A soon-to-be mother is going viral online for her video in which she called out a bakery for allegedly ruining her gender reveal surprise by telling her what color was inside her cake.In the video, TikTok user morbidmama7, who is called Ariel in the video, plays a voicemail message left for her by an unnamed bakery about a problem with her cake order as she makes faces. She says that she asked for a cake that would have a raspberry filling if shes having a child who will be assigned female at birth and a blackberry filling if shes having a child who will be assigned male at birth. Related Parents are openly grieving the sex of their babies. What fuels gender disappointment? LGBTQ+ parents may feel especially pressured to embrace any sex. But the convergence of sex, gender, and social norms can wreak emotional havoc. In the message, the bakery worker says that the bakery doesnt make blackberry filling and that they need to talk about the cake. Never Miss a Beat Subscribe to our newsletter to stay ahead of the latest LGBTQ+ political news and insights. Subscribe to our Newsletter today Listen to this voicemail I got from the bakery COMPLETELY RUINING MY GENDER REVEAL, reads the text over the video. In the caption, Ariel wrote: imagine paying $$, walking into a baker with a sealed envelope from a doctor, currating [sic] a whole special, intimate moment with you & your partner just to have some random, careless woman ruin it with a single voicemail thaaaanks if my eyes are red its cause Ive been crying all morning. @morbidmama7 imagine paying $$, walking into the bakery with a sealed envelope from a doctor, currating a whole special, intimate moment with you & your partner just to have some random, careless woman ruin it with a single voicemail thaaaanks if my eyes are red its cause Ive been crying all morning #genderrevealfail #genderreveal #emotions #pregnant #altmom original sound In the comments on TikTok, people asked why she didnt have a friend or family member handling this to protect her from knowing the secret ahead of the gender reveal. Why didnt you have a gender keeper, one of the top comments asked.her face expression is painfully very millenial, someone else said. Others took her side: No because why couldnt she just say, can you give us a call about your order?'Another suggested she cancel the cake order and tell the bakery, I actually dont need the cake anymore because you ruined the surprise.The video was posted to X, where people were decidedly more critical of Ariel, saying that this isnt a real problem, that gender reveal parties are uncouth, that the bakery worker was just doing her job, and even that blackberry and raspberry filling look very similar so there wouldnt have been much of a reveal. Why is it not surprising that someone self-indulgent enough to have a "gender reveal party" gets pissy that someone nice and professional, just doing their job, can't accommodate her every demand? Mrs. Betty Bowers (@BettyBowers) October 17, 2024 Better have an abortion I guess. Czarina (@fishontherun2) October 16, 2024Anger is misplaced. Lady is doing her job. She prob assumed it was a friend or family member who placed the order. You need support from others to throw a gender reveal without a hitch. Someone else shouldve done the cake without parents involved. Mom shouldnt be mad at the badina (@1futhermucker) October 15, 2024 No one has mentioned that she wouldve ruined her own gender reveal anyways by not knowing blackberry and raspberry fillings are basically the same color. https://t.co/DTSIxhNYkC pic.twitter.com/utEm0Ml3rL anna (@nuevaorIeans) October 17, 2024You ever just look at someone and instantly know they are insufferable to servers? https://t.co/hJyfBI23a7 spooky scary skeletoph (@Tophurrr) October 17, 2024 THE BAKERY FUCKED UP MY FETAL GENITAL PARTY https://t.co/aIHBg1P8m8 NillaHo (@vanillahorilla) October 16, 2024Poor thing. Can't have the baby now. The Man from Taured (@TheGigconomist) October 16, 2024 i couldnt imagine something less important if i tried. sarah. (@ProgSnog) October 15, 2024So instead of leaving someone elses number for cake updates .she left her own number and blamed the bakery for ruining her gender reveal when it was actually her own poor planning ? Okay Nova (@NomiMalone202) October 15, 2024 all bakeries should do this even if they have the ingredients in stock Jesus Needs a Minute (@e_p82) October 17, 2024Need to start a bakery. Gonna make it my life's work to ruin as many gender reveal parties as possible. Mark (@sudden_damage) October 17, 2024 Im so tired of gender reveals. Just fg let ppl know. Ariel Gonzalez (@ArielGonzalez_1) October 16, 2024Kindof weird that a random baker would know the gender of your child before you do. Ian Fisch Creative Director on Kingmakers (@Ian_Fisch) October 16, 2024 I hope the baby doesn't inherit their mother's stupid facial mugging. 8- (gone) (@8BitProletariat) October 17, 2024Just tell people the sex of the baby. Jesus Christ Oliver VanDervoort (@itmeolliev) October 16, 2024Back on TikTok, Ariel posted a video of the gender reveal with her boyfriend, saying that she already knew what was inside of the cake. @morbidmama7 this is what I sent my family for my gender reveal after the baker completely ruined it for us #pregnant #altmom #genderreveal #genderrevealfail original sound She also posted a video highlighting one of the comments that was on her side and thanked her followers for supporting her. @morbidmama7 Replying to @sylviapurple45 thank God thats not the real name omg original sound Subscribe to theLGBTQ Nation newsletterand be the first to know about the latest headlines shaping LGBTQ+ communities worldwide.