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Lord have mercy, they wont stop us from dancing: The Black queer activists uniting joy & change
It may come as a surprise to people living outside of the American South that the majority of LGBTQ+ Americans reside in this region. Ask any LGBTQ+ person living in the coastal U.S. their thoughts about the experiences of queer people in deep red states like Alabama, Georgia, and Mississippi, and their reaction is likely to be a combination of fear and sympathy. Sure, some queer people flee the South for more politically and socially progressive states. But others remain and commit themselves to creating a future that is welcoming and affirming of all people, especially Black queer folks who still choose to call the South home. Related Drag is still legal: Activist has an important reminder after court upholds state drag ban Kamilah Kenyatta, Gender/LGBTQ+ Justice Organizer for ACLU Alabama, and TC Caldwell, Executive Director of The Knights Orchid Society (TKO Society), are two of those people. Both Kenyatta and Caldwell served as co-organizers of the inaugural Black Queer Visionaries Summit (BQVS), an offshoot of Black Trans Futures, a five-month, paid organizing and storytelling collaboration between the ACLU of Alabama and TKO Society that provided Black transgender Alabamians with community organizing and storytelling skills to combat anti-trans rhetoric and legislation. BQVS was held in Birmingham over three days in early October. | Tosha Gaines Photography Never Miss a Beat Subscribe to our newsletter to stay ahead of the latest LGBTQ+ political news and insights. Subscribe to our Newsletter today The creation of BQVS was our declaration that we have always been here, and we are here to stay, Kenyatta said. When our communities are forced to defend our very existence, such as fighting legislative attacks on trans healthcare, book bans that erase our stories, and being confronted with the effects of systemic violence, we are not meant to have time to dream.For organizers, BQVS was a tangible, community-first manifestation of each organizations direct investment in Black LGBTQ+ communities.Kamilah Kenyatta, Gender/LGBTQ+ Justice Organizer, ACLU Alabama, addresses attendees during the opening session of the inaugural Black Queer Visionaries Summit on October 3, 2025, at the Embassy Suites in Birmingham, AL. | Tosha Gaines Photography This [BQVS] was not about reacting to struggle, but rather a proactive and intentional gathering that poured directly into the attendees and their lived realities, Kenyatta said. We held space for all of it: the hard conversations, building around and mapping out practices for community care and organizing, the collective processing of grief, the sacred act of archiving our own stories, and most importantly, for radical unapologetic joy. ACLU Alabama and TKO Society selected over 60 Black LGBTQ+ people from across the South for the inaugural BQVS cohort, an all-expenses-paid program. Redefining home as Black queer and transgender Southerners was one of the first visionary assignments facilitators gave to attendees and speakers on day one.During the opening fireside chat, Caldwell, a Black transgender man and Montgomery resident, described home as a place where my nervous system is calm, where I dont have to pick what bathroom I go to, where people witness me but dont perceive me.TC Caldwell, Executive Director, The Knights Orchid Society (TKO Society), speaks during the opening session fireside chat of the inaugural Black Queer Visionaries Summit on October 3, 2025, at the Embassy Suites in Birmingham, AL. | Tosha Gaines PhotographyThe use of bathrooms that align with ones gender identity remains a baseless but relentless priority for conservative Alabama politicians at the expense of the dignity and humanity of transgender Alabamians. It was also an issue organizers had to navigate on-site in real time after being forced to designate an additional hotel room for transgender attendees to use the bathroom without fear of questions or confrontation from other hotel guests who might object to their entry into a bathroom they feel safest in.Why are we still navigating bathroom use? It was a sharp reminder that we still have a long way to go in the South, Caldwell said. Being called to the front desk like children to discuss the bathroom problem really showed me that bodily autonomy is a right many of us may never have if we continue to let things like this happen.The worst part is that we anticipated this, Kenyatta said. Given the current climate, we thought about safety extensively beforehand and had already secured private suites to ensure a comfortable, judgment-free option was available. We fundamentally believe in letting people use the bathroom that aligns best with their identity and needs, and we never wanted to police that. We are so grateful that folks still resonated with the space, but it certainly undermined the sense of belonging we were working so hard to ensure for our attendees.We get to create what home looks like, said Jenice Fountain, executive director of The Yellowhammer Fund. We get to create what healing looks like, and its always gonna look different from any mainstream ideal, she said.Members of the inaugural Black Queer Visionaries Summit present their vision for a future that encompasses full equality for Black LGBTQ people in the South during a breakout session on October 3, 2025, at the Embassy Suites in Birmingham, AL. | Tosha Gaines Photography Home consists of showing up whole, said Daroneshia Duncan-Boyd, founder and executive director of the Birmingham-based TAKE Resource Center (Transgender Advocates Knowledgeable Empowering).People dont understand our courageous identity. We show up with so much courage, Duncan-Boyd told GLAAD in a previous interview. Were gonna do it, no matter how somebody views us or what anyone says about us. We are who we are and will stand true to what we believe in.Nobody has ever loved me or cared for me the way Black queer and trans people have, but nobody has ever hurt me the way Black queer and trans people have, and that tells me that we understand principle struggle and conflict, Caldwell said. We havent healed our sh*t yet because were still healing what our parents couldnt do. Were still healing what their parents couldnt do. And now that we have language and access to these things, its gonna take us a little more time, but my God, were getting there, they said.Drag artists, including 56-year veteran drag performer Bronzie DeMarco (right), slayed the house down during the Black Queer Visionaries Summit drag show on October 4, 2025, at the Embassy Suites in Birmingham, AL. | Tosha Gaines Photograph Throughout the summit, facilitators centered strategy discussions on how to dismantle various forms of oppression, but with a lineup of fierce Black drag performers, including Alabama drag legend Bronzie DeMarco, who recently celebrated her 56th year as a drag performer, organizers also made sure to center Black queer joy, and above all else, rest.Burnout is a real thing, Caldwell said. And these movements cant move when dead bodies are pushing them.For Duncan-Boyd, one of Birminghams most respected and effective Black transgender leaders, creating work/life balance, while necessary, isnt often at the top of the list when the work is personal, and Black LGBTQ organizations consistently lack vital resources.Daroneshia Duncan-Boyd (left), Founder and Executive Director of TAKE Resource Center (Transgender Advocates Knowledgeable Empowering), TC Caldwell (center), and Jenice Fountain (right), Executive Director of The Yellowhammer Fund, speak during the opening session fireside chat on October 3, 2025, at the Embassy Suites in Birmingham, AL. | Darian Aaron If you dont get emotional by doing this work, baby, youre in the wrong field, Duncan-Boyd told the BQVS cohort. Youre not gonna tell me to detach myself from the people that Im serving that look like me, identify like me, and have been where Ive been. Youre gonna tell me to detach from them because its personal? Hell yeah, its personal because I see myself in them.With its inaugural success, Kenyatta says BQVS is proof and a model for what is possible when we stop waiting for permission and start building the futures we deserve, right here in the South.And like every Black and queer person, the cohort remains resilient in the face of increasing attacks on the community.We keep saying the world is on fire, but Lord have mercy, they will not stop us from dancing, Caldwell said. They will not stop us from celebrating or from loving one another. Joy is a part of our lineage and we deserve to be fu**ing happy.Subscribe to theLGBTQ Nation newsletterand be the first to know about the latest headlines shaping LGBTQ+ communities worldwide.
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