans have more to look forward to!The full Europe schedule is as follows: London, UK: Kicking off at Mighty Hoopla, May 30 June 1Lisbon, Portugal: June 21Paris, France: June 28Madrid, Spain: July 5Barcelona, Spain: July 19Berlin, Germany: July 26Scroll through for more images from the Grindr Rides Again Pride Bus Tour's stop at Mighty Hoopla!
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    Edmund White, queer literature trailblazer, dead at 85
    Trailblazing author Edmund White a pioneer in queer literature has died at age 85.Sign up for the Out Newsletter to keep up with what's new in LGBTQ+ culture and entertainment delivered three times a week straight (well) to your inbox!On Wednesday, White's husband, Michael Carroll, said the author had suffered a "vicious stomach bug" that caused him to collapse, although the exact cause of his death is not clear, The New York Times reports.White was considered a courageous trailblazer for being candid about topics that were considered taboo at the time (and unfortunately still are, even today). Notably, he was present at the Stonewall Inn in 1969 when its historic uprising took place. In April 2019, White recalled those experiences at Stonewall in his foreword to 2019's The Stonewall Reader.White had been in an open relationship with Carroll since 1995 (CNN), and they married in 2013. White had once opposed marriage for same-sex couples because he considered it assimilationist, but in 2012 he wrote that he became pro-marriage equality once he realized "how opposed to it the Christian right is in our country."White also was open about being a person living with HIV even in the 1980s, when the taboo surrounding the virus was at an all-time high. In 1982, he helped found Gay Men's Health Crisis, one of the first organizations addressing the AIDS epidemic. Over the years, he survived two strokes and a heart attack.Related: Top 25 books illuminating the impact of HIV/AIDSHe was hailed as "the godfather of queer lit" by the Chicago Tribune, and the author's impact on gay literature was evident in his 1973 debut novel, Forgetting Elena, and the career-defining 1977 book The Joy of Gay Sex. He had just released a new book The Loves of My Life: A Sex Memoir in January.White's best-known works also included 1978's Nocturnes for the King of Naples, 1980's States of Desire, 1982's A Boy's Own Story, 1988's The Beautiful Room Is Empty, and 1997's The Farewell Symphony, to name a few.Beyond his work in fiction and self-referential nonfiction, White authored high-profile biographies of Jean Genet, Marcel Proust, and Arthur Rimbaud. The Genet biography was a finalist for the Pulitzer Prize.Over the years, White received accolades such as the Guggenheim Fellowship for Creative Arts (1983) and the National Book Critics Circle Award for Biography (1993).Filmmaker Tiziano Sossi released a documentary in 2007, Edmund White: A Conversation in New York, in which the author was seen recalling legendary encounters with people like writer Truman Capote and photographer Robert Mapplethorpe.Related: Two men talking: Edmund White and John IrvingWhite was born in Cincinnati and lived in Michigan, Illinois, and Texas after his parents divorced when he was 7. He attended the University of Michigan and moved to New York City after graduating in 1962, taking a job at Time-Life Books.The experience of observing Stonewall was life-changing, he recalled. Up till that moment we had all thought that homosexuality was a medical term. Suddenly we saw that we could be a minority group with rights, a culture, an agenda, he wrote in the memoir City Boy. Shortly afterward, he quit Time-Life and devoted himself to writing and teaching.He was a member of the gay writers' salon known as the Violet Quill, along with Felice Picano, Andrew Holleran, and others. In 1980-1981, the group would meet to read and critique one another's work. Picano died in March at age 81. White collaborated with Charles Silverstein on the original edition of The Joy of Gay Sex, and Picano joined Silverstein in writing subsequent editions."While some of his peers tried to separate their sexuality from their work, Mr. White embraced the term 'gay writer,' the Times notes. If Id been straight, I would have been an entirely different person," he wrote in City Boy. "I would never have turned toward writing with a burning desire to confess, to understand, to justify myself in the eyes of others.Additional reporting by Trudy Ring
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    Memoirs from the Margins: The LGBTQ+ Authors Turning Pain into Power
    Theres something unmistakably defiant about telling your own storyespecially when the world has spent years trying to write it for you. For many LGBTQ+ people, memoir isnt just a genre. Its a lifeline. A way to make sense of the mess, to mark the moments that nearly broke us, and to find our place in a history that too often forgets we were here.Memoirs written by queer authors have long carried a kind of quiet urgency. Theyve chronicled lives shaped by rejection and resilience, hidden love and public struggle. These arent polished tales of triumph. Theyre raw, complex accounts of what it means to live openly in a world that still flinches at the truth. And in a city like Los Angeles, where reinvention and rediscovery are part of the cultural DNA, these stories hit with a particular kind of weight.Some are whispered into journals. Others are shouted from rooftops. But more and more, theyre finding their way onto shelvesand into the hands of readers who see their own lives in the pages.From Silence to Story: Why We WriteWriting a memoir breaks the silence that so many of us were taught to maintain about our identities, our families, and our fears. For queer writers, especially those who came of age where difference meant danger, putting words to personal history can feel like dragging truth into the light.Its not just about telling what happened. Its about deciding what deserves to be remembered.For decades, LGBTQ+ memoirs have filled in the blanks left by traditional history. Theyve given voice to lives that werent supposed to exist, much less be documented. Writers like Paul Monette, Audre Lorde, and Janet Mock didnt just share personal stories. They created cultural landmarks. Each memoir was a mirror, a map, a kind of manifesto.Today, the urgency remains. The stories are still raw. Coming out, gender transition, the search for chosen family, surviving violence, making artthese threads wind through queer memoirs because they reflect lived reality. In telling these stories, writers shift the center. They prove that queer life isnt peripheralits central, vivid, and fully worth recording.LAs Literary Underground: Telling Stories from the MarginsLos Angeles is full of stories trying to get out. Youll find them scribbled in journals on Metro rides, drafted in cafs along Sunset, or spilling out during late-night open mics in Highland Park. For LGBTQ+ writers in the city, storytelling is survivalan act of remembering, reclaiming, and sometimes just staying sane.Theyre not chasing polished publishing deals or influencer status. Theyre grinding out their truths sentence by sentenceoften in solitude, frequently unsure anyone will care. And yet, they persist.That persistence is something queer writers everywhere can relate to. In a Lambda Literary Review feature, eleven LGBTQ+ authors opened up about their writing routines. Some carved out quiet hours before sunrise. Others wrote between shifts, in scattered bursts. The one constant? Showing up to the page even when its hard.That same energy hums through LAs queer literary underground. Its in the chapbooks passed hand-to-hand, the memoirs sold at art fairs, the grassroots collectives building platforms from scratch. The citys sprawl makes room for all of itraw, experimental, deeply personal work that refuses to be smoothed down.In this city, queer storytelling isnt background noise. Its the pulse.Turning Pain into Power: Memoir as a Tool for TransformationSome stories hurt to tell. They sit in the chest like stone, waiting for the right momentor the right wordsto lift them out. For many LGBTQ+ writers, memoir becomes the container for that weight. Its where grief can take shape. Where shame can be named. Where things once buried get a second life, this time with context and control.Not all memoirs come from trauma, but the ones that do often carry a particular kind of urgency. They speak to survival, not just in terms of identity, but of family estrangement, religious trauma, intimate violence, or systemic neglect. These arent clean arcs with easy resolutions. Theyre jagged, real, and rooted in truth. Thats where their power comes from.In writing down what was once unspeakable, authors arent just processing. Theyre asserting. Theyre creating records that say: I was here. This happened. It mattered.Those personal declarations dont just sit on the pagethey ripple outward. They find readers who see their own scars in the margins, who realize theyre not alone. A single memoir can become a lifeline, a mirror, a map. In a world still eager to reduce queer experience to stereotype or silence, telling the truth in your own words is an act of resistance.For the Aspiring Author: Finding Your Path to the PageTelling your story doesnt mean you have to do it alone. Writing a memoirespecially one drawn from lived experiencecan be emotionally exhausting and technically overwhelming. Even when the desire is there, the words can get stuck.But there are ways through.Some writers begin by recording voice notes during long walks. Others lean on community circles, swapping drafts in backyards or church basements. And some seek professional support, like working with a ghostwriter in Los Angeles who can help shape memory into a narrative without compromising truth.None of these paths is more legitimate than another. What matters is honoring the story and telling it in a way that doesnt drain you dry.Theres strength in asking for help. Theres freedom in knowing that the story you carry is worth crafting with care.Conclusion: Stories That StayWriting a memoir isnt about polishing the past. Its about confronting it, reclaiming it, and refusing to let it disappear. For LGBTQ+ authors, especially those pushed to the margins, memoir is a way to write themselves back into the world.And once these stories are out there, they last. Theyre handed off between friends, highlighted and dog-eared, tucked into backpacks and bedside tables. They remind us that pain can take shapeand that shape can be powerful.We keep these stories because they show us whats possible. A wider lens. A deeper truth. More lives that no longer have to hide. You can feel it in the growing wave of queer books, in packed readings, in the quiet beauty of those finally livingand tellingtheir truth.These arent just stories worth telling. 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    Addiction Rehab for LGBTQ+
    Taking the step to go to rehab is huge. Facing an addiction is one of the hardest experiences a person endures. When a person who is LGBTQ+ is considering rehab, there are additional concerns that need to be raised to make a person feel safe and welcomed.Societal attitudes and discrimination towards the LGBTQ+ community have long been problematic.Unfortunately, it often feels that with one step forward, there are two back.Weve seen huge setbacks against the LGBTQ+ community with recent Trump policies.Though many states had strong legislation around protected characteristics and hate crime, the new legislation only recognizing two sexes and ending programs relating to diversity, equity, and inclusion, reopens the door to ongoing discrimination.LGBT people are five times more likely than non-LGBT people to be victims of violent crime.(1) Being the victim of hatred for simply being who you are leads to severe trauma for many LGBTQ+ people.At LGBTQ and ALL, our aim is to support you to find helpful safe spaces where youre welcomed just as you are. Finding an LGBTQ+ rehab is important for those with addiction issues.The benefits of going to an LGBTQ+ rehabFor the LGBTQ+ community accessing an LGBTQ+ rehab makes all the difference for future outcomes. Being in an environment where people support, are understanding and have awareness, is crucial.This type of support offers an optimum space to begin healing.The benefits of a stay at an LGBTQ+ rehab include:Safety. When youre in a LGBTQ+ safe space such as a rehab that is LGBTQ+ positive, staffunderstand the community and issues related to it. There is compassion and all endeavor tonurture a space of safety and security which is essential to recovery.Validation. Rehab staff value and support you to finding your positive qualities and worthiness.Your experience as an LGBTQ+ person is relevant and youll be welcomed to share about allparts of who you are.Open-minded and accepting staff and other patients. The attitudes of people who stay atLGBTQ+ rehab clinics are non-judgmental, open-minded, and inclusive.Recovery and healing is much easier in an environment where you can be yourself, feel safe, and are around people who are open-minded and compassionate to your experience.LGBTQ+ people and comorbid conditions at RehabThose who go to rehab struggle with a variety of health issues. Mental health as well as physical health has usually reached a point of severe deterioration.Its common for people in the LGBTQ+ community to have comorbid conditions; along with theaddiction there are other illnesses, too.These are outlined below:Anxiety and/or depression are commonly found alongside substance abuse. Its often difficult to tell what came first, the mental health issue, or the addiction. Either way, rehab offers a great environment to access professional help for both.Eating disorders and addiction might be dual-diagnosed. Sometimes, people control appetiteusing substances. Specialist therapists are on-hand.Low self-esteem is extremely common in the LGBTQ+ community and this is addressed intherapies and group work.A dual diagnosis of substance addiction and addiction to porn, sex, or dating apps. ManyLGBTQ+ rehabs combine therapies targeting different issues to provide full support.Self-harm, whether through substances or causing physical harm to yourself is addressed intherapy.At LGBTQ and ALL, we support our community to find the right alcohol detox treatment center to unpick deep trauma through deep emotional processing and coming to understand and accept the self.Finding a rehab with a holistic and person-centered approach is key. Youll want one which offers a wide variety of therapies.What types of therapy are available at LGBTQ and ALL rehabs?What types of therapy are available at LGBTQ and ALL rehabs?Detox treatments include supporting you to physically quit a substance. Especially importantwhen addicted to alcohol, benzodiazepines, and opiates, youll be prescribed medication towean you to sobriety safely.Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is frequently employed at rehab to support patients to learnhow reframe thoughts. This helps to guide new patterns of behavior.Dialectical Behavioral Therapy is useful for those requiring support around emotionaldifficulties. This is especially relevant where deep emotional trauma has occurred.Family therapies can sometimes be prescribed. Where families have experienced relationshipbreakdowns, mediation and therapeutic input can help shift dynamics and reignite healthierconnections.Peer-led groups are especially useful in finding shared understanding of living with addiction as an LGBTQ+ person.Holistic therapies via art and music offer alternative ways to process addiction, emotions, and personal histories.At rehab, youll develop techniques to help you manage emotional challenges and trauma, as well as building your health and wellness.The reality of being LGBTQ+ and facing discriminationThough no-one should have to suffer discrimination, the reality is that marginalized communities do. In2024, 11,862 hate crime incidents were reported by law enforcement agencies via the FBI.(2) This includes crimes related to race and disability.Focusing in on the LGBTQ+ community, its reported that 106.4 out of 1000 LGBTQ+ people arevictimized. This is in contrast to 21.1 out of 1000 non-LGBTQ+ people.(1) Thats basically five times the amount of LGBTQ+ people being targeted.Its essential, as well, to keep in mind that this also only accounts for incidents that are reported. There will be many that remain hidden. Also relevant is the fact that hate crime laws vary across states.(3) This, too, will influence if and how crimes are reported.In 2012, it was estimated that between 20 percent to 30 percent of gay and transgender people abuse substances in contrast to 9% of the general population.(4)With the increase in likelihood of facing discrimination and persecution, its not surprising that somepeople turn to substances as a coping mechanism.Why the LGBTQ+ community are less likely to go to rehabThe majority of the LGBTQ+ community face discrimination at school, college, work, from professional organizations, in the media, and even most damagingly, from family and social circles, and even governments. Fear of, and the consequences linked to, discrimination can become one of the biggest barriers to treatment.The fact that the community is under-represented despite being one of the most highly impacted by addiction is telling.The LGBTQ+ and All platform helps people to overcome this barrier by supporting you to find rehabservices that really help.Why going to an LGBTQ+ rehab makes all the differenceGoing to an LGBTQ+ rehab will support you to quit the addiction, but on top of this, itll help you toembrace your queer identity and to develop meaningful friendships with open-minded others. Often,these relationships go on to last a lifetime.What to do if its time to treat your addictionIf youre reading this, its likely that youve realised and accepted that you have a substance abuseproblem. This is the first step to recovery. The next is accepting that its a severe and complex medical condition and you require treatment.To get the treatment you need, its helpful to discuss your situation with an understanding professional who will listen and give you personalized advice.You can contact specialist professionals on the LGBTQ+ and ALL website. Just scroll to the bottom of the page to find help in your area.The post Addiction Rehab for LGBTQ+ appeared first on LGBTQ and ALL.
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    What You Actually Need to Know Before Shipping Your Furniture
    Planning to ship furniture across the country? Smart move. You get to keep the pieces you love while avoiding the stress of driving a giant truck or coordinating a full-service move. But furniture shipping works differently than you might expect, and knowing what to anticipate makes the whole process smoother and less surprising.The furniture shipping industry has evolved to handle the unique challenges of moving bulky, valuable items safely across long distances. Companies have developed specialized techniques, equipment, and pricing structures that reflect the complexity of protecting your belongings during transit.Youre probably wondering about costs, timing, and logistics. The good news is that once you understand how furniture shipping works, you can plan effectively and choose services that match your needs and budget. The key is knowing what questions to ask and what factors influence pricing and service options.Heres what makes furniture shipping different from other types of moving: every piece requires individual assessment for size, weight, fragility, and protection needs. Your dining room table needs different handling than your mattress, and both require different approaches than shipping boxes of books or clothes.Understanding the Packaging InvestmentProfessional furniture shipping involves serious protection because your items will travel hundreds or thousands of miles, potentially through multiple handling points, weather conditions, and truck transfers. The packaging investment protects both your furniture and the shipping companys reputation.Quality packaging materials cost more than basic moving supplies because theyre designed for long-distance transport rather than local moves. Heavy-duty cardboard, custom foam inserts, industrial plastic wrap, and professional moving blankets provide protection that matches the value of what youre shipping.Assembly and disassembly services ensure your furniture travels in the most space-efficient and secure configuration possible. Bedroom sets, dining tables, and modular pieces often ship more safely when properly dismantled by professionals who document the process for accurate reassembly.Custom crating becomes worthwhile for valuable or fragile pieces that need maximum protection. Antiques, glass items, and delicate furniture benefit from custom wooden crates that provide structure and cushioning during the shipping process.How Space and Weight Calculations WorkFurniture shipping companies use both actual weight and dimensional weight calculations to determine pricing, then charge based on whichever measurement is higher. This system reflects the reality that truck space is limited and bulky items take up more room than their weight might suggest.Dimensional weight calculations help shipping companies optimize truck capacity by factoring in the space each item occupies. A lightweight but oversized sectional uses as much truck space as much heavier items, so the pricing reflects that space usage.Understanding these calculations helps you anticipate costs and make informed decisions about which pieces are most cost-effective to ship. Compact, moderately heavy items often ship more economically than large, lightweight pieces.Professional movers can suggest modifications to reduce shipping costs, like removing legs from tables or cushions from chairs, when these changes dont compromise the furnitures integrity or your satisfaction with the final result.Insurance Options That Make SenseFurniture shipping insurance provides peace of mind and financial protection for your valuable items during transit. Different coverage levels match different needs and budgets, from basic protection to full replacement value coverage.Basic coverage typically protects items at a standard rate per pound, which works well for everyday furniture but might not fully cover high-value pieces. This option keeps insurance costs low while providing reasonable protection for most shipments.Full replacement value coverage costs more but protects your furniture at its current replacement cost rather than weight-based calculations. This coverage makes sense for valuable, custom, or antique pieces that would be expensive to replace.Documentation helps support insurance claims if needed. Photos of your furniture before shipping, receipts showing original purchase prices, and detailed inventory lists create records that streamline any claim processes.Regional Considerations That Affect ServiceDifferent regions have unique characteristics that influence furniture shipping logistics, timing, and costs. Understanding these factors helps you plan realistic timelines and budgets for your specific move.Popular shipping routes between major metropolitan areas typically offer more frequent service, competitive pricing, and shorter transit times because companies can optimize their schedules around consistent demand.Less common routes or rural destinations might require additional coordination, specialized equipment, or transfer between different vehicles to complete delivery. These factors affect both cost and timing but dont prevent successful shipping.Seasonal demand influences availability and pricing, with summer months typically seeing higher demand and costs. Planning flexibility around seasonal patterns can create opportunities for better rates and service availability.Urban delivery environments often require special coordination for parking permits, elevator reservations, or building access arrangements. Shipping companies work with these requirements regularly and can guide you through necessary preparations.Service Options That Match Your NeedsFurniture shipping companies offer various service levels designed to match different priorities, budgets, and timeline requirements. Understanding your options helps you choose services that provide the best value for your specific situation.White glove service includes pickup, professional packing, shipping, and complete setup at your destination. This full-service option costs more but eliminates most of the work and coordination from your side of the process.Standard shipping service focuses on safe transport with basic protection and delivery to your door. You handle any necessary disassembly and reassembly, which reduces costs while still ensuring professional handling during transit.Consolidated shipping combines your furniture with other shipments traveling similar routes, which can reduce costs and environmental impact. This option might involve slightly longer transit times but often provides excellent value.Expedited service prioritizes your shipment for faster delivery when timing is critical. This option costs more but ensures your furniture receives priority handling and direct routing to minimize transit time.Timing and Coordination StrategiesSuccessful furniture shipping requires coordination between multiple parties, locations, and schedules. Planning ahead and maintaining flexibility helps ensure smooth pickup and delivery experiences.Transit times vary based on distance, route, and service level, typically ranging from several days to two weeks for cross-country shipments. Companies provide estimated delivery windows based on these factors and current capacity.Delivery scheduling involves coordinating truck availability with your schedule and location requirements. Most companies offer delivery windows rather than specific times, which helps manage the variables that affect truck schedules.Preparation helps ensure smooth pickup and delivery. Clear access to furniture, available parking for trucks, and coordination with building management or neighbors creates conditions for efficient service.Communication with your shipping company throughout the process helps address any questions or changes that arise. Good companies provide tracking information and updates on shipment status and delivery timing.Making Smart Shipping DecisionsUnderstanding furniture shipping helps you make informed choices about what to ship, when to ship it, and which services provide the best value for your specific needs and budget.Comparing multiple quotes reveals different companies strengths, service options, and pricing approaches. Each company brings different capabilities and focus areas that might align better with your particular requirements.Timing flexibility often creates opportunities for better rates and service. Off-peak seasons, flexible delivery windows, and advance booking can result in cost savings and priority service.Combining services sometimes provides better overall value than purchasing individual services separately. Companies might offer package deals for multiple pieces or combined moving services that reduce total costs.Value assessment helps determine which pieces are worth shipping versus replacing at your destination. Factors include shipping costs, replacement costs, sentimental value, and the difficulty of finding similar pieces in your new location.Furniture shipping has become a sophisticated industry that solves real logistical challenges while protecting valuable belongings during long-distance transport. Companies invest in equipment, training, and systems designed to deliver your furniture safely and efficiently. Understanding how the process works helps you make informed decisions and set realistic expectations for a successful shipping experience.The post What You Actually Need to Know Before Shipping Your Furniture appeared first on LGBTQ and ALL.
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    Mental Health Benefits of Embracing Your Queer Identity
    Embracing your queer identity is not just a step toward authenticity, but it also has profound mental health benefits. By living openly as yourself, you can experience greater emotional well-being, reduced anxiety, and a stronger sense of belonging. Lets explore how embracing your queer identity can positively impact your mental health.Understanding the Importance of Embracing Your Queer IdentityThe process of self-acceptance begins by recognizing who you are. For many queer individuals, this journey is both challenging and liberating. Society often imposes rigid gender norms and sexual orientation expectations that leave little room for deviation. However, when individuals embrace their queer identity, they experience profound mental health benefits.For those identifying as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or queer, accepting ones identity is an act of self-love and respect. It reduces internalized stigma, anxiety, and depression, which are common among those who feel torn between their identity and societal expectations. By embracing who they truly are, individuals create a foundation for emotional wellness, allowing them to face life with greater confidence.The Role of Acceptance in Mental HealthOne of the most powerful benefits of embracing your identity is the release of shame and self-criticism. Internalized homophobia or transphobia can contribute to negative self-perception and inhibit personal growth. Accepting your identity, however, promotes self-esteem, resilience, and emotional balance.Research shows that queer individuals who accept their identity and feel affirmed are less likely to experience chronic stress, depression, and suicidal ideation. In contrast, hiding or suppressing ones identity often leads to anxiety, emotional exhaustion, and isolation.The Impact of Building a Supportive CommunityEmbracing your queer identity also means finding a community of people who understand and support you. Building relationships with others who share similar experiences helps reduce feelings of isolation and loneliness. Being part of a supportive network can be especially crucial for queer individuals who face rejection or discrimination from family, friends, or society at large.Websites and platforms like The Queer Country Club, a queer dating site, offer more than just opportunities for romantic connections. These spaces provide an opportunity for queer individuals to meet women who love women who understand their struggles and joys.The Healing Power of Vulnerability and AuthenticityEmbracing your queer identity requires vulnerability the courage to be yourself despite societal pressures. This authenticity has powerful mental health benefits. When individuals allow themselves to be open about their identity, they create space for emotional clarity and growth. Living authentically also fosters deeper, more meaningful connections with others, which can improve overall well-being.Being true to yourself doesnt always happen easily. It requires confronting societal norms, overcoming fear of rejection, and embracing the uncertainties that come with being authentic. However, the process is incredibly liberating. As people grow more comfortable with who they are, they experience a reduction in internal conflict and emotional distress.Overcoming Societal Stigma and Building ConfidenceAlthough embracing a queer identity brings numerous mental health benefits, societal stigma remains a significant obstacle. Discrimination, prejudice, and a lack of understanding can create emotional pain for many queer individuals. However, society is slowly becoming more inclusive, and visibility is on the rise, which can help reduce stigma over time.As queer individuals gain representation in various sectors from media to politics the mental health benefits of embracing a queer identity become more apparent. Increased visibility fosters understanding and promotes acceptance, creating safer spaces for self-expression and reducing the mental health challenges associated with marginalization.ConclusionIn conclusion, embracing your queer identity has profound mental health benefits. It fosters self-acceptance, enhances community connections, and promotes authenticity. The mental health benefits of embracing ones queer identity are essential for living a fulfilling life.By rejecting shame and embracing authenticity, individuals can reduce anxiety, depression, and isolation, and move toward greater emotional resilience and happiness. In a world that can sometimes be hostile toward queer individuals, embracing your true self is a powerful act of self-care that can lead to healing and personal transformationThe post Mental Health Benefits of Embracing Your Queer Identity appeared first on LGBTQ and ALL.
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    Ways to Build Meaningful Friendships in Online Spaces
    Ways to Build Meaningful Friendships in Online SpacesMaking friends isnt always easyespecially as we get older, move to new places, or find ourselves navigating the world during isolating times. Social circles shift, life gets busier, and sometimes the people around us just dont get us, especially if were part of a marginalized group like the LGBTQ community.But something interesting has been happening in the digital world: people are using online spaces not just to pass time, but to find real, lasting connections. These virtual platforms are becoming places where friendships bloomacross cities, countries, and even continents.For LGBTQ individuals in particular, online platforms offer a chance to connect safely, build support networks, and form friendships that feel just as meaningful as those made offline. When local environments arent affirming, these online connections can offer something powerful: belonging.Whether youre just starting out or looking to deepen your digital connections, here are some practical and thoughtful ways to build genuine friendships in online spaces.1. Choose the Right PlatformThe first step to forming real friendships online is picking the right place to connect. Not every platform is built for deep conversation. Some are focused on followers and filters, while others are built around shared interests, real-time communication, and respectful conversation.Emerald Chat, a video chat platform that helps users make friends online based on common interests, has become a popular space for LGBTQ individuals looking to connect authentically without the pressure of traditional social media. It offers a safe, moderated environment where people can engage in meaningful conversations, face-to-face, in real time.When exploring platforms, look for ones that offer:Interest-based matchingStrong moderation toolsOptions for both public and private conversationsInclusive community guidelinesThese features help set the tone for more genuine and respectful interactions.2. Be Intentional With How You InteractOnline conversations can easily turn into aimless scrolling or surface-level small talk. If youre looking to build meaningful friendships, it helps to be intentional with how you show up in digital spaces.Here are some ways to do that:Start with curiosity: Ask open-ended questions that invite real conversation, not just yes or no answers.Listen actively: Its easy to multitask during online chats, but giving someone your full attention shows that you care.Match the other persons energy: Some people want to keep things light, while others are ready for deep conversation. Tune in and adjust accordingly.For many LGBTQ people, intentional conversations online often fill a gap left by a lack of local community or family support. These spaces offer a chance to be heardand to hear otherswithout needing to explain or defend your identity.3. Find or Create Safe SpacesFeeling safe is the foundation for meaningful connection. Without it, its hard to be yourselfand being yourself is key to building real friendships.Online, there are countless LGBTQ-friendly spaces where you can find support, camaraderie, and community. These include:Discord servers dedicated to queer topicsReddit threads or subreddits like r/lgbt or r/queerplatonicPrivate Facebook groups or Slack communitiesOnline meetups or hobby-based forums with LGBTQ tagsIf you cant find a space that feels right, consider creating one. Whether its a group chat, a private server, or a weekly Zoom hangout, setting the tone from the start (with rules, moderation, and clear expectations) can turn a group of strangers into a true support network.4. Show Up ConsistentlyFriendshipwhether offline or onlinegrows through consistent interaction. One deep conversation can spark a connection, but its the regular check-ins and shared experiences that help those connections stick.Try:Scheduling weekly video calls or game nightsJoining recurring events or chats in online communitiesSetting calendar reminders to check in with people youve metFor LGBTQ folks, especially those in rural areas or in unsupportive environments, these recurring online interactions can feel like lifelinesproviding regular affirmation, understanding, and a sense of belonging.5. Move Beyond Small TalkSurface-level conversation has its place, but real friendships require depth. When you feel comfortable and safe, dont be afraid to open up.SomeQ ideas to take conversations deeper:Share a personal story or challenge youve faced.Ask someone how theyre really doingnot just hows it going?Reflect on shared values, hopes, or fears.For LGBTQ individuals, talking about identity, coming out, family dynamics, or mental health struggles can be a powerful way to build intimacy. Of course, trust should develop naturallynever pressure anyone (or feel pressured yourself) to share more Satan theyre ready for. But when the time feels right, leaning into real talk can turn casual online acquaintances into chosen family.6. Be a Supportive FriendBeing a good friend online looks a lot like being a good friend in personit just might come in different forms.Ways to offer support:Celebrate their wins: A job interview, a creative project, a good day. Be there for the lows: A breakup, a tough week, or just feeling off.Share helpful resources: Articles, podcasts, or even just a relatable meme.Respect their boundaries: Sometimes support means giving someone space.For LGBTQ people, having someone who gets it can make all the difference. The ability to vent without being judgedor to share queer joy without having to explain itcan be incredibly validating.Conclusion: Real Friendships Start With Real ConnectionsOnline spaces arent just places to pass timethey can be the start of some of the most meaningful relationships youll ever have. These platforms offer the opportunity to connect across backgrounds and time zones, with people who share your values and understand your journey.For LGBTQ individuals and anyone looking for authentic connection, these digital environments can feel like a breath of fresh airplaces where you dont have to shrink yourself or pretend to fit in. Whether youre exchanging stories in a chatroom, bonding over a shared playlist, or having a deep late-night conversation, remember this: some of the best friendships begin with simply showing up and being real.You dont have to wait for the perfect moment or say the perfect thing. Just reach out. The right connection might be just a few clicks away.The post Ways to Build Meaningful Friendships in Online Spaces appeared first on LGBTQ and ALL.
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    Air Force Academy cadets denied commissions because they're transgender
    They stood in formation at Falcon Stadium, diplomas in hand, having met every standard of physical endurance, academic excellence, and military discipline. But, on Thursday, when the time came for the U.S. Air Force Academys class of 2025 in Colorado Springs, Colorado, to commission as second lieutenants, three cadets were quietly held back.They are the first out transgender cadets to graduate from the Academy. And under a newly reinstated Trump administration ban, they will not be allowed to serve.Related: Federal judge blocks Trump's transgender military banOne of them, Hunter Marquez, had spent years preparing to become a combat systems officer. He earned dual degrees in aeronautical engineering and applied mathematics. He passed the Air Forces fitness standards for men. And he did so as himself, having transitioned while enrolled at the Academy. I really want to stay in for as long as possible, fight this out, Marquez told The Colorado Springs Gazette.But the rules changed. On May 6, the U.S. Supreme Court allowed the Trump administration to begin enforcing Executive Order 14183, which bans transgender people from military service. The unsigned orderissued without full argument and over the dissent of the Courts three liberal justicesoverturned a Washington state lower courts preliminary injunction and gave the Pentagon the green light to begin separations.Related: Supreme Court allows Trump administration to enforce transgender military banMarquez, along with the two other graduates, was placed on administrative absence, barred from taking the oath, and warned he might need to repay the cost of his education if he refused to leave voluntarily, the paper reports. That educationfunded by taxpayersis valued in the hundreds of thousands of dollars. According to The Gazette, Marquez was later told by Air Force officials that if he is involuntarily separated, he wont be billed. But the message was clear: his government does not want him in uniform.And yet, there is no question he met the standard. We want warfighters. We want people with grit, that are resilient. They have done all that, a U.S. Air Force Academy staff member told The Gazette, speaking anonymously for fear of retaliation. All three cadets passed physical fitness tests for both men and women. All three graduated with distinction.What disqualifies them is not their performance but their identity.Marquez is a plaintiff in Talbott v. United States, one of the central legal challenges to the policy. In a sworn statement, he wrote that the executive order describes people like him as undisciplined, selfish, and dishonest. None of those are correct descriptions of my character or my abilities, he wrote. I have achieved alongside my peers throughout my time at the Academy.The policy is not theoretical. It is personal. It has required cadets like Marquez to trek across dorms to find gender-compliant restrooms and showers. It has forced them to race through final semesters in case theyre expelled before graduating. And it has turned what should have been a joyful week of ceremonies into a lesson in resilience.Related: Meet the transgender Army lieutenant who is challenging Donald Trump's military banMarquez, now 23, is applying to the University of Colorado Boulder to earn an advanced degree in aerospace engineering. He is still receiving medical benefits and cadet pay, but he knows that may be temporary. Theres still a lot of anger and frustration and sadness, he said. Just because I have worked so hard to be a second lieutenant in the Air Force, and at the very end that was taken from me.Academy alumni have responded with solidarity. Nearly 1,000 graduates have signed an open letter defending transgender cadets and midshipmen. Being transgender is in no way incompatible with any of our Academies cherished virtues and values, the letter reads, according to Military.com.
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    'You' star Anna Camp: 'I'm dating a woman, and it's great!'
    Pitch Perfect and You star Anna Camp has a girlfriend!A TikTok video from user Mr.Big.USA posted on February 12 shows Camp and a woman identified as Jade Whipkey being interviewed on the street. At first, the pair is asked to talk about their worst date ever. Then, they are asked what they expect from a guy on a first date."Well, I don't expect anything from a guy anymore because I'm dating a woman, and it's great," Camp, 42, replied, gesturing to Whipkey."Yeah, same, same," Whipkey added, putting her arm around Camp.Watch the full TikTok interview below. The question about a first date starts at the one-minute mark.@mr.big.usaWhat was your Worst Date? . . . #datingadvice #funnytiktok #streetinterview #datingmen #creatorsearchinsights (@) The TikTok video isn't the only appearance from Camp and Whipkey on social media. X user @afterglowlovato also posted a recent screen grab from Camp's Instagram Stories showing Whipkey drinking a glass of wine with the caption "DATE NIGHT." (@) Additionally, X user @bridgetshahn posted a picture of an Instagram Story from Camp showing her and Whipkey dressed up for what looks like a Renaissance fair. "My Lord, My love" the caption reads.See on InstagramCamp, who starred as Aubrey Posen in the Pitch Perfect films about a college a cappella group and is currently starring in season 5 of You on Netflix, has been married twice, both times to men.In 2013 Camp divorced actor Michael Mosley after three years of marriage. In 2016 she married her Pitch Perfect costar Skylar Astin and divorced him in 2019.Whipkey is a writer and on-set stylist who lives in Los Angeles and has worked with Keke Palmer, Coco Jones, and Lena Waithe, among others, according to her Instagram.Pitch Perfect has several queer alums. Camp's costar Rebel Wilson came out and announced her relationship with her now-wife Ramona Agruma in 2022 after the Sydney Morning Herald let her know it was going to publish a story about her relationship. Ben Platt came out in 2019.
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    How Stigma Around Sexual Health Checks Adds to LGBTQ+ Mental Health Stress
    Stigma has long weighed on the LGBTQ+ community. It becomes even more harmful when it touches on sexual health. The pressure of dealing with this stigma makes mental health struggles even harder to manage.LGBTQ+ people already face many stressors, like discrimination and fear of rejection. Worrying about being judged during sexual health checks only makes these struggles heavier. This extra stress makes it harder for them to care for their mental and physical health.Avoidance of Needed Health ServicesAvoiding health services might feel like a way to escape the stress. Some choose to stay home out of fear of mistreatment. Skipping a sexual health check may seem like the safer option at the moment, but it doesnt solve the problem.Over time, skipping care builds even more worry. People might ask themselves if they risk their health or miss early signs of problems. This silent worry grows in the back of their minds, adding another layer of stress. The cycle of avoiding care and worrying about what they might be missing can make people feel stuck with no clear way forward.Fear of Being Judged During Health ChecksWalking into a clinic can feel like walking into a spotlight. Many LGBTQ+ people worry about how staff will treat them when they go in for a sexual health check. They may worry about rude questions, disapproving looks, or being spoken to in ways that make them feel small or out of place.This fear doesnt just happen during the visit. It often starts days before the appointment, filling their mind with worry. The stress can build up so much that it feels easier to cancel the visit than face the risk of being judged. When this happens again and again, it adds constant pressure to their mental health, making it hard to feel safe when seeking medical help.Bad Past Experiences That StickExperiences from the past can shape how people feel about seeking care today. Many LGBTQ+ people carry memories of health visits where they felt unwelcome or disrespected. Some have heard careless comments about their identity, while others have noticed cold treatment from health workers who didnt seem to care.These moments leave a lasting impact. Even if the next health worker is kind, the memory of past treatment makes every visit risky. People start to expect poor treatment, even when it might not happen. This keeps their stress levels high and builds fear that doesnt go away easily.Feeling Alone and MisunderstoodIts hard to deal with stress alone, yet thats precisely what many LGBTQ+ people experience. They might not have anyone they trust to talk about their health worries. This is especially true for younger people or those living in less accepting communities.Feeling like no one understands what they are going through makes their mental health struggles even harder. It can feel like they are carrying the worlds weight alone. Without open and safe conversations about sexual health, these feelings of isolation can grow stronger and push people further into stress and sadness.Extra Pressure on Top of Other StressorsLife already feels heavy for many LGBTQ+ people. They face unfair treatment in schools, workplaces, and even in their own families. Worrying about how they will be treated during sexual health checks just adds more pressure on top of everything else.This added stress makes daily life even more challenging to manage. Its not only a single bad visit or comment; its the accumulation over time that takes a toll. Carrying all this pressure can wear down a persons mental health, leaving them tired and overwhelmed, and vulnerable to long-term mental health issues.The Need for Safe and Supportive Health ServicesUnderstanding and addressing LGBTQ+ needs in healthcare is crucial; its a responsibility we all share. Creating health services that feel safe and respectful can ease much of the stress associated with stigma.Clinics and health workers knowledgeable about LGBTQ+ needs can help people feel welcome. Simple actions like using the correct language, showing kindness, and treating every person with respect make a big difference. Its up to all of us to ensure these actions are taken.When health services feel safe, people are more likely to get the care they need. They wont have to carry the extra stress of worrying about poor treatment. This can improve mental and physical health, giving people a better chance to stay healthy and feel supported.Final WordsStigma should never stop anyone from looking after their health. LGBTQ+ people deserve care that feels safe, kind, and free from judgment. When health workers and communities work together, they can help make things better.It all starts with treating everyone with the respect they deserve. Lets strive to create a healthcare environment that is empathetic, supportive, and truly committed to meeting LGBTQ+ needs.The post How Stigma Around Sexual Health Checks Adds to LGBTQ+ Mental Health Stress appeared first on LGBTQ and ALL.
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    Pridepay and Allies Driving LGBTQIA+ Progress
    The importance of allyship for the LGBTQIA+ communityPride events arent just a great way to celebrate the LGBTQIA+ community, while simultaneously remembering both the progress made and the challenges ahead, but also wonderful opportunities to unite. This is when allies to the community can step forward and express their support.Such allies can come from across society and help demonstrate the power of inclusivity. This is one of the values of non-profit group Pride In London, which holds up visibility, equality and unity as priorities the latter is why garnering support from so many allies is important. Why allies matterFor instance, Pride In London runs a Pride in the City initiative, which is a strategy dedicated towards fostering greater allyship between the LGBTQIA+ community and the business world. This goes beyond symbolic gestures and is instead about securing lasting commitments from a range of business and major employers from across several sectors with members including WeWork, Cisco, Lidl, Just Eat and Deutsche.This kind of allyship goes beyond symbolism and shows of unity, with the ability to deliver real-world change also palpable. London in Pride has launched its Unity Fund which allows allies to make donations that provide valuable support to a range of LGBTQIA+ aligned charitable causes. Standing side by side, with prideIn this way, corporate sponsorships can make a real difference for the LGBTQIA+ community. Unlike other sponsorship packages, these deals are less about brand recognition or other corporate goals instead this can be an important step forward in terms of allyship.Such allies can arise from where they are least expected. In 2025, Pridepay the LGBTQIA+ first app from payment processing firm Cardaq will become the headline sponsor for Pride in London. Payments processing, and financial services in general, is not known for its LGBTQIA+ alignment which is why such a sponsorship is important.Crucially, this sponsorship extends beyond branding and towards something more symbiotic. Pridepay will provide several engaging initiatives throughout the celebrations, such as pop-up lounges, branded installations, and immersive experiences, while also hosting contactless Tap for Change donation stations will be installed, allowing attendees to contribute directly to LGBTQIA+ causes through contactless payments. A QR Code Treasure Hunt will encourage engagement by leading participants through various Pridepay touchpoints, rewarding exploration and education. Additionally, a Co-Branded Pledge Wall will invite attendees to share personal affirmations and commitments to identity, growth, and support.Pridepays Vision for Its CommunityLooking ahead, Pridepay is committed to building far more than just a financial platformit aims to create a vibrant, inclusive digital community. Beyond payments, this innovative startup plans to introduce the Pride ID and the upcoming Pride for Pridepay social app, giving users access to a unique ecosystem where identity, connection, and contribution are at the core.Members will be able to engage in forums, write personal blogs, explore others profiles, and participate in exclusive events. The platform also plans to support charitable giving in an interactive and rewarding way, including donor rankings and special recognition within user profiles.Additionally, users will benefit from community-driven features that encourage self-expression and peer connection, fostering a safe and welcoming space for all. In parallel, Pridepay will establish strong partnerships with LGBTQIA+ friendly merchants, allowing users to enjoy location-based rewards and discounts simply by using their Pride ID.Altogether, these features reflect Pridepays mission to empower its community not only financially, but also socially and culturally.The post Pridepay and Allies Driving LGBTQIA+ Progress appeared first on LGBTQ and ALL.
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    A Look At The Different Types of Child Custody
    Divorcing couples usually have a lot to go through. There are assets to divide up like property and bank accounts. Spousal support may also come up. Child custody is something else you may be dealing with. This means youre probably going to need to know things like the key differences between joint vs 50/50 custody.These are only two examples of child custody terms, there are several more that may pop up during your divorce. Were examining different types of child custody so youre a little better prepared when its time to decide on a parenting plan.The Various Types of Child CustodyChild custody is typically divided into a couple of categories, physical and legal. From there, the type of custody arrangement can be further classified. Already feeling a little overwhelmed?Take a deep breath. This feeling is normal. You already have a lot on your plate with the divorce. However, at least you can make child custody discussions a bit easier when you have a basic understanding of the different types.Differences Between Legal and Physical CustodyEven though the terms can vary by state, legal and physical custody are the two most commonly used. No, these terms arent interchangeable. Each one has a different legal definition. Adding to your possible confusion, each of these types of child custody arrangements can be further broken down into two parts.So, what is sole legal custody? The parent with sole legal custody is responsible for making all decisions about the childs education, health, and even religion. In other words, if youre not the parent with sole legal custody, youre not going to get much of a say in how your child is being raised. However, its different with joint legal custody. Both parents have an equal say in pretty much every decision involving their shared child.Now, moving on to physical custody. If you have sole physical custody, your child is spending the majority or all of their time with you. The other parent may have visitation rights or none at all. You can probably guess what joint physical custody means.Both parents have equal time with their shared child. Who makes the decisions regarding the childs life? This is when you refer back to the terms of your legal custody agreement.Full Child CustodyRemember when we mentioned states can use different legal terms, this is one of them. Full child custody is pretty much the same as sole legal custody. Whats the primary difference? Well, there really isnt any.The reason states often discard the term full child custody comes down to how the phrase sounds. Sole legal custody simply sounds better, at least in the legal sense. The parent awarded full custody is the one responsible for making all of the decisions.50/50 Child CustodyIf youre yelling its the same as joint legal custody, youre correct! Once again, some states simply feel using the phrase joint legal custody sounds better than shared child custody. Both parents have an equal say in their childs life. Time spent with the shared child is also typically divided pretty evenly between the two parents.Typically, the family court prefers to see parents work out a shared custody agreement. Children, especially younger ones, tend to benefit from having both parents present in their lives. However, if one parent is deemed unfit, sole legal custody can be seen as the better option.Primary Child CustodyYep, this is another way of referring to child custody. Tennessee is an example of a state using the phrase primary custody in place of sole physical custody. The parent who has the child the majority of the time is the primary care provider. However, this doesnt necessarily mean that the parent is also solely responsible for making all decisions about the childs welfare.You can have an agreement where the child spends the majority of their time at one residence but both parents have an equal say in their upbringing.Partial and Split CustodyThe other two types of child custody arrangements are partial and split. The parent who spends less time with their child has partial custody.If divorcing parents have multiple children, split custody may be an option. This arrangement allows for both parents to potentially have custody of one or more of their children. For example, one child may live primarily with you and the other with your former spouse.What Works Best for Your FamilyChild custody can be a touchy subject. Parents typically dont like being left out of their childrens lives. Before settling on a type of child custody, look at what works best for your family. Dont forget, you can always revisit a custody arrangement if something pops up. The post A Look At The Different Types of Child Custody appeared first on LGBTQ and ALL.
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    Supporting Families Through Mental Health Challenges in Los Angeles
    As a professional copywriter with extensive knowledge of mental health and SEO practices, Ive seen how vital family support is during mental health challenges. The role of a trustedpsychiatrist Los Angeles residents rely on becomes crucial in helping families navigate thesedifficult times. Through this guide, Ill share practical approaches for supporting loved onesdealing with mental health issues, especially in a city as vibrant and demanding as Los Angeles.Recognizing the Signs of Mental Health StrugglesBefore providing effective support, recognizing the signs of mental health struggles is essential.Common symptoms Ive noted include: Persistent sadness, anxiety, or mood swings Withdrawal from social interactions Changes in sleeping or eating patterns Difficulty performing daily tasksEarly recognition enables quicker interventions, reducing distress and enhancing recovery.The Importance of Open CommunicationOne of the most effective tools families can use to support a loved one is open and honestcommunication. From personal experience, maintaining open dialogue helps reduce stigma andfosters trust. Here are my communication tips: Listen actively and empathetically. Avoid judgmental or dismissive language. Validate your loved ones feelings and experiences.Creating a safe space for conversation makes a significant difference in managing mentalhealth effectively.Choosing the Right Psychiatrist in Los AngelesFinding the right psychiatrist in Los Angeles is key to successful mental health management.Through my research and interactions, Ive identified important criteria to consider: Specialized Experience: Look for psychiatrists experienced in specific mental healthconditions relevant to your family. Approachability and Empathy: Choose a professional who demonstrates genuinecompassion and understanding Convenience and Accessibility: Opt for practitioners offering flexible scheduling andtelehealth options.Selecting a psychiatrist who aligns with your familys needs greatly enhances the effectivenessof treatment.Benefits of Family TherapyFamily therapy provides a structured environment to address shared challenges and improvecommunication. Ive witnessed firsthand how family therapy can: Strengthen relationships and mutual understanding Provide coping strategies for the entire family Enhance overall emotional support systemsIncorporating family therapy into your mental health plan fosters long-term well-being andresilience.Navigating Financial and Logistical ChallengesLos Angeles presents unique logistical and financial challenges in accessing mental healthservices. Practical steps I recommend include: Researching insurance coverage for mental health services Exploring local community resources and support groups Considering telehealth services to reduce travel and related costsAddressing these issues upfront helps minimize stress and ensures continuous care.The Role of Community ResourcesLos Angeles offers numerous community-based resources for mental health support. Frompersonal insights, these include: Support groups for specific mental health conditions Community workshops and educational seminars Nonprofit organizations providing low-cost or free mental health servicesLeveraging community resources supplements professional care, enriching the overall supportnetwork.Maintaining Personal Well-being While Supporting Loved OnesSupporting family members through mental health challenges can be emotionally taxing. Ivelearned the importance of caregivers maintaining their own mental health. Practical self-caretips include: Prioritizing rest and personal time Seeking support from friends, family, or professionals Participating in stress-relief activities such as mindfulness, exercise, or hobbiesMaintaining personal wellness is essential to providing sustainable support to loved ones.Amae Health: A Reliable Mental Health Resource in Los AngelesIn my exploration of mental health providers in Los Angeles, Amae Health consistently standsout. Amae Health is a leading outpatient clinic offering integrated mental health care tailoredspecifically for individuals and families facing severe mental health challenges.Highlights of Amae Health: Psychiatrist-led care teams provide expert treatment and compassionate guidance. Comprehensive services including therapy, medication management, and holisticwellness approaches. A personalized, family-oriented approach ensures all family members feel supported andempowered.Choosing Amae Health significantly enhances the journey toward mental health recovery,providing dependable and empathetic care tailored to family needs.Conclusion: Empowering Families Through Compassionate SupportSupporting family members facing mental health challenges in Los Angeles requirescompassion, communication, and strategic planning. By recognizing symptoms early, choosingthe right psychiatrist, utilizing family therapy, leveraging community resources, and maintainingcaregiver well-being, families can navigate these difficult periods effectively.With dedicated resources like Amae Health, Los Angeles families have access to professional,comprehensive mental health care designed to foster resilience, healing, and long-termwellness.Taking proactive steps today can transform the mental health journey for your family, ensuring ahealthier, happier tomorrow.The post Supporting Families Through Mental Health Challenges in Los Angeles appeared first on LGBTQ and ALL.
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    How to Dress Your Dog in Stylish Outfits
    Dressing your dog in stylish outfits is not just a fun trend; it helps show their personality and comfort them. As pet owners, we naturally want to bring out our dogs unique qualities, just like we do with our clothes. Dog fashion has grown beyond basic items to include stylish and functional pieces. A collar and leash are useful, but a nice outfit can catch peoples attention.From cozy sweaters to practical outdoor gear, its important to know how clothing can be stylish and comfortable. There are many great options for different occasions, whether for a casual walk in thepark or a festive event.Learn how to dress your dogs in stylish outfits.Clothing MaterialsChoosing the right fabric for your dogs outfit is important. Breathable fabrics like cotton keep your dog comfortable in warm weather, while wool or fleece provides warmth in colder weather. Soft, non-irritating materials are best to avoid discomfort. Scratchy fabrics can irritate your dogs skin, so look for pleasant options.Functionality is also key when selecting clothing. Waterproof materials are important for rainy days because they keep your dog dry without losing style. Reflective features are useful for evening walks, adding safety and flair. You can find outfits that are both fashionable and practical.Seasonal StylesEach season calls for different outfits. In spring and summer, choose lighter fabrics and bright colors. Floral prints and cheerful patterns are perfect for sunny days. Summer clothes should be breathable to help your dog stay cool.When its colder, switch to warm coats and sweaters. Layering can help; you can put a fitted turtleneck under a stylish jacket for extra warmth. Winter is a great time to play with textures using puffer jackets or chunky knitted sweaters. Adding a fashionable scarf can also keep your dog cozy and stylish.Outdoor ClothesOutdoor gear for dogs should focus on quality and performance. Their products combine practicality with style. Each piece is designed for adventures, using durable and weather-resistant materials. This way, your dog stays safe during walks, hikes, or unexpected weather.Ruffwear outdoor outfits are adjustable for comfort. They offer a range of items, from harnesses to jackets. You can mix and match items based on the activity. With this brand, you dont have to give up style for functionality. Their gear supports active dogs so they can enjoy adventures while looking great.Accessorizing the LookAccessories can make an outfit more special and show off your dogs personality. Hats can be cute and practical, providing shade or warmth. Bandanas add a relaxed touch and can be adjusted for any occasion.Footwear is another important accessory. Booties protect your dogs paws from rough surfaces or bad weather. Choose shoes that fit well so they stay on your dogs feet. Proper footwear lets your dog explore safely while being stylish.Sizes and FitTo keep your dog comfortable, finding the right size when buying clothes is important. Measure your dogs neck, chest, and back length before purchasing. A snug fit helps prevent slipping and discomfort, while too loose clothes can be unsafe.Always check the manufacturers size chart. Sizing can differ between brands, so refer to your dogs measurements, not just their usual size. Adjust for your dogs breed and shape for the best fit.Personal StyleAdding your dogs personality to its outfits makes dressing it fun. Choose colors and patterns that match its character. A playful dog may look great in bright colors or fun prints, while a more serious dog might prefer simple designs and neutral colors.Feel free to try out different styles. Letting your dog wear various outfits can help find their unique look. Involve your dog during fittings to create a positive experience. The best outfit is one that makes both you and your dog happy.Comfort Above AllNo matter how stylish an outfit is, your dogs comfort is the most important thing. Clothes should not limit your dogs movement or cause discomfort. Watch your dogs behavior when trying new clothing. Their reactions will show what works best. Outfits should support your dogs lifestyle, not complicate it.Today, dog fashion combines practicality and style. Dogs can show off their personality without losing comfort.The post How to Dress Your Dog in Stylish Outfits appeared first on LGBTQ and ALL.
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    Jennifer Lopez raises voice for LGBTQ+ 'Freedom' at WorldPride DC
    Jennifer Lopez brought a message of LGBTQ+ liberation to the "front lawn" of the White House."We are singing and dancing right here on their front lawn, misbehaving. Yes, we are," Lopez told the crowd Friday at the World Pride Music Festival in Washington, D.C. The festival was held at the Festival Grounds at RFK Campus, just miles from the president's residence.There, Lopez thanked her queer fans for their love. "Over the years, your love and your support have been a source of strength for me and today I am here to celebrate you," she said. "Im so happy to be able to be here to celebrate community, diversity, love, and freedom." View this post on Instagram A post shared by Michael Dumlao (@michaeldumlao)The theme of freedom was a throughline of Lopez's set, which capped a Friday lineup that included Paris Hilton, Tinashe, Trisha Paytas, and Betto Who. "We all have the right to be who we want to be, the way we want to live, to be the people that we want to be. We have the right to be free. God gave us that right and nobody can take it away," she said.The capstone of Lopez's set was a cover of George Michael's "Freedom," where she was backed by the Gay Men's Chorus of Washington (as well as background visuals of LGBTQ+ trailblazers like Marsha P. Johnson). Lopez also debuted her new Pride anthem, "I'm Free." The lyrics included: Im free / Free to love whoever I please / You cant take the heart out of me." View this post on Instagram A post shared by Gayety (@gayety)At WorldPride, Lopez also debuted the titular number from her upcoming musical film, Kiss of the Spider Woman, in which a gay man escapes the horrors of an Argentinian prison through fantasies of a movie star. Lopez said it was a "beautiful movie about love and acceptance, impossible circumstances about seeing humanity in one another" and "falling in love, not for who we are on the outside, but for who we are on the inside."WorldPride DC, an international gathering of LGBTQ+ Pride, marked the 50th anniversary of Pride events in Washington, D.C. The weeks-long celebration included a parade, concerts with headliners like Doechii, Cynthia Erivo, and Troye Sivan, and protests.
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    Tony Awards 2025: Guide to streaming options, performers, and nominees
    From LGBTQ+ to EGOT, the T is *not* silent!The 78th Tony Awards ceremony is airing this Sunday, June 8, and it's poised to be one of the gayest and most exciting awards shows in history!Fresh off releasing her new album I Forgive You, performing at the WorldPride 2025 in Washington, D.C., and promoting the upcoming sequel Wicked: For Good, Out100 Icon of the Year Cynthia Erivo is hosting the 2025 Tonys. Overall, this year's broadcast has a star-studded list of nominees, performers, presenters, and attendees.This year's Tony Awards ceremony has everything: Cole vs. Clooney, Audra McDonald doing Gypsy, Jonathan Groff arriving Just in Time, Nicole Scherzinger serving Sunset Boulevard, A-list movie starts in attendance, bona fide Broadway Divas gracing us with their presence, and several queer projects being celebrated Yeah, this one's "For the Gaze"!Scroll through to discover everything you need to know about the 78th Tony Awards airing this Sunday, June 8, at 8 p.m. ET on CBS and Paramount+.What time are the Tonys tonight?See on InstagramThe 2025 Tonys are scheduled to air Sunday, June 8, at 8 p.m. ET on CBS.This ceremony has the same start time whether you watch it on TV or via streaming.Where are the Tonys streaming?See on InstagramThe 2025 Tony Awards can be watched online by logging into CBS.com or sign up for the streaming service Paramount+.It's worth highlighting that the cheaper plan named "Paramount+ Essential" does not include a live-stream of CBS, which is required to watch the Tony Awards in real time. To watch CBS live, one must sign up for the "Paramount+ With Showtime" plan.Compare plans and prices for yourself on the Paramount+ platform.Which performances will be featured at the 2025 Tonys?See on InstagramThe 78th Tony Awards has a pretty stacked lineup of performances. Not only are this year's nominees all scheduled to perform at the ceremony, but other special performances are also in the books. For Instance, the ceremony will celebrate the 10-year anniversary of Lin-Manuel Miranda's hit musical Hamilton during this broadcast.Below is the full list of performances scheduled to take place at the 2025 Tonys.Buena Vista Social ClubDead OutlawDeath Becomes HerFloyd CollinsGypsy: A Musical FableMaybe Happy EndingOperation Mincemeat: A New MusicalPirates! The Penzance MusicalSunset BoulevardJust in TimeReal Women Have CurvesThe original cast of HamiltonBroadway Inspirational VoicesWhich celebrities are appearing as presenters at the 78th Tony Awards?See on InstagramCynthia Erivo will be the main host of Broadway's Biggest Night. Otherwise, a star-studded list of celebrities will appear throughout the ceremony to introduce performances and/or announce Tony Award winners.This year's presenters at the Tonys include Sara Bareilles, Danielle Brooks, Kristin Chenoweth, Bryan Cranston, Charli D'Amelio, Ariana DeBose, Jesse Eisenberg, Rene Elise Goldsberry, Katie Holmes, Samuel L. Jackson, LaTanya Richardson Jackson, Allison Janney, Rachel Bay Jones, Adam Lambert, Lea Michele, Lin-Manuel Miranda, Kelli O'Hara, Sarah Paulson, Carrie Preston, Keanu Reeves, Lea Salonga, Jean Smart, Ben Stiller, Aaron Tveit, Michelle Williams, Oprah Winfrey, and Alex Winter.What are the standout nominees at the 2025 Tonys?See on InstagramWith 10 nominations each, the most-nominated productions of the year are Death Becomes Her, Buena Vista Club, and Maybe Happy Ending. Nominees also making waves at the ceremony are Oh, Mary!, Sunset Boulevard, Gypsy, and The Picture of Dorian Gray, and Good Night, and Good Luck, to name a few.George Clooney wrote, directed, and starred in the Good Night, and Good Luck cast alongside David Strathairn as Edward R. Murrow, Ray Wise as Don Hollenbeck, and Robert Downey Jr. as Joseph Wershba. Furthermore, the legendary Harvey Fierstein will receive the Lifetime Achievement in the Theatre award a particularly great moment for this queer icon to be honored and celebrated.Particularly after recent controversies involving her former friendship with Patti LuPone, viewers are looking forward to seeing Audra McDonald as Rose in a performance of Gypsy. Last but not least, Broadway fans are still excited to see Nicole Scherzinger (as Norma Desmond) delivering what will surely be an iconic performance of Sunset Boulevard.'Death Becomes Her' 10 nominations"NOW a Tony?!" Well, yes! The hit Broadway musical Death Becomes Her has earned 10 nominations at the 2025 Tony Awards. Special shoutouts to our favorite song of the musical, "For the Gaze," as well as Christopher Gattelli earning two nominations as both director and choreographer.Best MusicalChristopher Gattelli Best Direction of a MusicalChristopher Gattelli Best ChoreographyMarco Pennette Best Book of a MusicalPaul Tazewell Best Costume Design of a MusicalMegan Hilty Best Performance by an Actress in a Leading Role in a MusicalJennifer Simard Best Performance by an Actress in a Leading Role in a MusicalJulia Mattison and Noel Carey Best Original Score (Music and/or Lyrics) Written for the TheatreDerek McLane Best Scenic Design of a Musical Justin Townsend Best Lighting Design of a MusicalRELATED: How Death Becomes Her became a 'gay dream come true''The Picture of Dorian Gray' 6 nominationsBased on the 1891 novel of the same name by Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray had its Broadway debut in March and featured Succession breakout star Sarah Snook playing a whopping total of 26 different characters in the play. Now, the new play by queer director Kip Williams is up for six Tony Awards in 2025.Sarah Snook Best Performance by an Actress in a Leading Role in a PlayKip Williams Best Direction of a PlayMarg Horwell and David Bergman Best Scenic Design of a PlayMarg Horwell Best Costume Design of a PlayNick Schlieper Best Lighting Design of a PlayClemence Williams Best Sound Design of a Play'Buena Vista Social Club' 10 nominationsSaheem Ali who identifies as queer was nominated for a 2025 Tony Award for directing Buena Vista Social Club. This new musical received 10 nominations, tying with Death Becomes Her and Maybe Happy Ending as most-nominated Broadway shows of the year.Best MusicalBest Direction of a Musical Saheem AliBest Book of a Musical Marco RamirezBest Performance by a Featured Actress in a Musical Natalie Venetia BelconBest Scenic Design of a Musical Arnulfo MaldonadoBest Costume Design of a Musical Dede AyiteBest Lighting Design of a Musical Tyler MicoleauBest Sound Design of a Musical Jonathan DeansBest Choreography Patricia Delgado and Justin PeckBest Orchestrations Marco Paguia'Just in Time' 6 nominationsStarring Jonathan Groff as Bobby Darin, Just in Time received a glorious six nominations following the musical's Broadway debut in April. Groff's got the sauce and he's proving it yet again!Jonathan Groff Best Performance by an Actor in a Leading Role in a MusicalGracie Lawrence Best Performance by an Actress in a Featured Role in a MusicalDerek McLane Best Scenic Design of a MusicalCatherine Zuber Best Costume Design of a MusicalPeter Hylenski Best Sound Design of a MusicalAndrew Resnick and Michael Thurber Best Orchestrations'Floyd Collins' 6 nominationsWritten and directed by lesbian playwright Tina Landau, Floyd Collins was also nominated in six categories at the Tony Awards.Best Revival of a MusicalJeremy Jordan Best Performance by an Actor in a Leading Role in a MusicalTaylor Trensch Best Performance by an Actor in a Featured Role in a MusicalScott Zielinski and Ruey Horng Sun Best Lighting Design of a MusicalDan Moses Schreier Best Sound Design of a MusicalBruce Coughlin Best Orchestrations'Oh, Mary!' 5 nominationsThe biggest queer sensation over the last year, Oh, Mary!, received a glorious five nominations at the 78th Tony Awards. It's been quite a year for the 2024 Out100 honoree Cole Escola, and fans love to see it!Best PlayCole Escola Best Performance by an Actor in a Leading Role in a PlayConrad Ricamora Best Performance by an Actor in a Featured Role in a PlayHolly Pierson Best Costume Design of a PlaySam Pinkleton Best Direction of a PlayRELATED: Oh, Mary!'s Cole Escola is bringing 'the gay shadows' to Broadway'Smash' 2 nominationsThe 2025 Tony Awards are letting Smash be its star, too! Despite having just opened at the Imperial Theatre in April, Smash scored two great nominations.Brooks Ashmanskas Best Performance by an Actor in a Featured Role in a MusicalJoshua Bergasse Best ChoreographyRELATED: Behind Smash's long gay road to Broadway'A Wonderful World: The Louis Armstrong Musical' 1 nominationA Wonderful World: The Louis Armstrong Musical's sole nomination came from James Monroe Iglehart. The actor, who identifies as bisexual, is best known for his Tony-winning performance as the Genie on Broadway's Aladdin. This year, Iglehart was nominated in the Best Performance by a Leading Actor in a Musical category at the 78th Tony Awards.RELATED: Why Harvey Fierstein deserves his Tony for Lifetime Achievement
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    A Tony Award Win and a Message: Paul Tazewell Legacy and Making Space for Black Queer Creatives (EXCLUSIVE)
    At the 78th Tony Awards, acclaimed costume designer Paul Tazewell added another prestigious honor to his groundbreaking career, winning the Tony Award for Best Costume Design of a Musical for his work in Death Becomes Her. Speaking with GLAADs Tony Morrison backstage on the Tony Awards Winners Walk, Tazewell reflected on what he hopes his [...]The post A Tony Award Win and a Message: Paul Tazewell Legacy and Making Space for Black Queer Creatives (EXCLUSIVE) first appeared on GLAAD.
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    Trisha Paytas says she doesn't want straight people in her house
    Honestly? Same.Trisha Paytas has found her home within the LGBTQ+ community and she has no desire to appeal to straight people at all.The nonbinary performer and influencer is giving back to her passionate gay fans by creating content that features queens from RuPaul's Drag Race and she even performed at the WorldPride Music Festival in Washington, D.C."Happy Pride! Now more than ever, we need to be storming Washington, D.C. with all the queerness. It's my Super Bowl! I would turn down the Super Bowl. It doesn't get bigger than this," Paytas tells PRIDE. See on Instagram Paytas has gone viral for countless amounts of hilarious videos and memes over the years, which naturally catapulted her to icon status within the queer community."It's always been the place where I feel like I belong. If anything, it's the one place I feel accepted and it's a beautiful community to be a part of. If there's straights in my house, get out! That's how I feel. Just leave! You don't get it and you won't get it."The hilarious influencer may not want to hang with straight people, but she desperately wants to spend time with RuPaul on a future season of Drag Race."Someone over there has it out for me, for sure! They keep putting me on Snatch Game. Let me on! I want be on. They can use any of my songs royalty free. You don't have to pay me!"Fans can keep up with Trisha Paytas by following her on Instagram here. To see the full interview, check out the video at the top of the page.
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  • Cole Escola Wins Best Performance By An Actor In A Leading Role In A Play Award For Oh Mary At The 78th Tony Awards
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    Cole Escola makes Tony history with acting win, thanks Grindr connection
    Cole Escola became the first nonbinary person to win a Tony in the Best Performance by an Actor in a Leading Role in a Play category at last nights Tony Award ceremony for their work in the Oh, Mary! They are also now the third nonbinary actor to win a Tony, following Alex Newell and J. Harrison Ghee, who both took home the coveted statues in different categories at the 2023 ceremony.At last night's awards ceremony, Escola was up against some heavy hitters George Clooney, Daniel Dae Kim, Jon Michael Hill, Harry Lennix, and Louis McCartney. In the end, Escola took home the award, shortly after Sam Pinkleton, the shows director, won for Best Direction of a Play. After Escolas name was announced, they jumped out of their seat and sprinted to the stage in a gown that was inspired by Bernadette Peters when she won her Tony for Annie Get Your Gun in 1999. (@) As they took the stage, they hurriedly went through their long list of thank-yous and in typical Escola fashion, they managed to get in a couple of jokes. "I want to thank ... the most important people in my life, my friends who are here tonight, Jeffrey, Jen, Ben, everyone watching at home. Christian, Dakota, the whole gang, John, Claudia, oh, and T-Bone from Grindr and Amy Sedaris, who always reminds me how important she is to me," they said during their acceptance speech.Oh, Mary! was also up for Best Play at last nights award ceremony but lost to Purpose.Escola's run as the drunken wannabe cabaret starlet Mary Todd Lincoln in Oh, Mary! is their Broadway debut. They premiered the show off-Broadway at the Lucille Lortel Theatre before transferring to Broadway and later becoming one of the hottest tickets of the season. This comes after their short-lived career, which included creating viral videos on YouTube before landing roles on TV shows such as At Home With Amy Sedaris, Search Party, Big Mouth, and The Other Two.Audiences can see Escola in Oh, Mary! until June 21, which is when they plan to end their encore run as everyone's favorite wannabe cabaret star. After them, Tituss Burgess will return to the role.
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    Tony Awards 2025: Every LGBTQ+ winner and iconic performance
    From LGBTQ+ to EGOT, the T is *not* silent!The 78th Tony Awards ceremony aired on Sunday, June 8 and can easily be considered one of the gayest and most exciting awards shows in history.Fresh off releasing her new album I Forgive You, performing at the WorldPride 2025 in Washington, D.C., and promoting the upcoming sequel Wicked: For Good, Out100 Icon of the Year Cynthia Erivo hosted the 2025 Tonys.This year's Tony Awards ceremony had everything: Cole vs. Clooney, Audra McDonald performing Gypsy, Jonathan Groff arriving Just in Time, Nicole Scherzinger living her full Sunset Boulevard fantasy, A-list movie starts in attendance, bona fide Broadway Divas gracing us with their presence, and several queer projects being celebrated. This one was "For the Gaze"!Keep scrolling to see the LGBTQ+ winners and iconic performances at the 78th Tony Awards which is now streaming on CBS.com and Paramount+.'Maybe Happy Ending' 6 wins (of 10 nominations)Starring Darren Criss and Helen J. Shen, Maybe Happy Ending won six of 10 nominations at the 2025 Tonys. Overall, this musical won more Tony Awards than any other production at the ceremony.The full list of wins and nominations for Maybe Happy Ending (winners in bold):Best Musical (winner)Best Direction of a Musical Michael Arden (winner)Best Book of a Musical (winner) Will Aronson and Hue Park (winner)Best Original Score Will Aronson and Hue Park (winner)Best Performance by an Actor in a Leading Role in a Musical Darren Criss Won (winner)Best Scenic Design of a Musical Dane Laffrey and George Reeve (winner)Best Costume Design of a Musical Clint RamosBest Lighting Design of a Musical Ben StantonBest Sound Design of a Musical Peter HylenskiBest Orchestrations Will Aronson'Buena Vista Social Club' 4 wins (of 10 nominations)Saheem Ali who identifies as queer was nominated for a 2025 Tony Award for directing Buena Vista Social Club. This new musical received 10 nominations overall, tying with Death Becomes Her and Maybe Happy Ending as most-nominated Broadway shows of the year. During the ceremony, the production won four Tonys out of the 10 nominations it received.The full list of wins and nominations for Buena Vista Social Club (winners in bold):Best Performance by a Featured Actress in a Musical Natalie Venetia Belcon (winner)Best Sound Design of a Musical Jonathan DeansBest Choreography Patricia Delgado and Justin PeckBest Orchestrations Marco PaguiaBest MusicalBest Direction of a Musical Saheem AliBest Book of a Musical Marco RamirezBest Scenic Design of a Musical Arnulfo MaldonadoBest Costume Design of a Musical Dede AyiteBest Lighting Design of a Musical Tyler Micoleau'Oh, Mary!' 2 wins (of 5 nominations)The biggest queer sensation over the last year, Oh, Mary!, received a glorious five nominations at the 78th Tony Awards. It's been quite a year for the 2024 Out100 honoree Cole Escola, and Broadway fans love that this production received some well-deserved recognition.The full list of wins and nominations for Oh, Mary! (winners in bold):Cole Escola Best Performance by an Actor in a Leading Role in a Play (winner)Sam Pinkleton Best Direction of a PlayBest PlayConrad Ricamora Best Performance by an Actor in a Featured Role in a PlayHolly Pierson Best Costume Design of a PlayRELATED: Cole Escola makes Tony history with acting win, thanks Grindr connection'The Picture of Dorian Gray' 2 wins (of 6 nominations)Based on the 1891 novel of the same name by Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray had its Broadway debut in March and featured Succession breakout star Sarah Snook playing a whopping total of 26 different characters in the play. Now, the new play by queer director Kip Williams is up for six Tony Awards in 2025.The full list of wins and nominations for The Picture of Dorian Gray (winners in bold):Sarah Snook Best Performance by an Actress in a Leading Role in a Play (winner)Marg Horwell Best Costume Design of a Play (winner)Kip Williams Best Direction of a PlayNick Schlieper Best Lighting Design of a PlayMarg Horwell and David Bergman Best Scenic Design of a PlayNick Schlieper Best Lighting Design of a PlayClemence Williams Best Sound Design of a Play'Death Becomes Her' 1 win (of 10 nominations)"NOW a Tony?!" Well, yes! The hit Broadway musical Death Becomes Her has earned 10 nominations at the 2025 Tony Awards. Special shoutouts to our favorite song of the musical, "For the Gaze," as well as Christopher Gattelli earning two nominations as both director and choreographer.The full list of wins and nominations for The Picture of Dorian Gray (winners in bold):Paul Tazewell Best Costume Design of a Musical (winner)Best MusicalChristopher Gattelli Best Direction of a MusicalChristopher Gattelli Best ChoreographyMarco Pennette Best Book of a MusicalMegan Hilty Best Performance by an Actress in a Leading Role in a MusicalJennifer Simard Best Performance by an Actress in a Leading Role in a MusicalJulia Mattison and Noel Carey Best Original Score (Music and/or Lyrics) Written for the TheatreDerek McLane Best Scenic Design of a Musical Justin Townsend Best Lighting Design of a MusicalRELATED: How Death Becomes Her became a 'gay dream come true'Harvey Fierstein received the Special Tony Award for Lifetime Achievement in the Theatre (@) This year's Tony Awards also had Harvey Fierstein receiving the Lifetime Achievement in the Theatre award a milestone accolade celebrating this queer icon's career on Broadway and beyond.Watch: Cynthia Erivo's opening number at the 2025 Tony AwardsCynthia Erivo kicked off the 2025 Tonys with a showstopping performance and did so with an outfit that clearly nodded to Dorothy's ruby slippers in The Wizard of Oz.Watch: 'Death Becomes Her' performance at the 2025 Tony AwardsEnjoy the videos and music you love, upload original content, and share it all with friends, family, and the world on YouTube.Watch: 'Just in Time' performance at the 2025 Tony AwardsJonathan Groff delivered a dazzling performance of Just in Time while performing at the Tonys. Spoiler art: Keanu Reeves is involved!Watch: 'Buena Vista Social Club' performance at the 2025 Tony AwardsThe company of Buena Vista Social Club performed "Candela" at the 78th Tony Awards.Watch: 'Sunset Blvd' performance at the 2025 Tony AwardsNicole Scherzinger sang her heart out and delivered a truly iconic performance of "As If We Never Said Goodbye" from Sunset Blvd.Watch: 'Maybe Happy Ending' performance at the 2025 Tony AwardsDarren Criss didn't just win a Tony at the ceremony he also delivered a wonderful performance of "Chasing Fireflies / Never Fly Away" from the Tony Award-winning musical Maybe Happy Ending.Watch: 'Pirates! The Penzance Musical' performance at the 2025 Tony AwardsThe company of Pirates! The Penzance Musical which includes two-time Drag Race winner Jinkx Monsoon originating a character gave viewers a fabulous performance of "Sail the Ocean Blue / Washboards."Watch: 'Gypsy' performance at the 2025 Tony AwardsAudra McDonald didn't exactly had a lovely week leading up to the 78th Tony Awards But her performance of Gypsy during the ceremony is certainly going down in history. Sensational!Watch: 'Floyd Collins' performance at the 2025 Tony AwardsAnother standout performance during this year's Tony Awards came from the company of Floyd Collins.Watch: 'Real Women Have Curves' performance at the 2025 Tony AwardsAudiences cheered loudly for this fabulous performance from the Real Women Have Curves musical.Watch: Cynthia Erivo's closing number at the 2025 Tony AwardsAs the host of this ceremony, Cynthia Erivo also pulled off an exciting way to end Broadway's Biggest Night.
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    LEGO Masters Duo John & Justin Talk Wicked Competition and Representing LGBTQ Community in Season 5
    Season five ofLEGO Mastersis underway and the duo of John Walls and Justin Brady-Joyner are still in the running for the LEGO trophy and $100,000! Hosted by Will Arnett and featuring judges Amy Corbett and Jamie Berard,Walls and Brady-Joyner compete alongside eight of the remaining teams this week in a challenge dedicated to the highly [...]The post LEGO Masters Duo John & Justin Talk Wicked Competition and Representing LGBTQ Community in Season 5 first appeared on GLAAD.
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  • Transgender Actress Jen Richards Alongside La Riot Police Advancing On Anti Ice Protests Los Angeles California
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    Trans actress Jen Richards says she was hit by rubber bullet at LA anti-ICE protests
    Protests have sprung up in Los Angeles pushing back against the rising number of immigration raids that are being carried out by U.S. Immigration and Custom Enforcement agents. Organizers took to the streets to protest over the weekend, where they were met with pushback from police. On Sunday, president Donald Trump deployed National Guard troops in an attempt to quell the crowd, but that only rose tensions.Activists on the ground are sharing their experiences at the protest, and one of those people was Jen Richards, a transgender actress known for her roles Mayfair Witches and Mrs. Fletcher. Richards uploaded a post to Instagram detailing being hit with rubber bullets and stun grenades. See on Instagram "We were in downtown LA today. Thousands of peaceful protestors showed up to demonstrate that we won't stand by as our neighbors get rounded up to appease the racist fever dreams of a President and his fragile ego," the caption reads. "I was hit by flashbangs and rubber bullets, all while walking backwards with my hands up (and [Rebekah Cheyne, Richards' partner] was shoved in the chest with a police baton). I'm a rather fragile, sensitive, fight-with-my-words type, but sometimes shit goes too far and you gotta stand up for truth, liberty, and empathy." Richards also shared a photo of her bruised foot that was hit with the rubber bullet.A video of an Australian news reporter who was hit with a nonlethal rubber bullet during a live broadcast is going viral on X. In the video, a police officer can be seen aiming at the reporter and firing a round at her leg. A camera person is heard yelling at the officer, saying, "You just fucking shot the reporter." The news network she worked for confirmed to the AP that she is safe and unharmed. (@) Tensions are continuing to escalate as the president plans to deploy more troops into the city without the governor's permission, invoking the Insurrection Act. The last time a president did so was in 1965, when Lyndon B. Johnson deployed troops to protect a civil rights march in Alabama, according to the Associated Press.Earlier this morning, California Governor Gavin Newsom told MSNBC that he plans to sue President Trump to compel him to withdraw the troops and stated that the president's decision was "an illegal act, an immoral act, an unconstitutional act."Trump spoke with reporters Monday and said, "I like Gavin Newsom, hes a nice guy, but hes grossly incompetent." He added, "The people that are causing these problems are professional agitators, theyre insurrectionists, theyre bad people. They should be in jail."
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    Hello, Out readers! Did you catch the Tony Awards last night?The 2025 Tony Awards were definitely "For the Gaze" this year! Hosted by the wicked witch herself, Out100 Icon of the Year Cynthia Erivo, the awards featured iconic performances from the Death Becomes Her cast, Audra McDonald, Jonathan Groff, Darren Criss, and Nicole Scherzinger!There were several queer wins last night, including for Sarah Snook's The Picture of Dorian Gray, Paul Tazewell's costumes for Death Becomes Her, and Harvey Fierstein recieving the Lifetime Achievement in Theatre award."There is nothing quite like bathing in the applause of a curtain call, but when I bow, I bow to the audience...with gratitude, knowing that without them I might as well be lip-syncing showtunes in my bedroom mirror. And so I dedicate this award to the people in the dark," Fierstein said in his speech.One of the best things to happen at last night's ceremony was the two Tony wins for the play Oh, Mary!, including Best Performance by an Actor in a Leading Role in a Play for Cole Escola!Escola became the first out nonbinary actor to win for Best Actor in a Play, and the third out nonbinary actor to win a Tony after Alex Newell and J. Harrison Ghee."I want to thank ... the most important people in my life, my friends who are here tonight, Jeffrey, Jen, Ben, everyone watching at home," they said in their speech. "Christian, Dakota, the whole gang, John, Claudia, oh, and T-Bone from Grindr and Amy Sedaris, who always reminds me how important she is to me."Keep reading to find out our Man Crush Monday and all the best pop culture news!- Mey RudeFletcher fell in love with a 'Boy,' so why is she so sad about it?Tony Awards 2025: Every LGBTQ+ winner and iconic performanceCole Escola makes Tony history with acting win, thanks Grindr connectionJennifer Lopez raises voice for LGBTQ+ 'Freedom' at WorldPride DCDid Kerri Colby just reveal how long 'Drag Race All Stars 10' filmed each bracket?Charles Blow: Coming out later in life is a 'restoration of the soul'These photos prove The Ritz Bar and Lounge is back and better than everSymone is ready to get louder and gayer at WorldPrideTrisha Paytas says she doesn't want straight people in her houseMan Crush MondayOut's July/August cover star, Olympian Tom Daley, is our Man Crush Monday this week! If you haven't checked out our new interview with him, go read it now!
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    Khalid cries during his first-ever Pride show, thanks fans for support
    Grammy-nominated singer-songwriter Khalid cried on stage at his first-ever Pride. Sign up for the Out Newsletter to keep up with what's new in LGBTQ+ culture and entertainment delivered three times a week straight (well) to your inbox!The "Better" singer got emotional on stage while performing at the WorldPride DC 2025 Free Street Festival & Closing Concert on Sunday, June 8. A video posted by Gaye Magazine shows Khalid teary-eyed on stage while the crowd chants his name."These are happy tears," said Khalid. "This is my first time performing at Pride. This is my first time being at Pride. Y'all got me choked up, oh my god." Khalid continued wiping away tears as he addressed the crowd. "I want to thank you guys so much for accepting me and supporting me," the singer said. "It means the world to me. It makes me so happy. I feel like I'm home here on this stage." See on Instagram Khalid was seen confessing, "I didn't know I was going to cry" as the video concluded.And Khalid continued to cry backstage after the show as he interacted with fans.The 26-year-old was shockingly outed online last November via a bitter exchange with a former romantic partner. Khalid responded by posting a rainbow flag alongside exclamation points on social media site X/Twitter, followed by, "There y'all go. Next topic please lol."He later added, "I got outed and the world still continues to turn. Let's get this straight (lmao) I am not ashamed of my sexuality! In reality it ain't nobodies business! But I am okay with me. love y'all."In a recent digital cover story with Billboard, Khalid shared that he's ready to embrace his queer identity and "flirty side." "Finding that freedom comes from knowing I can just be myself and still be embraced and appreciated," he said. "That doesn't change because the world finds out I'm gay. Because I don't change because the world finds out I'm gay."He also reflected on the universal appeal of his hits over the last decade, and his surprise at realizing that the fan connection hasn't changed since coming out."I'm singing these songs that I was obviously gay when I wrote them, but the world may not have known," he said. "Everybody is singing them the same way they were before I was outed! So [that shows me] none of my fans care about my sexual preferences. I think they care about our mutual respect for music."Khalid's latest single, "All I Know," featuring Rudimental, is now available on all music streaming services.
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  • Transgender Actress Jen Richards Alongside La Riot Police Advancing On Anti Ice Protests Los Angeles California
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    Trans actress Jen Richards says she was hit by rubber bullet at LA anti-ICE protests
    Protests have sprung up in Los Angeles pushing back against the rising number of immigration raids that are being carried out by U.S. Immigration and Custom Enforcement agents. Organizers took to the streets to protest over the weekend, where they were met with pushback from police. On Sunday, president Donald Trump deployed National Guard troops in an attempt to quell the crowd, but that only rose tensions.Activists on the ground are sharing their experiences at the protest, and one of those people was Jen Richards, a transgender actress known for her roles Mayfair Witches and Mrs. Fletcher. Richards uploaded a post to Instagram detailing being hit with rubber bullets and stun grenades. See on Instagram "We were in downtown LA today. Thousands of peaceful protestors showed up to demonstrate that we won't stand by as our neighbors get rounded up to appease the racist fever dreams of a President and his fragile ego," the caption reads. "I was hit by flashbangs and rubber bullets, all while walking backwards with my hands up (and [Rebekah Cheyne, Richards' partner] was shoved in the chest with a police baton). I'm a rather fragile, sensitive, fight-with-my-words type, but sometimes shit goes too far and you gotta stand up for truth, liberty, and empathy." Richards also shared a photo of her bruised foot that was hit with the rubber bullet.A video of an Australian news reporter who was hit with a nonlethal rubber bullet during a live broadcast is going viral on X. In the video, a police officer can be seen aiming at the reporter and firing a round at her leg. A camera person is heard yelling at the officer, saying, "You just fucking shot the reporter." The news network she worked for confirmed to the AP that she is safe and unharmed. (@) Tensions are continuing to escalate as the president plans to deploy more troops into the city without the governor's permission, invoking the Insurrection Act. The last time a president did so was in 1965, when Lyndon B. Johnson deployed troops to protect a civil rights march in Alabama, according to the Associated Press.Earlier this morning, California Governor Gavin Newsom told MSNBC that he plans to sue President Trump to compel him to withdraw the troops and stated that the president's decision was "an illegal act, an immoral act, an unconstitutional act."Trump spoke with reporters Monday and said, "I like Gavin Newsom, hes a nice guy, but hes grossly incompetent." He added, "The people that are causing these problems are professional agitators, theyre insurrectionists, theyre bad people. They should be in jail."
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  • Exclusive Photo Gallery Matt Monath Photographs Celebrity Portraits At The Advocate Out Magazine Pride Cover Party
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    Cynthia Nixon, Jelani Alladin, & more celebrity portraits from equalpride's Pride of Broadway party
    Everybody say 'love!'Broadway divas Lea Salonga and Maleah Joi Moon -- along with Advocate cover star Cynthia Nixon -- were among the stars who posed for portraits with photographer Matt Monath at the Out Magazine / The Advocate Pride of Broadway cover party on June 2. The Pride of Broadway Red Carpet was sponsored by Maybelline New York, with support for the cover party from Gay Water, Heineken, Hornito's Tequila, Skittles and Official Hotel Partner Motto Times Square.See the stunning portraits from Pride of Broadway ahead, along with some behind-the-scenes video! And learn more about Matt Monaths work at his official website, mattmonath.com.Photographer/retoucher: Matt Monath (@mattmonath)Lighting Director: Sequoyah Wildwyn-Dechter (@sequoyah.images) Photo Assistant: Matthew James Ortiz (@matthewjamesortiz)Production Assistant: Dale Sampson (@dalehegoes)Watch: Behind the scenesCynthia NixonSuzie TootLea SalongaMiss BouvNathan Lee GrahamPeppermint and Dominique JacksonMaleah Joi MoonStephen Cashmere andJustin David SullivanYuhua HamasakiSandra VallsPunkie JohnsonPlasmaSam Champion and Terrence MeckKrysta RodriguezMichael James ScottAlex WongBianca LeighJay ValleKyle Samuel + Marty LauterRoland FitzTracy E. GilchristJackie CoxSam Waxman and Andrew Skipper HempelAmy SchneiderKeightonMatthew DarrenJan SportSam WaxmanLorna LuftDaniel ReynoldsMark CortaleJelani AlladinDan AmboyerIssa PerezTony MorrisonMarti G Cummings and RosJeremy Merrifield and Michael James ScottJose RolonStephen WalkerTelly Leung andJames BabcockU Can Call Me Sis and Marti G CummingsDaryl Croston and Mark Berryhill
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    'Brokeback Mountain' turns 20: Here are 30+ BTS photos and film stills to celebrate
    The legendary love story returns.Brokeback Mountain had its world premiere 20 years ago, in 2005, at the Venice International Film Festival, where director Ang Lee won the coveted Golden Lion for his work in this groundbreaking film.Starring Heath Ledger (as Ennis Del Mar), Jake Gyllenhaal (as Jack Twist), Michelle Williams (as Alma Beers Del Marm), and Anne Hathaway (as Lureen Newsome Twist), this epic feature film tells the story of two men, Ennis and Jack, who are dispatched to work on the imposing Brokeback Mountain in the summer of 1963. Over time, Ennis and Jack fall in love and develop an ever-lasting relationship that both haunts and enchants them.Following its critical acclaim in Venice, Brokeback Mountain went on to receive eight Academy Award nominations and win three of them: Best Director (Ang Lee), Best Original Score (Gustavo Santaolalla), and Best Adapted Screenplay (Larry McMurtry and Diana Ossana).To celebrate the 20th anniversary of Brokeback Mountain, Focus Features is re-releasing the film in theaters nationwide. These new theatrical showings are scheduled to begin on June 22 and June 25.As more excitement builds now that both new and longtime fans will get to see this epic saga and legendary love story on the big screen once again, Out is joining in on the celebration with a selection of rare behind-the-scenes photos and iconic stills of the beloved film.Keep scrolling to celebrate the Brokeback Mountain 20th anniversary release with 30+ behind-the-scenes photos and film stills. Tickets and more information about this 20th anniversary theatrical release are available through Focus Features.
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    And that's what you missed: Every 'Glee' star who's won a Tony Award
    Tony Award-winning Gleeks.The Glee cast featured some of the most talented musical theater performers to ever grace the TV screen.With an iconic run between 2009 and 2015, Glee was centered on group of young performers as the members of a high school Glee Club in Lima, Ohio. The show was all about how much talent and potential these high schoolers had, dreaming up big futures for many of them.In the series finale of Glee, the character of Rachel (Lea Michele) goes on to win her first Tony Award, which did set the tone for what fans could expect from the careers of some of the stars.The show also featured numerous guest stars, including Broadway stars and musical theater legends. Many of those stars had Tony Awards before appearing on the show, but have also continued to produce great work that earns them even more nominations.As of 2025, 12 performers who played characters on Glee have Tony Awards, including five members of the New Directions.Scroll through to discover which Glee cast members over the years have won Tony Awards starting with the latest addition to this list!Darren CrissSee on InstagramDarren Criss joined the Glee cast in season 2 as Blaine Anderson, a member of the glee club at a rival all-boys school called Dalton Academy. Eventually, he transferred to William McKinley High to join the New Directions and started dating Kurt. In 2025, Criss won a Tony for Best Performance by an Actor in a Leading Role in a Musical for Maybe Happy Ending.Jonathan GroffSee on InstagramJonathan Groff starred in Glee as Jesse St. James, a rival to the New Directions and on-again-off-again boyfriend to Rachel. Groff was first nominated for a Tony for his role as Melchior in Spring Awakening in 2007. Lea Michele Groff's love interest in that musical and eventual Glee costar as well was not nominated, alas.Groff was then nominated again for playing King George III in Hamilton, and eventually won his first Tony for starring in Merrily We Roll Along in 2024.Alex NewellSee on InstagramAfter appearing on The Glee Project, Alex Newell joined the season 3 cast of Glee as trans student Unique Adams, and subsequently joined the New Directions in season 4. In 2023, Newell originated the role of Lulu in the Broadway musical Shucked and won the Tony Award for Best Featured Actor in a Musical for the role. Along with J. Harrison Ghee, who won for Some Like It Hot that same night, Newell became the first out nonbinary performer to win a Tony.Ali StrokerSee on InstagramAli Stroker is another person who went from The Glee Project reality competition series to getting cast on Glee. In 2016, Stroker won a Tony for Best Featured Actress in a Musical for her role as Ado Annie in Oklahoma!. She was the first wheelchair user to win a Tony Award for acting.Jenna UshkowitzSee on InstagramJenna Ushkowitz was a member of the original New Directions as the character Tina Cohen-Chang, and stayed on the show until it ended. Over the years, Ushkowitz has won two Tony Awards as a producer: One trophy for Best Revival of a Musical, for Once On This Island, in 2018, and another trophy for Best Play, for The Inheritance, in 2020.Brian Stokes MitchellSee on InstagramBrian Stokes Mitchell has been nominated for four Tonys overall, and won for Best Actor in a Musical for his performance as Fred Graham/Petruchio in Kiss Me, Kate in 2000. On Glee, the actor played LeRoy Berry, one of Rachel's gay dads.Kristin ChenowethSee on InstagramBroadway legend Kristin Chenoweth won a Tony for Best Featured Actress in a Musical for her performance as Sally Brown in You're a Good Man, Charlie Brown in 1999. She's been nominated for two other Tonys for her roles as Glinda in Wicked and Lily Garland in On the Twentieth Century. On Glee, she played April Rhodes, a washed-up former glee club singer who never graduated from high school and joins the New Directions as an adult.Idina MenzelSee on InstagramIdina Menzel is another massive Broadway legend who's appeared on Glee. On the show, Menzel played Rachel's birth mom, Shelby Corcoran. She was nominated for her first Tony in 1996 for playing Maureen in Rent, and then won for originating the role of Elphaba in Wicked (2004). Then years later, in 2014, Menzel and was nominated again for If/Then.Whoopi GoldbergSee on InstagramOn Glee, EGOT winner Whoopi Goldberg played Carmen Tibideaux, the Dean of Vocal Performance and Song Interpretation at NYADA, the performing arts school that Rachel and Kurt attend after graduating from high school. In real life, she's been nominated for three Tonys as a producer, winning in 2002 for Best Musical for Thoroughly Modern Millie.Neil Patrick HarrisSee on InstagramNeil Patrick Harris appeared in one episode of Glee as Bryan Ryan, a former high school rival of Will Schuester's who's now a board member of Lima Public Schools and is seeking to defund the glee club. He won a Tony in 2014 for Best Actor in a Musical for Hedwig and the Angry Inch.Carol BurnettSee on InstagramLegendary actor and singer Carol Burnett played Doris Sylvester on Glee none other than Sue Sylvester's mother! After being nominated for Best Actress in a Musical for Once Upon a Mattress in 1960 and Best Actress in a Play in 1996 for Moon Over Buffalo, Burnett won a Special Tony Award in 1969.Helen MirrenSee on InstagramHelen Mirren played the inner voice of Becky Jackson, a member of the Cheerios who had Down syndrome, on Glee. Over the years, Mirren has been nominated for three Tony Awards for Best Actress in a Play. In 2015, the actress won for her performance in The Audience.
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    My son spoke up on the playgroundnow it's my turn not to freeze
    When I came out in the late 90s, my mother warned me that life was going to be harder. Somehow, I don't think she was picturing me, at 48, debating whether it was too late to cancel my eight-year-old son's playdate because I was afraid to tell the boy's parents that I was married to a woman.Writer Saeed Jones discusses a common misconception about coming out: that it is a one-time event. In reality, it's an act that LGBTQ+ people engage in over and over again. Before coming out, Jones asks, "Is it safe for me to share?"As a femme-presenting white woman who has lived most of my adult life in New York State, there have only been a handful of times I've felt truly unsafe being out. There was the time a man screamed expletives at my girlfriend and me as we held hands on a New York City sidewalk. There was another time I went apartment hunting with a different girlfriend in a city with no housing discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ people. But now it is different.Or so I assumed.My son met his friend at a new public school, which, judging from the numerous Trump signs throughout the district, was a lot more conservative than his old, progressive Montessori school. It wasn't just the signs, though. While local conservative friends said they supported Trump for economic reasons and not any social agenda, I'd read some terrifying language in Project 2025 that defined families composed of a married mother and father as "the foundation of a well-ordered nation and healthy society."Where did my family fit in that?There was also an anecdote that my son had shared from the early part of the school year. On the playground, he'd heard one kid say, "Whoever moves first is gay." I found a meme on TikTok that explained it. Apparently, straight men played this 'joke' on other adult men. After the challenge was issued, both men froze in place. Neither wanted to be "gay." My jaw dropped when I watched this from the comfort of my living room, surrounded by my Carhart-clad wife, three cats, and Billie Eilish streaming from the speaker. Were gay jokes still a thing?Before corporate-sponsored pride parades, legalized same-sex marriage, or The L Word, I'd learned from classmates in the 80s that lesbians were mannish, brutish, or too ugly to get a man. Being gay was even worse. It went beyond a description of one's sexual preference to include any behavior that was considered stupid, immature, or uncool.I, too, might've frozen back then if someone had called me gay. The meme unsettled me at my core. I couldn't stop thinking about it in the days leading up to the playdate. As a mother, I'm used to pushing past my discomfort for my son, so I didn't cancel. Even so, I couldn't shake the feeling as I joined the boy's parents and younger sister in their cozy living room. As Halloween approached, I turned to small talk, starting with a question about the family's plans for trick-or-treating. The wife told me that she didn't care for the holiday."The sugar?" I suggested, remembering my son's unhinged exuberance after inhaling a sleeve of Smarties."I'm very religious," she said. "And the holiday is anti-Christian."I nodded solemnly. It wasn't the best time to mention that my son had chosen a red devil costume this year. Or that my wife and I were planning to be witches, inspired by Katherine Hahn and Aubrey Plaza's sapphic relationship in Agatha All Along. Meanwhile, Jones's question continued to linger in my head.I thought it was safe when I told my mother about my first college girlfriend. It was the late 90s, and I was confused about my sexuality. I hoped she'd help me understand it, as she did with other challenges I'd faced. But rather than reassure me that everything would be fine, my mother was upset. "Your life will be so much harder if you end up with a woman," she warned me.Then, she ignored my coming out entirely for years.Left to my imagination, I pictured how her premonition might come to pass. I might become an object of curiosity, like my short-haired high school math teacher, who was rumored to be a lesbian. I might be shunned by family and friends. I would probably never get married or have a family of my own. However, my lived experience exceeded my mother's expectations significantly. Acceptance of same-sex relationships in the U.S. grew in the early 2000s. In 2015, the Supreme Court ruled that same-sex couples had the right to marry. My wife and I got hitched and had a child.Over the years, I became comfortable coming out to family members, friends, coworkers, accountants, and online forms. Now, coming out usually means I blithely share with a new acquaintance that I have a wife.But I felt none of that casual confidence during the playdate. Instead, there was a dryness in my mouth. Something about this heteronormative, anti-Halloween, Game of Life-looking family in this hyper-charged political climate made me sure I knew the answer to Jones's question.Was it safe to share? No, definitely not.That's why I didn't reveal that my wife had been making pita bread daily when the husband complimented his wife's bread-making skills. Or, when the wife shared her aversion to ultra-processed foods, I didn't mention that my wife felt the same way. Then I slipped up. The husband teased his wife for obsessively reading labels in the supermarket. This time, I found myself agreeing out loud: "My wife does that, too." Immediately, I realized my error. I tried to cover it up by reciting some facts my wife had told me about carrageenan while hopingno, prayingthat my confession might go unnoticed.But it was too late. The proverbial (telltale lesbian) cat was out of the bag.Often in life, the things we think will be big deals turn out to be small deals. This was no exception. The husband immediately asked about my wife. To my surprise, he was welcoming and kind. Before we left, he even suggested getting the boys together again. I was relieved that the parents didn't turn out to be monsters, but I reflected on my own performance during the car ride home. I didn't want my son to get the message he had to hide. Hiding part of myself from the outside world didn't alleviate my suffering. It just turned the pain inward.After that conversation with my mother, I stopped dating women for a time and began seeking out men instead. It took me a long time to become comfortable with my sexuality and permit myself to be me. If I learned anything from my own coming out, it's that you can't protect people from being who they are. In my son's case, his story is already written: His parents are two women. Even if I don't blab it to a bunch of strangers, it will still be true. But beyond my personal story, the interaction made me realize another vital reason for coming out.It reminds others that people like me and families like mine exist.I've also found that coming out can be a path to connectionsomething critical in this time of political divisiveness. My experience with coming out to strangers is that my sharing often engenders a greater openness on their part. They might mention that they have a gay sibling or a close friend who's gay. In one instance, a seemingly straight person revealed a same-sex relationship in their own past.While Trump is eroding the rights of LGBTQ+ people with sweeping executive orders, state lawmakers are urging the Supreme Court to overturn the federal right to same-sex marriage. Meanwhile, others in power are staying silent. I'm thinking about my own ability to fight for the rights of LGBTQ+ people. I often feel defeated. Rights can be abstract, especially if your own aren't at stake. But one thing I do have is this small act: the power to tell another person face-to-face that I exist.And if I lose my nerve, I need only think of my son.Recently, he told me that someone challenged him on the playground with the "whoever moves first is gay" meme. I tensed up, imagining him freezing in a sea of boys, but he told me that he talked back to the boy in a matter-of-fact voice. "You shouldn't say that. It's not nice to people who are gay."My son didn't freeze. Next time, I won't either.Voices is dedicated to featuring a wide range of inspiring personal stories and impactful opinions from the LGBTQ+ community and its allies. Visit out.com/submit to learn more about submission guidelines. We welcome your thoughts and feedback on any of our stories. Email us at voices@equalpride.com. Views expressed in Voices stories are those of the guest writers, columnists and editors, and do not directly represent the views of Out or our parent company, equalpride.
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    They may not all be faithful, but they sure do have pride! Over the weekend, stars from Peacocks The Traitorsappeared at WeHo Pride in Los Angeles! Stars from the shows third season were in attendance including Chrishell Stause, Bob the Drag Queen, Parvati Shallow, Bob Harper and Sam Asghari! But beforecelebrating the LGBTQ community with [...]The post The Traitors' Chrishell Stause, Bob the Drag Queen, Parvati Shallow, and more Celebrate WeHo Pride! first appeared on GLAAD.
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    This past week in Austin, Texas, ATX TV Festival celebrated its 14th season, a four day festival celebrating all things television with panels, readings, reunions, awards and more. GLAAD has continually been a partner to the festival as a platform to celebrate and uplift LGBTQ-inclusive television. Catch our coverage of last years partnership here, as [...]The post ATX TV Festival Elevates Queer Voices with Panels on Clean Slate, The Future of Queer Storytelling, and More. first appeared on GLAAD.
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    On June 2nd, the Concert for Love and Acceptance will celebrate its 10th anniversary and it will mark the final time the event will take the Nashville stage. Country icon and founder Ty Herndon took to his Substack at the beginning of May and announced that this year will be the 10th and final Concert [...]The post A Look Back as Ty Herndon Announces 10th Concert For Love & Acceptance Will Be His Final first appeared on GLAAD.
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    The wait is almost overand we finally have a first look, as GLAAD in partnership Paramount+ and SHOWTIME debuts exclusive photos and the official key art for Noahs Arc: The Movie, set to premiere June 20. The visuals offer fans a striking glimpse into the next chapter of one of the most beloved and impactful [...]The post Exclusive First Look: Noahs Arc: The Movie Reveals Official Key Art and Stunning New Photos first appeared on GLAAD.
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    Hinge Says LGBTQ Daters on the Platform Are Exploring Beyond Labels GLAAD Data Says Its Part of a Larger Cultural Shift
    Daters on Hinge are breaking the mold and its opening new doors for LGBTQ love. At a time when anti-LGBTQ culture wars are on the rise, a new report by Hinge shows something quietly radical: LGBTQ people especially trans and queer daters are carving out space to explore love on their own [...]The post Hinge Says LGBTQ Daters on the Platform Are Exploring Beyond Labels GLAAD Data Says Its Part of a Larger Cultural Shift first appeared on GLAAD.
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    By Robert Ko Growing up as an Asian queer man, I was actively aware of how the world perceived meAsian first, queer second. I grew up culturally hearing the same familiar refrains passed down through generations: work hard, do not ask questions, stay in line, and you will succeed. I let my family know about [...]The post OP-ED: Embracing My Authentic Self first appeared on GLAAD.
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    This year, the 3rd Annual BET Black + Iconic Soire made its powerful debut in Washington, D.C., and GLAADs Communities of Color team was proud to be in the building to help spotlight and celebrate Black LGBTQ brilliance. Held on May 25, 2025, under the theme Excellence Ascending, the evening brought together cultural trailblazers and [...]The post Excellence Ascending: GLAAD Celebrates Black LGBTQ Legacy at BETs Black + Iconic Soire first appeared on GLAAD.
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    by Ginger Yifan Chen Im not a woman, but Im still my fathers daughter. Sometimes I run the scenario through my head. Coming out to my family, I mean. Theres not much progress to be made in terms of language, since Chinese pronouns all sound the same (//). Nor would it dissuade any aspirations of [...]The post SETTING THE TABLE, SOMETIMES: How My Queerness is None of My Familys Business first appeared on GLAAD.
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    Paramount+ with SHOWTIME has officially announced the premiere date and full cast for Noahs Arc: The Movie, a new film marking the 20th anniversary of the groundbreaking series. Noahs Arc: The Movie premieres Friday, June 20, streaming exclusively for Paramount+ subscribers with the Paramount+ with SHOWTIME plan, followed by an on-air debut that same evening. [...]The post Celebrating 20 Years: Noahs Arc Returns with Darryl Stephens, Wilson Cruz, Jasmine Guy, TS Madison, Kennedy Davenport and More first appeared on GLAAD.
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    Every week, The GLAAD Wrap brings you LGBTQ-related entertainment news highlights, fresh stuff to watch out for, and fun diversions to help you kick off the weekend. 1.) Its time to meet the man behind the infamous character Pee-wee Herman in HBOs posthumous documentary Pee-wee as Himself. The two-part special explores the legacy of Paul [...]The post The GLAAD Wrap: Pee-wee as Himself and Knock Out Blonde Out Now, Trailer for The Buccaneers, New Music by Rene Rapp, PINKNOISE, and More! first appeared on GLAAD.
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    The South is a complicated place, even more so if one is Black and queer. Southern conservative culture demands those on the margins to shrink, to become an inauthentic version of themselves without guaranteed safety, rarely providing an opportunity to become fully realized human beings in the place they call home. The landscape playwright Donnetta [...]The post God Is In This Play: ASF World Premiere KUDZU CALLING Illuminates Black Southern LGBTQ Experience first appeared on GLAAD.
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    As anti-LGBTQ culture wars and policies escalate across the country and around the globe, the power of gathering, celebrating, and amplifying queer voices is paramount. Thats the energy behind OUTLOUD Music Festival at WeHo Pride a high-octane, joy-fueled explosion of sound, spirit, and solidarity created by event producer Jeff Consoletti. Now in its fourth [...]The post LOUDER TOGETHER: OUTLOUD Music Festival at WeHo Pride Is a Rallying Cry for Queer Joy and Resistance first appeared on GLAAD.
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    The fight to offer diverse childrens books in public schools will go national this month when the Supreme Court issues a ruling on Mahmoud v. Taylor. The case surrounds three couples who objected to a small number of LGBTQ-inclusive childrens books offered as nonmandatory supplemental learning materials in Montgomery County Public Schools, in Maryland. Because [...]The post LGBTQ-Affirming Kids Books to Rewrite Messages from the Playground first appeared on GLAAD.
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    How do most American consumers feel about companies participating in LGBTQ Pride month? We asked! Today GLAAD released results of a survey conducted by Ipsos using the probability-based KnowledgePanel that examined consumer sentiment regarding corporate engagement with LGBTQ communities and Pride Month. The survey also sought consumer opinion on core corporate values and on chief [...]The post American Consumers Support Corporate Pride Engagement first appeared on GLAAD.
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    The second celebration of Black LGBTQ Southerners, stories and storytellers, GLAAD Down South, brought together journalists and advocates in Atlanta and elevated essential conversations being amplified in local news by Darian Aaron, GLAADs Director of Local News: U.S. South. Coverage of GLAAD Down Souths event on May 16th includes reporting from Rough Draft Atlanta, and [...]The post GLAAD Down South Brings Atlanta-based Advocates, Journalists Together for Annual Event first appeared on GLAAD.
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    WATCH: King Princess and Maisie Richardson-Sellers Take a Trip, Talk the Toxic Love Between Their Queer Characters in Nine Perfect Strangers Season 2
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