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    How LifeWise Grooms Kids to Hate Through Bible Study
    Design by Sam Donndelinger.Subscribe nowWhen you think about Bible study, images might pop into your head of kids learning principles like forgiveness or loving thy neighbor, and thats just what LifeWise Academy advertises on its website: A supportive and inclusive atmosphere where everyone feels valued.But for many parents and LGBTQ kids in at least 591 American public schools with LifeWise programs, thats far from the truth.One parent says their daughter was mercilessly bullied by LifeWise kids for looking like a Lesbian who is going to burn in hell. Another had to remove their transgender son from school after he was bullied following the presidential election, with the school fearing LifeWise staff and students would make things worse.And a third parenta queer momsays, As a member of the LGBTQ+ community, my childrens safety in the public school setting is compromised when students are permitted to be removed from the school to be taught discriminatory and harmful things about my family.LifeWise Academy is a conservative Christian organization that takes public school students off school property to integrate a Bible class into their weekly class schedule. It was founded in 2018 by Joel Penton, a former college football player.For an hour a week, students from kindergarten through 12th grade learn about religious concepts rootedin partin homophobia and transphobia. For example, students are taught that anything other than a nuclear family, with one mom and one dad who are married, is wrong and that there is no such thing as being transgender.LifeWise even requires its employees to agree to their worldview statement, which says, Gods design for the gift of sex is for it to be exercised and enjoyed exclusively within the covenant relationship of marriage between one man and one woman. Additionally, a persons sex has been given as a gift from God and should not be altered.This is not just learning about a religion, says Sloan Okrey Anderson, an assistant professor of social work at St. Catherine University who researches LGBTQ populations and Christianity. The content is from a very specific, hyper-conservative, white American evangelical perspective, a very specific white nationalist-adjacent version of Christianity.Since its inception seven years ago, LifeWise has grown massively with 50,000 students projected to attend LifeWise classes across 29 states. The organization was founded in Ohio, which has at least 197 programs, and it has a disproportionate presence in the Midwest.LifeWises growth in the U.S. reflects a trend of politicians and lawmakers attempting to incorporate Christianity in public schools and minimize LGBTQ representation. Last year, Oklahomas superintendent of public education announced all schools in the state would be required to teach students about the Biblea decision which came shortly after Louisiana attempted to mandate that the Ten Commandments be displayed in every classroom. This is all occurring as the Supreme Court seems poised to side with Maryland parents who want to remove their kids from classes that are teaching LGBTQ-themed books.Subscribe nowHow LifeWise Is Allowed to OperateSince American public schools arent allowed to promote any one religion, LifeWise uses whats known as Released Time Religious Instruction (RTRI), a precedent set in a 1952 Supreme Court case that allows public school students with parental consent to receive religious education off school property during the school day, although it was only meant to be used by individual families, not a nationwide organization.RTRI prohibits public funds from being used to facilitate the program and schools from promoting it, but LifeWise gets around this by having children recruit their peers and bribing them with sweet treats. For example, LifeWise in Wauseon, Ohio, has provided children with student business cards to hand out to friends and has said, If you [can] get 90 kids to come, [well] give you an ice cream party.LifeWise Academy Wauseon, OH. Student business cards. / Screenshot: Wauseon Character Academy on YouTube.CurriculumLifeWise teaches elementary and middle school students a variety of Christian principles. But embedded in the core curriculum are more insidious, anti-LGBTQ teachings. In a sixth grade lesson plan obtained by Uncloseted Media, LifeWise teaches 11 to 12-year-olds that God created people as male and female" and God designed two separate, distinct genders to complement one another in relationship.But high school is where the curriculum really sinks its teeth into issues related to LGBTQ identities. LifeWises high school curriculum uses the Foundations series that starts with Understanding the Times, based on a book by the same name.The original book was written in 2006 by Jeff Myers and David Noebel, two conservative evangelicals, and contains a plethora of harmful and untrue homophobic, transphobic and even Islamophobic teachings.On page 324, they write, Being raised by parents who have been involved in same-sex relationships is correlated with several negative social outcomes, including crime, substance abuse, and forced sexual encounters. And on page 409, they critique people who disavow heteronormative power structures: This way of thinking continues to creep into judicial decisions, most recently through the decision of Supreme Court Justice Anthony Kennedy to overthrow the Defense of Marriage Act because he viewed it as oppressive to people experiencing same-sex attraction.Okrey Anderson says that reducing LGBTQ identities down to worldviews is a distinct form of othering. Youre granting permission to and empowering these kids to go out and see peoples identities and lived experiences as a worldview to be debated and youre othering them. Every scrap of misinformation that you spread about trans people translates directly into violence against trans people.Beyond the curriculum, LifeWise has a rulebook that gives instructorswho are not required to have teaching certifications from the Department of Educationguidance on how to answer difficult questions from students.Excerpt from Lifewises Difficult Questions from Students document. The document explains that anyone who is experiencing gender dysphoria or is attracted to someone of the same sex should deny those feelings. If a child asks, What would God think if I changed my gender? LifeWise teachers are instructed to deny that trans, gender diverse and intersex people exist, and to explain that God made us male or female. No matter how we feel, or how confused we are, we should trust and respect Gods perfect design and how He created us.If a kid asks about same-sex relationships, LifeWise instructs teachers to explain that God designed the first man and woman to have a loving relationship with one another in marriage and anything different from this kind of romantic relationship between a husband and a wife is sin.Its grotesque, says Olivia Murray, a professor at Portland State University whose research focuses on education. From a child, youth and adolescent perspective, how does this build critical thinkers?Murray says social and emotional learning should teach children to call out and question what we know and think deeper into the how and the why of knowledge. She says a better approach might be to ask a question in return like, What do you think of your friend who was presumed male at birth that uses female pronouns? or Whats your interpretation of the Bible and how might that impact your religion and relationships in the world?SharePolicies and StaffLifeWise operates with little diversity. According to its website, all of its senior leadership boast nuclear families, and three-quarters are men.Staff are expected to remain abstinent, with the only exception being for those in heterosexual marriages.Excerpt from LifeWises team member conduct policy.Christopher Elder was a volunteer at LifeWises chapter in Paulding Village, Ohio, until he was terminated shortly after he started dating his boyfriend.My identity in Christ, to me, looks like loving and supporting my boyfriend and everyone in the LGBTQ community, Elder, 25, told Uncloseted Media. But when he told his director he had a boyfriend and asked if he could continue to volunteer, he was surprised by the answer. His director said, Since the LifeWise Worldview Statement is that Gods design is for marriage to be between one man and one woman and your current choice doesnt align with that stance, I think its best that you not volunteer at this time.Christopher Elder {right} and his boyfriend [left}. Photo courtesy of Elder. The director at LifeWises Paulding Village, Ohio chapter did not respond to Uncloseted Medias request for comment.I thought that as long as Jason and I are abstinent, then I [could] still volunteer, says Elder. Im not killing anybody, Im not blatantly opposing the Bible, its just this one thing. Its unfair and unjust because my biggest passion is serving Christ.Murray says this discrimination creates an awful learning environment for teachers and students alike. From an educator perspective, we need to teach with integrity and oftentimes that means adhering to our identity, she says. To teach in ways that are closeted or against our lived experiences or desires can be disingenuous and students can feel that.LifeWises repressive policies extend as far as using the bathroom. Their policy manual states that team members and students attending LifeWise will use the bathroom that corresponds to the gender identified on their birth certificates. If staff dont abide, they will face disciplinary action. If students dont follow, theyll be outed to their parents.Its always gonna be based on passing, says Okrey Anderson. Even cis kids who are maybe ambiguous-lookingtheyre going to be targeted specifically by leadership for a conversation where theyre told Hey, you need to dress more femininely or whatever it may be.LifeWise teacher explains to a group of children how the consequence for Biblical sinning, which includes homosexuality, is death.LifeWise did not respond to Uncloseted Medias request for comment.Subscribe nowConcerned ParentsAs the program infiltrates public schools across the country, some school districts are deciding not to allow LifeWise to operate. Last year, at a Board of Education meeting in Westerville, Ohio, one mom explained to the Board why she and her wife decided not to opt their daughter into LifeWise.LifeWise has a clearly stated anti-LGBTQIA policy, she said. My daughter has explained on numerous occasions [that] she has been confronted by peers in LifeWise. Shes been asked to explain why she does not attend and pressed about if she believes in Christ, in God, in religion. All of this seems incredibly counterproductive for a school district that otherwise is so clearly committed to diversity, equity, inclusion and student safety and wellbeing.Testimony from Westerville City Schools Board of Education meeting in August 2024 via WCS Social on YouTube.But parents are pushing back beyond School Board meetings. Revere City Schoolsalso in Ohiohave been under pressure from Revere Citizens Against LifeWise Academy, a group fighting to keep the program out of their community.Perhaps the largest fight being waged is by the Secular Education Association, formerly known as Parents Against LifeWise. The grassroots organization was founded in 2023 by Zach Parrish and Molly Gaines after Parrishs daughter went through relentless peer pressure and bullying for not attending LifeWise classes.Public education is literally the cornerstone of our democracy and it is just one more thing that is being threatened along with book bans and teachers, Gaines told Uncloseted Media, adding that they have upward of 14,000 group members on Facebook. We wanted to bring awareness to that, and the more we looked into it, the more nefarious it became.Subscribe for LGBTQ-focused, accountability journalism.Since 2023, Parrish and Gaines group has amassed a massive collection of documents and knowledge on LifeWise and its operations, most of which would likely still be kept behind closed doors if it wasnt for their work. Their website contains resources to help parents make an informed decision about whether to opt their children in, as well as testimony from concerned parents.Among their findings are 140 internal policy documents, information about LifeWises fundingwhich includes over $3.4 million in grants, including some from the notoriously anti-LGBTQ National Christian Foundationand details about how LifeWise conducts background checks and trains its educators.In one shocking discovery, they found that an Ohio teacher, who was previously fired from a public school for sexting with a student, was subsequently hired to be a local program director at LifeWise.Their methods for obtaining this information landed Parrish a lawsuit from LifeWise last year that ended in a settlement agreement.Despite pushback efforts, LifeWise has forged a clear path for growth. In at least 11 states, school districts are required to have a policy that greenlights programs like LifeWise, leaving communities with no mechanism to keep the Academy out.LifeWises ultimate goal is for conservative Christian teachings to be embedded in public schools across America. And in select schools, this is already happening. Starting later this year, the LifeWise chapter in Liberty Center, Ohio, will begin offering a for-credit class for high school students. If LifeWise has their way, this could spread across the country thanks to model legislation provided by the Released Time Resource Institute, a LifeWise-founded think tank that provides resources for legislators and educators.A lot of people from conservative backgrounds often fear the recruitment of queer and trans folks recruiting other people in, and I feel like its really flipped on its head here, says Murray. This grooming thats occurring here is incredibly damaging.Okrey Anderson agrees. By exposing kids to this type of theologywhether thats queer kids or notyou are potentially robbing those kids of a future spiritual life. You could be poisoning them forever to have a meaningful relationship to deity in a way that feels safe and comfortable for them.If objective, nonpartisan, rigorous, LGBTQ-focused journalism is important to you, please consider making a tax-deductible donation through our fiscal sponsor, Resource Impact, by clicking this button:Donate to Uncloseted Media
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    This Lender Said Its Loans Would Help Tennesseans. It Has Sued More Than 110,000 of Them.
    by Adam Friedman, Tennessee Lookout This article was produced for ProPublicas Local Reporting Network in partnership with the Tennessee Lookout. Sign up for Dispatches to get stories like this one as soon as they are published. We are continuing to report on flex loans. Have you been sued by Advance Financial, Harpeth Financial or another flex loan lender? To share your experience, call or text reporter Adam Friedman at 615-249-8509. Rosita Hansen was working an evening shift at a tubing factory in 2023 when a sheriffs deputy showed up and handed her a court summons. She was being sued for failing to pay off a loan of $2,050. What confused Hansen was she had already paid a couple thousand more than she borrowed. But now the company, Advance Financial, said she owed more. Between what shed already paid the company and the lawsuit, Advance stood to receive over $12,500 from Hansen, records show.Hansen, 57, had taken out the loan in 2021 after her mortgage company threatened to foreclose on her modest three-bedroom house outside Morristown, a small city in East Tennessee. Hansen made enough money to support herself, but after taking in her four grandchildren, she struggled to cover the costs of extra food and school supplies, and she stopped paying her mortgage. Thats when she turned to Advance. I was providing for all of them, Hansen said. Financially, it was rough.Like most borrowers, Hansen could not afford an attorney to handle the suit, but she hoped to work out a payment plan with Advance. When she arrived at the Hamblen County courthouse in Morristown in May 2023, she was directed to a line of half a dozen people waiting to meet with an attorney representing the company. Across Tennessee, Advance has sued over 110,000 people since 2015, significantly more than any other payday lender, making it one of the largest plaintiffs of any Tennessee-based company collecting debt. In Hansens Appalachian county of 66,000, where nearly half the households make less than $50,000, the company has filed one case per every 32 residents over that time, the Tennessee Lookout and ProPublica found.Advance began filing thousands of lawsuits soon after Tennessee lawmakers approved the Flex Loan, a product pioneered by Advance in Tennessee. The loans $4,000 cap is nine times higher than the limit for most payday loans, and the company charges the equivalent of a 279.5% annual interest rate. Before Flex Loans became legal in 2015, payday lenders could only lend $425, and the borrower could never be required to pay back more than $500. Since then, those protections have been eliminated and thousands of borrowers have been defaulting. Flex Loans only stop growing when theyre completely paid off, when a flex lender declares the loan is in default or when it sues the borrower. If the loans do end up in court, the law allows lenders to recoup attorneys fees which cant be done with payday loans a practice that can add up to a third of the loan amount. Court judgments against customers are often thousands of dollars, with some exceeding $10,000, records show. About 40% of all cases end up with a wage garnishment, court records show. The consequences of Flex Loans were predicted when the Tennessee legislature legalized them 10 years ago, and the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau wanted to regulate products like Flex Loans when Congress created the agency in 2011. The Trump administrations efforts to dismantle the CFPB are currently being reviewed by the courts. Advance has argued that the new product would help consumers by offering them loans that are technically cheaper than a payday loan. It downplayed concerns from consumer advocates that these high-interest loans targeted and trapped low-income borrowers in debt they could never pay off. The companys leaders made their case just as federal regulators planned to crack down on other Tennessee lenders for making different high-interest loans to people they knew could not pay them back.After just a few years, evidence started mounting that the loans were exacting a high toll on low-income borrowers while generating huge profits for lenders. Since then, the Flex Loan has buried tens of thousands of Tennesseans such as Hansen in a deep financial hole.Gabe Kravitz, a consumer finance researcher at The Pew Charitable Trusts, said loans above $1,000 paired with triple-digit interest rates are hard to pay off. It gets very expensive very quickly, he said. Only a few other states have approved products similar to the Flex Loan but, unlike Tennessee, when other states saw problems with the loans, they acted to rein them in. Virginia allowed banks to make line-of-credit loans but had never seen the need to cap interest rates as banks competed for customers. But soon after Advance showed up, regulators noticed the company filing thousands of lawsuits. The state attorney generals office investigated the company for deceptive practices in 2020, ultimately labeling the company as predatory and helping to pass legislation to shut down Flex Loan-like products in the state. Advance declined to answer a question about the Virginia attorney generals investigation. California and North Dakota also passed bills capping interest rates on open-ended lines of credit after Advance and other companies began to operate in those states. The Lookout and ProPublica sent Advance Financial detailed questions about its operations, including each of the cases cited in the article. Cullen Earnest, the senior vice president of public policy at Advance Financial, declined to answer specific questions and said he could not discuss individual cases due to privacy concerns. Earnest said in an email that the company has an A+ rating from the Better Business Bureau. He added that the Tennessee Department of Financial Institutions has received just 91 complaints on flexible credit lenders since 2020, representing less than 0.001% of all new flex loan agreements, and that this data reflects the satisfaction of the vast majority of Advances customers.Company records show Hansen made her twice-a-month payments on time, paying over $6,600 in 10 months. The required minimum monthly payments are supposed to act like a safety net, ensuring borrowers pay enough to cover the interest, fees and 3% of the principal. But many times after Hansen made a payment, the company allowed her to immediately borrow the principal back, which she often did, extending the time it would take to pay off the loan. After almost a year of payments, she still owed more than $3,000. One Borrower Owed Over $8,000 in Interest and Court Fees Sources: Rosita Hansens loan billing statements and court records. (Lucas Waldron/ProPublica) Hansen said she knew the loan was costly every loan statement warns, This is an expensive form of credit. Only borrow what you can afford to pay back but she didnt realize how hard it would be to keep up with the interest and fees. The loan from Advance only made Hansens financial situation worse. As the payments became too much to handle, she lost the house. But the Flex Loan continued to grow, almost doubling in size by the time she received a court summons a year later. Who Is Advance?Michael and Tina Hodges started their payday lending business in the 1990s with a few stores in Nashville. The company, then called Advance Pay Day, steadily expanded, making payday loans and offering products like bus passes, check cashing and money transfers. In 2009, the Hodges told a local news outlet that they wanted to shed the image of a simple payday advance company, so the company took on a new name, Advance Financial. By 2010, Advance had generated a modest $15 million in revenue from about two dozen stores, according to statements it made in news reports at the time.Not long after, the growing business collided with the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, a federal regulator Congress created after the banking crisis. The CFPB had started to take aim at high-interest payday lenders, releasing a 2013 report on the dangers of the loans as debt traps. A subsequent agency report found that payday lenders, particularly in Tennessee, relied heavily on offering loans to those who couldnt afford them. Advance declined to respond to a question about the CFPB report. Advance Financial lobbied Tennessee lawmakers to approve bigger loans that accumulate higher fees, saying the new offering would be a little bit more expensive but arguing it would be good for consumers. (Stacy Kranitz for ProPublica) Looking for an alternative product that wouldnt fall under the CFPBs looming regulations, Advance turned to Tennessee lawmakers, who have power over statewide interest rates. The company hired Earnest, the former top aide for the Tennessee Department of Financial Institutions, which regulates payday lenders. It also opened up a political action committee and began to push lawmakers to allow it to create the Flex Loan. In a hearing discussing the Flex Loan legislation before its passage, Earnest told a Tennessee Senate committee the new loan was like a line of credit you could get at a bank, acknowledging it would be a little bit more expensive.But the proposal added significant potential costs. To allow lenders to circumvent the states interest rate cap, the legislature simply called the interest something else: a customary fee. The law would permit flex lenders to charge 24% interest plus a daily fee until the loan is paid off. The fee is calculated by multiplying the loan amount by 0.7%. Over 365 days the fee adds 255.5% to the cost of the loan. Advances own documentation tells borrowers that although the state and Advance call it a fee, the federal government sees it for what it is, an interest rate. The bill passed the state Senate without opposition. In the House, only Democratic state Rep. Mike Stewart spoke against the bill, which passed overwhelmingly and was later signed by Republican Gov. Bill Haslam.Stewart pointed out the new law allowed companies to recoup attorneys fees in court, something payday lenders had not been allowed to do, and a practice he knew as a lawyer would likely increase the number of lawsuits. The legislation was structured to maximize the amount of money they could extract from these debtors, Stewart, who has since left the legislature, said in an interview. After legalization of the Flex Loan, Advance Financials business boomed. The company expanded to all corners of Tennessee, growing to 105 locations by the end of the 2010s. As a private company, Advance is not required to release financial information. But Advance and the Hodges were vocal about their success, at least at first. The company self-reported to the Nashville Business Journal in 2019 that it made $392 million, quintupling its revenue from the year before it started offering the Flex Loan, and making more than 25 times as much as it had at the start of the decade. Advances revenue no longer appeared on any of the business journals lists after 2019. Those numbers parallel the growth of the flex loan industry in Tennessee. By 2019, all flex lenders across the state had generated about $730 million in operating income, a number that has continued to grow, according to state records. In 2022, the latest available year of data, flex lenders earned $880 million in operating income. The company is one of the top campaign donors to Tennessee politicians, having spent roughly $2.5 million since 2014. Advance has also spent over $3 million lobbying state lawmakers over the past decade. The Hodges have also made roughly $10 million in political donations to federal candidates since 2014, including over $3 million to support President Donald Trumps campaigns. In a 2019 recording obtained by The Washington Post, Hodges told a payday lending industry group his political donations granted him better access to Trump. Hodges told the Post he was an enthusiastic supporter of Trump and never used his status to ask the Trump administration for help.A Trump-appointed CFPB director rescinded most of the payday lending regulations in 2020. The new Trump administration has tried to gut the CFPB, but an appeals court on April 28 upheld a lower court ruling preventing the acting CFPB director from firing about 90% of the departments employees.Today, Advances only product is the Flex Loan.A Wave of LawsuitsBefore the Flex Loan, court records show that payday lenders like Advance rarely took borrowers to court. The low $500 cap on loan amounts and the prohibition on collecting attorneys fees often made suing people unprofitable. The Flex Loan law changed all that, unleashing a wave of lawsuits. Across the 59 counties where electronic court records are available home to over four-fifths of the states roughly 7 million people Advance has brought one lawsuit for every 50 residents since 2015, according to a data analysis by the Tennessee Lookout and ProPublica. For Tonya Davis, a single mother who works at a local hospital, Advance waited six years to sue. Tennessees debt collection law allows lenders to file a suit within six years and, if the company wins a judgment in court, to pursue the debt for another decade. Davis lives in Davidson County, where Advance operates more stores than in any other county in Tennessee. Advance has filed over 22,000 lawsuits in Davidson over the decade since it began offering Flex Loans, its highest county total. Its stores in Nashville, which is located in that county, are generally in neighborhoods where households have lower incomes. Davis said Advance contacted her in 2018, claiming she owed money on a Flex Loan taken out the previous year. Davis said she never borrowed the money and was the victim of identity theft, a claim the company told her it would look into after she told Advance in a phone call that the Social Security number on the account wasnt hers.The company never reached back out to her, she said, and for years, she heard nothing from Advance, but in 2024, she received a summons declaring it was suing her for almost $4,800. Tonya Davis says she never borrowed money from Advance and was a victim of identity theft. The company told her it would look into the matter and then, almost six years later, sued her for $4,785. (Stacy Kranitz for ProPublica) At the time Davis was caring for her dying mother and missed her court hearing. Because she didnt appear, Advance won a default judgment against her for the full amount. Davis could not afford an attorney, so she filed an appeal on her own, but she never got a chance to challenge the judgment. Soon after the hearing began, attorneys for Advance noted that Davis had filed her appeal one day past the filing deadline and the judge denied her appeal. The companys default judgment means Davis is required to pay Advance $175 a month.Im not a lawyer, Davis said in an interview. Im trying to do the best I can with what I have. I dont know anything about this, or I would have paid, but they didnt even give me the opportunity to present my information.Challenging Advance in court can be daunting. When Advance goes to court for a Flex Loan, it wins a majority of the time, in part because borrowers often fail to show up and in part because the company has more legal resources. The company has won over $200 million in judgments since the start of 2015. Mandy Spears, the deputy director of the Tennessee-based think tank The Sycamore Institute, said in court that lenders have all the advantages because they have lawyers with vast experience in the system. Its just complicated for the average person versus a more sophisticated business or law firm, she said. Its really a gap in knowledge and expertise. Many defendants dont realize that when they fail to appear in court, the company doesnt have to provide detailed documents proving what a borrower owes. Tessa Shearon, a 27-year-old mother in McMinnville, thought she paid off her loan with Advance Financial in 2020. When the company sued her almost three years later, she missed her court hearing because she was eight months pregnant and on bed rest. A judge ruled her in default and Advance won a judgment for $4,700. Tessa Shearon thought she paid off her loan with Advance in 2020. The company sued her three years later. (Stacy Kranitz for ProPublica) Shearon didnt keep any documentation after paying off her loan, but she said she reached out to Advances lawyer to dispute the lawsuit. The company has not sought to garnish her wages. But she remains in limbo: Under the law, the company can choose to file a wage garnishment any time in the next 10 years to recover the judgment amount. My only worry is them attempting to collect, Shearon said. I dont have anything.Marla Williams, a consumer law attorney for the Legal Aid Society of Middle Tennessee, is one of a handful of lawyers whove helped defend borrowers against Advance.In several cases, Williams has been able to block wage garnishments and reduce the customary fee the company charges. Marla Williams is a lawyer who has helped defend borrowers against Advance. (Stacy Kranitz for ProPublica) Williams said that in a 2024 case, she was able to lower the payments from an unaffordable several hundred dollars a month to around $50 per month, which her client could afford. Advance fought the reduction, but a judge ruled in her favor. In another case, Williams said Advance tried to charge a borrower thousands of dollars in additional fees months after he stopped paying the loan. After a hearing, which most borrowers without lawyers dont ask for, a judge reduced the fees, calling the added charges unconscionable and unjust, court records show. Williams said the company often uses aggressive tactics in court, something that shes observed over the past decade. This is their business model, she said.Advance declined to discuss its business model or legal strategy.Sometimes Advance has already made money off the borrower before suing them, as in the case of Hansen. Over 10 months, Hansen paid Advance nearly $2,200 more than she borrowed, records show.She still owed almost $3,000 when she stopped paying Advance. The company waited around three months before declaring her in default, letting her debt grow before it sued her several months later. With the addition of attorneys fees and court-added interest, the company sued her for $6,000. Hansen, who asked to use her maiden name because shes no longer married, lost her home in 2022, moving into an apartment, which she said costs more than her mortgage had.Hansen said she plans to pay Advance by the summer. A February bonus check, which the company garnished 25% of, has helped. I understand its every person for themselves, and theyre out to make a buck, Hansen said about Advance. But you know what, people out there are struggling every single day, and thats what they take advantage of. How We Tracked Advance Financials LawsuitsFor this story, the Tennessee Lookout and ProPublica used online portals to find civil cases in Tennessee General Sessions Courts for the 59 counties where electronic court records are available. More than four-fifths of the states population lives in these counties. Our analysis included cases filed and uploaded to the online portals from 2009 through 2024. We filtered the data for cases brought by payday lenders in Tennessee, using company names, and found that Advance was filing significantly more suits than any other payday lender, according to court records. Advance Financial often uses a related company called Harpeth Financial Services to file lawsuits against borrowers. Not every case listed the type of loan behind the lawsuit, but a pattern emerged: After Advance started offering Flex Loans in 2015, the number of lawsuits it filed significantly increased.Of the cases in our data that were filed by Advance, over half had a judgment amount awarded, indicating the company won its lawsuit. About three-quarters of the cases filed had information on whether a wage garnishment was or wasnt filed against a borrower. Our analysis found that among cases where that information was available, 40% included wage garnishment. Have you taken out a flex loan and struggled to pay it back? Have you been sued by Advance Financial, Harpeth Financial or another flex loan lender?Reporters at the Tennessee Lookout and ProPublica want to hear from you as they investigate flex loan lenders, who have sued more than 100,000 Tennesseans.To share your experience, call or text reporter Adam Friedman at 615-249-8509. Mollie Simon contributed research and Joel Jacobs contributed data reporting.
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    Just when you thought the WNBA couldnt get any more sapphic, it did. Not only did Brittney Griner have a baby with her wife last year and WNBA stars NaLyssa Smith and DiJonai Carrington gag us with their adorable relationship, but rookie Shyanne Sellers got drafted by the Golden State Valkyries and engaged to her girlfriend all in the same week!With the 2025 WNBA draft, and the fab orange carpets fits, in the rear view mirror, and the new season starting on May 16, its time to take a look at all of the LGBTQ+ players in the league this year.Last year there were 37 queer women playing in the WNBA, and although the have been some retirements, there are even more queer folks starting the new season. With 43 active players this season who identify as queer, there is a lot to celebrate. So scroll through to see all of the sapphics on the roster and who theyre playing for this year.Shyanne SellersMaryland shooting guard Shyanne Sellers was drafted as a rookie by the brand new Bay Area team the Golden State Valkyries for their inaugural season. But Sellers wasnt just the 17th pick for the 2025 WNBA draft, but also proposed to her girlfriend Faith Masonius that same week and announced their engagement via Instagram with the caption, Forever & More.Julie AllemandJulie Allemand is a Belgian basketball player who is a guard for the Los Angeles Sparks. She played two season with the Indiana Fever in 2020 and was signed to the Chicago Skye in 2022 before joining the Sparks last year.DeWanna BonnerDeWanna Bonner is an American-Macedonian who joined the Indiana Fever as a free agent fringe the offseason after being a forward-guard for the Connecticut Sun. She has been in the WNBA since 2009 when she was signed to the Phoenix Mercury before being traded to the Sun in 2020. She shares two children, twins Cali and Demi, with her ex-wife, former WNBA star Candice Dupree.Jordin CanadaGuard for the Atlanta Dream Jordin Canada was a star player at the University of California Los Angeles before playing professionally with the Los Angeles Sparks and Seattle Storm. She took home the WNBA Championship trophy in 2018 and 2020.Emma CannonForward Emma Cannon just signed to the Los Angeles Sparks for the 2025 season after playing for the Dallas Wings last year. Prior to joining the Wings, she was a star player at Florida Southern college before entering the WNBA and playing for Las Vegas Aces, Connecticut Sun, and Phoenix Mercury.DiJonai CarringtonDiJonai Carrington signed with the Dallas Wings for the 2025 WNBA. She has been in the league for four years and was a Guard-Forward for the Connecticut Sun last season. She is dating fellow WNBA star NaLyssa Smith, who currently plays for the Dallas Wings.Layshia ClarendonLayshia Clarendon is a Los Angeles Sparks Guard and also the WNBAs first openly trans and nonbinary player. The ten-year veteran of the league uses any pronouns and has also played for the Minnesota Lynx, the New York Liberty, the Connecticut Sun, the Atlanta Dream, and the Indiana Fever.Natasha CloudNew York Liberty Guard Natasha Cloud played at St. Joseph's University in Pennsylvania before joining the league and playing for Washington Mystics and Phoenix Mercury. She has been in the WNBA for eight years and won the WNBA Championship back in 2019.Sydney ColsonSydney Colson is the #51 Guard for the Indiana Fever. She was a star player at Texas A&M college before joining the WNBA and playing for the Chicago Sky, the Las Vegas Aces, and the New York Liberty. The nine-year veteran of the league won the Championship in both 2022 and 2023. Kahleah CopperPhoenix Mercury Guard-Forward Kahleah Copper has been in the league for eight years, where she has also played for the Washington Mystics and the Chicago Sky.Elissa CunaneElissa Cunane was just signed to the brand-new Bay Area team, the Golden State Valkyries, for their inaugural season. Prior to joining the Valkyries, she was a Center for the Seattle Storm.Crystal DangerfieldCrystal Dangerfield joined the Los Angeles Sparks for the 2025 season after playing as a Guard for the Dallas Wings. She started her basketball career at the University of Connecticut before winning Rookie of the Year while playing for the Minnesota Lynx. She has also played for the New York Liberty and the Indiana Fever.Stefanie DolsonStefanie Dolson has been in the WNBA for more than decade and is currently the #31 Center for the Washington Mystics. She played for UConn before joining the New York Liberty and then the Chicago Sky.Asia (AD) DurrAsia (AD) Durr is a Guard for the Atlanta Dream, but started their career with the New York Liberty. Durr uses they/them pronouns and played for the University of Louisville before starting their professional career.Chelsea GrayChelsea Gray is the #12 Guard for the Las Vegas Aces, but started her decade-long professional career with the Connecticut Sun. She played college ball at Duke University and has also played for the Los Angeles Sparks. She shares one child with her wife, Tipesa.Brittney GrinerBrittney Griner left the Phoenix Mercury after the 2024 season to join the Atlanta Dream as the #42 Center. Griner, who has been in the league for more than a decade, made international headlines back in 2022 when she was detained in Russia for cannabis vape cartridges at the airport. Originally sentenced to nine years in a Russian prison, she was released after 293 days when then-President Joe Biden made a deal to trade Griners release for the "Merchant of Death" Russian arms trafficker, Viktor Bout. Griner had her first child, a son named Bash, with her wife Cherelle in July 2024.Natisha HiedemanMarquette University alum Natisha Hiedeman is now the #2 Guard for the Minnesota Lynx. Before being drafted by the Lynx, she played for the Connecticut Sun. Hiederman is married to former Sun player Jasmine Thomas.Jordan HorstonThis season will mark Jordan Horstons third year as the #23 Guard-Forward for the Seattle Storm. She started her basketball career at the University of Tennessee before joining the WNBA.Natasha HowardForward Natasha Howard is returning to the Indian Fever this season after having left the team to play for the Dallas Wings. She has spent more than a decade in the league and also played for the Minnesota Lynx, Seattle Storm, and New York Liberty. She was a star player while at Florida State University where she was a three-time Champion and former Defensive Player of the Year. Jonquel JonesJonquel Jones is a Bahamian WNBA player who is the #35 Forward for the New York Liberty. The George Washington University alum has been in the league for nine years and played for the Connecticut Sun before joining the Liberty.Lou Lopez SnchalLou Lopez Snchal is the #8 Guard for the Dallas Wings. The UConn graduate was born in Mexico and the 2025 season will mark her third year in both the WNBA and with the Wings.Jewell LoydJewell Loyd just joined the Las Vegas Aces as the #24 Guard. Last season she played for the Seattle Storm where she played for nine years. Shes had a storied basketball career that has included being a two-time WNBA Champion and Olympic gold medalist with team USA in the 2020 Olympics.Aerial PowersMichigan State graduate Aerial Powers is the #3 Guard for the Atlanta Dream. This is Powers second season with the Dream after playing for the Dallas Wings, the Washington Mystics, and the Minnesota Lynx. She is also a WNBA Champion, winning the title in 2016.Alanna SmithAustralian basketball star Alanna Smith is the #8 Forward for the Minnesota Lynx. The Stanford University alum has been in the WNBA for six years and this will mark her second season with the Lynx. She has also played for the Phoenix Mercury, the Indiana Fever, and the Chicago Sky.NaLyssa SmithNaLyssa Smith just joined the Dallas Wings as their #1 Forward after playing for the Indiana Fever. The Baylor University graduate is currently in a relationship with Connecticut Sun star player DiJonai Carrington.Breanna StewartBreanna Stewart started her basketball career as the University of Connecticut and is now the #30 Forward for the New York Liberty. The two-time WNBA Champion and former Seattle Storm player met her wife, former WNBA player Marta Xargay, while the pair were playing together in Russia.Sug SuttonGuard Sug Sutton signed with the Washington Mystics for the 2025 season after playing for the Phoenix Mercury, where she started her professional career. Sutton has three years of experience in the league after playing for the University of Texas.Brittney SykesBrittney Sykes is the #20 Guard for the Washington Mystics. She came from Syracuse University and joined the WNBA eight years ago, playing for the Atlanta Dream and the Los Angeles Sparks before joining the Mystics. Alyssa ThomasForward Alyssa Thomas is starting her first season with the Phoenix Mercury after playing for the Connecticut Sun. She has been in the WNBA for more than a decade and spent all those years with the Sun before leaving for Arizona. Thomas has been engaged to DeWanna Bonner, who was her teammate on the Sun, since 2023. Courtney VanderslootGuard Courtney Vandersloot is returning to the Chicago Sky this season after playing for the New York Liberty. Vandersloot has been in the league for 13 years since coming from Gonzaga University. She spent most of these years with the Chicago Sky before briefly leaving to play for the Liberty. She is married to Allie Quigley, who was her Chicago Sky teammate before retiring from the WNBA.Victoria ViviansMississippi University alum Victoria Vivians is the #35 Guard for the Seattle Storm. She has been in the WNBA for six years, and while she plays for the Storm now, she started her career with the Indiana Fever.Erica WheelerIndiana Fever Guard Erica Wheeler has been in the league for nine years. After playing for Rutgers University, she joined the Atlanta Dream, the New York Liberty, and the Los Angeles Sparks.Sami WhitcombSami Whitcomb is now the #32 Guard for the Phoenix Mercury after leaving the Seattle Storm. The 36-year-old is originally from Australia, but went to college at Washington University. She has been in the WNBA for eight years and has also played for the New York Liberty.Christyn WilliamsGuard Christyn Williams just signed a training-camp contract with the Minnesota Lynx after having a rocky start in the league. She was drafted by the Washington Mystics in 2022, but was unable to play her first season with the team because of a knee surgery that needed surgery. In 2023 she signed a rest-of-the-season hardship contract with the Phoenix Mercury, but she was waived in May 2024.Courtney WilliamsCourtney Williams is the #10 Guard for the Minnesota Lynx. The 30-year-old player has been in the league for nine years after coming from the University of South Florida. She has also played for the Phoenix Mercury, the Connecticut Sun, the Atlanta Dream, and the Chicago Sky.Emily EngstlerEmily Engstler is the #21 Forward for the Washington Mystics. She played college ball for Syracuse and formerly played for the Indiana Fever and the Minnesota LynxKayla McBrideKayla McBride is a shooting guard for the Minnesota Lynx. McBride has been with the league since 2014 when she was drafted third overall by the San Antonio Stars. She also played for the Las Vegas Aces before joining the Lynx in 2021. Last year, McBride became the first Lynx player in franchise history to have 100+ 3-point shots in a single season.Kierstan BellKierstan Bell is the #1 Forward for the Las Vegas Aces. Bell joined the WNBA in 2022 when she was drafted 11th overall by the Aces. She statred her career as an athlete playing basketball for Florida Gulf Coast and Ohio State before joining the league.Sevgi UzunSevgi Uzun is a Turkish basketball player who is currently the #1 Guard for the Phoenix Mercury. The 27-year-old point guard also plays for the Turkish Super League, EuroLeague Women, and the Turkish national team.Natasha MackNatasha Mack is the #4 Forward for the Phoenix Mercury. Mack was the second round draft pick for the Chicago Sky in 2021, but ended up being let go that same year after going back and forth with signing a Hardship Contract. She then signed a 7-Day contract with the Minnesota Lynx in 2021 before playing overseas in Poland, New Zealand, and Turkey for two years before joining the Mercury for the 2024 season.Cecilia ZandalasiniCecilia Zandalasini was just drafted by the Golden State Valkyries and will play Forward for the inaugural season. The 30-year-old basketball star has been in the league since 2017 when she was signed by the Minnesota Lynx. She then left to play abroad before returning to the Lynx last season.Courtney WilliamsUniversity of South Florida alum Courtney Williams joined the WNBA in 2016 when she was signed by Phoenix Mercury. Now, she is the Minnesota Lynx #10 Guard. Since then, she has played for the Connecticut Sun (twice), the Atlanta Dream, and the Chicago Sky before being picked up the Lynx last year.Arike OgunbowaleArike Ogunbowale is the #24 Guard for the Dallas Wings. The 28-year-old basketball pro started her career at Notre Dame, where she was named the Athlete of the Year. The 2025 season will mark her sixth year with the Wings. She also plays for Vinyl BC in Unrivaled, the new women's 3-on-3 basketball league.
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    The Latest Trump and DOGE Casualty: Energy Data
    by Peter Elkind ProPublica is a nonprofit newsroom that investigates abuses of power. Sign up to receive our biggest stories as soon as theyre published. The Trump administration has eliminated or stifled critical data at dozens of federal agencies. Now the administrations actions are hitting a new realm: the energy industry.For decades, the Energy Information Administration, an independent agency housed inside the Department of Energy, has provided crucial reports on everything from oil and gas to the future of alternative energy. Relied on by oil company CEOs and government policymakers alike, the EIAs data has been called the gold standard by Daniel Yergin, vice chairman of S&P Global and an minence grise in the world of oil. No less a source than Project 2025 described the EIA as historically providing independent and impartial analysis.Last month, the EIA released its signature report: the Annual Energy Outlook for the United States. Largely based on data gathered during the administration of Joe Biden, the report projected rapid growth in alternative energy and declines in American reliance on coal, oil and natural gas. Agency officials feared that the findings would rankle the Drill, Baby, Drill proponents in the Trump administration, according to multiple EIA sources. So instead of promoting the reports publication with an hourlong webcast and PowerPoint presentation spotlighting key findings, as it has in recent years, the agency released it without any of that. And at a late stage, the EIA deleted the analytical narrative then 53 pages in draft form that is typically the centerpiece of the report. Instead the agency posted links to hundreds of data-filled tables and charts and a seven-page explanation of its methods. That didnt stop the Energy Department from pillorying the findings. In a press release on the same day the report was published, a department spokesperson attacked the EIAs report for featuring the disastrous path for American energy production under the Biden administration and failing to reflect Trump-initiated policy changes aimed at ensuring Americas future is marked by energy growth and abundance not scarcity.Now the EIA has privately informed staff that it is scrapping publication of its closely followed International Energy Outlook for 2025. The previous edition of the international outlook, released every two years, contained 70 pages detailing global trends. The paradox: That will leave the field open to the equivalent publication from the Paris-based International Energy Agency, which conservatives accuse of bending its forecasts to promote climate-change goals. (Unlike the U.S. agency, whose projections take into account only formally adopted policies, the international one includes some policies that havent been adopted and are considered aspirational.)In an April 16 internal email announcing the cancellation of the international report, which has not previously been reported, Angelina LaRose, assistant administrator in the EIAs office of energy analysis, blamed the decision on the departure of so many staff experts. More than 100 of the EIAs 350 staff have left as a result of firings or resignations, in the wake of Fork in the Road buyout offers from Elon Musks Department of Government Efficiency. At this point, you can assume we will not be releasing the IEO this year, she wrote. This was a difficult decision based on the loss of key resources.In the same memo, LaRose ordered an all hands-on-deck type of effort, before even more EIA analysts departed, to try to preserve as much institutional knowledge as possible about the models and procedures used to formulate the international report.Failing to publish that report is viewed as consequential. Amy Myers Jaffe, a prominent energy consultant and research professor at New York University, called the EIAs reports and analysis essential. These are global markets, she said. The only way to figure out which policies work or dont is to have accurate EIA data. Everybody benefits from that analysis, whether youre in the private sector or the public sector.The EIA was established nearly a half-century ago, amid the energy crises of the 1970s, to tackle what had become an urgent need: to collect and report objective data on energy production and consumption. Its regular stream of postings now track oil and gasoline prices, electricity rates, natural gas and crude oil exports, automobile fuel consumption, wind and solar energy generation, coal production and nuclear plant outputs.Its U.S. Annual Energy Outlook projects long-term trends, based on multiple scenarios, and customarily provides detailed analysis discussing key takeaways from reams of data. For 2025, its baseline reference case projected how markets would operate through 2050 under laws and regulations in place as of December 2024, prior to the Trump administrations efforts to promote fossil fuels. In addition to eight side cases based on variations in economic growth, energy pricing and supply, the EIA also modeled two alternative policy scenarios. These projected impacts from the elimination of Biden-era laws and regulations reducing carbon dioxide emissions from existing power plants and boosting adoption of electric vehicles.According to the contents pages from the draft, which ProPublica obtained, the deleted narrative highlighted projections in the reference case showing that increased electricity demand would be met through 2050 mainly by generation from renewable sources; that coal generation falls to close to zero; and that there would be declines in domestic consumption of oil and natural gas.The decision to jettison the reports traditional explanatory narrative was announced to EIA staff in a March 10 internal email, after the document was largely complete following months of work. After conferring with the [EIA] front office, we are shifting gears on the material that will be released with this years AEO, assistant administrator LaRose wrote. We will not be releasing the narrative as currently written and will not be hosting a release event.The omission of the analytical section left readers to sort through the data for themselves. Joseph DeCarolis, who served as EIA administrator under Biden and is now an engineering professor at North Carolina State, called the annual outlooks narrative extremely important. Its important to be able to look at the results, interpret them, and explain to your audience what you think the insights are.EIA employees said they believe the changes were made out of fear that spotlighting unwelcome findings and projections would make the agency a Trump target. There was a concern that any narrative we put out would be seen as ideological, said Emily Schaal, an EIA statistician who worked on the U.S. report. Another EIA employee commented: Fewer people were going to get mad if we just threw the numbers out.Asked about the decision, EIA spokesperson Chris Higginbotham said the agencys leadership jettisoned the analysis because it decided it was most important to prioritize getting our AEO results to the public as soon as we could rather than waiting longer to complete a written market analysis. He added, We do not make decisions about our data or our analyses with the goal of influencing outcomes or avoiding pushback.With regard to EIAs international report, Higginbotham said, We remain committed to maintaining our long-term energy modeling capabilities. He asserted that the staff reductions will not compromise the agencys work. We are committed to meeting EIAs quality standards, he said, and we will not publish any data or analysis that doesnt meet those standards.Meanwhile, the EIA has canceled or delayed other data reports and projects. Those moves, combined with the turmoil and departures, have devastated morale, according to current and former EIA employees.Schaal was among those grappling with the tumult. After completing a doctorate in math, Schaal, 28, joined the EIA as a statistician in June 2024, working remotely from Michigan, and expected to remain at the agency for years. Instead, she was one of about 30 probationary employees who were abruptly terminated on Feb. 13, just weeks into the new administration. A lawsuit challenging firings at six agencies, filed by a union that represents government workers, prompted a federal judge to order their reinstatement, and Schaal returned to the EIA in mid-March.Everyone at EIA had been through a month of torture, she told ProPublica. Employees were dealing with chaos, uncertainty and fears of termination. In early April, Schaal accepted a new deferred resignation offer, with plans to depart on April 19.On April 11, hours before a midnight deadline for the resignation program, EIAs acting administrator presided over an all-hands meeting with a top deputy, where he read a prepared statement urging employees to take the offer. Then the two managers gave assurance they had done a great job defending the agency in a meeting with DOGE officials, who were certain to treat them all appropriately, according to four people who attended the all-hands meeting.Schaal was furious. After the session ended, she pounded out an angry email to the two bosses and then shared it with everyone who still remained at EIA. DOGE doesnt care what we do and will treat us the same as all other agencies: with contempt, she wrote. Shame on you for falling in line and giving up without any perceptible effort to fight. Shame on you for keeping those you purport to lead in the dark. Shame on you for betraying the mission set to us by Congress and selling out the American people.On the following Monday, Schaal was summoned to a virtual meeting with her supervisor, where she was presented with a formal letter of reprimand for her unprofessional and disrespectful email, as well as a second letter notifying her that she was being placed on administrative leave, a week ahead of her planned departure. The episode made her something of a hero among colleagues who remained behind, who have taken to sharing their frustrations with one another on private Signal groups. (EIAs spokesperson declined to comment on the episode. Neither DOGE nor the White House replied to requests for comment for this article.)The EIA, whose director is a presidential appointee, typically chosen from among apolitical academic or industry figures, is poised to get new leadership. Trumps nominee is Tampa energy consultant Tristan Abbey, a self-described think-tanker at conservative groups who has called U.S. dominance in natural gas exports a generational opportunity. Abbey, 39, served as an energy staffer on the National Security Council in the first Trump administration. His financial disclosure reports $103,083 in senior fellow fees since 2024 from the conservative Texas Public Policy Foundation and $435,833 in income from his consulting business, whose clients included Thiel Capital. (Abbey worked for Trump-friendly billionaire Peter Thiels investment firms before going into government.) Abbeys consulting firm also has an eclectic side business focused on publishing books written by or about explorers and historical figures in philosophy and math.Abbey enjoyed a friendly confirmation hearing on Wednesday before the Senate Energy and Natural Resources committee. He testified that he would leave his policy role behind and affirmed his commitment to the EIA providing nonpartisan facts.Abbey praised the EIA as the worlds premier energy data agency but also said it is in urgent need of revitalization. He presented an ambitious must-do list seemingly at odds with the current administrations wholesale cuts. The EIA, Abbey declared, must clear the decks of unfinished projects, recruit and retain the best talent and develop the most powerful analytical capabilities. Among his top priorities, Abbey testified: the expansion of global energy data collection and analysis. Doris Burke contributed research.
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  • Adam Lambert And Cynthia Erivo Join Forces For A Biblical Showdown
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    After a fantastic run as the Emcee in Cabaret, Adam Lambert has his sights set back on the stage to star opposite the iconic Cynthia Erivo in Jesus Christ Superstar.The Los Angeles Philharmonic announced Lamberts casting as Judas opposite Erivos Jesus on May 5. According to the press release, this production of Jesus Christ Superstar brings the much-loved, iconic musical back to its roots as the latest installment in the Hollywood Bowls tradition of producing and presenting a staged Broadway musical.For many Angelenos and concertgoers, the Hollywood Bowl is the premier summer destination for live music, LA Philharmonic President and CEO Kim Noltemy said of the upcoming show. Each season, the LA Phil presents world-class artists in a truly one-of-a-kind setting, and this year is no exception.Although Lambert will have the role for all performances from August 1-3, and we can't wait to see what he does with Judas. Following his stint on American Idol, where he came in second, he became the front man for Queen prior to his role as the Emcee in Cabaret, which marked his first time leading a role on Broadway.Commenting on Lamberts casting, Noltemy said, Were especially thrilled to welcome Adam Lambert to the cast of Jesus Christ Superstar and look forward to sharing this bold, fresh interpretation of a legendary musical, returning to its rock roots, with our audiences.See on InstagramBoth Lambert and Erivo also have ties to Wicked. While Erivo took on the iconic lead role as Elphaba in the movie adaptations, Lambert traveled as part of the ensemble in the first National Tour of Wicked and then joined the Los Angeles Company of Wicked from 2005-08.This is also not the first time that Jesus Christ Superstar will hit the Hollywood Bowl, which initially premiered there in 1971. While fans can still expect the familiar lyrics and music by Tim Rice and Andrew Lloyd Webber, this production is part of the vision for Tony Award-winner Sergio Trujillo, who both directed and choreographed this version. Additionally, Tony and Grammy Award-winner Stephen Oremus conducts and musically directs the philharmonic.Concertgoers can start purchasing tickets to single performances of any LA Philharmonic-presented show at the Hollywood Bowl over the summer, including this one, starting on May 6 at 10 am. You can also purchase season tickets through the Hollywood Bowl.
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    Actor Dylan OBrien is making headlines after his sibling called him out for using their trans identity for clout. In a recently recirculated interview, the Teen Wolf star said he was grateful to know trans people like his sibling, but now Julz OBrien is speaking out about the two not having any contact in over a year.He didnt check in when I had top surgery, Julz commented on a since-deleted Instagram post by Gay Times, who were recirculating an old Vulture interview with Dylan from 2024. He didnt even wish me happy bday last week! But glad I could deepen his experience in this world and make the world love him that much more.The original interview was to promote Dylans upcoming queer drama Ponyboi, which tells the story of a gender-nonconforming character played by River Gallo.I have a trans, nonbinary sibling, Dylan explained in the interview, per E! Online. I know people in my personal life as well who are queer and I am so grateful for how much it deepens my experience in this world.See on InstagramAfter this comment from Dylan, his Ponyboi co-star Gallo complimented him on being so enlightened, This man is literally an example of what so many men should be.This comment didnt seem to sit well with Julz, who commented multiple times on the social media post with the interview, including to point out that Dylan had referred to them as nonbinary when in reality they are trans masc.Im actually trans masc and go by he/they pronouns, Julz commented.While the two might not be close now, back in 2023, Julz posted a photo of the siblings on Instagram to celebrate Dylans birthday with the caption, Happy Birthday, Dyl!! Love you so much.Dylan has yet to publicly respond to his siblings comments. Ponyboi will be released in theaters on June 27.
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    Article by GLAAD & The Asian American Foundation (TAAF) When the magnifier of hate is turned on you, its easy to feel isolated and alone. Hate is meant to divide us and to keep us from finding common ground. But as the great Audre Lorde once wrote, You do not have to be me in [...]The post Our Wars Are The Same: A Look at the Intersectional Nature of Anti-AANHPI and Anti-LGBTQ Hate first appeared on GLAAD.
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    Country star Ty Herndon announced today that Ingrid Andress, Tiera Kennedy, Maggie Rose, The Kentucky Gentlemen, and Runaway June have joined the 10th anniversary of the Concert for Love & Acceptance which will take place on June 2 at 7:30 PM at Category 10, formerly the Wildhorse Saloon. They join previously announced performers Dasha, David [...]The post Ingrid Andress, Tiera Kennedy,, Maggie Rose, The Kentucky Gentlemen, and Runaway June Join 10th Anniversary of Concert For Love & Acceptance first appeared on GLAAD.
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    Season 2 of The Last of Us has already delivered emotional punches, none more resonant than those in Episode 4. Directed by Loki alum Kate Herron, the episode marks a significant turning point for the HBO series, not only in narrative but in the emotional and relational stakes for its central characters. Fans are still processing the early loss of Joel (Pedro Pascal), but the story has quicklySource
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    Lady Gaga made music history Saturday, May 3, as more than 2.1 million fans packed Copacabana Beach in Rio de Janeiro to witness her electrifying Mayhem Ball performance officially breaking the record for the largest audience ever at a live show by a female artist. The record-breaking event was confirmed by Rio city officials and event organizers, who said the crowd even surpassed last yearsSource
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    ProPublica Wins Pulitzer Prize for Public Service
    by ProPublica ProPublica is a nonprofit newsroom that investigates abuses of power. Sign up to receive our biggest stories as soon as theyre published. ProPublica on Monday won the prestigious Pulitzer Prize for public service for the series Life of the Mother, which the judges described as urgent reporting about pregnant women who died after doctors delayed urgently needed care for fear of violating vague life of the mother exceptions in states with strict abortion laws. The prize is given to the staff of a news organization that performed meritorious public service. This is the second consecutive year the organization was awarded the distinction. It is the eighth Pulitzer for ProPublica.Americas Mental Barrier, an examination of how insurance companies interfere with access to necessary mental health care across the United States, was named a finalist in the explanatory reporting category. In addition to the Pulitzer winners, the designation is ProPublicas 12th Pulitzer finalist in 17 years.The Life of the Mother series, which ProPublica continues to pursue, is a landmark investigation into the unexamined, irreversible consequences of state abortion bans. Kavitha Surana, Lizzie Presser and Cassandra Jaramillo mined hospital and death records in states whose strict abortion bans threatened physicians with prosecution. From the tragic death of Amber Thurman in Georgia to gutting accounts of women denied lifesaving miscarriage care in Texas, the investigations illuminated the profound human cost of these policies. They exposed the chilling impact on medical professionals forced to choose between their oath and the law, the anguish faced by families and the broader erosion of womens health and autonomy. Stacy Kranitzs immersive photo essay, The Year After a Denied Abortion, documented the unraveling of a Tennessee family after a denied abortion for a life-threatening pregnancy, especially in a state with meager support for poor mothers. The piece, reported with Surana, helped audiences see, feel and understand how decisions made by those in power impact families.These stories ignited outrage around the country, became talking points during the presidential election and inspired action. Lawmakers have filed more than a dozen bills to expand abortion access in at least seven states.Last week, the Texas Senate unanimously passed Senate Bill 31, called The Life of the Mother Act, which aims to prevent maternal deaths under the states strict abortion ban by making clear that a life-threatening medical emergency doesnt need to be imminent for doctors to follow their medical standards and intervene to terminate pregnancies. The bill represents a significant reversal for Republican leaders who had for years insisted no changes were needed. It was written by state Sen. Bryan Hughes, the author of the original ban who initially said that exceptions for medical emergencies were plenty clear. The bill stops short of removing what doctors say are the bans biggest impediments to care, including its threat of major criminal penalties for medical professionals, and it doesnt expand abortion access to cases of fetal anomalies, rape or incest. Sen. Carol Alvarado, the Democratic lawmaker who co-authored the bill, said that its limits were a real hard pill to swallow but that it could still make a difference. I believe this bill will save lives, she said.A U.S. Senate Finance Committee investigation, launched in response to our reporting, released a 29-page report in December 2024 that found that hospitals are providing minimal guidance to doctors navigating abortion restrictions, often leaving them without clear protocols in life-or-death situations.A host of ProPublicans helped elevate this project, including Alexandra Zayas, Ziva Branstetter, Andrea Wise, Tracy Weber, Boyzell Hosey, Mariam Elba, Robin Fields, Anna Donlan, Allen Tan, Kirsten Berg, Jeff Ernsthausen, Doris Burke, Lexi Churchill, Andrea Suozzo, Audrey Dutton, Anna Maria Barry-Jester, Amy Yurkanin, Emily Goldstein, Diego Sorbara, Samantha Cooney, Grace Palmieri, Colleen Barry, Kassie Navarro, Sarah Childress and Sophia Kovach.We knew early that abortion bans were likely to have deadly consequences for women, and not just those seeking abortions, said Weber, ProPublicas managing editor for the national staff. Our reporters and their editor, Alex Zayas, were endlessly creative, dogged, humane and careful in surfacing the deaths of these women when the states themselves were not looking. We are so honored that the Pulitzer Board has recognized their efforts.In the series honored as a Pulitzer finalist in explanatory reporting, reporters Annie Waldman, Duaa Eldeib, Max Blau and Maya Miller revealed how health insurers are engaging in aggressive tactics that push therapists out of networks; deploying an algorithmic system to limit coverage; creating ghost networks; cutting access to treatment for children with autism; relying on doctors whose judgments have been criticized by courts; and using patients progress to justify denials.The reporters crowdsourced thousands of tips; obtained explosive internal company documents; reviewed thousands of pages of lawsuit filings to identify the doctors doling out denials; and included shattering and intimate stories of patients for whom care was prematurely cut off, leading to devastating consequences. In September 2024, the Biden administration announced that it had finalized new regulations to strengthen protections for mental health care coverage and hold insurance companies accountable for unlawfully denying it. In December 2024, following several of ProPublicas stories, U.S. Sens. Chris Murphy, Tina Smith and Ben Ray Lujn reintroduced the Parity Enforcement Act to better hold insurance companies accountable by providing the U.S. Department of Labor the authority to impose civil monetary penalties for violations of the mental health parity law. The following month, the Labor Department found widespread noncompliance and violations of federal law in how health plans and insurers cover mental health care, findings that mirrored ProPublicas investigation. The department also began investigating the oversight and management of doctors hired by insurers who repeatedly denied mental health coverage for patients. Steve Mills, Mara Shalhoup, Charles Ornstein, Ariana Tobin, Zisiga Mukulu, Tony Luong, Alex Bandoni, Agnel Philip, Vanessa Saba, Chris Morran, Cengiz Yar, Isabelle Yan, Lena Groeger, Zayas, Weber, Berg, Ernsthausen, Tan, Goldstein, Palmieri, Sorbara, Wise, Barry, Cooney and Paige Pfleger of WPLN/Nashville Public Radio contributed to the series. Some of the pieces were published in collaboration with NPR.People who need mental health care often cannot get it. It doesnt matter if you are rich or poor, insured or uninsured, the lack of access is widely felt, said Ornstein, ProPublicas managing editor for local. So many people on our staff wanted to be a part of this project. Through immersive storytelling and investigative digging, they adeptly documented the causes of the crisis, those responsible and the regulators who have stood by and done little to fix it.ProPublica received Pulitzers for public service in 2024, national reporting in 2020, feature writing in 2019, public service in 2017, explanatory reporting in 2016, national reporting in 2011 and investigative reporting in 2010. Local Reporting Network partner Anchorage Daily News won the Pulitzer for public service in 2020.
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    There's truly something out there for everyone.Colby Jaxxx is the latest gay adult entertainer to add to his impressive rsum in the erotic industry.After winning season two of The Great BateWorld BateOff! on BateWorld, the star has been tapped to host the website's current fourth season."The world really needs content like this out there. I remember back in 2020 in the pandemic, I discovered BateWorld. It's been something that always keeps me grounded and a place I can escape and just let go," Jaxxx tells PRIDE. See on Instagram With reality TV programs casting more adult content creators, audiences are getting to know these sexy performers beyond the steamy content they're typically known for."I've seen such a shift in the adult industry. A lot of people are going towards more independent filming versus studio work. That's great to see! It gives performers like me a chance to make a name and really get out there."Since Jaxxx started his career back in 2020, the star is loving every second in the adult entertainment space and he's looking forward to what the future may hold."I was 21/22 when I started and I've never looked back. It's been such a blessing and such a fun ride!" The Great BateWorld BateOff! is steaming now on Bateworld. To see the full interview with Colby Jaxxx, check out the video at the top of the page.
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    Call it the lesbian loneliness epidemic, call it the epidemic of mutual pining, call it whatever you want, but one thing many, many, many lesbians and sapphics complain about is how real the struggle can be to meet someone. Its not without good reason: According to the experts, its just as common a problem as it feels.There are a few reasons for this...[the first being] that many queer women arent as obvious to spot, leading them to fly under the radar as hetero, since many sapphic women look straight, Sophie Roos, a licensed sexologist and writer for the Swedish sex-positive magazine Passionerad, tells PRIDE. This leads to difficulties spotting potential partners, which also makes making the first move much scarier, because you put yourself out there and go for it many times before even knowing if theyre into women!Angelika Koch, a relationship expert at the Taimi LGBTQ+ dating app agrees. Generally speaking, meeting a lesbian woman outside of the bar scene can be difficult because there are normally not blatant signs that show what gender theyre interested in, unless theyre masc leaning. Even then, depending on the culture and region, it might not be an accurate identifier.Plus, Koch continues, Women are naturally friendly and flirtatious, and certain things that women say, like, Youre beautiful, can be interpreted as a platonic compliment even when it is a genuine flirtation. Its difficult to identify intention when this type of flirtation is a commonality even among straight women.So yes, if you feel like someone has dialed up the difficulty meter on sapphic dating, youre right. But heres the good news: It doesnt have to be that way. There are things you can do to better recognize queer women and sapphics and, even more importantly, pick up on the cues they are into you.To help with that PRIDE chatted with sapphic dating experts to get their best advice on how to spot a potential partner in the wild, how to know if they are interested, and *gasp* how to make the first move.A lesbian loneliness epidemic? Not on our watch!Put those nerves aside. We know, easier said than done, but its also the way to break out of what Chelsea Newton, a licensed clinical social worker, sexuality educator, and the founder of Phases of the Mind Therapy calls the trap of mutual pining. Both parties are interested but too nervous to initiate. This hesitation often comes from fear of misreading signals and socialization that discourages assertiveness in women, she tells PRIDE.But how exactly do you calm your nerves and put yourself out there? The first step to changing this is reframing what vulnerability is, says Newton. Making the first move isnt about being aggressive, its about being open. Anxiety about rejection often covers up a deeper fear of being seen. Remind yourself: if youre interested, theres a good chance they are too. And even if not, expressing interest respectfully is rarely not welcome.Talk to her!This may seem like the most basic advice, but sometimes the most obvious isnt the easiest. Koch says the best way to put yourself in a position where you can make a move is to strike up a conversation. Not sure what to say? Find something casual to talk about based on your environment, suggests Koch. If you see her at a park, mention something about the park, the weather, or the season. If shes at the grocery store, you can find something common to look at and then ask a question about the product. Finding an ice breaker can also be directed to her physical appearance like who her hairdresser is or where she got an article of her clothing from.Then Koch says to gauge their response. See if she engages with the same amount of enthusiasm that you do. You want to look for signs like matching energy, mirroring body language, and small signs that show a desire to be closer to you. You can tell someone wants to be closer to you by looking for things like her leaning in, small physical touches to your hand or arm when speaking and moving her body in your general direction.Look for body language cues.Speaking of body language, Koch says there are key behaviors and unconscious responses that can offer hints about anothers level of interest, no matter how innocuous and casual the conversation. Blushing cheeks, trouble making eye contact, fidgeting with clothing, and glances towards your lips while you talk are signs of nervousness, which could indicate attraction, she explains. You can also listen to if their pitch changes when they speak to you vs when they speak to others, which is a sign of interest.Subtly let them know *youre* queer.As previously mentioned, part of the problem with meeting sapphics is that theres no guaranteed way to know if they are queer, so your best way forward is to subtly hint that you are, says Roos. She suggests bringing up something you like or dislike about the queer community, telling about a cool gay club youve been to, or dropping a funny joke about something relevant to being sapphic! she suggests. That way, you let them know that youre sapphic, and open up for them to build on that if they also are queer, and if theyre interested! Or at least, you can confirm whether or not theyre into women, and, if yes, from there open up more about how you feel for them.This all sounds great, but how do you actually put this advice into practice? Newton gave us her best tactics for how to approach women in various common scenarios. How to approach someone in a bar, club, or restaurant.In bars or restaurants, nonverbal cues matter, says Newton. Make eye contact, smile, then approach with something like: Hi, I noticed you and wanted to say hello. she suggests. The key here is to be direct: Many appreciate clarity over guessing games. Can I buy you a drink? or Are you here with friends or flying solo? can get a conversation started.How to approach someone on the street This situation is a bit trickier, says Newton, because for one thing there are safety concerns, but its still totally doable. If its appropriate, a compliment like I just wanted to say I love your style can open doors. This is where watching for body language cues will be particularly important. If they respond warmly, you might follow up with, Would you want to grab a coffee sometime? adds Newton.How to approach someone at a party or social event.Social events are a prime opportunity for making a move, says Newton. The context gives you an easy opener. What brought you here tonight? Once youve chatted for a bit and feel a vibe, you could say, Id love to talk more sometime. Can I get your number?How do you make the first move online? Lets be honest, most of us are already on the apps and thats a whole other struggle, but Newton offers some advice on how to make the most of them. Being specific stands out. Instead of Hey, comment on something in their profile: You love horror films? Whats the last great one you saw? If the vibe is there, be straightforward, says Newton. A direct message like Ive really enjoyed chattingwant to get a drink sometime? is clear.Want to meet lesbians and sapphics? Go where they are!Listen, not everyone is going to feel brave enough to chat someone up on the subway or passing on the street, in part because of the uncertainty about their sexuality. Thats fair, and something you can address by picking places where queer women and sapphics congregate. Great places to meet sapphics include queer community events, book clubs, volunteer organizations, sports leagues, or lesbian-specific apps. Environments where people are already open to connection tend to ease the anxiety, says Newton.So youve broken the ice now what?Congrats, you struck up a conversation and the vibes are vibin. Now what? The next step is actually the easiest. Stay present, says Newton. Take a breath, enjoy the moment, and let the chemistry develop. Dont rush into romance, be curious. Ask open-ended questions, share a little about yourself, and let chemistry unfold naturally, she says.Rejection happens but its not the end of the world. While these suggestions are helpful, no dating advice has a 100 percent success rate, unfortunately. This means dealing with rejection in a healthy way is just as important as knowing how to break the ice. In part because knowing youre going to be OK no matter what, makes putting yourself out there a lot easier to begin with.When it doesnt work out, normalize rejection, says Newton. It doesnt mean youre not worthy, it just wasnt a fit. Its important to know that regulating emotional responses is key.Rejection stings, no doubt, but as Newton points out, its temporary, it passes. Try to reframe it as a win: you took a chance, and that builds resilience.Ultimately, the key here is to be brave in the moment and gentle with yourself, its totally normal to be nervous to put yourself out there, but just remember, it also feels amazing when someone takes that risk and approaches you so you also know what the other person is feeling and that its great. Koch says to be courageous and go for it. Being brave is feeling that fear and not letting that hold you back. Even if a woman is not interested and you find out shes straight, that doesnt mean you didnt make her day or left a bad impression. Many women find being flirted with by another woman to be one of the highest forms of flattery.If you're a little awkward at first, so what? Being authentic is more attractive than being perfect. You dont need a line, you just need the courage to say, Hello, says Newton. Most people are longing for connection and someone has to go first. Why not you?"Experts cited:Angelika Koch, MCLC, CRC, relationships and break-up expert, happiness & relationship expert at Taimi LGBTQ+ dating appSophie Roos, licensed sexologist and writer for the Swedish sex-positive magazine PassioneradChelsea Newton, LCSW, M.Ed., and the founder of Phases of the Mind Therapy
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