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    Benito Skinner dishes on his steamy sex scenes in 'Overcompensating'
    Benito Skinner is the gift that keeps on giving.The handsome actor and TV creator's latest show, Overcompensating, is the passion project that he's thrilled to finally share with the world.Skinner plays Benny, a closeted former football player, who has a hard time coming to terms with his sexuality while venturing off to college. The plot hits home for Skinner, as he had a hard time navigating his own coming out journey at a young age."It was inspired by my experience of coming out and feeling so confused the entire time, even when I started to come out. I hadn't seen that on screen yet. I felt guilt, I felt confused... I didn't know who I was anymore. I didn't know if people would still love me," Skinner tells PRIDE. See on Instagram As Benny's story progresses each episode, audiences will certainly resonate with his mixed feelings as he deals with the pressures of becoming a young adult in college."I see the beauty in so much of it and I think the beauty is finding the people that you can come out to. I think for so many of us, it's these safe spaces created by women that are around us. That was the inspiration and I was like, let's also put it at college and make it disgusting!"Shenanigans certainly play out in all of the diverse storylines on Overcompensating. It's college after all, and these characters also explore their sexualities through some very steamy and awkward hookups."This feels true and honest and this is how my experience was. Sex can be terrifying, bizarre, weird, hot... I think you can have sex dreams in college! All of these should feel how they really feel. If it felt honest to us, we were going to have it." See on Instagram Benny isn't the only character to deal with some identity issues while trying to life his best life in college. Skinner's costar Wally Baram plays Carmen, who experiences her own fair share of chaotic situations that leave her questioning everything."I would not make these choices, but it's part of [Carmen's] journey. The rest of her journey is so messy and beautiful in a way that I really related to. She just can't quite figure out how to make it work socially. It was nice closure in a way," Baram says.As if the intriguing plot wasn't juicy enough, Charli xcx also makes a cameo as herself in the hilarious series and provided the majority of the show's soundtrack from her iconic discography."Charli has been sonically impactful forever. At some point in the show, we would love to have a little bit more XCX World. Maybe you'll hear some of those unreleased tracks! The Angels are really fed. It was like, first takes that you're watching. I'm so excited for her and for people to see it," Skinner concludes.Overcompensating premieres Thursday, May 15 on Prime Video. To see the full interview with Benito Skinner and Wally Baram, check out the videos at the top and bottom of the page.
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  • Anna Camp Is Dating Stylist Jade Whipkey Heres How Their Love Story Unfolded
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    Who is Anna Camp's girlfriend Jade Whipkey? Their romance timeline explained
    In the ever-expanding multiverse of soft launches, cryptic Instagram captions, and romantic TikToks that double as PR strategy, Anna Camp has officially leveled up. The Pitch Perfect star didnt just confirm shes dating stylist Jade Whipkeyshe did it with poetry, vintage aesthetics, and the kind of casual queerness that makes you wish every celeb debut had a touch of sapphic fairy tale.While whispers about the two have been circulating for months, Camp put speculation to rest by reposting a romantic snapshot from Whipkey on her Instagram Story earlier this week. Her smile is a poem, her eyes are roses, her laugh is music for dancing, Whipkey wrote. When Camp reposted with a flaming heart emoji, it sealed the vibe with minimal words and maximum intention. (@) So, who is Jade Whipkey? How did their relationship begin? And what makes this such a refreshing chapter in Camps love life? Lets break it down.Who is Jade Whipkey?See on InstagramWhipkey is an L.A.-based stylist and writer whos worked with names like Keke Palmer, Coco Jones, and Lena Waithe. According to her LinkedIn, she studied at Cal State Northridge and now works with the creative agency All Worthy People. She regularly shares snippets of her globe-trotting lifestyle and styling gigs on Instagram.Though shes stayed largely behind the scenes until now, her presence in Camps life has been quietly growing since at least early 2025.The TikTok that started it allAs to how this relationship made its way into the public eye, look no further than TikTok. Back in February, Camp and Whipkey appeared in a lighthearted interview where they answered questions about dating.In the clip, Camp described one of her worst dates with a man who told her she was prettier in a movie than in person after being 45 minutes late. Her response? A hard pass. OK, bye! she laughed.@mr.big.usaWhat was your Worst Date? . . . #datingadvice #funnytiktok #streetinterview #datingmen #creatorsearchinsightsLater in the video, Camp said, I dont expect anything [from guys] anymore because Im dating a woman, and its great. She then smiled and leaned toward Whipkey, who responded with a proud Same, same.From date night" to full soft launch (@) Since then, the two have been slowly (but very deliberately) showing up on each others feeds. In March, Camp posted a carousel of candid photos captioned Happiness lately happening , including a snap of Whipkey sipping wine in a sun-drenched booth. See on InstagramAt the start of May, Camp posted another picture of Whipkey on her story with a simple caption: Date Night and two red rose emojis. (@) But the most recent Instagram Story on May 12, when Whipkey posted the now-viral poem/roses/music caption, solidified peoples curiosity. When Camp shared the story, tagged Whipkey, and added a burning heart, it definitely read as meet my girlfriend.The night before, actress Gigi Zumbado posted group photos including Camp, Whipkey, and fellow Pitch Perfect star Rebel Wilson attending the Renaissance Faire together.See on InstagramCamp commented Good morrow, sweet maiden and subsequently posted a photo of her and Whipkey on her story captioned, My Lord, My Love.The journey here: Camps dating historySee on InstagramBefore this new chapter, Camp had a fairly public heterosexual dating history. She was married to Scrubs actor Michael Mosley from 2010 to 2013, then wed her Pitch Perfect co-star Skylar Astin in 2016. The couple divorced in 2019 after just under three years of marriage.In the months following her split from Astin, Camp spoke openly about the upheaval and growth that came with it. Its been really scary and liberating at the same time, she said at the 2019 TCA Summer Press Tour. I feel more me than I ever, ever have.Why fans are embracing this moment (@) Beyond the delight of a queer love story done on Camps own terms, fans are also celebrating the subtle empowerment woven throughout her recent posts and interviews. In a resurfaced video from that same February TikTok, Camp was asked what she thought the biggest conspiracy theory in life was.That you have to be married to a guy, with children, at like 30 or something, she said, pointing out the pressure she faced growing up in the South. Thats a conspiracy. Thats not true.@mr.big.usaWhat's your biggest conspiracy theory ? . . . #happylife #marriedwithchildren #marrige #streetinterview #creatorsearchinsightsIn the background, Whipkey beamed and replied, That was deep, babe.What's next for these two lovebirds?See on InstagramFor now, the couple seems content with the occasional glimpse into their livesa dinner here, a Renaissance faire costume there, and a lot of mutual adoration in the comments.Camp is set to return to screens soon in Bride Hard opposite Rebel Wilson, who publicly came out in 2022. The parallels havent gone unnoticed by fans, with yet another Pitch Perfect alum embracing her queer joy with quiet confidence and a fabulous partner at her side.No red carpet declarations. No magazine exclusives. Just two women living, loving, and laughing at awful dates past.And honestly? We love it.
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    Trump falls asleep on the job...again and the internet is ruthlessly mocking him
    President Donald Trumps controversial trip to Saudi Arabia was punctuated by a video clip going viral, showing the Republican leader falling asleep on the job, which prompted the internet to roast him. Trump seemingly dozed off in the middle of a press briefing after he arrived in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia on Tuesday where he met with Saudi Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman and announced that he would be lifting all sanctions against the Middle Eastern country, calling the relationship with the United States "more powerful than ever before. And while the two nations leaders also announced a $142 billion arms deal, Trump falling asleep in front of reporters is all the internet can talk about.Could the 78-year-old politician have been suffering from jet lag or just closed his eyes for a few seconds? Sure. But this isnt the first time the man who called former President Donald sleepy Joe has fallen asleep during important moments. He nodded off during his New York hush money trial, he fell asleep during a campaign event, and he was recently accused of napping during the funeral for Pope Francis.Trumps latest nap time moment was caught on tape and went viral with MAGA supporters claiming her was only sleeping because hes working so hard for his country, most of the internet was giving him hilarious nicknames (Don Snoreleone is a personal favorite), and roasting him with posts like, "Omg i think he thought he just died, he had to look up in see if he was in hell or not. Keep scrolling to have your day brightened by the internet roasting the president!| (@) How do you sleep in front of the media?" (@) "Sleepy Don. At least he was able to secure Trump Tower Aleppo. Really putting Americans first." (@) "I like 'Sleepy Don' more." (@) "Old Sleepy Don: Trump Caught Dozing Off In Saudi Arabia" (@) "Uh oh! Don Snoreleone strikes again! #SleepyDon catching some Zs at his own press conference! Low Energy! Sad!" (@) "Omg i think he thought he just died, he had to look up in see if he was in hell or not" (@) "I'm sure there will be multiple headlines speaking on his cognitive decline, right?" (@) "Let me introduce Dozing Don" (@) "Donald Trump appears to briefly fall asleep in Saudi Arabia. He's too old to be President. This is elder abuse." (@) 'How do you sleep in front of the media?' => Easy. You be Trump" (@) "Its an urge stronger than he is." (@) "He sleeps like a baby which means he wakes up when his diaper is full." (@) "The same way he crimesmessy, loud and without a plan" (@) "3 big macs would put any f*cker to sleep" (@) "The old fart if very tired." (@) "Like this" (@) "As my dad would say 'He's checking his eyelids for spots'" (@) "Can we leave Pappy Don alone. I am sure he is working hard, on a major dump." (@) "He's dreaming about Stormy" (@) "This time it is not even a funeral" (@) "Sleepy Joe stayed up running the country. Sleepy Don is literally fading out mid-photo op." (@) "I never want to hear a word about Sleepy Joe again! Trump cant stay awake and has no clue whats happening so no wonder when asked a question he says I dont know as the answer!" (@) "Yes Sleepy Don is appropriate but I find Sleepy Con a bit more fitting!"
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    Aja is back and ready set to the record straight: 'Thousands and thousands of people unfollowed me'
    Aja is a queen who always makes an impression. Whether it was giving epicly quotable sound bites, leaping from boxes, or serving up her unique blend of banje-harajuku realness on the runway, this New York queen is a force to be reckoned with. While shes already snatching focus in the first two episodes of the new RuPauls Drag Race All Stars season, it's been a moment that many fans and Aja herself once thought would never happen. Much was made of Aja saying in a 2018 interview with Them that she was no longer using the term drag 1ueen to describe herself. I've been working on my burlesque and my live music, and I don't really have the drive to dance and flip flop and be doing dips and Is she gonna jump from there? It's just not something I want to do. It's something that is part of me, but it's not something that I'm carrying into the future, so Im kind of leaving the term behind, she explained at the time. Many interpreted this as her leaving drag behind and, unsurprisingly, it led to the usual fan backlash. After a period of reflection, and coming to terms with her trans identity, Aja has fully embraced the art form again, and is ready to share her renewed passion with the world and clear up any false narratives along the way.PRIDE caught up with Aja to chat about this journey. It includes how, as challenging as her life during stints between Drag Race seasons became, she emerged on the other end with a greater sense of purpose and joy. Plus, why all this means that, for the first time ever, were seeing the true Aja, unburdened, unleashed, and ready to get raw.PRIDE: Take me back to getting the call to come back for All Stars. Why was this the right time for you to say yes?AJA: I was having a good day. I had just smoked a blunt. I was getting ready to go to Miyake-Mugler practice, and I got that phone call. Wait, let me rewind it a little bit. I'm going to tell you something, its going to sound absolutely crazy. Right before [I got the call] I was going through some stuff in my life, everything was a little tumultuous. I was having my ups and downs, and I said, You know what, I really need some change. I'm a spiritual person. I prayed on it, and literally nine days later, I got the call. In my culture, nine is a number that sort of represents change and transformation. So, I would be a fool to say no. I immediately said, yes and then I panicked. I said, What the fuck did I just get myself into?' I immediately started to crash out.Nine, like season nine! You've been through a lot in your life since your original season, so how has this one felt different for you?All Stars 10 was the first time in my drag career that I felt like it was okay for me to be a trans woman and do drag successfully and not feel ashamed about it. Coming back and really, really, like, digging into it. Oh, baby. It made me fall in love with drag all over again, and now I feel like drag is like that ex-boyfriend that you know you want to keep away, but you can't. You can't help because it's so good.Did you have any concerns coming back? Were there things about the fandom or the competition itself that you were nervous about?Honestly, I didn't really have any concerns. And I think you kind of see that through the episodes. You see me just having fun. I'm making jokes. I'm being extremely silly. I'm play-fighting with Irene. Drag is not that serious. It is serious, as in, we take the art form seriously, but drag allows us to kind of clown around a little bit and just enjoy and have fun. And I had so much fun allowing myself to do so. Because child, let me tell you something, getting to that point was not easy, and quitting drag to navigate my trans identity came with a lot of pushback. I had people who no longer wanted to represent me or talk to me, and I lost a lot of friends. I lost a lot of supporters. Thousands and thousands of people unfollowed me on social media. A lot of false narratives started coming around, and it just became like a punch line. It became a joke. It was like, 'Aja quit drag to be a rapper. Aja quit drag because she says that Drag Race is not good enough, or it was a lot of stuff that was just completely not true. Drag Race changed my life. When I went on it in season nine, I was in such a horrible situation before that, and it allowed me to not just blossom in life, but it created a bridge for me to be in a safe space, and I would never take that for granted. So it was really hard for me to navigate that, because that, in turn, made people not want to hire me in any capacity as an artist, and I truly felt very unsupported. But at the same time, I was very grateful because I was able to keep a big portion of my fan base who was like, 'Baby, whether you are trans, a square, a circle, Hillary Duff, we don't care. We love you for who you are in every stage and capacity.' And I just feel so blessed and lucky, because not everybody has that.Youre in a unique position to understand the platform in a way that other people who have not been on the same journey as you cant or don't. This is your chance to reintroduce yourself to the audience and really retake the narrative. What do you hope people come to understand about Aja 3.0?I hope people understand that All Stars 10 is the most unfiltered you've ever seen me in my life because I was literally just having a good time. I feel like in past seasons, I did things like code switch, to kind of like straighten up a little bit and deliver a version of myself that I felt was a little bit more palatable. I know that sounds crazy because I definitely was known for saying some crazy shit. But truthfully speaking, there is just a weight that has been lifted off of my shoulders, and just being authentically myself inside and outside. The things people would say that were hurtful used to hurt me a lot more when I was insecure of myself. Now ... I don't really care that you don't like me, because I like me, and that's all I need.I do feel like you're freer and having more fun this season. You brought up how you were cutting it up with Irene but then by the end of Untucked, you were sharing a sisterly moment. Do you feel like having that banter makes you closer to your sisters, or do you want it to be Kumbaya backstage?I feel like everybody should just be raw. I feel like everybody should just be honest about how they feel. If you're a kumbaya bitch, then you're a kumbaya bitch, and that's okay. There's nothing wrong with that. But if you're a rah-rah bitch then be a rah-rah bitch. It doesn't matter what Sally and Bob think at home. Girl, f*ck Sally and Bob. Be yourself. There's an audience for every type of personality on Drag Race, and people don't realize that yet. Listen, you got people like Mistress Isabelle Brooks out there. Well, Mistress is a little psychotic, but she's a poster board for villains, and people love her for that. So just be yourself.I love that! Well, in that case, let's leave things on a raw and real note. This season was filmed differently because you are all broken up into groups. Now that you're all together filming for the preseason, who in the cast is the most chaotic? And who do you vibe with the most?Who is the most chaotic? [Dissolves into laughter] I can't even answer the question! [Laughs again] The most chaotic is definitely. Nicole Paige Brooks from Atlanta, Georgia. And you have to say the full name. If you don't say the full name, it is blasphemous. So yeah, Nicole Paige Brooks from Atlanta, Georgia is a fucking ki-ki. She is crazy. She is unhinged, and I wouldn't have her any other way. I feel like, honestly, she should win the season. She should have a million 2 million followers. Somebody needs to give her $5 million, a house, a gold statue of her put up in the middle of Central Park. Girl, that woman deserves everything! It's no surprise and it's also no secret that I love Lydia 'Backdoor' Kollins. That's what I call her. I know it's Butthole, but I call her Backdoor because I want to and when I'm feeling really spicy, I call her Lydia Backyardigans De La Cruz. That's what she's feeling, a little spicy!
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  • 29th Annual New York City Dyke March June 2021
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    Here's every Dyke March happening in the U.S. in 2025
    Back in 1993 the direct action group the Lesbian Avengers organized the very first Dyke March in response to how male-dominated LGGBTQ+ space were at the time. It started as a raucous show of solidarity, joy, and anger, and in the decades since, it has continued to be a way for Dyke-identifying folks to build community and fight back against an unjust system.Much like the first Pride Parade, the first Dyke March was a protest, not a party, and that indomitable spirit of radical resistance and claiming of space is still alive in todays Dyke Marches. Thousands of lesbians march for visibility, justice, and community every year in marches across the country, and now the events are more inclusive than ever before. Modern Dyke Marches work hard to fight for the most marginalized dykes, and welcome all dyke-identifying members of the cis, trans, and nonbinary community.There are fewer Dyke Marches now than there were in past decades which is why we need to celebrate them and march and protest alongside the rest of the sapphic community.Don't see an event you're excited about? Email us at news@equalpide.com and we'll add it to the calendar.Keep scrolling to see the radical Dyke Marches happening all across the country!Dyke March Long Beach (May 16)Dykes and their allies will gather at Bixby Park in Long Beach for the annual Dyke March. This year, the organizers are hoping to make it the biggest event in the marchs history and are encouraging participants to posters, drums, and chants so the community can take a stand and make some noise together. More details at Dykes of Long Beach.Philly Dyke March (May 31)On the Saturday before Philly Pride, the Philly Dyke March will take off from Kahn Park at noon. Not only will dyke-identifying folks and their allies march through the city, but there will also be a drag showcase on Friday, May 30 at William Way.More details at the Philly Dyke March Instagram account.WEHO Dyke March (May 31)During WEHO Pride week there will be a Womens Freedom Festival and a Dyke March, put on by the The L-Project, a lesbian nonprofit that promotes and supports LGBTQ+ BIPOC women and nonbinary creatives. The Dyke March is lead by the motorcycle group Pride Riders LA, who are starting the very first LA chapter of Dykes on Bikes.More details at WEHO Pride.DC Dyke March (June 6)Not only is Washington DC home to WorldPride 2025, but it was the site of the very first Dyke March back in 1993. This years DC Dyke March theme is Dykes Against Fascism because the organizers are just as sick of Trumps presidency as we all are. With the new administration, we are enraged, mobilized, and READY to take to the streets, The DC Dyke March Instagram account posted. Weve had ENOUGH!! so bring your signs, your rage, and your community to march with us on June 6th at 7 PM!More details at the DC Dyke March Instagram account.LA Pride Dyke March (June 8)LA Prides Dyke March has been going on for more than two decades and is one of the biggest in the country. This year, it will take place on June 8 at the Sal Guarriello Veterans' Memorial on Santa Monica Blvd. The night will start with a live DJ set and protest sign making workshop, followed by guest speakers and a rally. Then, the night will culminate in a march down Santa Monica Blvd to San Vicente and back, ending in another live DJ set.More details at LA Pride.Boston Dyke March (June 13)The Boston Dyke March, which started back in 1995, is a grassroots Pride event that will have musical performances, guest speakers, and community tables before the march itself. The event is not only focused on anti-capitalism and intersectional gender liberation but also values accessibility, which is why masks are required, its wheelchair and scooter accessible, and will have an ASL interpreter.More details at Boston Dyke March.New York Dyke March (June 28)The NYC Dyke March will start at Bryant Center on June 28, where thousands of people will march through the street in protest discrimination, harassment, and violence, but also celebration of the rich diversity of the dyke community. This large-scale event welcomes everyone regardless of gender expression or identity, sex assigned at birth, sexual orientation, race, age, political affiliation, religious identity, ability, class, or immigration status.More details at NYC Dyke March.San Francisco Dyke March (June 28)This year will mark the 33rd annual San Francisco Dyke March, held on the Saturday befor ethe big Pride Parade, which is meant to celebrate the unity of the dyke community, raise visibility, and advocate for justice for dykes around the world. Before the Dyke March there will be a rally at Dolores Park where allies are welcome before the march begins. Just like every year, Dykes on Bikes will be front and center since they got their start at San Franciscos first Pride Parade way back in 1976. Leading up to the event there will also be a Super Big Gay Dance Party on May 10 to benefit the Dyke March.More details at San Francisco Dyke March.
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    Alex Newell defends the LGBTQ+ community against Republicans: 'Read a book. Learn some words.'
    This is the energy we need!Alex Newell is a titan in the LGBTQ+ community as one of the first nonbinary performers to win a Tony Award. Since their early days on Glee, Newell has paved the way for queer representation on the big and small screens.Now, the actor is starring alongside Blake Lively, Anna Kendrick, Allison Janney, and other notable celebs in the thrilling new film Another Simple Favor."When my agent asked me if I wanted to have my White Lotus motif, I said, 'Absolutely! Why not?' I've always admired everyone in this film. It was a dream to get to work with all of them. I pinch myself every now and again because it is a dream come true. Another one, thank you! It's an honor, truly," Newell tells PRIDE. See on Instagram Queer visibility is needed now more than ever as the Republican Party continues to push policies that harm the LGBTQ+ community in the United States.Newell is well aware that their platform serves as a source of inspiration to anyone who may be a bit scared during these trying times."It means the world. It shows that there's value in telling the story the way that I tell the story. Somebody's going to resonate with it. Somebody's going to see themselves in it. It's always a pleasure and an honor. We have to check in on each other and really come together as a community."Besides uplifting queer people around the world, Newell also has an important message for conservatives who oppose equality."Read a book! Open a book. Read it and don't let it just be a picture book! Get a dictionary. Learn some words. Sorry, learn to read! Honestly, please. It takes just like knowing that blue is blue and green is green."Another Simple Favor is streaming now on Prime Video. To see the full interview with Alex Newell, check out the video at the top of the page.
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  • A Black Transgender Student Is Bullied By Their Classmates
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    It's now legal to misgender and deadname trans kids at school in Tennessee
    Students, teachers, administrators, and other educational professionals in Tennessee are now at risk of being deadnamed and misgendered without recourse after the states governor, Republican Bill Lee, signed a controversial bill into law on Friday. Instead, schools and individuals could be sued if they use or direct others to use a persons preferred name or pronoun under the new law.House Bill 1270 protects individuals in the education system who misgender or deadname others, and requires schools to use pronouns aligned with a persons sex assigned at birth and names or derivatives of a persons legal name. The bill, introduced by Republican state Rep. Mark Cochran, passed the state House by a vote of 77 to 18 on April 16 and was passed by the state Senate by a vote of 27 to 6 on April 21.Related: Florida teacher loses job for using students preferred nameCritics decried the bill, including Democratic state Rep. Justin Pearson, who joined other opponents in saying the bill should be renamed the Bullying LGBTQ+ Students Act, local NBC affiliate WBIR reports.With all of the problems that we have as a state, whether that be dealing with poverty, the lack of healthcare access, the rights of women to choose what they do with their bodies, we're getting legislation after legislation that furthers discrimination, othering, and separation, Pearson said. Its despicable and ridiculous that this is how we are using our time and energy, and it isn't helping anybody.Words matter. Respect for anyone includes consistently and respectfully using the name and pronouns that they request. Regardless of legislation, legal limitations, and anticipated litigation, people deserve the respect of others to do something as simple as using their name and pronouns, Tennessee Equality Project said of the bill on its website. Affirming youths and adults transgender or gender nonconforming identity that includes simple social interactions like pronouns and names strongly influences their mental and physical health, well-being, and safety.Related: West Virginia denies gender-affirming care to at-risk youthAlliance Defending Freedom (ADF), a far-right legal advocacy group, hailed the new law.No one should lose their job or face punishment at school or work for declining to say something they believe is false. Words and language carry meaning, and when used properly, they communicate truth about the world, ADF said in a statement. Forcing individuals to say things that are false such as inaccurate pronouns imposes real harm on the speaker. In no world is it acceptable for the government to discipline students or force good educators or other public servants out of a job all for the sake of promoting gender ideology.Related: Even Republicans are against Tennessees trans health care banTennessee schools and employers now face the possibility of civil lawsuits if they mandate or permit the use of preferred pronouns that do not correspond with an individuals sex assigned at birth or prohibit deadnaming. While an earlier version of the legislation would have prevented schools from inquiring about a students or employees preferred name and pronouns, the revised law states that individuals are not obligated to disclose this information if asked.The new law took effect upon signing.
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  • Darren Criss And Jinkx Monsoon
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    Jinkx Monsoon and Darren Criss starring in a one-night-only performance of 'Hamilton'
    Hamilton is about to get really queer!Drag Race superstar Jinkx Monsoon and Glees Darren Criss are set to star in a one-time-only performance of a spinoff of the popular musical.To celebrate the tenth anniversary of the Broadway musical, creator Lin-Manuel Miranda announced that a special edition of his Ham4Ham concert series will return on May 13 with special guest stars.The on-off performance is an impromptu concert series that started back in 2015, but Miranda announced on Instagram that tonights free concert will feature cast members of current Broadway musicals and will celebrate Hamiltons monumental anniversary. Jinkx and Criss might be best known for their roles on TV shows, but they are both currently on Broadway. Jinkx is currently starring in Pirates! The Penzance Musical and Criss is one of the leads in Maybe Happy Endings.See on InstagramCriss co-star Helen J Shen is also set to star alongside the cast of Buena Vista Social Club.Miranda announced the news alongside a photoshopped picture of the stars who will be in the show outside of a Hamilton show. He wrote in the caption that the performance will be live-streamed on the Hamilton musicals official Instagram account for people who cant attend in person.Hamilton premiered off-Broadway in 2015 before becoming a sensation that swept the nation. The play is a combines hip-hop, jazz, and R&B and takes the audience from Alexander Hamiltons early life through becoming the George Washingtons right-hand man to his death in the infamous duel with Aaron Burr.
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  • Actress Heather Peace
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    'Lip Service' star Heather Peace opens up about her battle with cancer for the first time
    Lesbian Lip Service star and singer Heather Peace has gone public with her cancer diagnosis for the first time. Known for starring in the lesbian series and the BBC soap opera EastEnders, Peace feels very lucky for all of the support she has received.In a new video posted to Instagram on the day she finished chemo, Peace shared her journey through wig fittings and cancer treatments. In the caption of the video that shows Peace trying on wigs with the EastEnders makeup department, she shared that she was diagnosed with breast cancer in October of 2024, and that posting the video is an important part of my recent journey, which I wanted to share with you.Peace said that she has since undergone surgery and chemotherapy, and finishing the treatment felt like an amazing accomplishment. I woke up this morning and it was like the end of the London Marathon, she wrote, explaining that she felt like she just picked up my medal.See on InstagramThe 49-year-old actress admitted to feeling "forever changed by the experience and said shes taken a step back from fame and has been focusing on trying to appreciate every moment with her wife Ellie and their three daughters, Annie, Jessie, and Lola.Ive stayed still. Ive found joy in the simplest of things, Peace wrote. Interactions with others have felt honest and real because Ive had no capacity for small talk. It has felt like such a personal shift. There have been so many positives.She also thanked the EastEnders makeup team for going above and beyond in helping her find a wig for her to wear. Ive felt totally supported by you all, she wrote.Peace also thanked the people in Englands universal healthcare system, the National Health Service, for doing such a good job taking care of her. You gave me dignity and showed me kindness. Its so appreciated, she added.The comment section of the video is flooded with people wishing her well and congratulating her on beating cancer, including many of her fellow EastEnders stars.Her caption closed by saying, Life feels very different now and its wonderful. I will continue to cherish and be grateful for all I am blessed with. I feel very lucky.Lacey Turner who wrote, My superhero !! Love you always mate, while Navin Chowdhry commented, All the love in the world Heather. You are Glowing!! And what a magical team to have by your side, and Kellie Bright said, Ive said it before and Ill say it again. WARRIOR WOMAN!!!! Love the bones of you.
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    'Sports Illustrated' features its first ever out lesbian on the swimsuit cover
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    by Jennifer Berry Hawes, with additional reporting by Cassandra Garibay This Shits Crazy In their last phone call before bed, Janicke Glynn tries to reassure her husband. He is away visiting a sick relative, and a Weather Channel forecast of Hurricane Helenes imminent collision with the North Carolina mountains is leaving him uneasy. The storm, more than 400 miles wide, is expected to strike their small community the next morning, Sept. 27. Janicke encourages him to focus on his family up in Boston. That is more important. She is fine. Its been raining a lot, but the house is fine. Everything is fine. Hell fly home tomorrow. She will see him then.Love you. First image: Janicke Glynn celebrates finishing part of the renovation of her and her husbands dream property. Second image: John Glynn with the couples two rescue dogs. (Courtesy of John Glynn) Janicke, a 46-year-old French Canadian, isnt worried. She feels a deep spiritual connection to their home in Yancey County, a remote and ruggedly sublime expanse in the shadow of trendier Asheville. Nestled on a mountainside draped in maple and birch, perfumed by mountain laurel, their property is surrounded by the Black Mountains, ancient protectors of this magical place. Mount Mitchell, the tallest among them the tallest in the eastern U.S. is their backyard. When the power goes out, Janicke lights candles and opens a door. She loves to hear the creek just beyond, a normally burbling carrier of rainfall down the mountain. But after two days of rain, it is starting to roar even before Helenes arrival. She settles onto a living room couch with a little rat terrier, Troopie, one of their two rescue dogs.Seven years have passed since she and John first looked at this property. He was thinking about retirement spots by the time they married in 2016 after keeping up a long-distance relationship for nearly a decade. Both were sick of the harsh Northern winters, and Janicke longed to rekindle the bond shed felt with the natural world growing up in rural Canada. When she got out of the car to look at the property, she heard the creek and felt an instant harmony with the place. It had a 1940s stone house up on a hill, two wood-paneled cottages tucked along the creek and five acres where she envisioned tending lush gardens. When she wondered if it cost too much, John argued that wasnt the right question. Do you want to live here? he asked.I want to die here, Johnny. Janicke Glynn spent years nurturing her beautiful gardens. (Courtesy of John Glynn) After John falls asleep in his hotel, Helene makes landfall on the Florida panhandle about 500 miles south of the Black Mountains. As its massive bands close in, Janicke stays up listening to the storm and texting a tenant who rents one of their cottages, about 40 yards away right on the creek.He types, This shits crazy over here.Janicke knows he is anxious. Hours earlier, he sent her a screenshot of a National Weather Service post on Facebook that warned Helene could become one of the regions worst events in the modern era. He worried about what the forecasted 9 to 14 inches of rain, expected to fall onto the high peaks in the morning, would do to the already swollen rivers. The post described catastrophic, life-threatening flooding. Her response was typically upbeat: Thanks, Mother Nature is powerful!Hed been thinking he might drive to his brothers place in Charlotte, but Janicke offered up her house if the cottage flooded. They hadnt heard of evacuation orders or seen other signs to indicate anyone else seemed terribly concerned. Inland vs. Coastal ResponsesThe response to Helene was far different on the Florida coast. Evacuation orders were swift and targeted, the routes to safety clearly conveyed. Had Helene hit North Carolinas coast, the same likely would have happened. But as coastal areas have become far better at warning and evacuating people, inland communities too often remain ill prepared, with devastating results: In recent years, five times as many people died in freshwater drownings due to hurricanes extreme rainfall than from coastal storm surges in the continental U.S. a dramatic reversal from a decade earlier. As the hours pass and Helene closes in, Janickes tenant texts her, My nerves are shot.He soon shows up at her door with a bag and his 15-year-old cat, Mama Kitty. The creek is pounding the foundation of his cottage and seeping inside. Its increasingly violent flow fills the air with a searing white noise as it races down the mountain past houses, horse pastures and barns. Cattail Creek Road, the main way in and out of the area, winds right alongside it. Few people along Cattail fully realize the looming danger. Some of them sleep. One man laments that he will miss his flight in the morning. A woman downloads ebooks to have something to occupy her time if the internet goes out. Another assures a loved one that the storm will quickly pass before dawn. Susie and Brian Hill bought their historic farmhouse the year before Helene. (Juan Diego Reyes for ProPublica) Like Janicke Glynn, Brian Hill lives close to Cattail Creek. Closer, even. His century-old farmhouse sits about 15 yards from the banks. Unlike Janicke, he is starting to worry. Late the night of Sept. 26, he peers outside and is caught off guard by the creeks fast-rising water. Whoa, its really full, he thinks. But as far as he knows, Cattail Creek has never flooded the house where he lives with his wife, Susie, and 9-year-old daughter, Lucy. Both are asleep. He tries to be quiet, but a sudden noise jolts him boom, boom boom. It shakes his house like fireworks. He peers outside and realizes that somewhere up the mountain, the water is dislodging boulders. They are crashing down. Around midnight, someone knocks on their door. Its a firefighter warning that the creek has risen so high that it blocks the road in one direction. Soon, there could be no way out. I cant tell you what to do, the man says. But he urges them to move to higher ground. Brian and Susie grab their little girl and their dog, then rush out to their pickup truck. In the darkness, they drive up a hill that overlooks their property.Up the north fork of Cattail Creek, as the water rises, no first responder knocks on Janicke Glynns door. Tudy Creek, Friday Morning A Precarious Place to Be Overnight, Helene churns across Georgia, then clips the northwest corner of South Carolina. Before sunrise, the storm collides with the Black Mountains, particularly the towering frontal wall called the Blue Ridge Escarpment. The high peaks shove the massive storm up into the cooler atmosphere. Up in the chillier air, that water condenses. As Helenes bands lash the Black Mountains, the storm begins to dump enormous amounts of water onto the already saturated peaks. In the morning, from 7 to 10 a.m. alone, about 8 inches of rain will fall atop Mount Mitchell. Because all that water must go somewhere, the deluge creates two critical threats: flash flooding and landslides. Both pose extraordinary danger. But landslides can destroy with far less warning.The Cane River is about to get pummeled by both. Hemmed in by mountains, it forms the spine of one major valley in Yancey County. One of its tributaries, Cattail Creek, extends off that spine like an arm reaching east. Another, Tudy Creek, reaches west. (Lucas Waldron/ProPublica) Several peaks wrap around Tudy Creek. High atop a particularly craggy one, the rainfall gets a toehold beneath soil clinging to a very steep and slightly concave slope of rock. Soil and rock will begin to slide with the water. Following the creekbed, the flow will gain velocity and weight and hurtle downhill with enough power to uproot trees and dislodge boulders. In its path, a group of longtime neighbors live in a tranquil enclave of homes. Among them is Ray Strickland, who retired a decade ago after 37 years as pastor of a local Baptist church. A hardworking man who still helps at the family construction company, Ray lives by the Scripture he often used during his first year at Laurel Branch Baptist, Psalm 66: Make a joyful noise unto God. His wife, Susan, a sweet woman with short grey hair, worked as a dental hygienist and performed as a clown named Jubilee at hospitals, nursing homes, parties even the 1996 Olympics in Atlanta. Along with several of their neighbors, they raised their children here. Two newer neighbors moved here from Florida, weary of all the hurricane threats. Ray and Susan Strickland, riding the Great Smoky Mountain Railroad a couple of years ago (Courtesy of Ginnie Strickland Beverly) On Friday morning, the neighbors are all in their homes. Little do they know that the swath of land on which their houses sit was created, at moments back in geological time, by landslides. They had careened down steep slopes, probably following creekbeds, and dumped huge amounts of material here. That created a flatter spot to build houses in this otherwise rugged place. In a storm like Helene, its also a precarious place to be. If the topography enabled a landslide here before, it could do so again. Unfinished WarningThe neighbors might have been aware of the landslide threat if the state had finished a hazard mapping program that North Carolina legislators created 20 years ago. They acted after storms caused at least 85 landslides that killed five people. But when developers and real estate agents pushed back, lawmakers who didnt want statewide regulations halted the program for almost a decade.They restarted it in 2018 after more landslide deaths. But Yancey County still hasnt been mapped. Neither have four other counties in Helenes path. Given it already has been raining a lot, Ray and Susan worry most about their 43-year-old son, Aaron, who lives on the other side of the mountain with his two young children. In April, water seeped into his basement.When Ray texts Aaron around 7 a.m., just as Helene is arriving in Yancey, he responds, flooding. The curt tone isnt like him. He and his parents normally stay in daily contact, so Ray and Susan figure theyll try him again later. Then their cell service cuts out. Without it, theyre among those in pockets across the county who dont get the National Weather Services 8:50 a.m. emergency warning for Yancey: The risk of life-threatening landslide activity continues to increase. This is a PARTICULARLY DANGEROUS SITUATION. The storm worsens. Wind roars. So much water flows down the mountain that Tudy Creek normally about 4 feet across swells and merges with another creek to form a violent river that rages down the road between them. Water seems to gush through every crevice in the mountain bedrock. Around 9 a.m., when the deluge settles between the storms bands, Ray heads to the back of their house where rocks are hitting the foundation. Susan ventures outside near the road, then meets Ray on their front porch. Theyve never seen anything like this. While Ray holds an umbrella, Susan records video with her phone. Ray glances up. The tops of towering trees shake. Then a 20-foot wall of trees, boulders and mud rockets straight at them. Ray! Susan screams. Good Luck, Everyone First responders were out overnight blocking off access to roads as they vanished beneath two of Yanceys major waterways the Cane and South Toe rivers and the creeks that feed them. In this rural county, home to 19,000 people, the firefighters are all volunteers. So is the rescue squad. The county commission recently received a draft of an emergency operations plan that warned, A mass casualty event has the potential to quickly overwhelm the limited existing emergency medical resources in Yancey County.Now, on Friday morning, the wind and rain turn fierce. At 45, Sheriff Shane Hilliard hasnt seen anything like it during his entire life here. Just before 8 a.m., he texts his mother to check in, but he doesnt get a response. His parents live right on the South Toe River in the house he grew up in. His 92-year-old grandmother lives alone next door. Rain whips downtown Burnsville, the county seat where the sheriff and other officials gather in the Emergency Operations Center. This command post is basically three desks, a conference table and four big TVs on the wall in a building near the courthouse.In an adjacent building, calls pour into the countys 911 center.Landslides claw down the mountains. Hurricane-force winds splinter trees. Rivers snatch cars and rip apart homes. People climb into attics or swim through windows. A firefighter makes a distress call as the Cane River near Cattail Creek swamps his trailer. A deputy trying to rescue a family from their flooding home becomes trapped with them. Dispatch blasts out an all-call: First responders must get off the roads. Its too dangerous. Cattail Creek Turns Violent Across the street from Ray Stricklands church, Cattail Creek decimates the community at around 10 a.m. on Sept. 27. (Courtesy of William Pagan) Watch video Jeff Howell, Yancey Countys emergency management director, watches the radar as storm imagery shifts to red. Helenes rainfall now resembles blood-filled lungs hanging over the Black Mountains. Howell, who has deep roots in the area, took the job seven years ago after three decades in the Army and Army Reserves. He had no experience with emergency management, so its been a lot of learn-as-you-go. For years he asked for extra hands, but as Helene approached, the department was just him and a part-time employee. Uneven TrainingRequired education and training for emergency managers varies considerably by state. Florida recently enacted a law mandating minimum training, experience and education starting in 2026. Georgia requires directors to get the states emergency management certification within six months. But North Carolina doesnt require specific training for its county emergency managers, who are tasked with enormous life-and-death decisions. Now Howell faces the biggest test of his time in the office.Over the past week, he watched each forecast turn more ominous, with western North Carolina in a bullseye of the heaviest rainfall. Yesterday around noon, a lead meteorologist in the National Weather Services regional office ended its final briefing before Helenes arrival with a grim, Good luck, everyone. The office also issued a public statement that warned, Landslides, including fast-moving debris flows consisting of water, mud, falling rocks, trees, and other large debris, are most likely within small valleys that drain steep slopes.Around the same time, weather service staff also took to social media to post the dire message that Janicke Glynns tenant had seen: This will be one of the most significant weather events to happen in the western portions of the area in the modern era. We cannot stress the significance of this event enough, it added. Heed all evacuation orders from your local Emergency Managers. Flooding from the South Toe River in Yancey County on Sept. 27 around 9 a.m., first image, and around 11 a.m., second image (Courtesy of Zachary ODonnell) Unlike in South Carolina, where the governor typically makes evacuation decisions, in North Carolina, local and county governments primarily make them. Howell, the official who would recommend evacuation orders to the county commission chair, didnt do so. In this largely conservative place fresh off a culture war battle over a Pride display at the local library he didnt think the chair would go for them. Nor did he think residents would heed orders, given many locals disdain for government mandates and their pride in self-reliance. Lack of Detailed PlansHowell and other county leaders noted that while coastal areas are used to thinking about evacuations, inland communities, especially in the mountains, dont deal with hurricanes nearly as often.While the commission chair said he would have considered a request from Howell, he didnt think Yancey had detailed enough plans in place to know where to advise people to evacuate given the size of the storm and the complexity of mountain terrain.With the ongoing challenge of rebuilding, Yancey County has not formally examined its preparedness for the disaster, but the county chair expects it will do so later. In April, the state Emergency Management agency released a report it had commissioned on its response to Helene and its interactions with local officials, but the report doesnt probe evacuations. People who survived Helene say its true that not everyone would or could have heeded an order. But some say they would have left, or at least prepared better. Many, including those living in high-risk areas and caring for young children and frail older people, didnt evacuate because they didnt see clearer signs of urgency from the county. By nightfall on Sept. 26, the day before Helene struck, three nearby counties issued mandatory evacuation orders for certain areas and at least five issued voluntary ones. Among Yanceys rural neighbors, one of the most robust responses to Helene came from McDowell County. Officials there issued voluntary and mandatory evacuation orders for specific areas, launched two door-knocking campaigns to warn people in high-risk places, and put out flyers in English and Spanish that warned of life-threatening flash floods and urged all people in vulnerable areas to evacuate as soon as possible. Many did so.Yancey also did some door knocking. Howell joined first responders urging people in the most obviously dangerous places to consider leaving. Not everyone appreciated the warning. Howell got an earful before finally convincing a man to leave a campground almost encircled by the South Toe River.Like officials across the region, Howell took to Facebook as well. Around lunchtime on Sept. 26, he shared the weather services latest grim briefing and suggested people make plans to stay somewhere else if they live near flood-prone areas. But while the weather service aimed to alarm people into action with its dire post, Howell thought it best not to panic them. So he softened the message, adding, This information is not to frighten anyone. We Need to Go Back Now! About 150 yards up the hill from their century-old house, Brian and Susie Hill huddled in their pickup truck with their little girl and dog overnight as rain poured and darkness enveloped Cattail Creek. Now, a few hours after sunrise, they watch their house drown. They would have left if the county had issued a mandatory evacuation order, especially for Lucys sake. Still, if they hadnt gotten that middle-of-the-night knock on the door from the firefighter, it could have been worse. Susie hands her cellphone to the child to distract her from the sight beyond the trucks windows. The creek rages. It surrounds their house, pounding it with waves and ripping the porch and doors off. Windows cave in. They bought the white farmhouse, with its mountain views, a year ago and have been busy restoring it slowly, on two public school teacher salaries. This is a place where their daughter can run outside on 6 acres, where a neighbors horses graze in a field next door, where they can gather around the fire pit at night and listen to the creek. Susie raises chickens and tends a garden filled with asparagus, blueberries and strawberries. People like Susie and Brian come to Yancey County, and stay here, and die here, for the majesty of two forces: the mountains and the rivers. The ancient mountains protect; the rivers nourish. They provide hiking, whitewater rafting, kayaking and the meditations of so many tranquil creeks. Now it feels like both have betrayed them. Along Cattail, people watch the landscape of their happiest memories vanish beneath floodwaters. Janicke Glynn and her tenant, who is sheltering at her house, were up all night listening to the storm. He feared what was happening to his cottage down by the creek. Janicke remained calm, lighting candles when the power went out and trying to ease his worry. Hed gone through a tough time last year, losing family and dealing with heartbreak, and theyd become close friends.But at the first crack of daylight, his emotions fray when Janicke ventures outside to pick up branches and sticks. Rain still drenches the mountainside, and wind gusts with enough force to bend trees. Janicke wants to keep her paradise unmarred. He doesnt want anyone to get hurt. When he runs out after her, yelling at her to come back inside, she reluctantly complies. Floodwaters Tear at the Creekside Cottage Janicke Glynns tenant filmed his home at 8 a.m. Sept. 27. (Courtesy of Janicke Glynns tenant) Watch video When the rain and wind ebb just before 10 a.m., they step outside to assess the damage together. Hemlock hedges block the view of his cottage, so they head down toward it. The creek has calmed a bit as well. As they slip closer, they see the windows are busted and his belongings dragged out. Everything inside is churned up.Janicke is fearless. But her tenant is unnerved. He thinks they are acting way too comfortable. Standing beside the battered cottage, he hollers, I think we should go back to the house!Janicke steps closer to the water. We need to go back now! he screams.A gush of water rushes under her. From a dozen feet away, she turns toward him. As she does, the current rips down the cottage and then swallows them both. Across the Ruins Ray Strickland wonders if he is dead. The retired pastor realizes he is in a small pocket of empty space encased in debris from their home. Light reaches through a hole. Something pins his leg. When he yells to his wife, Susan, she does not answer. An opening. The light. If he leaves his boot, he can wriggle free. When he climbs out of the pile, destruction surrounds him. A car alarm blares. A smoke alarm screams. Water rages by.Ray sits on a boulder, dazed. Drywall sticks out of one ear. Blood runs down his arm. What looks like road rash covers his skin. Yet he feels strangely serene. If God takes him now, thats his will.Some time passes. Then a mans voice. Someone is yelling his name. It is Pete Lewicki, who lives in the next house down from him. But Pete is across a wide river blazing past the rubble. Ray hollers at him to get back. Pete Lewicki jumped into action after the landslide. (Juan Diego Reyes for ProPublica) Pete doesnt listen. When he was in the Navy, he worked in search and rescue. Now that training kicks back in. To reach Ray, he and his 24-year-old son haul over ladders and move logs to create a makeshift bridge. Pete slips crossing the slick ladder. Floodwater tears at him as he climbs back up. When he reaches Ray, Pete finds the man is shaking and is eerily calm. Once they get Ray out of the wreckage of his home and into their house, Petes wife wraps him in a blanket and finds dry clothes for him. Pete promises he will be back. A landslide barreled through their enclave. Rays house is gone. So is the house just above Rays at the top of their road. So is its freestanding garage apartment, where an older man named James Andrews lived. Trees and boulders block the way. Pete makes it, then spots James. He is dead, pinned beneath a huge tree. Pete covers the body with a bedsheet in the debris.As Pete heads back to his house, Ray comes outside. He is thinking more clearly now and is certain his wife, Susan, is in the mound of debris where hed been trapped. They had been near each other when the landslide hit. He leads Pete and two other men from down the road to the small hole hed crawled through in the ruins. The men inch down into it.Pete spots Susan. She is 3 feet down from where Rays blood pooled in the wreckage. Its clear she has died. He remembers her smile, which she used to brighten peoples lives. Almost every day, she and two neighbor ladies, both recently widowed, walked up and down the road together. When they walked by shortly after Pete moved in, Susan stopped and came over to give him a big, welcoming hug. Pete, a veteran with neck tattoos who has post-traumatic stress disorder, deeply appreciated her gesture.They all know that Susan is buried too deep to get her out themselves. Ray, her husband of almost 50 years, tells them to stop trying. Its a miracle he is alive, and he doesnt want anyone else to get hurt. The Wreckage of the Stricklands Home Pete Lewicki filmed a video around 11 a.m., after a landslide barreled down Tudy Creek. (Courtesy of Pete Lewicki) Watch video Looking across the ruins, Pete sees the landslides path down the steep slope above their road. The debris flow had barreled more than a mile down the mountain, leaving an expanse of mud and rocks. He had never seen this magnitude of destruction, not even during his 40 years living in Florida, where hurricanes repeatedly flooded his home. A massive mound of trees and remnants of the destroyed houses sits piled against a neighbors garage. A widow lives there with her parents, who are 86 and 89. Pete heads over to check on them. When he gets there, he sees that Marie-France Herman, the woman who lives at the top of the road, is there with them. She is caked in mud with a black eye and a nasty gash on her ankle. Inside the house, they are all slogging through mud almost to their knees. But getting out means crossing the landslides path to reach another neighbors house, an A-frame that looks, somehow, unscathed. After many precarious moments, they all make it. Ray joins them.The neighbors share notes about what they all just survived. When the landslide hit, Marie was looking out at the worsening storm through an antique door. An 81-year-old distant relative in poor health who lives with her was sitting nearby at the kitchen table when Marie spotted trees toppling down the mountain like dominoes. The next thing she remembers, water slammed into her. She expected to drown. Instead, she got her head above water and climbed onto some logs.She has lost everything, even her husbands ashes. And she doesnt know where her relative is. Unreachable The rain finally lets up by late morning on Sept. 27, but the rivers and creeks rage with so much water flowing down the slopes. Hilliard, the sheriff, heads to the 911 center, which is running off a generator. The calls coming in terrify him and the other county leaders. Floodwaters fill homes. Rivers ravage roads. People watch neighbors get swept away in cars and on foot. Landslides careen down slopes. At 10:51 a.m., the 911 center suddenly falls silent. The sheriff and others look at one another: What just happened?What was left of Yanceys cell service has now failed. Landlines are already out. So is the internet.Emergency responders are left with only their radio system. And that is quickly overwhelmed. It takes eight to 10 tries to get a call out, if they can even get one out. Many just get error tones.Finally, somehow, the sheriff gets through to the North Carolina Sheriffs Association director in Raleigh. I need help! he pleads. But help wont be coming, not any time soon. Yancey County Sheriff Shane Hilliard (Juan Diego Reyes for ProPublica) County-to-county communications across the region barely function. The state Emergency Management agency is severely understaffed, slowing its response. As Helenes deluge flows down the Black Mountains, it inundates rivers on all sides of the peaks, claiming dozens of lives and destroying communities in every direction. One county over from Yancey, a family of four including two little boys are swept to their deaths while fleeing their home. To Yanceys south, floodwater swallows little towns en route to Asheville. A nearby landslide kills 11 people from one family and two firefighters coming to their aid. Raging water decimates downtown Chimney Rock, a tourist village, heading to Lake Lure, a resort town. The National Weather Service blasts out an alert: DAM FAILURE IMMINENT!Minutes later, at 11:15 a.m., state transportation officials tweet, All roads in western NC should be considered closed. Get in TouchWe will continue to tell the stories of Helenes devastation, and we want to know: What is one thing the storm destroyed that you would have saved had you evacuated? To share, leave us a voicemail at 828-201-2738. Hilliard knows little of this is happening. With the 911 center silent, cellphones and landlines and internet all down, officials inside the Emergency Operations Center abandon it. The command center is useless. They cannot help anyone from here. Not long before noon, the sheriff heads out with a crew in the countys large armored military surplus vehicle. They cannot get far. Downtown Burnsville is an island. Roads and bridges in all directions are submerged, washed away, blocked by trees or smothered in the liquefied mud of landslides. Places like Tudy Creek and Cattail Creek are unreachable. Cattail Creek at around 10 a.m. on Sept. 27 (Courtesy of Douglas Rodgers) Everyone in the vehicle falls silent. A look the sheriff has never seen falls over their faces: They are afraid. His radio squawks. Someone from the South Toe Fire Department hollers his name. Firefighters made it to the river where the sheriffs parents and elderly grandmother still live. His parents house is gone, washed away. And they cannot find his parents.He yells for them to check next door at his grandmothers house. They tried, the voice says. But her house is gone, too. Where Are We? On Sunday morning, two days after the storm hit, Aaron Strickland still hasnt heard from his parents. After Helene subsided, he and his girlfriend went to the local fire station where her son, a volunteer firefighter, worked overnight. He and other firefighters returning from distress calls described an apocalyptic level of destruction. But none of them mentioned Tudy Creek, and Aaron figures thats a good thing. When his girlfriend finds a county building with working Wi-Fi, hes relieved to finally make some calls. He dials his parents, but the call wont go through. He is able to reach his sister, Ginnie Strickland Beverly, who lives a few hours away in Winston-Salem. Ginnie is distraught. Like so many people unable to reach loved ones trapped inside Helenes destruction zone across western North Carolina, she has been scouring news sources and Facebook, gathering scraps of details about whats happened. She heard crews airlifted a dead person out from Cattail Creek. But she hasnt been able to find anyone who reached Tudy Creek.Have you made it up to Mom and Daddys yet? she asks. Worry sets in. Aaron hangs up and hurries out. Maybe he can get there himself.At the first bridge, police are directing traffic, so Aaron stops to see what he can find out. This is a small community, and he sees familiar faces. One is the mother of a childhood friend who lives at the base of Tudy Creek. Aaron has known her his entire life. When she sees him, she hurries over and wraps him in a hug. Honey, Im so sorry, she says. For a moment, they look at each other. Aaron isnt sure what she means.Your mom is gone, she blurts out. His father, Ray, is hurt. She doesnt know how badly. Her son just made it down from there. A landslide. Some bodies. Aaron doesnt hear much else. Desperation consumes him. So does a plan. Aaron Strickland, Ray and Susans son, drives along the devastated Cane River area. (Juan Diego Reyes for ProPublica) Normally, it takes 20 minutes to drive around the mountain from his place to his parents house. But as a crow flies, its more like 2 or 3 miles over the mountain. Growing up, that mountain was Aarons playground. He and his girlfriends son, the volunteer firefighter, drive to an airstrip at the top of the mountain, then hike down toward his parents house. As they slip on slick mud and wet leaves, fear propels them. Aaron fights back images of his father with a head wound or broken bones, or worse. He shoves away thoughts of his mother, for now. They come upon what looks like a landslide, its mud like quicksand pocked with holes and mangled trees. To Aaron, it appears 100 yards wide. They must go around it over toppled trees and boulders. Finally, they spot a creek. It flows down a channel scoured out that looks 30 yards across and 20 feet deep. Aaron has hiked all over these mountains, and the only creeks up here are slim little things 3 or 4 feet wide, a few inches deep. Where are we? he asks.At last, they see an old logging road. There is only one on this mountain, and it leads to the top of his parents road on Tudy Creek. But when they reach where it should dead end into their street, piles of mud, trees and boulders 20 feet high and 50 yards across block their path. When they scale it, Aaron looks out over the expanse of fallen trees, boulders, mud and debris. Oh my God.He clambers down toward the spot where his parents house the home he grew up in, the tan split-level with the long front porch should be standing. Terror replaces his desperation. Chunks of the Stricklands foundation next to where their house once stood (Juan Diego Reyes for ProPublica) The woman who told him about his mothers death also said his father was at their neighbor Rita Thackers house. Aarons heart thunders. His stomach churns. He scrambles up the steep, muddy bank toward Ritas. Huge fallen trees block his view. Climbing through dense branches and leaves, he looks for holes to wiggle through. Finally he sees Ritas beautiful A-frame. He hears voices. He hadnt considered that other people might be there with his dad and Rita. Busting through the last branches, he pops out looking at her backyard. Rita is standing right there with another neighbor and that womans elderly parents. They turn to the commotion. Aaron spots his dad. Ray is standing with his back to him. But he is standing. He is talking. He is OK.Aaron sprints over and wraps his arms around his father. No contact for days, terrible, awful stories coming in, running on fumes, little sleep, the shock of his moms death, fear for his dads safety, inability to communicate, all of that bursts out in the tears of this moment. He has rarely seen his dad with a three-day scruff, so he sets his hand on his face to feel it. Its the best youve ever looked, he says. With no way to contact anyone, no running water or power or passable roads, the neighbors relied on each other since the landslide. One is a nurse who treated the physical wounds. Pastor Ray has fed spiritual needs and hauled 5-gallon buckets down to gather water to flush the toilets. Rita has a gas stove, so they cook. This morning, they made waffles. Aaron with a photo of his mother, Susan, who was one of three people killed in a landslide on Tudy Creek (Juan Diego Reyes for ProPublica) As his adrenalin ebbs with relief, Aaron turns to the destruction. His parents house looks like a giant hand crushed it. The body of Aarons 71-year-old mother, the woman who took him with her to clown conferences when he was a kid, is buried so deep in the mound of debris that it will take heavy equipment to get her out. He finds one of her old Bibles. Almost a mile down the mountain, neighbors find the body of Maries elderly relative. A New Fear Janicke Glynns husband landed in Charlotte shortly after the storm hit, and during the two days since he has turned frantic. He hasnt been able to reach her or anyone else in the area. Nor can he get back to Cattail Creek. Every road he tries is blocked by flooding, landslides and police who turn him back. He is staying at a hotel 80 miles from Burnsville with no electricity.Finally, on Sunday afternoon, he gets a text from their tenant. It comes from someone elses phone, a newer one that can get a satellite connection. Im so sorry Janicke is gone, it reads.Their tenant adds that he almost died too. When the cottage collapsed, a freight train of water and mud consumed Janicke. But when it smashed into him, it shoved him closer to the main house. He grabbed a spindly shrub and clung to it, praying that it wouldnt snap and he might see his family again. Eventually, screaming for help, he pulled himself out. But he could not find Janicke. Now, he is trying to hike to the local fire station for help. He has no glasses, his skin is shredded in spots, and hes bleeding from a deep gash in one knee. The station is a few miles away but feels unreachable with no roads and infinite destruction to cross. He promises John he will call when he can get service. The remnants of the flash flood that destroyed the cottage where the Glynns tenant lived (Courtesy of John Glynn) In Yancey County alone, 11 people died due to Helene. Per capita, thats twice the rate of deaths as any other county in North Carolina. Yancey bore the brunt of the storms highest recorded wind gust and its highest recorded rainfall both on Mount Mitchell. Thirty inches fell there over three days at the most inundated site, half of it before Helenes arrival. Hundreds of landslides raked the countys slopes. Across the South, officials attribute 250 deaths to the storm. Of those, 107 died in North Carolina. Helene is the deadliest inland hurricane on record, by far. Freshwater flooding was the top killer. The sheriff learns his parents and his grandmother are alive after a harrowing escape through floodwaters. But across the South Toe River, a family of four who came to Yancey after fleeing the war in Ukraine were swept away. Flooding damaged the pews, first image, and hymnals, second image, of Laurel Branch Baptist Church, where Ray Strickland served as a pastor for 37 years. (First image: Courtesy of Ginnie Strickland Beverly. Second image: Juan Diego Reyes for ProPublica.) Jeff Howell, the emergency management director, retired earlier this year and still remains haunted. During his time in the Army and Army Reserves, he was deployed three times for three wars in three decades. None got to him like Helene. He couldnt shoot back at the storm. In hindsight, he feels that he and others notified folks as best they could given the unprecedented nature of Helenes assault. Its true that no one alive had ever seen destruction of this magnitude in the region. But the National Weather Service warnings about the storm catastrophic, life-threatening flooding and severely damaging slope failures and among the worst in the modern era proved prescient.When Brian and Susie Hill emerged from their truck the morning of Sept. 27, they found their once-gorgeous property resembled a moonscape of mud and rocks. Inside their home, it looked like someone put the contents of their lives into a blender. But when they slogged into their daughters bedroom shortly after the floodwaters receded, they found her stuffed animals still on the top bunk where she left them before Helene hit. They were perched just above the water line and were the only thing she cared about salvaging. The little girl had been so stoic. But when they left the house with her stuffed animals, she finally cried. Lucys stuffed toys (Juan Diego Reyes for ProPublica) About a week later, the Hills are living at a friends house. Susie is grateful that Lucy can play with the familys three young sons and keep her mind off things. The sadness of all they have lost subsides for a moment and is quickly replaced by a new fear. She and Brian live on public teachers salaries. They have 28 years left on their mortgage. Because their house isnt in a flood zone, they dont have flood insurance.She gets a pause on their mortgage. But its only for three months. She can think of just one place to turn to next for the magnitude of help they need. On her cellphone, through the fog of trauma, she types in FEMA. The South Toe River (Juan Diego Reyes for ProPublica) How We Reported This StoryThis recounting of what happened when Helene struck Yancey County is based primarily on the stories shared with us by survivors, many of whom dont appear by name in the story but whose experiences deeply inform it. We also relied on their videos and photographs of the storms onslaught, which they provided so that the rest of us could better understand the severity of the storm and what they experienced when left in its bullseye. In addition, we reviewed hundreds of videos of hurricane footage uploaded to social media. Our reporting included multiple visits to Yancey and other areas of western North Carolina devastated by the storm. In total, we reached out to more than 100 people living in our focus area along the Cane River, Tudy Creek and Cattail Creek in Yancey and interviewed dozens of survivors who live there. We also spoke with loved ones of nearly all who were killed in these communities. Public records including emergency call logs, death records and weather data buttressed their accounts. So did interviews with many of the local officials who oversaw the response and first responders who saved lives during the storm, then rescued those who were trapped afterward. To understand the warnings that officials and residents received, we compiled a timeline of the National Weather Services Helene-related alerts, reviewed its briefing packets for local officials and watched the final webinar its staff had with officials before Helene hit. We then scoured contemporaneous social media posts to understand what warnings and directives local governments across the mountain counties shared with their residents. In total, we reviewed more than 500 messages from more than three dozen jurisdictions in the lead-up to the storm. We depended on key experts in the region to understand the science behind Helene and its destructive power. These included Trisha Palmer, warning coordination meteorologist, and Pat Moore, a lead meteorologist, at the National Weather Services Greenville-Spartanburg office, which serves western North Carolina. We also turned to geologist Philip Prince and Jennifer Bauer, co-owner and principal geologist of Appalachian Landslide Consultants, among other experts.We plan to continue reporting on Helenes aftermath to understand what lessons could better prepare these communities and others for future storms, as well as how the rebuilding effort is unfolding. If you would like to share tips with us, please email helenetips@propublica.org. What Did Helene Take From You?One man lost six electric guitars and four amps. One woman lost the town memorabilia kept in a landmark store that was in her family for generations. Some lost cars and homes. Many experienced the greatest loss of all, a dear friend or family member.As we continue to tell the stories of Helenes devastation of western North Carolina, we want to know: What is one thing the storm destroyed that you would have saved had you evacuated?To let us know, leave a voicemail at 828-201-2738. We appreciate you sharing your story, and we take your privacy seriously. We are gathering this information for the purposes of our reporting, and we will contact you if we wish to publish any part of your story. Graphics and development by Lucas Waldron. Design by Anna Donlan. Visual editing by Shoshana Gordon and Donlan. Research by Mollie Simon.
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    By Nathan Ramos-Park I grew up in small town Ohio running through the woods, catching frogs and crayfish at Hinckley Lake, All-American Boy stuff. But because I wasnt like the other boys (gay) but also literally not like the other boys (Filipino/Korean, cleft lip and palate, existential depression disguised as precocious behavior) I have constantly [...]The post Coming Into Focus first appeared on GLAAD.
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    Legendary Johnny Mathis bids farewell to remarkable career
    Today, Johnny Mathis will step onto the stage for the final time at the Bergen Performing Arts Center in Englewood, New Jersey, concluding a remarkable seven-decade career that redefined American pop music and quietly broke barriers for queer artists worldwide.Mathis, who will be 90 in September, announced his retirement from live performances after a remarkable career spanning almost 70 years. Mathis is leaving the stage due to age and increasing memory issues. His team shared the news on his Facebook page, expressing heartfelt gratitude to fans and hinting at potential new music in the future. Born in Gilmer, Texas, and raised in San Francisco, Mathis's journey to stardom began in the mid-1950s. His hits "Wonderful! Wonderful!" and "It's Not for Me to Say" catapulted him to fame in the late 50s, followed by the chart-topping "Chances Are." His 1958 album, "Johnny's Greatest Hits," spent almost 500 consecutive weeks on the Billboard charts, according to the Smithsonian. The institution notes that is about 10 years. It's a record that stood for decades.Related: Johnny Mathis and Stories from His 65 Years in Show BusinessThroughout his illustrious career, Mathis released over 70 albums and sold more than 350 million records worldwide. His smooth tenor voice became synonymous with romantic ballads and holiday classics, earning him the nickname "The Voice of Romance." In addition to being an enormously popular singer, Mathis was also a global superstar and heartthrob. His contributions to music were recognized with numerous accolades, including a Grammy Lifetime Achievement Award in 2003 and inductions into the Grammy Hall of Fame for songs like "Chances Are," "Misty," and "It's Not for Me to Say."Beyond his musical achievements, Mathis holds a significant place in LGBTQ+ history. In a 1982 interview, he inadvertently acknowledged his sexuality, stating, "Homosexuality is a way of life that I've grown accustomed to." Mathis said he received death threats after the interview. It wasn't until years later that he openly discussed his identity, becoming one of the first global queer superstars to do so. In an exclusive 2021 interview with The Advocate, Mathis reflected on his life, talking about his childhood, that included six brothers and sisters, and how he adored his parents, "My dad was white, and my mom was black. And my dad had a lot of Latin influence in him, he recalled. It was my dad who pushed me to pursue singing. He was always my biggest supporter and my very best friend."He also explained that his life was somewhat arduous when he came out in 1982, "Yes, it was difficult, he said. Back then, you didn't talk about things like that; however, I never worried about it too much. I just kept thinking that being gay didn't affect my performance or how the audience reacted to my singing. I just resolved to myself that everything was going to be OK."And he also expressed gratitude for his fans' unwavering support. "I've had a wonderful life, and I've been very lucky to have people who care about me and my music, he shared. Mathis's quiet courage paved the way for future generations of queer artists. Today, performers like Elton John, Melissa Etheridge, Brandi Carlile, and Lil Nas X, and many others continue to break boundaries, building upon the foundation Mathis laid decades ago.As he got older, Mathis eventually did become more comfortable with his sexuality, telling The Advocate, "I've come to the realization at this age that my sexuality is always going to be a source of interest because I'm a public figure, and I just thank God that society has changed and that being gay is not such a big deal anymore and that society is more accepting."
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    The Sniffies app: The ultimate tool for real-time hookups
    After seven years as a browser-only cruising platform, Sniffies officially launched an iOS version March 3. As an app, it joins the ranks of competitors like Grindr and Scruff. But unlike those, with their moderated profile pics (no nudity allowed) and looking for options ranging from networking to relationships, Sniffies is still focused on being a tool for finding real, in-person sex.After I left Grindr and its ilk for good detailed in a recent Last Call post in this magazine this news made me conflicted. Was Sniffies off-limits now too? Like the browser version, the app shows the approximate location of nearby users in real time. We wouldnt have launched an iOS app if we couldnt keep the magic of Sniffies intact, says Eli Martin, the platforms chief marketing officer. We had to figure out how to make it work without watering it down.Sniffies debuted in 2018 as a web-based experiment part cruising map, part chat room and developed an underground following. While apps like Grindr and Scruff were chasing venture capital and onboarding new users with photos of gay brunch, Sniffies offered what felt, in the now-crowded field of digitally mediated sex, a bit old-school: real-time, typically anonymous IRL sex.Now the company has found a way to bring that experience to iOS without violating Apples content policies. The solution: Safer Work Mode. This default setting blurs explicit images and turns Sniffies into a toned-down messaging platform. But users can opt out of it by visiting the website and toggling NSFW content back on. Its a work-around borrowed from apps like Reddit and X, which remain in Apples app store even though they often show explicit imagery. Heres how to turn off vanilla mode. By default, the iOS app launches in Safer Work Mode, which also filters explicit text. To unlock the full experience, open Sniffies in a web browser, log in to your account, navigate to settings, and toggle NSFW content to on. This change will sync with the app automatically.So, why the app? Why now? Theres this idea that if something is in the app store, its more legitimate, Martin says. We knew we needed to meet users where they are without alienating the people who love Sniffies for being different.Sniffies started in Seattle, where founder Blake Gallagher first posted Craigslist ads for a used underwear trading site hed built under the same name. It was originally supposed to be the eBay of used underwear, Martin says, laughing. Hence the name. But Blake quickly realized it wasnt very monetizable. He shelved it for a while but kept the name.Present-day Sniffies is a jump from that original concept, but Martin believes the name still works. I think about pheromones, he says. When youre attracted to someones scent, its because theyre genetically different from you. Thats a survival mechanism. I think thats beautiful and kind of defines what cruising is about. Its this instinct to sniff people out, literally and metaphorically. The name has layers. Maybe it started as a joke, but it turned out to be the perfect name.Sniffies interface is map-based. Its not a grid of profiles, and you cant keep scrolling to find guys located farther and farther away. The platform restricts you to profiles within a certain radius of your location. If you want to see more, you have to physically get up and move. On the map, blue pins mark active users near you. Orange pins show known cruising spots parks, bars, bathrooms, and more. Tap any pin to view someones profile, send a message, or check the vibe at a location.Sniffies isnt trying to be a gay social network an accusation that Leo Herrera, author of Analog Cruising, levies against modern app culture, and Grindr in particular. Analog Cruising is both a practical how-to guide and a manifesto for finding sex offline.Instead of fostering in-person connections, most apps today, like Grindr, attempt to replace in-person connections with a digital facsimile, harming brick-and-mortar gay bars and queer spaces in the process, Herrera contends. Worse, these apps profit from user data, which for queer people is the most sensitive data we have, he says.And they just dont work so well. Everyone on the apps arrived for a different party, Herrera writes. Some were a blurry torso looking for a 2 a.m. blowjob; others had a dozen portraits and essays for their dream man. Communication was instant or chats were over the span of days. After all these years, there seemed to be no common etiquette. When I interviewed Herrera (for Out about Grindrs new AI feature), he singled out Sniffies as the only platform he liked. I asked Martin about that. Its flattering, Martin says. Leo was a guest on our podcast, Cruising Confessions, and he blew my mind. He really knows his history. And what I think hes picking up on is that Sniffies is about taking action. You open the map, and its like a treasure map: Where can I go today? Its not about endless chatting. Its about getting out there.Martin uses Sniffies when he travels. I open Sniffies in a new city and see where guys are clustering. You notice: Oh, these bars seem cruisy, or heres a park I didnt know about. It creates this hyperlocal community I think is pretty rare now. To that end, Sniffies is trying to support IRL spaces, not replace them. I do believe other apps have contributed to the decline of the gay bar, Martin says. So many bars have closed over the last few years, partly because people dont feel the need to go out anymore. But I think Sniffies is different. I hope were helping push people back to those spaces. Bars use Sniffies to promote dark room nights or special events or just to say hey, this place is popping. Endless chat isnt the goal. Heres how to check into a place on Sniffies. Tap a cruising location or event, and hit check in. Others will see that youre there, or headed there. You can also view who else is checked in and message them before or during the event. All this syncs in real time with the web version, so you can be logged in on your laptop and phone simultaneously.I asked Martin how to host a meet, which he didnt define explicitly as a sex party, but I could read between the lines. Tap the + icon and select create a meet. Choose a location: your place, a neutral zone, or on-the-go. Add time, tags, and any limits (e.g., no poppers, loud music OK). Post it. Others nearby will instantly see it on the map.Martin says only 33 percent of Sniffies users identify as gay. The rest are bisexual, bi-curious, or straight. Martin feels that for many, discretion is key, and that, he feels, has been a key to Sniffies success its a favorite for DL users. Thats why it didnt originally launch as an app. A lot of people dont want the icon on their phone, Martin explains. They want to log on, get off, and disappear.Still, the app was necessary. Martin says iOS notifications are more reliable and the user experience is cleaner. And for some users, having a native app makes them take the platform seriously. There are guys whove used Sniffies before but didnt commit to it because it wasnt in the app store, Martin says.I ask him where Sniffies is growing the most. Frankfurt has become huge this year, Martin says. We didnt promote it at all there; it just kind of happened. Johannesburg: another new hot spot. Paris is growing, and London is huge. Torontos blowing up. Australia too.In Berlin, where I live, Sniffies is still in its infancy, Martin says. But were pushing hard there this year. He hopes the company will be able to organize local events in the coming year (the leaders have their eye on one particular queer music festival, but since details have not been set yet, I cant name it).After all this, I decided that Sniffies would be my one online exception because its focus, its mission, was offline and in-person the terrain I navigate best. I have never been good at apps. Maybe Sniffies is for me. As Martin puts it: Cruising is an active word. You go out. You explore. Thats what were here for.Alexander Cheves is a writer, sex educator, and author of My Love Is a Beast: Confessions from Unbound Edition Press. @badalexchevesNeed dating advice? Email your question to Cheves at askbeastly@gmail.com you may get an answer in a future column!This article is part of the Out May/June Pride issue, which hits newsstands May 27. Support queer media and subscribe or download the issue through Apple News, Zinio, Nook, or PressReader starting May 15.
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    Joe Biden and his team announced this Sunday, May 18 that the former President of the United States has been diagnosed with prostate cancer. On social media, Biden's running mate and Vice President pick Kamala Harris shared an emotional post about this health update. Biden's main political opponent, Donald Trump, has also chimed in.After discovering a "small nodule" on his prostate but not disclosing too much information at first Biden has now shared with the public that he's been diagnosed with an "aggressive form of" prostate cancer. As expected, many public figures are now sharing their reactions to the news.Harris wrote in an Instagram post:"Doug and I are saddened to learn of President Biden's prostate cancer diagnosis. We are keeping him, Dr. Biden, and their entire family in our hearts and prayers during this time. Joe is a fighter and I know he will face this challenge with the same strength, resilience, and optimism that have always defined his life and leadership. We are hopeful for a full and speedy recovery."See on InstagramAnother high-profile reaction to Biden's diagnosis came from his biggest political opponent in the 2020 and 2024 presidential campaigns: Donald Trump.The current president wrote on Truth Social:"Melania and I are saddened to hear about Joe Biden's recent medical diagnosis. We extend our warmest and best wishes to Jill and the family, and we wish Joe a fast and successful recovery."This story is still developing
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    View this post on Instagram A post shared by GLAAD (@glaad) Boys, boys, boys wanna have a little fun inFrankie Grandesnewest single! With a music video starring Salina Estitties and Laith Ashley, Grandes latest track Boysis about to be the song of the summer! GLAADs Anthony Allen Ramos joined GLAAD board member Frankie [...]The post WATCH: Frankie Grande and Laith Ashley Talk Steamy New Boys Video: Its so gay, its so queer, and we get to be our full authentic queer selves. first appeared on GLAAD.
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  • Pedro Pascale Shows Off His Sexy Arms At Cannes Film Festival In France 2025
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    Pedro Pascal's arms on Cannes 2025 red carpet send the internet into a thirsty fury
    What did we do to deserve Pedro Pascal? Our favorite daddy has once again sent the internet ablaze, and this time, all it took was showing off his arms.Over the weekend, Pascal made waves for his playful behavior at the 78th Cannes Film Festival, where he showed up to support and promote his upcoming film, Eddington.For what it's worth, the A24 film, directed by Ari Aster, received a five-minute standing ovation, which may or may not have had a direct correlation with his arms. I mean, look at the material:Whew.Pascal showed up on the red carpet in the above black muscle tank, which gloriously showed off those biceps we've all collectively decided we want to sleep in. If you ask me, I'd have the best night of sleep if I were held in those arms. A man can dream, can't he?Eddington is an American contemporary Western film that depicts the social and political turmoil during the COVID-19 pandemic in the fictional town of Eddington, New Mexico. It centers around a standoff between the local sheriff, Joe Cross (Joaquin Phoenix) and Pascal, who plays the town's mayor Ted Garcia and is running for reelection.The movie itself caused a bit of divide and wound up being one of the most divisive movies at the festival due to its depiction of everyone's worst fears during the pandemic, as well as the close proximity we still are to that time. It's also viewed as a social satire that both mocks and examines the panic from that year, with little pokes at both the liberal and conservative sides of the coin.At a press conference during the festival, Pascal addressed some of the controversy by saying, "It's very scary to participate in a movie that speaks to issues like this. Its far too intimidating a question for me to address. I'm not informed enough. I want people to be safe and protected. I want very much to be on the right side of history." (@) He added, "I feel like [Aster] wrote something that was all our worst fears as that lockdown experience was already a fracturing society. This was building toward an untethered sense of reality. There is a point of no going back. I was overwhelmed by that fear, and it's wonderful that it was confirmed by Ari."Outside of the seriousness of the film and the discussions during the press conference--which also included Pascal defending immigrants and telling us he came as a refugee from Chile to flee a dictatorship--his personality influenced the wildfire that sent fans in a frenzy that reminded us we really don't deserve him.Him spinning out of camera like this with a little kiss? It's just too damn cute for words. (@) His acting skills have made us h-word, been viewed as one of the hottest male celebs, and has wielded multiple types of swords throughout his 20-plus years in the industry.All of this plays a part in why the gays and the rest of the world totally love this man. He's made jokes about being into submission, defended Rachel Zegler over the Snow White controversy, and has shown what non-toxic masculinity looks like through his friendship with Oscar Isaac.His willingness to be a goofball at events like Cannes, where he stuck out his tongue, took selfies with adoring fans, and even kissed Alexander Skarsgrd, also has everyone hanging on his every move. It seems like every time he shows up to an event and every acting role he takes on just makes him a bigger celebrity that we simply cannot get enough of. (@) We collectively share a thirst for this man that is borderline unrivaled by any other we have ever seen. Pascal's established himself as a staunch and fierce ally for the LGBTQ+ community. He's passionately defended his trans sister, Lux, played bisexual characters like Oberyn Martell in Game of Thrones, and has multiple bromances that send our fantasies out of this world.Plus, he has at least admitted that he wants to make out with actor Kieran Culkin, and we very much maintain that this needs to happen, and we'd love the "pics or it didn't exist" resolution after he talked about this during the SAG Awards earlier this year. In a world that's so chaotic, we need someone like Pascal to deliver us humor, drama, and equality. In our opinion, he deserves every good thing that happens to him and more, and we remain eternally grateful for everything he gives us.Especially those damn arms.Although the people of the Cannes Film Festival have been lucky enough to see Eddington, the rest of us are going to have to wait until July 18 for the film to see its U.S. release. In the meantime, you can watch Pascal on the current season of HBO's The Last of Us.
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    Transportation Secretary Sean Duffy Sold Stocks Two Days Before Trump Announced a Plan for Reciprocal Tariffs
    by Robert Faturechi and Brandon Roberts ProPublica is a nonprofit newsroom that investigates abuses of power. Sign up to receive our biggest stories as soon as theyre published. Two days before President Donald Trump announced dramatic plans for reciprocal tariffs on foreign imports, Transportation Secretary Sean Duffy sold stock in almost three dozen companies, according to records reviewed by ProPublica.The Feb. 11 sales occurred near the stock markets historic peak, just before it began to slide amid concerns about Trumps tariff plans and ultimately plummeted after the president unveiled the details of the new tariffs on April 2.Disclosure records filed by Duffy with the U.S. Office of Government Ethics show he sold between $75,000 and $600,000 of stock two days before Trumps Feb. 13 announcement, and up to $50,000 more that day.Transportation secretaries normally have little to do with tariff policy, but Duffy has presented himself as one of the intellectual forefathers of Trumps current trade agenda. As a congressman in 2019, his last government position before Trump elevated him to his cabinet post, Duffy introduced a bill he named the United States Reciprocal Trade Act. The proposed legislation, which did not pass, in many ways mirrors Trumps reciprocal tariff plan. Duffy worked on that bill with Trumps trade adviser Peter Navarro. Trumps tariffs were the culmination of that work, Duffy posted online, referring to his own bill in the House. Trades by government officials informed by nonpublic information learned in the course of their official duties could violate the law. However, its unclear whether Duffy had any information about the timing or scale of Trumps reciprocal tariff plans before the public did. Trump had repeatedly promised to institute significant tariffs throughout the campaign. But during the first weeks of his term, investors were not panic selling, seeming to assume Trump wouldnt adopt the far-reaching levies that led to the market crash following his Liberation Day announcement. In response to questions from ProPublica, a Transportation Department spokesperson said an outside manager made the trades and Duffy had no input on the timing of the sales a defense that ethics experts generally consider one of the strongest against questions of trading on nonpublic information.His stock transactions are part of a retirement account and not managed directly by the Secretary. The account managers must follow the guidance of the ethics agreement and they have done so.The Secretary strongly supports the Presidents tariff policy, but he isnt part of the administrations decisions on tariff levels, the spokesperson said.The spokesperson dismissed the notion that knowledge of Trumps coming tariffs could constitute insider knowledge because President Trump has been discussing tariffs since the 1980s.Duffy is the second cabinet secretary to have sold stock at an opportune time. Last week, ProPublica reported that Attorney General Pam Bondi sold between $1 million and $5 million worth of shares of Trump Media, the presidents social media company, on April 2. A government ethics agreement required Bondi to sell the shares within 90 days of her confirmation, a deadline that would have given her until early May, but why she sold on that date is unclear. After the market closed that day, Trump presented his tariffs, sending the market reeling. Following ProPublicas story, at least two Democratic members of Congress called for investigations. Bondi has yet to answer questions about whether she knew anything about Trumps tariff plans before the public did. The Justice Department has not responded to questions about the trades.Disclosure forms for securities trading by government officials do not require them to state the exact amount bought or sold but instead to provide a broad range for the totals of each transaction. Duffy's disclosure records show he sold 34 stocks worth between $90,000 and $650,000 on Feb. 11 and Feb. 13. Per the ethics agreement he signed to avoid conflicts of interest as head of the Transportation Department, he was required to sell off stock in seven of those companies during his first three months in office. Cabinet members are typically required to divest themselves of financial interests that intersect with their departments oversight role, which in Duffys case involve U.S. roadways, aviation and the rest of the nations transportation network. The ethics agreement was dated Jan. 13, and Duffy was confirmed by the senate on Jan. 28, meaning he had until late April to sell. His spokesperson said he provided his account manager with the ethics agreement on Feb. 7.The stocks he sold in the other 27 companies were not subject to the ethics agreement. Those shares were valued somewhere between $27,000 and $405,000, according to the records. Among them were Shopify, whose merchants are impacted by the tariffs, and John Deere, the agricultural machinery manufacturer that has projected hundreds of millions of dollars in new costs because of Trumps tariffs. Other companies Duffy sold, like gambling firm DraftKings and food delivery service DoorDash, are less directly vulnerable to tariff disruptions. But even those companies will be impacted if Americans have less disposable cash to spend. Few stocks were not hit hard by Trumps Liberation Day tariff announcements. The S&P 500, a broadbased index, fell almost 19% in the weeks that followed Duffys sales and 13% specifically after Trump unveiled the details of his reciprocal tariff plan. Since Trump unexpectedly walked back much of those initial tariffs, the market has rebounded. Theres no indication that the cash from Duffys sales was immediately reinvested. He appears to have held on to parts of his portfolio, including a Bitcoin fund, treasuries, S&P 500 funds and stock in Madrigal Pharmaceuticals, an American biopharma company. (Duffy also purchased some Microsoft shares, one of the stocks hes prohibited from holding, days earlier on Feb. 7, only to sell them on Feb. 11 with the rest of his sales.)Trades by government officials informed by nonpublic information learned through their jobs could violate the Stop Trading on Congressional Knowledge, or STOCK, Act. The 2012 law clarified that executive and legislative branch employees cannot use nonpublic government information to trade stock and requires them to promptly disclose their trades. But no cases have ever been brought under the law, and some legal experts have doubts it would hold up to scrutiny from the courts, which in recent years have generally narrowed what constitutes illegal insider trading. Current and former officials have also raised concerns that Trumps Justice Department and Securities and Exchange Commission would not aggressively investigate activities by Trump or his allies. The presidents selection of Duffy to lead the Department of Transportation was somewhat unexpected. Duffy, who came to fame when he starred in the reality show The Real World in the late 1990s, had last held public office in 2019 during Trumps first term when he served as a Wisconsin congressman. As a lawmaker, Duffy introduced the bill that would have made it easier for Trump, or any president, to levy new tariffs, a role that had long been largely reserved for Congress. The bill would have allowed the president to impose additional tariffs on imported goods if he determined that another country was applying a higher duty rate on the same goods when they were coming from America. The bill did not pass, but Trump has essentially assumed that power by justifying new tariffs as essential to national security or in response to a national emergency. His Feb. 13 announcement called on his advisers to come up with new tariff rates on goods coming from countries around the world based on a number of restrictions he said those countries were placing on American products not just through tariffs, but also with their exchange rates and industry subsidies. Even the public rollout of Duffys bill and Trumps tariffs were similar. Duffy released a spreadsheet showing how other countries tariffed particular goods at a higher rate than the U.S. Trump also used a spreadsheet during his rollout to show that his new tariffs were the same or lower than the trade restrictions other countries had placed on American goods. More recently, Duffy has been a booster of Trumps trade policies. LIBERATION DAY!!Were not gonna take it anymore!, he tweeted two days after Trump unveiled his reciprocal tariffs on April 2. This week, @POTUS took a historic step towards stopping other countries from ripping off the American worker and restoring Fair Trade. In Congress, I helped lead the US Reciprocal Trade Act with @RealPNavarro and the @WhiteHouse to expand the Presidents tariff powers in his first term. I am so proud to have been able to share the culmination of that work, Liberation Day, with my family this week. Thank you at POTUS!
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    Life is short, so kiss boys!Johnny Sibilly has never been afraid to talk about his love and affection for his gorgeous boyfriend Phillip Davis, so he had no problem dishing on his latest viral video where the couple is seen making out at Coachella."This is the time to do be doing it! If not now, when? I feel like, as queer people, when people do attack us, sometimes we have that fight or flight. Not saying that me making out with my boyfriend is fighting, but it is in a way, especially in a space where it's not just queer people," Sibilly tells PRIDE. See on Instagram Queer visibility is needed now more than ever, so Sibilly hopes other people in the LGBTQ+ community proudly show off their love with their significant others online."I think it's important to kiss your man! Kiss him! Especially you girls that have been in a relationship for awhile, you should be kissing your boyfriends. I know you let other people do it, but you should do it too!"While attending the grand opening for The Tryst Puerto Vallarta, the star also encouraged anyone still in the closet or having a tough time living out and proud to stay resilient during these trying times."I would say that you have everything that you need right in front of you. You are amazing. Don't let anybody let you think that you are less than, because you're fabulous. Go look in the mirror right now! Look at you. You're beautiful!"Fans can follow Johnny Sibilly on Instagram here. To see the full interview, check out the video at the top of the page.
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    10 lesbians dish on the moment they realized they were into women
    When did you know you were LGBTQ+?It's a question most of us have been asked at some point. Some people always just knew. Theres no big moment, no dramatic realization just a enviable sense of self that was always there. But for many of us, that moment of realization may have been brewing for some time before slapping us upside the head all at once. And life-changing moments like those are hard to forget.Lesbians on reddit recently decided to dish on their own sexuality realizations. From crushes on TV characters, friendships that hit a little too hard, or simply finally putting meaning to the butterflies that only come when looking at girls, some of their stories will definitely resonate for better or for worse.1. Butterfly surprise! from actuallesbiansToo relatable.2. A poolside realization. from actuallesbiansIt's giving The Sandlot.3. The forehead kiss. from actuallesbiansFreaking adorable!4. Warrior princess awakening from actuallesbians...enough said.5. Playing house ... pet. from actuallesbiansThat's the way to do it!6. The body knows. from actuallesbiansA logical conclusion!7. The infamous kiss. from actuallesbiansYes. Yes we do know the one.8. And the result is? Gay. from actuallesbiansSometimes the answer is obvious.9. Whoops! from actuallesbiansAnd they were tunnel-mates.10. Putting the forever in BFF. from actuallesbiansWell, better late than never!
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    Everything we know about 'Pillion', the kinky gay film taking over Cannes
    The Cannes Film Festival over the weekend gave us more than just Pedro Pascals arms to obsess over, especially after the gay dom/sub movie, Pillion, became the most talked-about premiere. Despite the graphic content, the film still earned a seven-minute standing ovation once the credits rolled. Besides that, central star Alexander Skarsgrd also gave us some sexy-ass leather pants to gawk over, kissed Pascal on the red carpet, and sent the Twittersphere into a frenzy over pup hoods and prosthetic pieces. The movie also gave us the second naked Harry Potter star this year, following Jason Isaacs baring it all in The White Lotus.But what is the hype all about?From its motorbike club premise to its A24 pedigree, heres everything we know so far about Canness kinkiest crowdpleaser.What is a pillion?Besides being the title of the film, a pillion is the backseat of a motorcycleperfect shorthand for submission in both biker and BDSM circles.Written and directed by queer newcomer Harry Lighton, Pillion follows Ray (Skarsgrd), the alpha leader of a London motorbike club, who spots wallflower Colin (Harry Melling) singing in a barbershop quartet and invites him into the fulltilt world of leather, chains, and 24/7 power exchange.As Skarsgrd told Stephen Colbert, Colin is kind of my boyfriend slash sex slave slash butler, and yes, theres naked wrestling.But as Colin plunges deeper, he must decide if living as Rays submissiveand literally riding pillionis truly for him.Meet the leads: Skarsgrd as dom Ray and Melling as shy ColinSkarsgrd leans into Rays magnetic menace: a tattooed biker who issues orders with a single look. Opposite him, Mellingbest known as Dudley Dursley in Harry Potter and a breakout star of The Queens Gambitplays Colin with wideeyed vulnerability.Their chemistry, according to reviews, is about to have us all hot and bothered after we see it. Whether theyre lacing up combat boots or sparring shirtless in a ring, the explicit nature of the film is equally kinky, romantic, and about to serve us all of our fantasies on a silver platter. As Colin learns to lick boots and don a lockandchain collar, Mellings transformation from nervous suburbanite to willing sub anchors the films emotional core.A supporting cast worth riding for.Pillion doesnt stop at its leads. Scissor Sisters frontman Jake Shears makes his acting debut as a fellow sub who shares an NSFW picnictable scenecomplete with a penis prosthetic sporting a Prince Albert piercing.See on InstagramElsewhere, out gay biker Paul Tallis popped up in a pup hood, which he posted on his Instagram, and allegedly gave Melling a masterclass in bootlicking on set. See on InstagramPlus, several reallife club members appear in cameos, lending gritty authenticity to the leatherandlash tableau.The A24/Lighton dream teamIn October, A24 scooped up U.S. rights to Pillion, adding it to a slate that includes MaXXXine and Everything Everywhere All at Once.Lightonwhose BAFTAnominated short Wren Boys explored queer love in a mens prisonintroduced Pillion at Cannes with a wink, saying I hope it makes you laugh, makes you think and feel, and maybe makes some of you a little bit horny or a lot. Lets see. See on InstagramJudging by the audiences reaction, the gamble paid off.Leather, boots, and prosthetics: the wardrobe buzzSkarsgrd arrived at the premiere in skintight leather pants and Loewe biker boots, then later upped the ante in Saint Laurent thighhigh fetish boots, per WWD.Under a simple white tee depicting a dom boot over a sub, he strutted the carpet like the ultimate bedroom dom. Social media went wild. (@) Alexander Skarsgrds Cannes look IM OBSESSED, wrote one fan. (@) Another cheered, So happy Alexander Skarsgrd came out of his cave to remind me what hot men actually look like.The Cannes kiss heard round the CroisetteAfter Pillions standing ovation, Skarsgrd embraced fellow attendee Pascal and stole a quick kiss. The clip went viral overnight, even though it was later confirmed as a peck on the cheek. (@) Still, the moment has already cemented Pillions place in festival lore, which celebrated men in leather and gave us all something to cheer about.Early reception from critics and fansAs with anything, queer or not, the reviews have been as mixed as theyve been ecstatic.The Daily Beast called Pillion delightfully tender, praising its balance of raw sex and genuine romance. Reuters noted Lightons comedic touchesunscripted blunders that make the awkward positions laughoutloud real. The Hollywood Reporter confirmed a sevenminute ovation, though some insiders quipped that Cannes standingovation metrics are themselves an industry ritual ripe for critique.We only needed to hear sexually explicit content between Skarsgrd and Melling to catch our attention, but the reviews have further whet our appetite and also given us hope that theres more to the film than raunchy sex.When (and where) can we all ride together?While Pillion has burned rubber at Cannes, an official U.S. release date remains unannounced. Until A24 or Element Pictures drops the green light, well have to edge out our excitement while we wait.Whether youre a seasoned kinkster or simply curious, Pillion delivers a full-throttle ridecomplete with leather, chains, tears, laughs, and maybe a sob or two when Colin asks, Do I really want to ride pillion forever? At Cannes, the answer was a resounding yes.Stay tuned for trailers, ratings info, and maybe a directors cut featuring even more leather.
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    Some of our favorite queer couples have been expanding their families this year by welcoming new babies into the mix. It's more important than ever to recognize and celebrate LGBTQ+ people just leading the same normal lives as our straight counterparts, so let's offer a hearty congratulations to these happy parents and well-wishes for the many sleepless nights to come!1. Candice Huffine & Shelly Lynch-SparksSee on InstagramModel Candice Huffine and her wife, designer Shelly Lynch-Sparks, announced their pregnancy late last year, with a January due date."Being a parent with you is the most expansive thing I have ever done in my life," Lynch-Sparks wrote in a Mothers Day post this year, addressing her wife. "I wake up everyday and ask time to slow down."2. Courtney Vandersloot & Allie QuigleySee on InstagramWNBA players Courtney Vandersloot and Allie Quigley managed to keep news of their first childs arrival a secret for a full month before spilling the deets about baby Jana to People."We have been dreaming of this moment for a long time, and its better than we could have ever imagined!" they said.3. Sam Kerr & Kristie MewisSee on InstagramSoccer couple Kristie Mewis and Sam Kerr welcomed their first son, Jagger Mewis-Kerr, in May. Fans had already celebrated on behalf of the couple when they shared news of their pregnancy back in November via a series of adorable photo booth pics featuring their ultrasound.4. Ludmilla & Brunna GonalvesSee on InstagramBrazilian music star Ludmilla and her wife celebrated the birth of their daughter, Zuri, on May 14, by sharing a picture of them holding her tiny hand on Instagram."We are living in a moment of great joy and fulfillment, as if we were in paradise," they later said in a statement to People. "Today, if someone asks me what love is, I know how to answer."5. Eden & Jay TrevioSee on InstagramInfluencers Eden and Jay Trevio extensively documented their journey with IVF before finally being able to let the world know that their child, Jayden, had been born."To anyone who still believes queer folks shouldnt be parents if this isnt what unconditional love and family look like, I dont know what is," Eden shared on Instagram.
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    A Teacher Dragged a 6-Year-Old With Autism by His Ankle. Federal Civil Rights Officials Might Not Do Anything.
    by Jennifer Smith Richards and Jodi S. Cohen ProPublica is a nonprofit newsroom that investigates abuses of power. Sign up for Dispatches, a newsletter that spotlights wrongdoing around the country, to receive our stories in your inbox every week. A short video taken inside an Illinois school captured troubling behavior: A teacher gripping a 6-year-old boy with autism by the ankle and dragging him down the hallway on his back.The early-April incident wouldve been upsetting in any school, but it happened at the Garrison School, part of a special education district where at one time students were arrested at the highest rate of any district in the country. The teacher was charged with battery weeks later after pressure from the students parents.Its been about eight months since the U.S. Department of Education directed Garrison to change the way it responded to the behavior of students with disabilities. The department said it would monitor the Four Rivers Special Education District, which operates Garrison, following a ProPublica and Chicago Tribune investigation in 2022 that found the school frequently involved police and used controversial disciplinary methods. But the departments Office for Civil Rights regional office in Chicago, which was responsible for Illinois and five other states, was one of seven abolished by President Donald Trumps administration in March; the offices were closed and their entire staff was fired.The future of oversight at Four Rivers, in west-central Illinois, is now uncertain. Theres no record of any communication from the Education Department to the district since Trump took office, and his administration has terminated an antidiscrimination agreement with at least one school district, in South Dakota.In the April incident, Xander Reed, who has autism and does not speak, did not stop playing with blocks and go to P.E. when he was told to, according to a police report. Xander then became agitated and fell to the ground, the report said. When he refused to get up, a substitute teacher, Rhea Drake, dragged him to the gym.Another staff member took a photo and alerted school leadership. Principal Amy Haarmann told police that Drakes actions were not an acceptable practice at the school, the police report said. Xanders family asked to press charges. Drake, who had been working in Xanders classroom for more than a month, was charged about three weeks later with misdemeanor battery, records show. She has pleaded not guilty. Her attorney told ProPublica that he and Drake did not want to comment for this story. Tracey Fair, the districts director, said school officials made sure students were safe following the incident and that Drake wont be returning to the district. She declined to comment further about the incident, but said school officials take their obligation to keep students and staff safe very seriously. Doug Thompson, chief of police in Jacksonville, where the school is located, said he could not discuss the case. A screenshot from a recording of a CCTV video shows Xander Reed being dragged down the hallway by a teacher at the Garrison School. (Obtained by ProPublica) Xanders mother, Amanda, said her son is fearful about going to Garrison, where she said he also has been punished by being put in a school crisis room, a small space where students are taken when staff feel they misbehave or need time alone. He has not wanted to go to school, she said. We want him to get an education. We want him to be with other kids.Four Rivers serves an eight-county area, and students at Garrison range from kindergartners through high schoolers. About 70 students were enrolled at the start of the school year. Districts who feel they arent able to educate a student in neighborhood schools send them to Four Rivers; Xander travels 40 minutes each way to attend Garrison.The federal scrutiny of Garrison began after ProPublica and the Tribune revealed that during a five-year period, school employees called police to report student misbehavior every other school day, on average. Police made more than 100 arrests of students as young as 9 during that period. They were handcuffed and taken to the police station for being disruptive or disobedient; if theyd physically lashed out at staff, they often were charged with felony aggravated battery. Garrison School is part of a special education district thats supposed to be under federal monitoring for violating the civil rights of its disabled students. (Bryan Birks for ProPublica) The news organizations also found that Garrison employees frequently removed students from their classrooms and sent them to crisis rooms when the students were upset, disobedient or aggressive.The Office for Civil Rights findings echoed those of the news investigation. It determined that Garrison routinely sent students to police for noncriminal conduct that could have been related to their disabilities something prohibited by federal law. The district was to report its progress in making changes to the OCR by last December, which it appears to have done, according to documents ProPublica obtained through a public records request.But the records show the OCR has not communicated with the district since then and its not clear what will come of the work at Four Rivers. The OCR has terminated at least one agreement it entered into last year a deal with a South Dakota school district that had agreed to take steps to end discrimination against its Native American students. Spokespeople for the Education Department did not respond to questions from ProPublica.Scott Reed, 6-year-old Xander Reeds father, said he and Xanders mother were aware of the frequent use of police as disciplinarians at Four Rivers and of OCRs involvement. But they reluctantly enrolled him this school year because they were told there were no other options.You can say youve made all these changes, but you havent, Scott Reed said. For example, he said, even after confirming that Drake had dragged the 50-pound boy down the hall, school leadership sent her home. They did not call police until I arrived at school and demanded it hours later, he said.If that was a student that acted that way, they would have been in handcuffs. Scott and Amanda Reed, Xanders parents, enrolled their son in Garrison School after being told they had no other options. (Bryan Birks for ProPublica) New ProPublica reporting has found that since school began in August, police have been called to the school at least 30 times in response to student behavior. Thompson, the police chief, told ProPublica that, in one instance, officers were summoned because a student was saying inappropriate things. They also were called last month after a report that a student punched and bit staff members. The officers helped to calm the student, according to the local newspapers police blotter. And police have continued to arrest Garrison students. There have been six arrests of students for property damage or aggravated battery this school year, police data shows. A 15-year-old girl was arrested for spitting in a staff members face, and a 10-year-old boy was arrested after being accused of hitting an employee. There were at least nine student arrests last school year, according to police data.Thompson said four students between the ages of 10 and 16 have been arrested this school year on the more serious aggravated battery charge; one of the students was arrested three times. He said he thinks police calls to Garrison are inevitable, but that school staff are now handling more student behavioral concerns without reaching out to police. I feel like now the calls for service are more geared toward they have done what they can and they now need help, Thompson said. They have attempted to de-escalate themselves and the student is not cooperating still or it is out of their control and they need more assistance.Police were called to the school last week to deal with a disturbance involving a student, according to the police blotter in Jacksonvilles local newspaper. It didnt end in an arrest this time; a parent arrived and made the student obey staff members.
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    More Transgender Americans Are Arming Themselves Under Trump
    Photo courtesy of the Pink Pistols.Subscribe nowSince Donald Trump won the election on Nov. 5, Aeryn has been quietly stockpiling hormone replacement therapy and ammunition, things she sees as essential for living as a transgender woman under the current administration. She has filled her garage with 20 to 30,000 rounds of ammunition and up to a years worth of estrogenreaching the outer boundary of the drugs one- to two-year shelf life.Starting with the election, I became very concerned, she told Uncloseted Media.Animosity toward trans people in the U.S. is at an all-time high. President Trump has signed a laundry list of executive orders rolling back transgender rights, including one that saysin the eyes of the federal governmenttrans people dont exist. Trump has vilified trans people with rhetoric that casts them as a threat to women and children, and during the campaign he made it a promise to get rid of so-called transgender insanity.Anti-trans sentiment has seeped into left-wing circles, too. Some Democrats blamed Kamala Harris loss on the partys stance on trans rights.All of this has created a perfect storm where nearly three-quarters of trans people in the U.S. now fear physical violence. Thats why many trans people are taking measures to defend themselves by enrolling in training programs, buying guns and learning self-defense.Fears of violence against queer people are warranted. In 2023, LGBTQ people were five times more likely than non-LGBTQ people to be victims of violent crimes, according to a new study from the Williams Institute. And an FBI report found that there were 547 recorded incidents targeting a victims gender identity in 2023, up from 469 the year prior.Trans women are in an especially dangerous position today, facing the bulk of anti-trans rhetoric and legislation. From bathroom bans to restrictions from sports participation, much of the right-wing focus on trans issues is aimed at trans women. The disproportionate attention on the demographic not only fuels hostility but encourages violence. According to Heidi Beirich, the co-founder of the Global Project Against Hate and Extremism, sustained bigotry can translate to violence.There is a link between online hate and real-world violence in terms of hate crimes," Beirich told Uncloseted Media. When you demonize communities, it does link to violence.Subscribe nowFor Aeryn, the escalation of anti-trans rhetoric and Trumps actions have motivated her to prepare for violence.It leaves our community to fend for itself and at least be prepared for armed aggression, she says.Aeryn, 52, who didnt feel safe revealing her last name or location, feels lucky to have never experienced any violence personally. But she worries its only a matter of time until something happens.I think its quite likely the administration will at least try to say being transgender is a mental health condition, she says. Her biggest fear is that the Trump administration will place transgender people under government-sanctioned control, something akin to WWII-era internment camps.As a safety precaution, she is moving from a red to a blue statean action nearly half of transgender Americans have considered, according to a 2022 study.Aeryn, a lifelong gun owner, entered the Marine Corps at 19 and learned to shoot long before she transitioned. There have been other instances where she has stockpiled ammunition, like during the pandemic, but shes never feared for her safety as a trans woman more than right now.Im worried not in societal breakdown but a targeted, direct attack on the LGBTQ community and trans people specifically.Aeryn is just one of many trans Americans who feel the need to protect themselves under Trump 2.0. Pink Pistolsan international LGBTQ gun rights organizationsays that over 20 local chapters have been created or reactivated since the November election.Photo courtesy of the Pink Pistols.Theres definitely been a lot of interest and a lot of concern over whats going on in the government, says Erin Palette, the Pink Pistols national coordinator and the founder of Operation Blazing Sword, a firearm education organization that works in tandem with the Pistols.Operation Blazing Sword instructors teach queer people the basics of firearm safety, including how to safely load and unload, aim and shoot with precision. They also teach the importance of proper maintenance and care, including how to clean and store firearms.Palette says the 2016 Pulse nightclub mass shooting, which left 49 people dead and was deemed a terrorist attack by the FBI, was a key reason she started the group. She refers to it as the queer 9/11 and believes it unearthed an underlying threat against LGBTQ people that lay dormant in America long before the massacre.A lot of queer people went, Wow, it really doesn't matter what I do or say. There are still people who want me dead, and they are going to take action to make that happen, Palette told Uncloseted Media. And so they realized the danger they had already been in. It just became personal.Beirich says the reaction to Pulse and the current self-defense measures trans people are taking under Trump 2.0 are similar to the actions taken by other minorities in the country following acts of domestic terrorism.After the attack at the Pittsburgh synagogue, many Jewish communities across the country invested in cameras, hardening up Jewish areas, Beirich says, referring to the 2018 Tree of Life synagogue shooting, where a right-wing extremist killed 11 congregants.Beirich says direct violence, like the Pulse shooting, and structural violence, such as anti-trans laws at the state and federal levels, have given queer people reason to arm themselves. "This is the kind of situation when you're in it that makes you want to arm up because you feel like the state can't protect you, she says. It's made all the worse when the federal government actually buys into the same anti-LGBTQ ideas that the Pulse shooter exhibited."Photo courtesy of the Pink Pistols.As Palette began training queer people to use firearms after Pulse, some others moved away from gun ownership. Carly, a trans woman and longtime gun store manager, says her relationship with firearms soured after Pulse. She sold her stake in the gun store and disarmed for several years, concerned she was contributing to the problem.I [couldnt] guarantee that the guns that I [was] selling [wouldnt] ever be pointed at me, Carly, who also didnt feel safe providing her last name, told Uncloseted Media.But that changed once she first heard about Project 2025, the 920-page document that outlined a plan to consolidate power in the executive branch and enforce far-right policies that included an anti-trans framework.I saw the writing on the wall, she says.While there have been false narratives on social media about how trans folks disproportionately commit acts of domestic terrorism, Palette makes clear that the purpose of Pink Pistols is to teach self-defense.Photo courtesy of the Pink Pistols.I carry a firearm. It doesn't mean that I'm a police officer, she says. It's just a tool that I have to address the immediate situation while I wait for the professionals to arrive.Marc Stein, a professor of queer history at San Francisco State University, says the LGBTQ community has a long history of self-defense training.Things changed in the seventies and then again in the eighties and nineties when there began to be collective calls within the LGBT movement for self-defense, Stein told Uncloseted Media.In 1973, Raymond Broshears, a gay Pentecostal Evangelist preacher, banded together a group of queer folks fed up with the lack of police response to anti-LGBTQ assault crimes in San Francisco. Broshears formed the Lavender Panthers, a name inspired by the revolutionary political organization the Black Panthers, after he became the victim of a homophobic attack. While Broshears brandished a gun, other members carried makeshift weapons, like pool sticks, and patrolled the streets of San Francisco in an effort to keep LGBTQ people safe.Fast forward to today and the threats have changed, but unfortunately, the need for self-defense remains.Dorothy, a trans woman, was threatened with physical violence several months ago on her way home from work. A person approached her using offensive language and threatened to shoot her. Though she didnt know whether the perpetrator was armed, she stood her ground. Dorothy says she had a firearm on her at the time, giving her a layer of self-defense.Subscribe nowThis is one of many times Dorothy has been threatened. There have been numerous times over the last 20 years, particularly online, she says.As more queer folks turn to firearm training for self-defense, they are finding community. Many say that training with a group helps to establish connections with other queer gun owners and to improve shooting ability.How do you train? Well, you need critique, you need instruction, says Carly. You need to do it as a group, right? That's a great way for everybody to organize right now.Carly says that firearms are not only tools for safety but enforcers of dignity for some trans women. Were not weak, she says. You can call me a sissy, but you cant call me soft.Yet Carly fears that anti-LGBTQ laws may tamp down on the ability of trans people to purchase and own guns, stripping them of both their ability to defend themselves and their dignity. This fear stems from the fact that her license now reflects her sex assigned at birth, as opposed to her gender identity, due to an executive order passed by President Trump.I can very well be denied a purchase by judgment of the dealer, she says. If they see me as mentally ill, they can refuse transfer. That makes many people scared to make the decision to reclaim their agency and be an active participant in the defense of their existence.Carly, a strong advocate of gun rights, believes that stripping trans folks of their right to bear arms would be an affront to their Second Amendment right.Palette agrees and says guns are a critical part of American identity.I believe that gun ownership and distrust of the government is an American tradition that goes back to the Revolutionary War, she says. The founders knew that guns were used in rebellion, and yet they enshrined the right to not just own, but to bear arms.Palette feels secure in the fact that she has a gun at her disposaland knows how to use itshould she ever find herself in a dangerous situation. I don't believe that the gun will solve every situation, she says. 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    What did we do to deserve Pedro Pascal? Our favorite daddy has once again sent the internet ablaze, and this time, all it took was showing off his arms.Over the weekend, Pascal made waves for his playful behavior at the 78th Cannes Film Festival, where he showed up to support and promote his upcoming film, Eddington.For what it's worth, the A24 film, directed by Ari Aster, received a five-minute standing ovation, which may or may not have had a direct correlation with his arms. I mean, look at the material:Whew.Pascal showed up on the red carpet in the above black muscle tank, which gloriously showed off those biceps we've all collectively decided we want to sleep in. If you ask me, I'd have the best night of sleep if I were held in those arms. A man can dream, can't he?Eddington is an American contemporary Western film that depicts the social and political turmoil during the COVID-19 pandemic in the fictional town of Eddington, New Mexico. It centers around a standoff between the local sheriff, Joe Cross (Joaquin Phoenix) and Pascal, who plays the town's mayor Ted Garcia and is running for reelection.The movie itself caused a bit of divide and wound up being one of the most divisive movies at the festival due to its depiction of everyone's worst fears during the pandemic, as well as the close proximity we still are to that time. It's also viewed as a social satire that both mocks and examines the panic from that year, with little pokes at both the liberal and conservative sides of the coin.At a press conference during the festival, Pascal addressed some of the controversy by saying, "It's very scary to participate in a movie that speaks to issues like this. Its far too intimidating a question for me to address. I'm not informed enough. I want people to be safe and protected. I want very much to be on the right side of history." (@) He added, "I feel like [Aster] wrote something that was all our worst fears as that lockdown experience was already a fracturing society. This was building toward an untethered sense of reality. There is a point of no going back. I was overwhelmed by that fear, and it's wonderful that it was confirmed by Ari."Outside of the seriousness of the film and the discussions during the press conference--which also included Pascal defending immigrants and telling us he came as a refugee from Chile to flee a dictatorship--his personality influenced the wildfire that sent fans in a frenzy that reminded us we really don't deserve him.Him spinning out of camera like this with a little kiss? It's just too damn cute for words. (@) His acting skills have made us h-word, been viewed as one of the hottest male celebs, and has wielded multiple types of swords throughout his 20-plus years in the industry.All of this plays a part in why the gays and the rest of the world totally love this man. He's made jokes about being into submission, defended Rachel Zegler over the Snow White controversy, and has shown what non-toxic masculinity looks like through his friendship with Oscar Isaac.His willingness to be a goofball at events like Cannes, where he stuck out his tongue, took selfies with adoring fans, and even kissed Alexander Skarsgrd, also has everyone hanging on his every move. It seems like every time he shows up to an event and every acting role he takes on just makes him a bigger celebrity that we simply cannot get enough of. (@) We collectively share a thirst for this man that is borderline unrivaled by any other we have ever seen. Pascal's established himself as a staunch and fierce ally for the LGBTQ+ community. He's passionately defended his trans sister, Lux, played bisexual characters like Oberyn Martell in Game of Thrones, and has multiple bromances that send our fantasies out of this world.Plus, he has at least admitted that he wants to make out with actor Kieran Culkin, and we very much maintain that this needs to happen, and we'd love the "pics or it didn't exist" resolution after he talked about this during the SAG Awards earlier this year. In a world that's so chaotic, we need someone like Pascal to deliver us humor, drama, and equality. In our opinion, he deserves every good thing that happens to him and more, and we remain eternally grateful for everything he gives us.Especially those damn arms.Although the people of the Cannes Film Festival have been lucky enough to see Eddington, the rest of us are going to have to wait until July 18 for the film to see its U.S. release. In the meantime, you can watch Pascal on the current season of HBO's The Last of Us.
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